ifihearam: When you start giving too much importance 2 someone in your life:yo tend to lose your value in their life. Strange but very true.

Makky. You bleeped up big time,I appreciate the fact that you were helpful and assisted him. But driving away suitors because of a divorcee??what made him divorced in the first place You are either lying to us or being stupid.
You will all be amazed if you hear from the side of the man,because no sane man would actually abandon a good woman as the oster claims now ooo for another unless sometin happened which she is not telling us and from her story line here she is totally faultless haba Nlanders is she a saint ni?

Me? Saint? Too far from it but when u consider how people came into your life then to an extent u just accept them. If u read an earlier post, i said if i had an opportunity to have asked his ex wife what happened, i will. Since yesterday till this morning he has bn trying to call me but ive been avoiding it, if i was that bad, his friends and himself wnt be wanting to reach me cos most of his close friends say they dnt even have any idea abt what he wants to do. Most ppl are just who they are even when someone nice comes to them, and after past experiences and at my age, why wud i wanna treat a man unkindly and to what purpose. If i can be in business and am upright, why wnt i want my relationship to work? Please am no saint and neither am i a mean person, its the care in my heart that played a trick on me nt to see things in front of me.

It is well, I give God the praise & glory for today. It was just the shock that made me come to post this on nl and am a happier person now cos of ur criticisms and advice, thank u all.
@ndidibabe... Sex? U rather sound bitter to me, are u heart broken at the moment too? pls dnt take it out on me, ur person will come. U think a girl cries wolf in a broken relationship cos of sex? Well its ur opinion of how u understand relationshps not mine.
I didnt make him, God did and I wnt take any glory at all, i do things selflessly without expecting, just a lil sincerity wud have helped. Past things have made me independent of any man, i dnt expect u to reward me with marriage of any sort, wud have just told me as it is cos i dnt linger. What will be will be, ppl come in as chapters and not the end story, but let such chapters close well so u wnt kip adding enemies to ur list.
Am an adult, am not pain or cry proof and i have made mistakes and even made another cos am nt perfect, no one is.
Criticize me more, let it all out on me, abuse me and call me stupid, mumu, mugu and all... I only toughen up and see where i went wrong. But thank u all cos without these comments ive read so far, God knows ill still be sulking. Thank u!

Logic Mind: can't stop laughing.
women are really stuppid

i take an exception to that my dear. Yeah its a public forum, reason why ppl with big issues cnt express themselves anymore cos anyone comes in and say what he feels like saying. Ppl would rather die bottling it up than say it out here. Yeah, i summoned enof courage to say it out and it doesnt make me or anyone that has gone through the same thing stupid. Thank you!

Thank you all for your comments, really been motivating. No, didnt come seeking pity, just wanted to say it out loud and free myself from the worry. I love criticisms, they make me stronger and i get to learn where my mistakes were made. Nothings heals any wound other than time no matter, atleast its nt marriage and i know what he is after.
A pretty face isnt hurt proof or neither does it guarantee a safe relations and am bound to make mistakes. A divorcee also needs second chances, if I had the opportunity to see his ex wife to ask questions, believe me I would have. Its nt abt single or divorced, its abt who was in ur life at a particular time. Thank you!

Saw him just this Sunday, and today I got a text on my phone from his friend, his marriage iv!

Ive been in shock since morning, dont know who to talk to cos I don't keep friends, i absolutely may go suicidal on this. A man that didnt even have a house, a job, no money when i met him. I cook for him, he spent virtually all his time at my place, even most times borrowed as lil as N200 from me. He cried at the bus-stop one evening begging me not to let go, that single tear kept me. I don't have a regular job, I buy & sell things just to keep going till a job comes. I've chased suitors away all in d bid to make this man feel save cos i believe in tomorrow. He is a divorcee, i didnt worry abt that. I stood by him since last year till he got a house dis February. By march I started noticing things. Ive asked him severally what d problem was but he said its just stress cos he got an event contract with a company. At a point he even borrowed some money from me, got to find out that it was cos of the girl he is planning to marry that came visiting bt he was too broke to host her.

This life and the men in it are heartless. Tell me how i can ever love another? Am dying silently, please i need friends to talk to or even a proper job to help me get over this hurt, am self destructive!

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Ok dawg I am not here to hustle for toto gerrit? that was just a random question. . Btw I love em beautiful and below 150Ibs . . I don't mean to disrespect or hurt anybody's feelings. Just my preference and it ain't illegal NTIGAF tho. .

That wasnt too nice Reality, even if sum1 pushed u to d edge,knowing dat most nairalanders do that to piss ppl off, u shudnt have said this. Uve already established a gud convo wt her n she has taken time to answer all ur questions too. It isnt a bad thing if u asked her what part she is in, we r all strangers n on a social site to know more abt ppl. Ur 150lb preferrence shudnt have sufficed even if u were angry knowing that d gentle lady dat has bn answering u is 230lb... Just saying though cos i felt bad abt it.

@op... Marriage is nt for d faint hearted, its for men who said " I wanna be a responsible person, show ppl I can head a family, take care of my home, take a lady away from her people & solely love/take care of her wt the kids she will bear me in consequently, I wanna now be a man & handle my problems without 3rd parties", then I believe we wnt be here reading ur posts in just 2mnths of marriage. Have u ever let dis woman know wat ur tots abt her weight gain is? Most men fail to realise dat most times its not just food dat makes a lady gain weight after marriage bt d joy n peace of mind they have newly gotten cos they r married. My cousin is a hardworking banker, a size 12, once she got married, it baffled us all dat she just started adding weight & she still goes to work like she always have. So plz let her know & allow her go out too so she doesnt get the cravings to eat too much. And plz try n stop posting tns abt ur 2mnt old marriage to d public, its too early n not wise i beg u. Thanks!

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Smh... Who ever compared 2face with banj? Of all places to go its d US where his mates like Banky & Ikechukwu ran away from so they wudnt waste and atlst their music wud be appreciated by their own ppl, n it is bn appreciated. Yes, Don J may not be a musician but the melody from his baritone voice makes the songs he adds them to melodious. Banj didnt make Wande coal's album sell, neither did he make Sid & Prince's albums make waves cos they r individual artists just caught up in a record called mo'hits. So if he leaves, music goes on nt like nsync or druhill. His music wnt do no one any good in US n Good Music will only waste his yrs n time n dump him afterwards.
Don J has ntn to loose as long as he kips making those beats & d rest kip waxing strong. Only time will tell what banj wud become but for now, let him wine, dine, club & get all d hos supplied to him till he drops an album or even a song.

Well behind every rumour/statement, theres alwayp a bit of truth. He may nt own it all, but he may own majority of its shares/assets. If not, why would Don jazzy be planning to unveil his own record label after mo'hits have gone this far? Yeah a big question innit?

Sorry to burst everyones bubbles but everyone here is just concentrating on the kids, what of the woman? Her husband? Her happiness? Her family & marriage? This is a woman who wants to make her marriage work, thats why she is even paying attention to her husbands demands. With the high rate of divorce & independency women crave these days, she against all odds even with her degree & business wants her family to be one. Why should she convince her husband to let her stay back with her kids? Tomorrow if he remarries and she comes here for advice, u will all blame her for living apart from her husband. The children in question will be faced with problems of a broken home. How are u guys so sure that it wasnt from the same family business that the husband got to the UK in the first place, that thats what has been keeping him going? Now he wants to move back HOME and all hell is breaking loose.
Amy, u have a good heart & I know u are capable of raising ur kids where ever & in whatever environment u find urself. U knew what u were getting into when u married someone not from your place, also knowing fully well he has a family & a home to go back to, and also the fact that he is an only son makes it difficult for his parents to let him go. Follow ur heart, ur home will be as nice as u make it, Nigeria or not. U will adapt as well as ur kids too. Abuja is a nice place to live in & they have good schools too, lots of business opportunities abound too if u make a good feasibility study, u can also import things frm the UK & sell. Dont let ppl ruin ur mind, some are wishing to be in ur shoes, please stay with ur man & ur kids will adapt even with a rate u didnt expect.
Since u still have time, let them start visiting so as to get the feel of it first hand. Everybody here castigating ur movement, as long as they r nigerians, they all come back either alive or dead.
We r used to spoiling our homeland with our very hands, tomorrow they will say Naija aint moving forward, How e go take move na?
I rest my case!

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@ Ivynwa, thanks so much for being so positive n I will surely do as u say. Ive been a member of nairaland for years now but fear putting up anytn or even comment for the fear of being insulted & most ppl here just do it for d fun of it even if d poster is close to death n just needs advice. Maclatunji created a wonderful but delicate thread, he means well. I fear that genuine ppl with suicidal intents may come to seek help here n as usual, d fun seekers may just give d person a one way ticket by making jest or insulting them. Though I pray that won't be the case here. Thanks dear, I appreciate!
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That show has become so boring & I change my channel when I see it start, It has lost its touch of fun & adventure. They can make a great come back n regain their audience viewership by going off air for a while, then come back with Chidi Mokeme as its one & only anchor. If not, I'll keep switching my channel & I know many others do too, It Sucks!

Always said dat long distance dnt work & I wnt support any of them cos dey both need to sit n evaluate wat they think dey have. They both lack trust n commitment n commitment being what I guess d gal really wants, nt just trying to tie me down cos u said u will marry me. Dat doesnt work any more my dear op. Step up ur game, concentrate on her n stop cheating, be more convincing dat shes all uve got n all u will ever nid n u will see her pics on dailies dat she was caught stealn credit just to call her boyfriend. IF i were in her shoes, n considering its hard to get a truthful man who lives outside, i may as well do d same. Sns u have said dis here, take this as a wake up call N start afresh. Call her n be more convincing, take care of her n tell her u dnt like her call attitude, I guess there wud be either a positive or a negative change bt a change all d same must occur. Be truthful to urself

Ma guy u got 6 pages? All for u to delibrate upon? Quite confused u may be by now. Am desperately waiting for d outcome of all these, busy sipping coffee so I wnt fall asleep b4 d result is announced. I wnt tell u Chuks what to do n what not to do but certain things shud be thought through, 4 years(no problems till now), ur family, ur love for d said person n do u really bliv she wud change. Only one guy made mention of d true fact that "women want Attention n Communication" n may go to lenghts to get it. But i believe there must have been a bigger fight b4 this which u didnt state. Now d gals blunder is going to see anoda dude while under ur care, she failed.
But dnt ask us, she already told u she feels ntn for u, If i dnt touch my man or kiss him, he already knws theres a problem n u seeing d problem already with facts, u still want answers?
I need more coffee!!

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@ peterandre
am cool and hope u are too?