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I know this may derail the thread, but I have a question, and I feel I can relate more with my sisters here than on other threads, where insults fly in from every corner, that why I wanna ask it here.
If as a married woman, you and your dh wants to buy a property (say a land) , And you are bringing the bulk of the money ( say 80%)
Is it wrong for you to insist you and dh's name be on the property papers, and not just your dh alone?
Pls let me know your thoughts.
Cc ripvanwink, and other man among us, I will like to know your thoughts, from a man's perspective.
Fertility blessings y'all.
NO JUMP AND PASS THINGS!!!! Abegooo

Iyafife:
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and scrotal scan wch i ddnt let him do coz it will further worsen our emotions and add more 2d bad news, i lost hope bt ws prayn and we kept tryin, i bought supernatural childbirth, i read evryday until i taya dump am, dh treated staph evn tho d tin still dey show 4test, i tod him 2free d staph joor, he used and dump some couple of drugs 2 coz we jst got tayad of spendin on drugs
WIDD the month i conceivd ws only preseed lubricant nd had sex 3days b4 O, on O nd 3days afta O and God stamped it

This is indeed a testimony.
I have similar issues. Male issues, from 11million to less than 1million. We are slated for another sfa and a scr.otal scan. Still thinking on the technique or crying method that I will use to get dh to carry out the tests.
So,I use you as a point of contact to my self, and declare that so shall it be for me and dh. In Jesus Name. Amen

Loisemm:
MARCH 2016 BFP ROLL CALL & WIDD
(COUNTING OUR BLESSINGS)
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1) Prayerly - prayers, laparoscopy, salpingostomy, fasting & prayer program for expectant mothers, 21 days vigil, doxycycline, bromocriptine tablets, baby danced on alternate days, front & back positions, had fun (did not take baby dancing too seriously that cycle) , no supplement.
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2) Kwentjules - HSG, clean point tampoon, foreva gel, echinacea, garlic, prayers, prayers for her pregnant friends, she spoke positively to her womb regularly.
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3) Twogreatnations - prayers, clomid, antibiotics, progesterone after scan/bfp.
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4) Jummaitwins/ Jumayin - relaxation, prayers, daily confession of God's word.
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5) ioomoge2 - chasteberry, HSG, ovulation tracking, vitex, metformin, sugar test, ecoslim for weight loss, mason fat burner, master cleanse for 3 days, dr James pills laxative every night, dr James tea in the morning, antibiotics -diflucan, encouragement & assistance from Udoomama & sugah, Sept 2015 Holyghost night program for TTC women.
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6) Adorablewifey - IUI with St Ives, Ikoyi.
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7) bumzy4u - vit E 1000 ui daily, vit C 1000 mg daily. (pls consult ur doc b4 using this dosage as bodies react differently)
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deyoola - antibiotics, hydrotubation, obron 6, folic acid, clean point tampoon.
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9) Oluwatise2016 - her prayer group prayers.
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10) Oleayo22 - Hcg 10,000iu, robotusin, red raspberry tablet, follicle monitoring at Mecure, soy isoflavone, clomid from Cd 2-6 100mg, Jan 2016 women's fellowship 21 days fasting (lost about 5-6 kg as a plus), serrapeptase, flushing/ hydrotubation, wobenzyme, 2 chinese herbs, don quanon, folic acid, castor oil massage till ovulation, used wondfo strips & clearblue digital to test for ovulation, women's best friend, pregnitude, clean point tampoon, dr Christophers formula, maca 500mg daily, dhea 75mg, coq10 200mg to improve egg quality.
*For her hubby - coq10 100mg, fertilaid for men, men's supplement from Vitamin Shoppe.
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11) Sarahjoe1000's Sister-
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TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY FOR THESE BFPs...
God bless and keep these mamas and may they carry to term and deliver joyfully. Our turn is near. Let's keep believing & keep praying. Let's keep taking our medications, herbs, etc. Let's go for that procedure in faith. Let's do all we can without worry or fear. God will surely come through for us!!

Thank you @loisemm for compiling this WIDD (count your blessings)
I know it wasn't easy.
God bless you.
@dadsonval. Happy wedding anniversary. This year shall indeed be testimony-filled for you and your family. Amen

omotolani22:
Dear able mamas,good evening.I am presently on clomid and I'm not experiencing any side effect apart from peeing frequently twice or thrice.is dis a good or bad sign?cc mamakendra,fvine,fruitfulwoman,sugah

If you are not experiencing any side effect on clomid, I think you should be glad. You must not have a side effect for a drug to be potent. At least i didnt have any side effect (,except for dry veej) the few times I I was placed on c.lomid.
But i'll let other mamas answer you

@cravingchic, give it time. Take your drugs religiously. And dont let your hubby su.ckle you bosoms.

@sugah and fvine. I like people who are straight in their dealings. Imagine forming ttc!!! @jill28 may you never struggle to conceive in your life (if na me be you, I go say better Amen, because na better prayer I pray for you so)
@sugah, na my own diplomatic be that o. Lol. I was even praising myself for handling it beautifully. Lol. No mind me jare

jill28:
Good day sis, I am currently under going IVF at The Bridge Clinic in Ikeja. Best decision I have made for myself, my partner and little miracle. The staff there have made my journey so remarkable. Even though the process may take long sometimes, knowing that I walk in there to constantly be greeted by happy smiles and warmth makes me excited about what is to come. You should take it into consideration. Blessings in abundance and I will be praying for you.

Nne ooo, no vex o. This your ivf journey you started at Bridges clinic since Oct 2015, has not ended? Abeg, what stage are you now in the ivf process? I would love to know.
Most of all your 26 posts since you joined nl in oct last year has been on advertisement for Bridge clinic. If you want market, market. No come dey form ttc

CravingChic:
fvine and legendsmother where are you oo? Come and answer me before I overdose on pills out of frustration. My hormonal result is out:
Lh 2-9 (0.5 -10.5); FSH 4.0 (3.0-12.0); prolactin 31 (1.2-19-5); prog 0.5 (2.5-25); testosterone 1.4 (0.1-1.0). Summary: Infertility. What am I gonna do again on top one tube issue too? Ike agwulam oo

Ike agwula gi, nwa nnem nwayi. O ga adi nma.
From my lil understanding, your result shows you have high prolactin, low progesterone, high testosterone.
But its not the end of the world. If you are not already on any drug for the prolactin, discuss with your dr about parlodel or dostinex (I learnt those here) or do/combine the drugs with the natural one of using cabbage, ewedu +vit b6(read previous posts on it)
Also for the progesterone, discuss with your dr on progesterone suppositories, but on your own you can add omega 369 to your daily supplements, make sure you are on a prenatal vitamin too, it helps.
I, personally have been on omega 369, for more than 1 month now, and during the last 2 tvs I did, my endometrial linning on cd10 was 10.2 mm and 11 mm on those 2 cycle, also the last tvs also showed a dominant follicle of 23mm, which released the following day. But the tvs I had on cd10 before I started taking the omega, showed a follicle that was not mature enough (I have a 25/26 day cycle)
All am trying to say is that omega3 can help. You can try that too

Ok. So I spoke to nazablossom with the number that was provided on this thread. In a bid to protect her privacy, she does not want her account details posted on NL, but if you want to assist her in any way, call or text her, she will send it to you. My sisters pls dont post it here unless she says otherwise.
A song just came to my mind. #What so ever you do to least of my brothers, that will be done unto you, when I was hungry.........
God bless you. Even if its 1k lets help a sister in need.
Fertility blessings y'all
Lets keep hope alive

Yesterday, I also strolled into the preggy thread and saw the post on nzablossom's critical financial issue, I pmed her, hoping to get her account details.
I will inform the house if she responds.
Pls lets come to her aid. Even if its 1k each. I know it will go a long way.
I love my e-sisters.
Happy Sunday y'all

omotolani22:
Happy new month all,pls I'm new here ooo and I don't understand some terminologies like BFP,AF et all.pls mamas,explain to me ooo

Welcome to this wonderful family.
May your stay be the shortest recorded here, cos you will be porting to the preggy thread, faster than you imagined.
BFP means big fat positive (that is being pregnant)
bfn means big fat negative.
Af= aunty flow (period).

iomoge2:
Mamakendra, i thought you did some preceedor to remove the whitest stuff.
Have u used clean point? Part of what it does is heal the womb of endometriosis.
Look for mumihaja post and see

U are supposed to ovulate like now.... Do u also check after ovulation if u really ovulated or if your follicle is declining?
So u know if u need trigger?

Just read up clean point, u may need to place yourselve on a treatment plan.

Endometriosis is not good, please reject the result.

Thank you @ iomoge2 for responding to my questions.
Yesoooo I did hysteroscopy or what did they call it, which was supposed to remove all debris or unwanted stuff in the uterus that may hinder implantation. In fact, the doctor wrote that they ewre removed, yet the radiologist still saw whitish/reflective stuff. He even showed it to me on the screen, plus other stuff about some fluid in my endometrial lining. In fact, I tire.
Dont know if the hospital just wants to do ivf by force that they are not keen on helping women conceive naturally. Anyway, I will buy mumuhaja's cleanpoint, though I have gufeio bao, which I have used just 2 seeds out of, I will still try cp.
Thank you again for your response.
Abeg make I stop. Cos if I start my own rant, e go be like fruitfulwoman's own

@ fruitfulwoman I dont blame you at all. You took enough sh.it. even I couldn't have had such patience. I would have used slap to finish that girl's face, that either she leaves my house the next morning or she becomes over humble and docile. Infact, you are a saint.
Inu kwa!!!! In my own house??
Haaaa!!! God abegooo.
Even the woman that calls her self a mother, that abandoned her children and marriage, because of a rich man, now wants to imbibe the same evil virtue in her daughter. the fact is that it takes more than just to give birth to a baby for one to be called a mother.
Thank God your liberation and freedom has began.
The bondage over your life and marriage is destroyed. Praise God.

So, mamas una no see my question before abi
Ok oooo. There is God ooo

I have not been too happy recently. A whole lot of things have been happening. Negative news about dh's sfa, my likelihood of having mild endometriosis, and others. But its well.
Anyway, abeg, mamas see this result if a tvs/follicular tracking I did yesterday.
Cc fvine, iomoge2, all mamas, abeg, whats ur take?

Pls mamas, let's leave rachie83 alone, and forget about this camvacon thing. Lets not derail the progress if thus group. If she is a markerter, let her be. If she is not, good for her also.
Let sleeping dogs lie. Biko nu.
Na bfp I wan hear, no be rachie say, camvacon say. Lol
Fertility blessings my dear sisters

RipVanWink:
there are so many usa to naija shipping companies you can use,, they even help u buy in dollars n u pay in naira if u wish n ship the item to u here in naija for a small fee, my fav is shypmate....go to thier site, register and send them link of the item u want to buy, others are mall for africa and shop to my door, but shypmate is my fav...cos within 10days most times ur items are with u in naija....unnless there is delay from amazon or ebay

Thank you, big daddy @ripvanwink. For always looking out for us. I will try the shypmate.
Ore mi, @ covenantbabies, thanks too.

CovenantBabies:
@Mamakendra, how r u doing Sis?
Just type in their website on the internet. When it opens, sign up for an account with them.

You'll need to choose a userID & password, then add details like shipping&billing address, payment method etc.
Once done creating an account with them, you can now type in the item you want on the search button on their home page, list of the items will be shown.
Go through them one after the other, read the product descriptions, check and compare the different prices, estimated dates of arrival (EDA), shipping methods (whether it qualifies for free shipping or not) etc. When you've seen the particular item that suits you, add it to your cart & proceed to check out.
You'll be asked to input where you want them to ship the item to, details of your payment method etc.
For shipping, if you have someone abroad you can send it to & they'll ship to you, then you'll use the persons full address. If it's a shipping company, I guess you'll also have to type in the shipping company's full & correct address (I guess so, not very sure cos I haven't used shipping companies before).
The process is not so complex, just follow it step by step & you'll make your first order.
For payment, you can get an acct for online shopping. You transfer funds to it & now add it/ the card details to ur amazon/ebay acct. I won't advice u use your main bnk card.

I hope I covered the basics & that you understand all my blabings
Pls mamas add more incase I missed something.

As for DH, You just have to try through every means possible: cry o, beg o, pamper o,convince o, keep talking, get reviews from people&show him to read, go on hunger strike for him if you have to inorder to achieve ur aim etc. And above all, pray!
This was the major reason I switched to fertilsan M, to ease this stress for myself.
All I have to do is pamper & convince him to take the 3caps once he wakes up every morning even before leaving the bed & That's it (the drug & water will permanently be tucked away somewhere beside our bed so no stories ).
I no longer have to device means on how to get him to take any afternoon or evening dose again.
God will work things out for you.

Happy Easter to everyone!

Thank you my dear sister, for the detailed response, @ covenantbabies. When I googled about the ebay/amazon shopping guide for Nigerian residents, it required that I register with a certain amount, for a US Address, VPN, IP, etc. Then the items will be shipped to the US address, before the shipping company will now ship the item to Nigeria. Their requirement too much. So I was wondering if that is how other mamas get their shopping done. Anyway, thanks for the information, I will check their site now.
As for dh, na God hand e dey. But I really like that your style. Keeping the drug by the bed side. Lol. The other suggestions of how to get him to take the drugs, was well received.
Thanks sis

Happy Easter to all the fruitful mamas in the house.
Please can someone teach me how to shop on all these foreign online shops like Amazon and ebay.
I want to look for this fertisan drug. But another challenge is that dh dosent like taking drugs I buy for him, irrespective of the great reviews such drug may have. As long as is not from the doctor ir with prescription. Now when we now go to the hospital, the doctor just end up giving him normal routine drugs and end up down playing any supplement I suggest.
Its really tiring

Pls mamas how do I treat low progesterone. I have 2.9 iu on a cd19 test (7dpo).
A BIG CONGRATULATIONS to oleayo22. This can only be God.

A BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you, @joyfulmother. This is indeed a wonderful news.
Pls where did you buy the fertilsan and how much is it.
Thanks

Beautiful mamas, pls lets not be too harsh with @rachie83. She seems geniune. At least her last year post as shown by iomoge2 shows it.
We dont want volcanic eruptions (as in tempers) that will derail us and our progress. Lol. (* forming oyibo master)
Let peace reign

Janix2:
What do u mean by symptom spot

Means imagining symptoms which may not really be there

@vanny2. Pls sharperly run a pt test. I am rooting for you.
@loisemm. Thanks for the #countyourblessings# update. I know it wasn't easy compiling it. Well done ma. God reward you.
Fertility blessings@ all.
#keephopealive

Try this herbal tooth drug. It worked for me. Its about #500-1000

Adorablewifey:
Good morning mamas, i so love the spirit in here... the baby talks,scans , edd,the vigilantee groups, the morning sickness thing etc... i wish i have ported to this thread already. In all honesty i jealous you all.... W[b]ell, my solace is that come Jan or Feb i will be #teamSep or Oct.... and join in every discussion here too in Jesus name. [/b]Congratulation to you all i celebrate you all and my love to your lo's.

Remember this post you made in Dec 2015. God answered you just what you confessed. By conception calculations, you actually took in Feb, but missed your af in March.
See ladies, confession brings possession. So start confessing positively today. Lets not allow ANY negative report proceed from our mouth, even if its what the doctor said. It takes some getting used to, but lets try.
Am so getting preggy next month. The devil is a loser

DonaTee:
Pls frm experience n research presence or absence of ewcm is not an absolute indication of ovulation. D mucus is gtm hormonal actions on ur organs.
I av gotten bfp twice wit dry nyash in my fertile window. Infact one of it I used 5 strips of opk. All negative. ..but I bd frm day 10 to day 19 n more during daytime. Opk makes me tensed up.
pls dont obsess over opk. Channel ur strength to kpekus.

Choi! Choi-yer! Choi-yest! @adorablewifey wow!I bless God for u oooo. Congrats. Healthy n happy bumping.

*sekem sekem sekem sekem sekem*

@mamakendra do u mean less dan 8 or 80% motility? 12 million not bad. U can try natural methods n supplements to build it while tryin naturally. Its well wit u n ur dh. God wil perfect all dat concerns u.

Nne, its 8 % motility ooo, not 80.
But I have be pregnant before about 4 yrs ago, when his motility was about 20%. He has tried many supplement, Addyzoa, tamoxifen, now we are on Manix. Anyway, he dosent take his drugs religiously. I don talk tire. Na God hand I put am.
***God is bigger than ALL my problems***

Emerald65:
tnx heroesoff8, nice lyrics..didn't know wat to fix dere. Lol

Pls Mamas in d huz, help me n disect dis matter.
Am having release of Cervical Mucus n mild pains, left right centre(pelvic) , so I thot I might b ovulating n did ovulation test but its negative. is it possible to see d CM n not ovulate? last period was Feb 26, so I thot I wud b ovulating now.
pls am waiting for ur responses. tnx

Nne, abeg sharperly start bding NOW, and every other day, even with the pain. Till the ewcm stops or even af starts (Na BFP we want shaooo)
Its possible for opk not to capture your ovulation. Always correlate your opk findings with another method. Either temperature charting, body signs/pelvic pain, scan etc. Some opk's are not reliable

iomoge2:
Straight to IVF?
Tried IUI? Or inducing O?

Well, am sure your doctor knows best.
Consider time too.
At d end, all we want is bfp n baby n mommy n daddy n plenty Money.
God would do it in Jesus name. Amen

The thing tire meooo. She said to do iui with dh's sfa was a waste of money and is as if am just doing our normal bd. Dh was not buying it, and insisted they can do their pre-ivf testing, but we are still trying on our own. After, all where the money dey? NB: dh's sfa is 12mill, and less than 8%motility, last we checked 4months ago.
Then later, I met another of their doctors, whom i talked with about Timed inte.rcourse, which is o e of their ART procedures, and he asked if I had used clo.mid more than 5 times, since they dont do it if you have tried clo.mid more than 5 times in a life time. I said No, just 3. Then, he agreed that we can do it.
Nne, the thing tire me. That what am planning for in a month or 2.
Their Timed interc.ourse, is the normal ovulation induction, with tracking, then hcg fror triggering (optional), which is like 70k.
Amen ooo, to your prayers.
Enjoy your pregnancy. No shaking

DonaTee:
@mamakendra d fsh is low. D scan showed a follicle developing.
To get ur fsh to normal. ... there a traditionally no drugs asides hormonal stimulating drugs.
For d meantime as always detox n, Royal jelly may help.
Work wit ur doctor.
God wil surprise u soonest!!!!



*runs back to read iomoge2 testimony* very graphic.....I feel it live!! Baba God noni oooo

Thanks@donatee. I will try that royal jelly.

**I don even read this iomoge2's testimony 3 times. The testimony is indeed mind blowing. With all the fibroids, irregular flow, uncertain ovulation. This God is indeed too faithful to fail**

iomoge2:
Legendsmother please come and help with mamakendras hormonal profile results
That Fsh.
But u have a growing follicle which should drop on cd14 or 15.
Going by 2mm growth daily.
And that may make u a candidate for luteal phase defect.

Did u take any ovulation inducing drug? If no, then d fsh result is wrong.
Just try to extend your luteal phase to allow for proper implanting.
I pray this is your cycle.

God would crown all your efforts with success in Jesus name.

Nne I did not take any ovulation inducing drugooo.
Just omega 3 combo.
The result tire me. But the doctor didnt really see it as an issue, according to her the ow fsh oes not factor in IVF, which she was suggesting to us to do.

Fvine:
It really is well my Sis. I understand your concern on the FSH. I also can't explain it but what I know is that "FSH is often used as a gauge of ovarian reserve. In general,under 6 is excellent, 6-9 is good, 9-10 fair, 10-13 diminished reserve, 13+ very hard to stimulate. In PCOS testing, the LH:FSH ratio may be used in the diagnosis. The ratio is usually close to 1:1, but if the LH is higher, it is one possible indication of PCOS". But then your Day 10 scan showed 1 dominant follicle and didn't show cysts except that follicle failed to rupture maybe. I really don't know. Did you do a Day 21 Progesterone test? That could help more to know if you ovulated properly in that cycle. Also try to lengthen your luteal phase with Vit B6 if it's less than 12.
What did your Dr say? Remember am not an expert. If he's not concerned, I wouldn't be. Just relax and BD. I believe your hysteroscopy has taken care of things. God bless.

@fvine. I didn't have cysts. Any the hospital didnt do the complete range of hormone profile test, because according to them, they were only interested in the hormones they needed if I were to do an ivf procedure. Anyway, I did a progesterone test today on my own (cd 19- 7dpo) the test will be ready by next week, then I will post it here.
Also, am on an omega 3,6&9 combo, which also contains folic acid, vit b6 & b12. Hope it helps.

Wowww. Wowww. Wooowww.
Thats just all I can say.
THIS GOD IS EVER FAITHFUL.
Congratulations @iomoge.
This is indeed the best news I have had all day.

iomoge2:
Legendsmother please come and help with mamakendras hormonal profile results
The fsh is troubling to me.

My sister, follow me see this kind report ooo.
Anyway, Baba God is in charge