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Don't belittle yourself. You deserve to be treated with respect... So pls respect yourself.

I think he made a promise to his main girl, that he wouldn't have sex with any other girl in the house, he's keeping to the promise.

So long as you have enough to accommodate and feed yourself. You can check online for shared apartment for rent, that should be cheaper.

There's a difference between a lady and a prostitute. Ask Fela.

I wonder why any sane person will bring the story of their life to social media....
That's the same thing you are doing now.

Anyway, leave your brother alone to follow his heart, there's a limit to human endurance.

emmeyen:
Why will he not be adamant to reconsile with his wife when you have been opening the door of your house for him? Accept it and lose your sanity and sister's love. Women should stop being women's enemy. That man must indeed be shameless trying to come in between two sisters. Are you not supposed to be on your sister's side in times like this? You see him as a brother and your sister is what? An enemy? Why do women find it comfortable to date their friend's boyfriend and husband? What if the divorce doesn't come through or they get back together and by then mr "brother" has already gotten to your pants. How do you then face your family and your sister? You will now become sworn enemies right? Sister, men never finish for market. Send the buffalo home abeg.

who says the man hasn't had his way with her? She's low, with serious inferiority complex.

For you to even entertain such thoughts, shows you are callous, greedy and evil. Your parents and sister ought to disown you. Shameless leprechaun.

Ps. The man will only use your cheap ass and dump it in the gutter where it belongs.

VULCAN:
I know you don't know how these things work but like most empty barrels that have never travelled before you will make the most noise.

To go and play at Australian Open requires a temporary work visa not a regular travel visa because he will be earning money.

Australia has been on lockdown(both full and partial) for almost 2yrs so the possibility of using a previous temporary work visa is zero.

Even legally, you can't use a temporary work visa more than once as it's tied to the specific work event you are going for.

So he DEFINITELY obtained a NEW VISA for this trip.

So focus your arguments on areas you are knowledgeable about.

Stay in your lane and stop embarrassing yourself. Nairaland is not your village. There are people here that have lived experiences you have only seen on TV

if you had any brains at all, you would shut your mouth and respect your silly self.

Doesn't she have brothers, that will panel beat his god forsaken life?

They are all the same....thieves and murderers in uniform.

Is Mr B a pastor?

These undies aren't yours, show the world your real undies...

Oh dear! I just listened to one of his songs yesterday.

I'm sure she only told her parents you hit her. Her parents will not condone her denying her husband sex.
You also have to find out the reason why she started denying you sex.... If she doesn't love you any more, let her be.
It's not easy, but for now, you must focus on yourself.

It's not every girl that comes around you, you must have sex with. Some might be more beneficial to you in other ways.

I literally had tears in my eyes watching this..... Is this how wayward we have become? I thought prostitution and patronising prostitutes are illegal in Nigeria?

The foolishness of some people on this forum, knows no bounds.. many of the tribalistic monkeys, don't even know where there next meal will come from. Born and bred in ignorance and hatred. Shame on you all.

All these Nigerian girls..

That's how the Taliban started....

Mention their names, or forever hold your peace.

Instead of complaining, why not sit her down and talk to her calmly. Your wife and children are your first priority. The whole 55k is not even enough to take care of the family for a month.
May God open more doors for you financially.

Save yourself.
Once a woman carries a weapon during the course of an argument, be rest assured that you are finished... It's only a matter of time before she will completely finish you.

Run,........

Maybe it's not your brother that owns the money. The wife might be the actual bread winner, and she wouldn't want her husband's family coming to spend her money, thinking it's for my brother.

The best advice is to stay on your lane, you can communicate with your brother over the phone, or you guys can meet somewhere else.

Pay back all the people who scammed. It's called restitution. Ask for forgiveness and hold your peace.

It's no fault of yours.
Everyone has a weakness, it's unfortunate your husband's weakness, will wreck him financially or otherwise.
Seek therapy. It's not a fighting issue, if he is willing to change, therapy will help. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

Don't ever let anything or anyone make you feel less woman. You are beautiful, you are strong, and you will get through this with your head held high.

Odingo1:
So you will work the whole month and give someone that money to enjoy. You guys in Africa is something else. No wonder Africa is least developed people in the world, a lot of gullible people.

pls keep quiet. Op asked a question, and I answered him, how does that translate to the rubbish you just typed?

In other words, your fellow church goers are fake and pretentious, and that's why they got robbed.
Nice.

If you start a new job, the very first salary is your first fruit, and that's it.

You want to chop and clean mouth?

Anyways, just ignore her. If she reports you, deny it. Next time, zip up.

I only see looters.

Shatta wale, might blame Nigerian footballers for Ghana's misery..

What will the buyer use the baby for?