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i dont believe that one oh, der are nice eligible bois nd gils everywehere, if after 3yrs u neva find den we need to take sin to MFM for deliverance

@ bigboyslim
thanks for that
its just that when u hang out wit d guy regularly,its hard not to be deeply involved and to be honest not cut out for temporary things, wen he said he was commitment phobic i didnt know what to say just said u wen u find d right gil ur phobic disappears,
i guess i berra keep my distance then

@ topup
i totally agree with u, one of their many reasons infact,
i am also in a similar predicament, i just met this guy nd he was very quick to tell me that he was commitment phobic, what i dont know is i cant detect if he truly is or just sayin it to scare me or not get too close to him,
what do u all advise

@ post
the energy u r goin to use to plan a revenge battle for the senseless bobo, why dont u channel it into gettin d hottest guy nd flauntin it in his face, sure dat will pain him if he realises that u can do better with a guy hotter nd richer dan him
just a tot o

[/quote]"Oh, your house is huge!" you can reply, "Yeah, I know, Would you like to call a taxi to go to my bedroom?"[quote]

i guess this would make me smile cos i love guys with a huge sense of humor, nd prolly more of that nd im in love

@ post
i wont advise u to marry her if all d issues u ve listed here are still pending,
better still look for the thread on 'why marriages dont work; the change factor', anyone who sees it pls copy nd past it for him,

wen pple get married they change for the worse nd not for better, one thing u must understand dat when u guys get married, d worse in her is gonna come out, i.i her full rainbow, nd then the quest will be 'can u cope', nw u r already complaining nw,

dont mean to sound mean,, but never marry someone becos of pity or d person was there wen bla bla bla, never swallow SHAME with POISON,

u guys need to talk nd give her tyme,,if it is still d same nd u think u cannot coope berra opt out now, becos d signs r der for u to see nt wen u guys marry u run to nairaland nd say my wife has got an attitude pls help, nobody will listen to u

just a piece of advise, a word is enuf for d unwise kpa kpa

@ poster,
as long as u love her very much and ready to put your foot down becos der would def be oppositions
wahtever floats ur boat

omo u berra tell her, but jokingly sha o,
wen my oda half does his dump, omo d place is always temperarily out of service for like d whole day nd omo d smell wear bullet proof against d strongest air fresher, me wey dey miles away from d loo i don almost die talk less of in d same place, ah nooooo, my oda half tells me to beware sef, lol,

guys who kiss nd tell r obviously bois nd not men with rotten fishes as brains, after u ve finishing telling nd along d line u fall in love wit d gil nd decide to marry her, ow will d other parties told access ur 'wife' to be

@ post
personally i dont think i will accept,
if we have been dating all dis while nd he didnt know he will propose nd nw becos of a job offer, he nw remembers to propose in order to get d job, den something is not adding up,
what if he loses d job after a couple of months, does dat mean he will seek divorce from me or gets another job offer that requires him to be single, he will now present me as his sister abi, like abraham

@ chinesedoll
abeg o, if he is from niger delta hook me up oo, if fiona is still waiting to go to 9ja to ship her ex,

wats ur yim so we can chat

@ chinesedoll
i live in manchester as well, nd dont get to meet urhobos very often, guess we can be friends

@ njazra
omo u need thriple dose of agbo to cure ur shit , men,

@ post
so did she eventually marry the oda person

@ spykecylinder
maybe cotonou or seme

there is a possiblity of falling in love with someone,,,but there is no guarantee that the love will last forever to lead to something tangible, 50/50 chance

[/quote]lol to be honest i onli attended the friday and sunday,and the sunday evening one as well,abeg lets be honest most of the people did for odiri's annointing o ,didnt u see how people were clapping when the man called anyone out instead of them to be praying
but the man is really funny though,
yes i think that falling under the annointing gift is not for every man of GOD and shouldnt be forced,i don't speak in fake tongues just because everybody s doing it cause ill prefer praying in normal english than sinning [quote]

To be honest u missed the best part of d whole prog, ask anyone dat attended mon,tue nd wed nd they tellu dat der was a huge difference, am sorry oh, i dont fall for all dis tricks of telling people specific amount to sow becos u ve prophesied for d person, d gift of prophesy is a free gift from God nd nt tied to any money, imagine he said only tose whho came out r d ones he will prophesy for in d evening, wat is d proof dat d prophesy is real nd why is it only dos dat sowed?

nigerians get carried away wit all dis bull shit all in d name of miracles, men i ve learnt my lesson nd no supposed 'man of God' can toss me about

[/quote]did you hear of it,the one organised by jubilee church?if u missed it men you missed a lot o,ask anyone that was there it was mind blowing
guess you r right tho , i remember when i went to a night vigil at zoe ministeries in nigeria way back and the man literarily pushed me and cause i didnt fall he said i was hardening my spirit [quote]

@ lucrabasi, dis is exacctly wat i am talkin about, misuse of power, it issnt compulsory to fall, if u fall witout anyone touhin u ddat is real, but if d person needs to touch u then there is a chance dat d touch will be a forcefull touch dat wil guarantee u of falling, which imo i dont buy, i ve seen wen pastor continues touchin nd touhin until d person falls just to please d man of God

@ Lucabrasi
i actually attended the whole program, trust me d only part i gained was wen Pastor George Adegboye preached nd Shitta but at some point i was just sick and tired nd besides Odiri has been der before nd it was d same old tin seed sowing, prophesy, but no soul winning, so wat is d whole essence of christainity, is it only miracles or wat

did u attend d whole lot only odiri own for prohesy seeing, lol

all dis dead meat trhingy was all in d old testament and besides after Jesus came all things ve passed away nd become new hence d new testament

left to me oh, falling under the annointing is real, but some pastors misuse it dis days sometimes some church members fake it as well,

d one i am sceptical about is laying of hands, most pastors apply so much force that if u didnt want to fall before sef u will fall,

@ lucrabasi about d event this weekend, i must tell u i was a bit sceptical about all dos annointing things abeg,

wen people fall without anyone touching then it is real, but wen laying of hand is involved i am nt convinced becos pastors ve misused dat one nd wen u dont fall it den becos u r filled with demonic spirit nd need deliverance

@ wokeyim

i totally agree with you, not really understood why pastors shout wen they have mic al to dem self, al dey got to do tell technical team to up d volume, maybe it is a technique to wake people up or rouse people attentions,

but whichever way i think d less shouting and displaying, d easier it is to meditate nd remember al dat has been said, becos to be honest once d shout starts i tend to swith off becos d next tin im tellin myself is dat im nt deaf

@ Lucrabasi
church was really long, but at least they compensated us by giving everyone some sweet jollof rice and a drink, we had 2 guest preachers Rev Isaac Idahosa and Evang Gboyega Shitta and before 10 a.m church and overflow was full to capacity, never seen that seen i started attending d hurch

omo nigerians love people who can see vision for them and miracles upon miracles, nd seed sowing

As for me gonna have three kids nd their name wil be macey ethan erieoluwa (male), Breanna imisioluwa Shayna 9female) and marni inioluwa Dorran(girl) and jarden Ilerioluwa Elmar (male) but not more dan 3 sha o

Leanne - grace, favor (female)
Bre- anna - strong (female)
Eliane- my god has answered (female)
macey - gift (unisex)
ethan- Strong/ enduring (male)
Jaden - Jehova has answered (male)
Analise - Devoted to God (Female)
Marni - Rejoice (female)
Shayna - Beautiful
Dorran gift (unisex)
freda - joy (female)
Elmar - noble and famous (male)

i cant blv dat this woman in question is ur mum,

first things first, u need to be very prayerful and extremely careful, becos wen u try to cut her off she isnt goin to take that lightly wit u nd might resort to diabolical means*****dat is if she already hasnt started,
becos a mom been unhappy on her daughter wedding day needs to be checked becos dat day is every women dream come thru abi,

be very prayerful nd speak to ur pastor if u have one nd try nd cut her off for now though

@ post,
i dont see anything in calling me mum as long as it is not too often and it depends on d context in which it is used,

check out this scenerio

me: sweatheart remember to take the trash on ur way out

hubby: yes mummy

i agree wit Uby

NEVER FAR AWAY BY LAGBAJA
omo wit all dem instruments,it cant but be the best romantic song ever composed

if u r jobless, then keep begging her

and if u r not, then find someone else to occupy ur tyme, becos even if she agrees for u, she is only doing it out of pity nd nt love,

so which wud u prefer

@ nubian
ow can u say der is nothin wit d gil,

she shud ve still followed d guy to d bukka even if she doesnt eat, at least dat one will make d guy no say she at least like am, except d babe na runs gil nd she no wan jam her customers for der, as poster talk say some rich men dey commot from inside d bukka

personally, i will go wit him nd wen he sees i no chop after his meal, he will pity me nd decide to get me my own meal,

but jokes apart, d babe no try if na me be d guy i no go even call am again, becos dis type if u marry am put for house nd moni no dey nd u giv am small moni to manage, she go throw d tin for ya face

even parents are getting smarter now not to interfere, becos if it breaks down d kids run back and blame everything on them even if na dem no arrange demsefs, i had a friend who was stupid enuf to let his parents arrange a gil for him, na so middle of night after an arguement d babe ommot knife ready to kill person, after dat day im pack im bag disappear, con land for him papa house dey accuse am,

so city parents dont get involved nd dat includes mine
so no chance, becos i will blame dem if anytin goes wrong,

ow u go smell am, for d fowl mind, im no dey smell