queencalipso:
. My friend will u just keep quiet how cann u be tired of someone u claim to love annd u call giving her material thinngs love after so many yrs of digging her? Now u are looking for an excuse to dump her annd u r using spending on her to justify ur. Action. Just to mk ur self feel better she was with u whnn u had nothing nw u r a graduate. With a good job u suddenly realise she is not good for enough for u. Op hmm. My advice for u is that u should discuss with her and mk her understand the reason u both need to part ways and pray she understands and agrees with u if not u will be inviting a curse upon ur self and who ever it is u finally tk as a wife if u just dump her like that.





My two cents

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you took the words right out of my mouth.People should be very careful about what they do to others.I'm afraid for him

Its shocking reading the comments here, especially from the ladies.

I wonder the venom the female posters here are all heaping on the man. Is it that many of such ladies are in similar positions, regularly servicing the sexual needs of their man despite the fact that the relationship is nothing more than boyfriend-girlfriend?

If I understand their argument correctly, the fact that he has tasted her fruits makes him obliged to marry her. That they BOTH committed FORNICATION REPEATEDLY is evidently not too important. And they have the audacity to claim the moral high-ground

Honestly some ladies are so egregiously morally bankrupt they should be shot on sight.

Do I pity the lady? Definitely not. Both the man and lady should face the consequences of their actions. simple.

The Biblical standard on the undefiled bed remains. Once your flout it, man or woman, consequences may follow.

ladies, please, KEEP YOUR F**KING LEGS CLOSED UNTIL THE MAN PUTS A F((KING RING ON YOUR FINGER, DAMMIT!!

Leave that thing joor, those guys are maga. I'm sure those ladies see them as maga and don't truly love whoever bought land or car for them. When I no craze.

junell:
He should be ashamed of himself. What is half a million? See him saying half a million like its achievement. Some men have bought lands and other valuables for women they are not married to send he's there making noise.
My advice... He should look for how to spice up his sex life with her because if he's Hot tomorrow, he will still be expecting her to open leg. Useless fellow!

Your cousin is a fool oo



So he wants to dump a good, loyal girl all because some stoopid girls are making him feel like king Solomon.




Just tell him I said he will regret dumping that good girl

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

So SEX is what Makes up Marriage shey? Tell your Cousin, to at least first GROW UP before thinking about Marriage, there are still so many things in life that he has to Learn, and he better pray the girl forgives her

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Davvymavvy:
This idea of a lady placing curse on a guy after jilting her is total bullshit to me. Ladies on this board keep making that erroneous belief that a curse would do anything...nonsense. Don't marry anybody because u pity her, u 'd live to regret it. If it were to be other way round, ladies would be like, move on because she's not meant for u, she does not even deserve you. Follow your heart young man and whatever comes out of it, take it in good faith....she would be fine whether with you or without you, vis visa

My two cents

Don't say things because you want to please him.What he has done is very bad & serious.I have witnessed men who ended up like vegetable with serious repacursion.The woman wash her va'gi'na & pronounced all what she went through &threw the water on the man till today the man is pitifully useless.Instead of telling him that a curse would not work on him,advice him on how to tackle the situation in a peaceful way.

marriedvirgin:
Don't say things because you want to please him.What he has done is very bad & serious.I have witnessed men who ended up like vegetable with serious repacursion.The woman wash her va'gi'na & pronounced all what she went through &threw the water on the man till today the man is pitifully useless.Instead of telling him that a curse would not work on him,advice him on how to tackle the situation in a peaceful way.

Story for the God. If it's like that, both men and women would have been vegetables. The same way guys break up with ladies is the same way ladies do.

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

n so wat,ws he nt meant to take care of his babe,wat kind of guy wont feel good that he can provide for his babe's needs,na wa oo.

Beamborla:
He shouldn't marry the poor girl out of pity only to start cheating on her or maltreating her. He should leave her, biko. We are talking about a life time contract here...

At least he didn't put his signature there. It wound be painful to her but It's for her own Good. Some other cool dude would come along eventually.

If only women would take life as simple and matured as you have, there will definitely be less heartbreaks for them. Nne, may your honeypot not be sucked dry by honey-seeking dudes...

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

stop saying he loves her he was only using her, after sucking every part of her he is now looking for fresh juicy fruit. But I don't blame him since he did not rape her it was her choice to let him in and out of the treasury.

vjsmiles:
if she doesnt spread her pineapple now she is not a sex material but now she has endured your throbbing pencil she is now "not a wife material"...
tell your cousin that he is not a" human being "material

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Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

Ask your cousin if he wants to marry a virgin girlif his answer is yes then he shld convert dt his girl to a virgin bfore leaving her. but if his answer is NO. then wht makes him think the nxt girl hv not enjoyed all marital privileges with another boy

That cousin of yours is a MONUMENTAL ID.IO.T and his PATHOLOGICAL IDIOCY is quite contagious as many other PHENOMENAL IDIOTS like him are out there doing the same thing...

He must marry her! And if he's not prepared to then he must brace up for the BATTLE OF HIS LIFE as that lady no matter how ST.UP.ID she must have been has the authority and power to HAUNT THE FOOL out of that SICK COUSIN OF YOURS!

donedy:


Story for the God. If it's like that, both men and women would have been vegetables. The same way guys break up with ladies is the same way ladies do.

bro no be here u go knw if curse dey work abi e no dey work! Go deliverance ground yu go c enuf...I am a man and i respect the power of women when they take vengeance aftr being betrayed...

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zeb04:
What's the big deal!
Please move on after all she enjoyed the sex too.



That's why you shouldn't engage in all the meningless sex during dating,not all r/ship leads to marriage.

Finally,Nigga dosnt owe her nothing,it was a symbiotc r/ship.

are you sure dis guy isn't the cousin he's talking about, coz he happens to know everything that transpired in the relationship, also probably this lady/girl has aborted a child on one or two occasions

eduj:

Guy ure a bit harsh on the guy.its not like he promised her marriage b4 bedding her besides,the girl enjoyed the sex too.The girl has her self to blame.a wise girl won't allow her guy to Bleep her for so long without at least a formal introduction of families.She gave the guy the advantages of married life without the commitment- tell me y the guy won't bail?what else has that girl got to offer her man to make stick around for marriage?
Its a wonder that with Naija girls addiction to Nollywood some still fall prey to such tricks

Bro I am not hrash on the guy, the OP say he started dating the girl fron secondary school which means he never had plan of marrying the girl. In fact the guy knew very well that he wasn't going to marry her, so, he would have told the innocent girl that this won't lead to marriage long ago. do you think the guy will find an innocent girl in this time and age? Maybe he will get a girl that someone has jilted too as a wife material by pretence. The guy sef act Nollywood by bleeping that girl for so long. Remember once married, it is only one kpekus one will be bleeping unless he planes cheating if not I guess he will get tired of his wife too after many years into the marriage.

JoeCutie:
Even if I sleep with my girl more than Solomon ever slept with women, I still keep track of that thing that actually made me fall in love with her in the first place. I'm still a V sha and she's still a V too. V-mobile.

I remind myself of this everyday: even if I lose everything in my relationship, I should never lose the friendship we share. That's the basic, the stronghold and the epicenter of every successful relationship.

And for people who argue that sex breaks relationships, I'm sorry to burst your bubble; but sex actually solidifies relationship - healthy relationship. If your relationship is based on the desire of the flesh, say you fell in 'love' with your partner simply because he/she is sexy, hot, etc and as such, would be great in bed, I'm sorry because the moment the relationship is consummated, it goes faster than it came. But if you fell in love being friends, no matter how many times you have sex, you can only want more. Why? Cos that wasn't the reason for the relationship, it just happened (as a sort of embellishment). That's why it's always advisable to marry your best friend. Have sex, fight, argue, do whatever, you still are into each other.

Look before you leap.

Lol. Me, V-mobile abi? No problem.....

redcliff:


curse him for what? was she doing him a favor opening her legs for him? she willingly consented to and enjoyed it too! Thats how you females go about with the thought that sex is a favor and should be seen as a tool

You do have a point but why should the females receive the blame most of the time even when both parties are wrong? It beats me

auchomage:
The fact is too much of anything is not good. That Nigga hs explored all d crevices...no new discovery channel...nothing new to look forward to. My guy change channel jaare.

Sex before marriage is wrong...

Lolz @exploring everything... Men sha. He might as well get tired of his lawfully wedded wife after exploring everything...

Ok! Ur take is dat half a mill wld restore d body part slackened by ur cousin? Some men sha with shallow reasoning. Imagine d lady is ur sister? Am sure uld advice an acid bath

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

Ipledge:
If thurnder Fire you or your cousin now,u blame the innocent witches in your village.after sleeping with a girl thousands of time,she no com sweet again.

Tell your cousin or yourself to give d lady 6months break and Bleep another girls(no string attach) then go back to his wife(abi who u won dash,after y Don eat all her goodie goodie).he find pleasure in her

You all should stop talking like one uneducated FOOL, diD the guy enjoy her alone? She also enjoyed him too.

Iamfrank:


Dnt b shocked...... Cz d gal has also enjoyed my cousin...... Accordin to him he has spent almost half a million on ha....... He is tinkin seriously

Biko what is half a million? Since secondary school? And he considers that enjoyment or equal to one thousand times abi? My humble advice.....







Tell him to report to Yaba left.

If he loves her like you said. Then he should go ahead and marry her. My fear right now is your cousin may be listening to too many person and now he is confused. Marriage isn't all about sex

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.

Simply put, he doesnt love her again. He's a very confused guy who doesnt even know the definitions of love

Vikky014:
Ask your cousin if he wants to marry a virgin girlif his answer is yes then he shld convert dt his girl to a virgin bfore leaving her. but if his answer is NO. then wht makes him think the nxt girl hv not enjoyed all marital privileges with another boy

You can't blame him, my girl parked to my house last year claiming she had issue with her dad and promised to stay a week, some months later the issue was resolved and since then she has refused to go back home, she has stayed with me for a year and some months now, I just told her last week (you can not dash yourself to me just like that) it not done, I only wanted to help and now she has refused to leave, that way you can get tired of her ofcourse, because you have everything alright without you guys being married. Each time I tell her to go back home the next thing is insulting and crying, the other time she said we should go and see her people and make it official but OMO BOY never ready, Infact I need an advice too.

I so muchh have dis feeling its you . Buh no waahala sha i just pray anoda badt guy dont do such to ur sis or relatives so u wud knw how it feels to rock someone for many yrs .

Iamfrank:
Please, I need mature advice only

My cousin have been dating his girl friend since secondary school, he is now graduated and have a good job.....

But the problem is, he has slept with this girl like a thousand times and doesn't even enjoy her in bed any longer. He said he has enjoyed all marital privileges with her and now he is scared of getting married to a girl he doesn't have sexual pleasure with.

He is really confused right now as he doesn't know wat to do because he loves her.

Please, mature advice is needed.