₦airaland Forum

It depends
In case of sickness or rape i cannot expect the woman to want to keep the baby

There was this woman that was at the funeral of her Mother not many people came
and she noticed this stranger . She somehow got attracted to him . But she did not know who he was and nobody at the funeral could tell her who he was.
She just could not stop thinking about this man ,
,

Two weeks later she killed her sister.
why


Am hoping for answers but be warned the right answer tells bno good about you.

Kill the UN born baby and pray hard to god.
Remove the baby of the bastard to make space for the baby of the non bastard.
or remove the baby for the in ten years to be bastard.
Any woman advicing an other woman to remove a baby is a very dangerous Woman in my eyes.
Its always better to let the mother make up her own mind what she wants .
Its easy to say get rid of it when its not us.
If one once to give advice them better the advantages and disadvantages of an abortion or being a single mother.
If Banke is a white woman you cant give her the same advice as you would give a Nigerian woman.

no idea were i got it from.

don't say you think that when a woman says no she means yes or maybe.
When i was married i used to go to the club once in a while.
I let the men a dance with know that am married and with kids and that i just came to chill out a bit, Some still ask me for my number . Do they have tomatoes in their ears.

Beyonce
I just readwhat you wrote again .
What you what to say is that a child without a father is not fit to live?
Am also raising my kids alone should i have poisoned them the day i got devoiced or given them away.?

Who said men don't like gossip?
They love it , they even love it more than women .But they don't admit it.
Men do the evil they do because of women .
Don't forget the saying behind every successful man is a woman .We only need to define success.

Let them do the talking.
Its a good sign that both are ready to come .
Every pain goes
If you want to keep the baby do so. You are not the first woman to have a baby without a father.
Make it clear to them that its not about looking for who is guilty . But they should give you some good reasons for keeping the baby and for keeping in contact with both of them. Even if you don't marry again a baby needs a dad and an aunt.

A young boy fell in love with a beautiful girl and wanted to marry her.
His father called him aside and told him he cannot marry her because she is his sister (The father had, had an affair with the mum of the girl)
The young man left the girl but was very sad about it.
It did not take too long he fall in love again. And again the father called him aside and said , that is your sister (Half) you cannot marry her am her Father.
The Young man was so sad and his mum asked him what was wrong.
When he told her, the mum answered "Don't mind him he is not your father you can marry the girl she is not your sister.

The happiest day was also the saddest it was my mothers burial, but it was also a day were all the children of my mother were together at the same time in almost over 20 years.A dream came true a picture of all of us together.

Another happiest day my daughter surprised me was her school send of. On that they , they gave them their result hers was the best in the whole set.


Then came the day my other daughter after 4 years of **** beat up her classmate . she got into trouble for it but i was so happy that she did it I even danced.

When all my kids are together in a room getting dressed and helping each other with hair and so or when the cook together in Peace that makes me happy,

Am from the old school were the man pays.
But I fit myself to the pocket of the man.
If hes not well off fast food will do , if he can afford it we go somewere else.
I also know a man thats a miser , when we go out i wait till he has made his order so that i will not order something that costs more that his .
Am not a material girl and i don't expect a man to buy me shoe or gold or what ever.
But taking me out for a drink once in a while is must.
For something like the pill , he has to pay his part, I bring him the bill.

If to say na me boyfriend beat and i go tell my papa .
My papa for shoot am. winch day did the fool pay my for my education or carry wine to my village.
Boy friend .

Well it has happened to me only once , I run go my papa house.
But i did not report because my Father would have killed to boy
or asked his people to pay a heavy amount as

one fine day , i heard my ex asking my daughter what i do with other men when i go out with her do i kiss them Bla bla bla,.

I went mad. That day i told him that if i wanted to i will bring an other man home in front of him
go to the bed room with this man in front of him and have sex.
a<nd there is nothing he can do about it.
Os he should not insult me and ask my daughter questions.
he is free to ask me.

Let me put it this way.
Iam ot sure that i want to pack into a mans house if he has a child ,
It will not be easy if the child is big. But i will not ask him to return the child to his Mother.
In this case we will both keep our place and visit each other. This way eveybody can go to their "Tents" to rest
It will also not be easy on my kids if a man packs into my place . But I will notsend my kids to any were because pf a man.

me no never.
I like there food thats it.
The is one i Know he has a fast food delivery service if i work too late my kids order pizza and guess what he brings it persolally and asks for me.?
but am not at home.

I would advise a second (joint account) were you and boyfriend put an amount monthly for all expenses
then everyone can do with the rest what they want.
the biggest fight between a man and a woman is his mother and his religion not many women win this fights.

we have on dress code here (maybe in privet schools)
Some rectors tried to introduce it the perants went wild,

My kids can do what they like with their Hair . It will grow back or out
they can put on what they like its a stage.
But never ever any hole that not in the ear and no tattoos,

For those in the UK how come so much is forbidden .
No school forbids anything here.
You can go the way you like to school Punk, Gottic, veiled , dressed to kill, what ever.
2 chains and so on

Yes depending on the age,
A girl of 15 should not date a man of 20 something.
She can stick to her mates or wait till she is older.
22 and 99 is also ugly.

With my husband
I just told him to go that i cannot stay with him anymore.
I moved to mysisters place til he packed out.
It took him only a few days to go.

The last person told me he was getting married.
Later he got cold feet and did not marry her again.
Well he confessed he did not want to be tied down for any reason .
They had already invited people and just a few day to the wedding he called it of.

A little More back ground please
are you Nigerian or is it your boyfriend or non of you.
or both of you
just to understand better.

Once my mum told me someone was comming to the house to fix something in the bathroom.
(I should keep an eye on the workers so that they don't steal)
They came and i felt stupid just standing so we got talking. We talked about God and the world(means anything one can think of).
After that he kept comming to ask me out and I kept finding polite reasons for not going out with him.
One day i was  about  sleeping in the sitting room, by now  he was under the impression i was his girlfriend.
he started shouting at me what a wicked bitch i was Bla bla bla. We need to talk bla bla bla.
Believe it or not i fell asleep I don't know why and i only heard the door bang.
I never saw him again.
I never flirt with him or even held hands nothing .

Any day any time the VIP NR , I have them in my head.
Not even on redial will you find me

Now you see me now you don't

Broken home Broken home how many people stay together because of eye serves,?
Picking Husband or wife because of unbroken home is also eye service,
I this day and age even kings are marring below their class very normal women , one even brought a child into the marrage and her father is a drinker ( is that in Sweden?)