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 Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 4:14pm On Mar 31, 2006 |
Ho I am , and when i give my kids advise i give them the advise i will give to a grown up woman. The small ones dont have boyfriend problems yet, their time has not come. When ever i asked my mum for advise all she had to say was break up with him he is useless. Thats not what i wanted to hear. My kids know they can comme to me anytime with on matter what. Just a few weeks ago my daughter complained the Boyfriend did not have time to go out with her alone he was always with his friends or training. I asked her to get a life and go out too. I told her she has to play him out but its a game that can backfire so she should think be4 taking my advise, not that she will blame me if things go wrong. here was the plan. Dont call him , dont do as if there was something wrong and when he wants to see you be busy and have no time for him. After one week the plan worked out no one had to tell him to make out more time for her. |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 2:44pm On Mar 31, 2006 |
Not even ten rings and a big belly can help a jealous woman. She will do the same to the next man that comes her way. Am not saying that being jealous is not good but every thing must have a limit. Its a free world and its normal for other men to want to go out with you but one must be able to say sorry i have a Boyfriend. Or you stay single and go out with who ever and when ever. as a single you dont owe anyone answer. |
| Culture › Re: Nigerian Proverbs (in English) by mamaput(f): 9:17am On Mar 31, 2006 |
If you want to chop toad chop the big one a fool at 40 is a fool for ever ( My envented one for my kids) a crook cannot be better than his master. Its the person that steped into the shit that feels it. |
| Romance › Re: Dating your Sister or Brother's Ex by mamaput(f): 8:55am On Mar 31, 2006 |
When i was 13 i was in love with a boy he was like 17. I even used to dream how we will marry.But he was my brothers friend. Sometimes when my brother comes home late i will be waiting with food not for my brother but his friend. But for him i was only the little sister of his Friend. A few years later a friend of mien , my best friend then told me she had met this guy and they are dating. When she told me the name i was like still a few years later she had broken up with him longest time. A knock on my door and my "dream"man from that time wanted to go out with me. I went out with him even went to his flat with him , but that was it.I told him that i can never go out with a man that has slept with my sister or Friend. He thought iwas jealous but i explained its just principals. At this stage he tried to lie and said he never had sex with my friend. But i only had to laugh. I told him a few details of his sex with her . And he was like "scai you girls you talk a lot. |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 7:25pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
The first boyfriend my daughter had was very jealous. One day his best friend told him he was very lucky to have such a girlfriend . He is not talking to his friend to this day. If my daughter said only hello to someone it was a fight. Somewere along the way he told her he needs time to think because everyone was telling him he cannot keep a fine girl like that. After 3 months of thinking I advised my daughter to move on. she called him asked him if he had made up his mind he said he was not sure. she broke up with him on the spot. Today he is still comming to beg. But its too late. with his jealously he was depressing her . So if its me i will advise my loved ones to move on. But bif they are the jealous ones, i will ask them to work on it. if not at the end you lose all |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 6:21pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
jealousy , is a very bad thing. my daughter and her boyfriend also same age as Destinty also have their problems, but they talk about them and make compromise. For eg the club thing, he lets her know he is not too happy about her going on her own. But he knows he cannot expect her to wait at home till he has time for her. so he begs her not to dance with strange boy, but she can dance with his friends that she meets there. He also begs her not to make pic with other boys embracing her for the internet as they do in clubs these days. because of his people what they will say if they come across the pictures. Both of them know that if one of them cheats the relationship is over. |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 6:12pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
mamaputthe guy is only watched by his mum and dad, the same way i look after my daughter. The boy is going to be 18 this year and stays with his mum and dad. At that age you normally tell your people were you are of too. Its a matter of trust. My daughter has many girlfriends and she goes to the club with them alone. he too has friends and goes out with them alone. But they talk .commutation is very important. Each of them always knows were the other person is when they are not together. Am talking of a boy that travels alot for battles all over Europe he can if he wants to communate with other girls but it will not be easy for him my daughter can do the same but it will not be easy. And thats because they have introduced themselves to the parents, He can break up with her if he wants and find a new girl. his parents cannot force him to stay with her. But to cheat will be hard. He works learning to be an industrial mechanic for a big car company , he trains small kids and then goses for training himself his program is tight. my daughter has her school and her girlfriends. |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 5:55pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
Whats so difficult about it? Its aonlya matter of trust and knowing what you have, They are at an age were everyone has their own plan, they are not in the same school, Today there are so many fine people out there. |
| Family › Re: The Evil Step-mother Myth by mamaput(f): 4:47pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
When a mother dies she becomes something like a saint. new wife is always in her shadow because people keep telling her how wife nr one was. |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 4:44pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
very important If possible keep up a good relationship with his mum and dad if possible. my daughter goes often to his place , helps the mum in the kitchen and helps her do some They know her as his girlfriend and not some girl calling the house. so they keep an eye on him. He cannot just bring another girl to the house. once a friend of my daughter phoned his house because she was looking for her. His mum took the call. And bet me she really questioned her son about that girl that called, |
| Romance › Re: He's Handsome and I'm Pretty So Our Suitors are Pulling us Apart! by mamaput(f): 4:25pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
I have a daughter she is your age mate 17 years She has been with her boyfriend almost 2 years now. She is very pretty .And her Boyfriend well i will not say he is sooo fine , But he is a breaker and always going for battles. My daughter knows that girls are after him because he breaks and he knows that many boys are after her because she is fine. But they trust each other and even if they do not see every day they talk alot. Its important to be able to talk about the days events without getting pissed at the other person. because if so the person will start keeping things to himself, I don't know how modern your parents are.But i insist that any wannabe Boyfriend must take my daughter to his house and introduce her to his parents as his girl friend. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Are Catholics Really Christians? by mamaput(f): 3:44pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
@ Ono think of what jesus said to Peter . To peter we trace or pope. Did jesus not say what is bound on eath will be bound in heaven. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Are Catholics Really Christians? by mamaput(f): 3:41pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
Where in the bible are we instructed to say a rosary prayer?Is that not being narrow meinded? Luck1 :41 And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of mary the babe leaped in her womb. And Elizabeth was filled with the holy spirit and she excclamed with a loud cry Blessed are you among women and blessed is the fruit of your womb !why is this granted me that that the mother of my lord should come to me. The rosary is not only full of hail mary but also the lords prayer. and the glory be Glory be to the father the son and the holy spirit , as it was in the beginning , is now and ever shall be world with out end. What do you have aganist these prayers. A insult to mary is an insult to the mother of god. Elisbeth was filled with the holy spirit when she made this statement. The Rosary is used to count , its better than using fingers to count. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Are Catholics Really Christians? by mamaput(f): 3:14pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
they act like they prefer mother of jesus than they like jesus because everywhere around them you see pics of mary and they kneel to her and pray whereas God says jesus is the way to God(christianity) so they might not be 100% christianwhiteroses this is for you Hail mary full of grace the lord is with you blessed at thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb jesus Holy mary mother of god pray for us sinners now and at the hour of or death. We pray to her to pray for us The angle of the lord came to her saying hail oh favoured one go to luck 1 vers46 to48 we give her that respeckt as the mother of god. If am a king of the world and you come to my house you greet me but do not greet my mum what do you think i will say. If you want something from me and i say no to you . Lets say you meet my mum outside will you not ask her to talk to me? will i say no to my mum.? |
| Family › Re: To Live With Newlyweds: Sister Or Brother In-Law? by mamaput(f): 2:47pm On Mar 30, 2006 |
Please non of them I don't need a spy in my house. A man that would pee allover my toilet sit. Or a woman that . Hm I think i will be able to handle a woman better. |
| Education › Re: Ebonics: Is It Affecting You? by mamaput(f): 8:46am On Mar 30, 2006 |
Then there is this typical nija English. My radio is spoiled my radio is broken. Do you say put off the light or switch of the light. Am packing out or am moving out go slow trafikator or signal |
| Nairaland General › Re: What Tree Did You Fall From??? by mamaput(f): 7:57am On Mar 30, 2006 |
Weeping Willow (Melancholy) - likes to be stress free, loves family life, full of hopes and dreams, attractive, very empathetic, loves anything beautiful, musically inclined, loves to travel to exotic places, restless, capricious, honest, can be influenced but is not easy to live with when pressured, sometimes demanding, good intuition, suffers in love until they find that one loyal, steadfast partner; loves to make others laugh. [/color] [size=8pt][/size][/quote |
| Romance › Re: I Am Dating A Married Man And I Know His Wife by mamaput(f): 4:33pm On Mar 29, 2006 |
I schooled in Nigeria too and many were doing it. But many just wanted the money from the sugar Daddy. Very few fäll in love with the man. But a big but any man that will live his wife for another woman. will bbe ableto do it again. The problem is not to tell Blacknbold to let go of the man .But how to let go .Its easier ssaidthan done. The most important thing is that she tries to get over both men be4 starting something new. And this is not easy. What she needs now is friends, good friends to keep her busy. |
| Crime › Re: What If Your Sisters Husband Beats Her A Lot? by mamaput(f): 8:51am On Mar 29, 2006 |
I have seen so many women who stay with their abusive husband . Its not that easy to just go. What if the man is good to the kids? Am not saying the woman should stay, but these kids will grow and will want to know why the dad was in jail. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: When a Pastor Uses 'Gods Money' For a Life of Luxury by mamaput(f): 8:28am On Mar 29, 2006 |
Am not sure that god will reward anyone giving out the money foolishly. On reading the bible we will come across the word fool foolisch very often. |
| Crime › Re: What If Your Sisters Husband Beats Her A Lot? by mamaput(f): 8:14am On Mar 29, 2006 |
And wile the old man is there with his broken bones and in jail. Who will be bringing in the money. Anyone going that far should also be ready to carry the sister with all her baggage to their house first. |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Men Need To Have Variety In Love? by mamaput(f): 7:38am On Mar 29, 2006 |
Women dont cheat more than men but the do it better than men. Its only when the woman starts falling in love that she starts making mistakes.If not its hard to get a hold of her. |
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