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He who seeks shall find.
My daughter tried to hide her pictures from me . She was clever about it and put them on an internet page.
Well i found them and told her i did.
My kids think am a witch because i find out everything, but i was young too and all the tricks they play i have played them too.
But I don't snoop i call what i do safety precaution's.
Because to guide them i have to know what they are up 2

I keep things too.
Only when i break up i pack them away.Till am over the relationship.
I once gave a man back everything he gave me. The good stuff expensive jewelery.
Today i see it as a mistake,.

Very call all of them on the same day at the same time.
They will hate you for ever.

If wishes were horses beggers will ride
When it comes to hiding evidence men are so daft.
So daft they will even keep a phone number in their jacket pocket.
A woman will learn the number off head or write it down somewere the man will never dream of looking.

Is it every one that calls himself pastor thats a pastor?
What of all those fake pastors in fake churches.

Buy a Book or a large puzzel find something to keep you busy after work.
Start your spring cleaning.
Start writing on a book what ever just to keep you busy for some time.
If you have money travle .
I know what its like but everyone gets over it.

why should a pastor be left alone.
so if he is killing raping and what ever we should live him to god.
If he comes to my house and asks for my daughter i should hand her out and live her faith to god
In-the pastors hands.

No i do not mean money .
you said your self you cannot stay long without a man.
There are so many ways to make ones self dependent,

Don't make me laugh?
Somemen are not into women the don't cheat.
Some men don't have the time thats why they don't cheat.
That stuff about the woman having everything that a man wants is Karp.
Then no man also has everything a woman wants. And thats no reason to stray.
What happened to all the for better for worse stuff.
Men that cheat are running a way from responsibility and they run to women who offer them fun.
A wife has to think about security and the future of the family.
But men are like small kids they like to runaway to play.

I got married to settle down my ex left me with a lot of responsibility.
I was taking care of almost everything.
One good day after about 6 years of marrage he wanted to let me know that i was just like a man.
I I wanted him to know that he was just like a child . Some one that leaves everything on my head i only hear from him i want , i want.
I i am like a man its him that made a man out of me.And am seeing i don't need him for anything.
More still I told him that i feel more like a watch dog in the house because i do EVERYTHING.and he just thinks of having fun.
Up to the stage once the kids were misbehaving and he was telling them your mum will soon come then you will be in trouble.an
anyway after 10 years of talking i ask him to go.

1. your freedom
2. goodbye to nights out with the boys
3. goodbye to monday night football
4. bye bye to hamburgers, french fries and pizza
5. no more spontaneous travelling
6. be ready to explain every phone call, coffee stain etc
7. be ready to spend all your weekends at the shopping mall
8. bye bye to i, me and myself
9. bye bye to personal accounts
10. welcome to nagging version 1.0
11. Know all florists in town
12. have hankies at the ready all the time

1 I believe in my own freedom why take away another persons own.
2 I was going out too why stop him
3 I was lucky no one likes football here but if youhave money to marry then you can afford a 2 tv
4-5 he was doing all that anyway so was i only that he always wanted to come with me.
The rest dont apply to me,He was the one wasting time in the shops.

As long as the girl is in her Fathers House the Mans aggression are limited.
He cannot go to her fathers house to fight her.
Once they are married, he will feel free to do what he likes,

If you are talking about dates I cant count them I dont remember all.
I have gone out with a lot of people.
But going out is not the same as F***ing

blackenbold Am really sorry 4 you.
dont say you are dependent on a man .
You have to get your act together.
U have to learn zo take care of u self first. be $ you take care of a relationship or men will always dance on your head.

Then think of what he did not do.
He did not marry you and he wants to have his cake and eat it.

No i will not.
I will not tell my brother sister bestfriend or anybody.
my lips are sealed. But if they ask me if i every saw their husband wife with another woman then i cannot lie.
But run and tell no

All that was once
today money talks .
If an igbo girl comes up with a rich hausa man taht will take care of them , they will start calling him our son even b4 the marrage,

No he is not violent .
The lady just walks into his fist.
Or ask for it. same asthe 4ma girlfriends

A true Christan dose not draw attention to himself and stouts out loud "see me am a christan.

i hate shopping too.
when i want to be really fast i go with the kids then we spread out like FBI in different directions then in no time my wagon is full
For other things everybody is on their own.
I hated going shopping with my ex.he took sooooooo long.

I don't know my bible so off head but I know that Jesus himself was tempted several times.
I am not saying that Jesus and john had different things to say, but they did not have the same approach to the same topices.
But he did say do what i say and don't do as i do.

Every one translates the bible the way the like at the end of the day its all about believing that Jesus is the son of god.
He came to save our souls and not our sex life. at least we can agree on that.
But on reading the bible did not god himself admit mistakes.?
Like when he got so annoyed and flooded the earth. Did he not promise not to do so again.?

Me i would not have time for that rubbish.
My daughters Boyfriend wants her to cook for him but once in a rare while .
He will phone and ask her if she has time and even buy the things needed.
he will sit in the kitchen with her while she is cooking.
Sometimes his mum will ask her to come and show her how she cooked a dish because he is always talking about it.
But apart from that , we treat him like every other person if he comes when we are eating he eats with us.
I don't entertain men in my place. I go to their place.

What ever its not about what Jesus did or did not do , but about what he preached.
Did he and John the Baptist not have different reputations
Were people then not calling him a drunkard that was eating with sinners?
Jesus said he came to help the sick  not so
But i must say that website i ddon'tunderstand what it has to do with religion.

They are talking about marrage and the family must have told her why. They have beingseeing what is happinging.
They only want what is the best for you .
Let it not happen that they will one day say I told you so.

by his name i dont like bab or baby or what ever . Its only a title.

I miss that small loof of bread the used to bring .
Sometimes the bread will still be hot then i will buy two open them with my hand and put blueband in them.
Thats all i miss.
That sunday rice too they took extra care to cook it.

I will stop going to that church.
Why should i give money in that church thinking am giving the money to god. What need dose god have for my money.
Is there not a parable in the bible about a master that gave two savants money , one invested it the other just kept it.
After church there are enough places to go to to drop the money.