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Child custody matters. Now you don't have your son, and you're dead.

For inside this economy ehn, cooking is cost effective o. Nor let anybody decieve you.

Been staying with a relative for a while till I sort myself out & I know how much we spend on weeks that we decide to eat out...like really eat like we do at home.

Just go skudo, bro.

DamianX:
There are enough churches in the East and Yoruba churches are actually not needed there

The irony is how you guys cry marginalization and tribalism, but still doing same.
I'm glad the South-South severed themselves from this madness.

Shey una don see say no be only our bingo dey get long legs and slim body sha? And this one lifespan no dey even long o.

I hope to get one local dog later this year. I will create a thread to update its progress.

Nawa o!
That means another sperm would fertilize the egg and she'd have a baby outside her marriage that she'd never know.
Excuse could be given for a single lady. But a married woman? Omo, this gats be classified as infidelity!

BigBashiru:
you can't get a young girl. so stop being jealous of those who can.

Sorry, I'm not even there.
And oh, I'm still in my twenties.

dbrown2021:
Bro if you claim to be born again. Pray to God to direct you to your life partner. God does not make mistakes, and He still speaks to men today. Our spiritual maturity is important if we want to do the will of God.
Shalom.

A sister was so sure this bro was the one. You could see the excitement and all. Marriage committee ask bro how far, bro said nothing clear.
Sister was broken. See ehn, these things happens every now and then, and it's one of the contributing factors why some persons are even not sure of what they know to be true again.
The basics of this whole thing about finding a partner should be that the said partner actually knows God on a personal level. That's it!
As far as kingdom is concerned, God have many sons and daughters, and they're not only in a particular denomination (na church doctrine bring all this limitation), them yapa! Find the one that fits your spec, as far they're saved and love Jesus, take the next step. That's what marriage committee is supposed to be for, I guess.

Jymsyno:
OP stop deceiving people here about Deeper Life mode of marriage. You are the one holding yourself not the church or the committee. I just attended a wedding of Deeper Life where the sister is about 22 year. I married in the church and I can boldly say that if you take a 100 samples of the marriages join in this country by churches it will be hard to get a higher sample of successful ones other than what we have in DCLM. The MC is to guide us as believers and not a stumbliy block like you are insinuating.
By God's grace and if not for the MC I would have married a disaster. I know this by hind sight.

Abeg abeg!
We all know that marriage committee isn't scriptural, and for a church that actually preaches sound doctrine, that's a lot to deal with.
Also, many folks in that church are actually enduring their marriages.

Issues like this is why a 22 year old would end up marrying someone that's about 10 years older than her. Omooooeux!
Allow people to look for their preferences, meet up with the said person and both go to the marriage committee. Is that so hard? Instead, everything is supposed to be under the corners.

Aside the few extremes, a lot of young people are leaving the denomination because of this same issue.

You're welcome.

May God see every genuine Nigerian youths with legit huzzle through the hard times our wicked leaders put them through.

Stay focus and be creative and the sky is your limit.

One thing I have noticed during my trips across Africa is, besides business that you are asking for, services are on high demands everywhere and it's a gold mine.

What do I mean by services?

Skills.

What you can do with your hand. (Not buying and selling)

1. Barbing. Learn how to barb hairs it's always in demand. And all you need is a Clipper brushes and combs. When chips are down, that is what you can easily fall back on.

2.Weaving and plaiting (Nigerian guys do that a lot in South Africa and they make good money riding good cars)
Go and learn how to make ladies hair. Including attachment. Etc.

3. Civil Engineering. And every aspect of house building.
Plumbing
Painting
Electrical
Tiling
POP.
Welding
All these are in high demand but most of them are done by Senegalese, Cotonou guys. The only one I know they don't Ventura into is Aluminum windows and doors. So learn that. They build houses and hotels across AFRICA you won't lack jobs in that area.

4.
Art
You stand to make good money in Art anywhere especially where they have good tourism. With Art you can't be stranded.

5.
Buying and selling of what we have in Naija and is in demand where you are. This requires money. You gats to have good money.


Never travel out of Naija with the sole aim of using your certificate to work. Especially in Africa.
I am not saying your certificate is useless. No! Take your certificate along everywhere you go but learn skills.
Skills will bail you out when your certificate seems to be useless.

It's not easy typing all these. But I always have the passion to help people and I hate seeing youths take wrong steps in their struggle to make it in life.
So, don't mind the typographical errors.

Never Ever have the mind to go into crime. It's never a good venture. You will see guys wanting to lure you into it.

Never yield. All you need is God by your side, Your certificate in your file, a good Skill in your Hands and a Sharp brain in your skull.

All you stay blessed.

Thank you for your words.
But how about those of us with just tech skills?
Would you advise one have other skills to that?

Thank you.

OlayemiAshraf:
Always use condoms , aids is real . ..
And don't act like you can do any how you want , sans are crazy asf
Lastly Don't do drug

As for the ""Nigerian dishes"" that's a great idea ,

Noted.
I don't do drugs though. It's about securing better future for myself and kids yet unborn...can't jeopardize that.
Thanks for your input

Hello guys.
So I've been thinking so much about leaving Nigeria for any African country with an easy visa and business or work permit.

But I really need to know if it's still advisable to move to SA.
I'm into tech, but I'm thinking of setting up a restaurant business, mainly focused on Nigerian dishes for a start.

Any advice would be really helpful to me moving forward.
Thank you.

Danielomisco:
.Ok,Rayfield is located at Jos south local govt where the government house is located and elites of the state reside.
Most safe location in Jos and high social life of Plateau State.Rent ranges on location in Rayfield,I knw a part that people pay 20k for rent, clean housing 65-150,upper 180-500k

Interesting.
I'm currently weighing my options between moving to Lagos or Jos, and given that I'm into online jobs, a place with stable power supply, a good environment to raise kids in the nearest future won't be bad. Jos seems to be the place.
I'd like to get your number. I might need to give you a call whenever I want to have a short visit there.

Danielomisco:
Fact!! I stay in Jos currently, Rayfield any help u need will gladly help.

I planned on moving to Jos before the pandemic, but I'd no one that's familiar with the environment, so I'd to abort the plan. I'd like to know more, specially the house rent.

PrimadonnaO:
Well to be honest, I feel everyone should be able to gauge chemistry. You should be able to know when a girl really likes you.

If communication is strained... she's probably not feeling you.

If you always beg to see her... she's not feeling you or there's someone else occupying her time and mind.

If she starts on from the get-go with billing - high chance she dates people primarily for financial gratification.

In the way you're getting to know her, if she's not also deliberately trying to know you - high chance she doesn't put much thought into dating and just says yes to almost anyone who asks her out.

People should be intentional about dating... before the relationship starts, and during the relationship.

Intentionality. That's it!

His cover of Timi Dakolo's "Wish Me Well" always gets me.
Happy birthday king!

James4bright:
You just made Port Harcourt look bad with this thread. I actually had this illusion that Port Harcourt was a beautiful city.

I spent most part of my childhood in Port Harcourt. Apparently the OP stays in this part of Port Harcourt...the slums.

Ebook received. Thanks chief.

Coldie:
Iran is innocent. Trump is d aggressor, but just because its Iran no one cares.

Why would Usa just assassinate the general of a country just like that because they feel they have the power to do so.

How would u invite ur enemy for peace talks on neutral soil then assassinate him. That's wrong.

Trump said the General was heading for a meeting to discuss terrorism and how to kill Americans, uptil now he hasn't been able to show proof of how he made that assertion.

But the Iraqi government have proof if him phoning in requesting they aid to settle the problem between the US saudi and Iran. That's why the general was in Iraq at the first place.

This is the second time the USA is peddling on lies, the Iraq war and invasion was based on a lie, now the Iran war another lie, and they are using the press to promote false hood. Just because every country has his or her interests at heart they are either keeping quiet or supporting America.
It's what I was discussing with a friend earlier today.

Anyone reading this and supporting trump, so its OK for Nigeria to launch an airstrike from Nigeria to Ghana without ghanas permission just to harm there enemies, in international law that's extremely illegal as u are going against a country's sovereignty.

This is how dictatorship starts, from people keeping quiet.

It's what I was discussing with a friend earlier today. America have a way of painting a prospective target who doesn't believe its ideology black, so the world would only see from their point of view. This is a general who protecting the interest of his country and people o, but because e nor go benefit USA, he's a terrorist or he's aligning with terrorists.
Look at the turnout for his funeral. Does it look like the guy is hated by his people?
This is a similar thing that they did with Gaddafi.

Hypocrites!

The post seems to be coming from a smart guy, but love is making him think like a fool. At 27, love is still clouding your sense of judgment?
Can't you see that she's just keeping you till abroad guy show body?
Oga grow extra ball abeg...e be like say na one you first get.

Coming from someone who watched his mother maltreated as kid growing up, I'll advice give that man his space. If what you said is true and he's not feeling remorseful about his act, then he needs to be left alone. Lots of men bottle up emotions and won't want to talk about it. The result? They lash it out on their partners on the slightest opportunity.
By the way, you said this is the second time he's doing this. What was the cause of the first one? Tell us.

udoakwa:
R.I.P bro, i blame Buhari for ur death

This cracked me up so hard! Thanks bro.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

I thought they say this niggarrr is damnnn broke

Anyway may we not stay broke for too long because brokeness is not of the lord




Damnnnnn niggarrr

Stop that shitt niggarrr
Go master the huzzle to conquer the struggle so that your kids won't be typing "everything is vanity"

Let me tell you a secret
on judgement day All broke asss niggarrr will go to hell fire
So you better get your ass up and huzzle

You see that picture below
That is my santum( inner room where i huzzle only).


Most times i don't leave that room because am scared of being broke
I hardly use the main bedroom. I stay in that santum all day and night. When one computer is too hot then i switch to the other one. And if my brain is getting hot i drink some beer and continue the huzzling.

Dammmmn niggarr! Which work you dey do?
Abeg put me through na. I get computer o.

muyoge:
Wait for your answers.
In Israel 1,100,000 were found and 500,000 in Judah.
In the second book, 800,000 were found in Israel and 470,000 in Judah.
If you read through the Bible without lifting passages out of context, I think you would see the complementary figures.
Read 1Chron 27:1-15 and 2Chro 1:14 to see the 288,000 and 12,000 soldiers that were chosen soldiers. 800,000+288.000+12,000=
1,100,000
Now to 470,000 and 500,000
There was a chosen army of 30,000 in 2Sam6:1. If you read the accounts well, it is said that the number from 2 tribes was not included.
470,000+30,000=500,000
What you don't understand is the perspectives of writers. The accounts were not written by one person. One focused on events in Judah and the other on Israel.
It takes great mental stamina to read the bible.
What you think is an error will disappear when you study character, theme, setting, prevailing circumstances, etc. Great Literature students can relate to an extent.
You never believed there could be a reconciliation
of these 2 verses. Did you?

Baba leave that one! When you read to point out errors, that all you'll be seeing - errors. It'll be hard to discuss anything reasonable with such an individual.

safarigirl:
This is what the world has come to....

Everyone is paranoid and thinks everyone is out to get them. Rather than preach for people to feed the poor and needy in this season, churches are preaching to reject food and cause division and paranoia amongst people.

Well done

As in ehn! The matter weak me. Sometimes you'd think some these places of worship is a cult.

Uyi168:
The scariest and most absurd stories are only heard in MFM..

As in ehn!
They'll just use story discourage person, even when the food legit. Everybody becomes a suspect. Abegi!

FunkyAlhaji2015:
I wonder what this littleman would do if he had Zuckerberg's money or even Dangote's money.


I'm sure he would have killed himself by now

Black man issues.

InvertedHammer:
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Such corporate expense is not sustainable.

I hope the company will stay afloat in the next five years. Not even a Fortune500 company will embark on such lavish expenditure.
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Bros, na Tech company you dey talk about o!
Are you in the Tech world? Their money dey long o.

Merry Christmas to all Nairalanders.
I'm just going to play around some codes, then I'll visit some friends here to eat their rice (lol)...plus today's my Landlady's birthday. Lots of jollification!

deuzgreat:
U from North?

Nope. Rivers State.

franchasng:
you don't need to spend 2hrs banging a woman for her to cum. Me I don't even have time for sex and my bae knew me well before we walked down the aisle. And she is perfectly fine with it.

If you are a busy man you won't be spending all your time and strength on sex to satisfy a woman. So wait until you get married, then u will understand that marathon sex is for jobless boys who have nothing else to worry about aside how to sex a woman to cum

Wetin person go dey do for two hours na??
All I'm saying is sexual satisfaction, and it doesn't need two hours. One just have to know one's way around.