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divinelove:
The only way out if she still wants her husband is to concern 60% ownership to the man. There is serious trust issues already therefore sole ownership by either party is unthinkable in the interest of their marriage

sacramento1212:
Suggesting for the property name to be changed from sole ownership to joint ownership (Mr and Mrs XYZ) was after the fracas and the husband's actions now is based on annoyance. From day 1, that property shouldn't have been in the wife's name alone but a joint name if she wasn't comfortable for it to be in the husband's name.

The husband is selfish no doubt but my opinion is based on what transpired from the onset.

divinelove:
you are his wife so building the house with your name alone is a big red flag, what type of wife does that?

sacramento1212:
Except you guys had a disagreement from the onset, where i fault you was using your name as the sole owner of the property from the onset.

Even if he used his own share of the money for the parents as you indicated, i see no reason why you shouldn't have used Mr & Mrs XYZ as the property owner since you never had any issue with him using his own funds for the parents.

Your husband is upset and i wouldn't advise changing the name at this time since he has refused joint names for the change as that would be dangerous. I suggest you involve families since he told you to pack out of the house which further triggered all these problems.

Finally, your husband's version of what happened might be different from this thread you created but my advise is based on what you have written here.

HEseesall:
When he told me he wants to use his share for his parents, we agreed my share would be used for get a property then we start to build from there and that's what i did, i expected he knows i would use my name cos i keep the documents, now he is saying he wants his own name only NOT JOINTLY, who says that pls, at least i compromised for jointly,

Dantedasz:
Maybe God is Nature?

teewhydope:
lol... nigeria (kit merchant)

LZAA:
Nobody said anything about his nobel prize
Its obvious u are an afonja claiming igbo
Chinua's works are far better than wole's and anyone with a clear mind knows this

angelboy01:
SHORT WORLD CUP STORY

Croatia came to this World Cup with only two natural strikers. Mario Mandzukic, the guy who scored the winner last night was one.

The other was Nikola Kalinic (pictured below).

Kalinic was on the bench for Croatia's first game against Nigeria. With five munites to end that game, coach instructed him to dress up and replace another player.

Kalinic angrily refused to play, in protest of being left on the bench.

He saw himself a top player, and wouldn't come on for just five munites. The coach turned to other player Pjaca for the substitution.

After the match, Kalinic refused to apologize, despite appeals from other coaching staff.

The coach then sacked him from the team, and sent him home from Russia. Kalinic flew for holidays, and even posted pictures of himself enjoying elsewhere.

After all, he seem to imagine Croatia won't go anywhere in the tournament. But without him, the team managed to win their matches.

Last night, Croatia achieved their greatest football achievement in history, reaching the World Cup final.

The remaining 22 players are national heroes. Their names forever inscribed in the hearts of generations.

Kalinic is not part of the winning team all because of minutes of anger, pride and bloated ego.

He may have regretted now but it is too late. These stories about life are quite familiar to us, but do we really learn lessons from them? As they profoundly apply to all spheres of life?

Learn to cut pride, learn to control anger and deflate ego. And ultimately, learn to say SORRY.

Years of sweat and dedication can all be shattered by moments of anger and pride.

Don't be a Kalinic

KAHBOOM:
Ah Ah! Nawa o..its not fair oo..None from the ewedu region..Even from dia reverd noble laurette winner wale soyinka, the white hair pirate.

GoTV:
I will soon convert to Islam. Tired of this Christianity.

purefact:
Beloved, Is better your Aunt go for medical treatment, and pray for the grace of God to go with her, than wait for a film show from the cenimagoogle. There is no healing there, it is only make believe and touch and fall of occult power of TBJ.

My wife and myself have chosen the right step, by going for an IVF in our own case of tube blockage(hydrosalpinx).

I pray that God Almighty will expose those who are deceiving his children in the name of healing, and protect those who discover fake healing and decided to speak out, in Jesus name, Amen

LaDolceVida:
You're on point.
No hard feelings though,
just wanna get past this stage soon enough

LaDolceVida:
Right.
I learnt that the hard way

Moneyspeakingz:
"it is more bless to give than to receive" Who is this guy deceiving with this comment? Abegi,Person wey pass you pass you. he just want to act humble so that he won't be disgraced. Who go get player like Cr7 kan dey drag number with ham? if I slap you ehn

Butterflyleo:
2nd Timothy 2:23

But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes.

Brethren that is the Lords command to you.

Many of you are not able to endure insults or harsh words being used against you so in an effort to avoid being exposed to such which would lead you to sin, then avoid such scenarios such as this one.

We are not called to debates but to preach the word of God and the love of God.

Do not waste your time on fruitless debates which many seem to love.

Ignore this thread and keep your sanity and preserve the righteousness of God in you.

A person who holds a subjective morality shouldn't be asking you about your objective morality. If they wish to discuss it, then they should become objective like you otherwise all you would have would be fruitless arguments.

Shalom and God bless you all.


https://www.nairaland.com/4592174/warning-all-christians

Muzanga:
If she was Nigerian now all these nairaland small boys with inferiority complex will start calling her ashawo.

0temSapien:
What I understand as God is not a part of existence, but a whole of EXISTENCE.
The summation of everything in Existence is what I understand as God. Anything short of this is just a fragment of God i.e Allah, Yahweh, Vishnu, Moloch, Olorun, Eshu, Chimides, Atum, You, Me, Animals, Sand, stone, water, wind... etc are just some insignificant fragments of God(EXISTENCE).

TarOrfeek:
If Armed robbers enter your house now.

Na the same you go still shout 'Blood of Jesus'