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Romance › Re: Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Martinez39(op):
... continued

There is a time for everything. Common sense says that, as a man, you should build yourself first and when you are okay, you can settle down in marriage. Hollywood love stories will dictate that love and relationships are okay even when you are 13. What misplacement of priority! At a very young age when you should building yourself, the search for "the one" with whom you will spend the rest of your life with is unnecessary, overrated and overly romanticised. It's a stupid fad.

The reason why true love and true friendship exist only in movies and novels is because in fantasy land, it is easy to write and think away challenges and you can orchestrate events to be convenient and have a happy ending. In real life, you can't do that. Love and friendship are easy during childhood and teenage periods because challenges are not there yet and mummy and daddy are taking care of everyone. When life starts happening, you will see that it's everyman for himself. Life is not easy. Some would have cried "but he was my friend and I did a lot for him. Why did he betray me?" or "after all I did for her, how could girlfriend abandon me when I needed her support?" what is happening? Life has happened. If you don't know these things, you will be played like a fool and you might lose a lot. If you know, you know.

You won't miss anything if you spend your teenage years and early twenties building up yourself and you marry later. So forget girls and work on yourself. Anytime you are ready to marry, there will always girls that are available. Stop wasting your fresh years on one girl that won't even be there when you go broke. Is it written anywhere that you must be in a relationship in your teenage years and early twenties?

Young boys, build yourself. Wake up.
Romance › Boys Get In Here. Your Mumu Must Do. by Martinez39(op):
Why is it that people always fail to learn? grin Why is it that boys don't always think properly when it comes to this thing called love? Let me tell you something, romance, sex and getting into a relationship are overrated. They are not bad but they are overrated.

If you are not rich and you are training a girl through school, feeding her and making sure she is okay financially because you think you will marry her, you are a big f00l. Even if she told you that she loves you and will marry you, you are still a big f00l. What is the guarantee that she will marry you at the end? Does she not have a father? He who gives birth to a child must train the child.

If you are an undergraduate, you got a girlfriend and you are spending your pocket money on your girlfriend to make her comfortable and even meeting her financial needs, you are a f00l. Does she not have a father? Can't she go and hustle? Why must you take up the role of her father? Is her father not a man?

If you defer your admission because you want to use the tuition fee your father gave you to pay the tuition of your broke girlfriend, you are a f00l and you have selfishly made your father a scapegoat who has indirectly and unwillingly taken up the responsibility of your girlfriend's father. If you defer your admission so that you can hustle to pay her school fees and yours, you are a f00l. Why don't she hustle instead? What happened to her father?

If she says "no sex till marriage" and you agree or can't at least say "no spending till marriage," you are a f00l. If she says that she is afraid of getting used, are you not afraid of getting used? grin If she does it for religious reasons, you close your wallet for sacred reasons. grin

If as a young man, you haven't established yourself but you have a girlfriend and you are spending a large part of the money you are making on your girlfriend, you are a f00l. Can't you leave out a relationship for now and establish yourself? Won't you still see women after you have made it? Where is it written that you must marry that particular girl? Girls plenty. Wake up!

If you borrow and go into debt because you want to please your girlfriend, you are a f00l. If you shoulder the financial responsibility of your girlfriend and her family, you are a f00l. Can't she hustle? Can't her father hustle? Is he not a man? Can't her mother hustle?

If you think it's your responsibility to spend on her, her siblings and parents, because you are the boyfriend, you are a f00l? Where is it written that you are the one to spend on her? Where?

If your good mother is sick and you are splashing money on a girlfriend, you are a f00l?

If you got a well paying job after you graduated and you think it's the right time to get a girlfriend to spend and build a family, you are a f00l. What if they sack you tomorrow? Why not save, invest and grow a business?
Seriously, when growing up, boys are usually brainwashed by society through the media and romance novels that love exists and it's a must have. Boys fall for this brainwashing and project this ideal called love on girls. Boys love ideally. Girls don't fall for this brainwashing because they know, by their nature, that they are not messing around with a broke man therefore the love the media is portraying can't be true. Nothing like "for better for worse" with girls as long as a higher bidder is available.

The result of this is that in the field of relationships, boys become the fools and make themselves available to the manipulation of girls. Boy are drunk on an illusion called love while girls are realistic from day one. In a university for example, what do most broke and struggling girls do? They, in addition to other hustles, enter a relationship with one mumu and they cunningly heap their financial burdens on the mumu. "please I have a problem. I am stranded and I need a phone. Just give me part of money and I will complete the remaining" this simply means "I want you to singlehandedly get me a new phone." Most of these boys do not know that their princess is hopping from one dick to the other gathering money and at the end of the day, they will go to the highest bidder.

One thing boys must realise is that, just like true friendship, true love doesn't exist. Girls will only love you on two conditions: 1) you have plenty money to spend on them, 2) you show a great potential to acquire plenty money in the nearest future(this is why, in many universities, medical students have the most attention from girls compared to students of "lesser" courses, this why talented soccer youngsters get the attention of girls). If these two things are lacking, no girl will want to spend her life with you no matter how handsome or morally upright you are. Am I saying that girls should marry broke boys? No! All I am saying is that boys should realise that they are not in the equation of anything except when they can provide. All your sacrifices for her in the past mean nothing if you are broke. If you know, you know.

Even if you saw her through school and gave out one of your kidneys to save her life, she will still leave when you don't have money and you show no potential to acquire plenty cash anytime soon. So boys should stop this thing called love and relationship and focus on building and establishing themselves. When you have made it, you can pick a wife. Girls plenty. Don't look for the one that loves you, look for the one that can be a good mother and wife. You have not missed anything if you didn't date in your teenage years and early twenties so spend your vibrant years building up yourself, working on yourself and financially establishing yourself instead of finding one entitled princess and spending on her in the name of a relationship. True love doesn't exist. Sex, romance and getting into a relationship are overrated. Nothing dey there.

... to be continued.
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Apostle Suleman’s Private Jet by Martinez39(m): 5:24pm On Apr 23, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
What's funny
Nevermind.
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Apostle Suleman’s Private Jet by Martinez39(m): 4:47pm On Apr 23, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I believe these churches have their welfare department.
Lol. grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Obama And Hillary Clinton Called Out Over Sri Lanka Church Bombings by Martinez39(m): 8:14pm On Apr 22, 2019
JudasNaCarrot:
God punish you and that your Mo' Ha-MAD the rapist.
Helinues asked a legitimate question. grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Obama And Hillary Clinton Called Out Over Sri Lanka Church Bombings by Martinez39(m): 8:11pm On Apr 22, 2019
coolcharm:
That's the weak side of liberalism.

Biko, is Easter a religion that will have worshippers?

They wanted to sound diplomatic at the same time smart but ended up looking foolish.

They need some balls to be able to call a spade a spade. Donald Trump can lend them some if they are humble enough to ask. grin
Liberalism is a dangerous mental illness.
Education › Re: Using " Area Boy" Song,Or Your Unique Way. Solve The Area (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2019
ifada123:
u are very correct, show workings so that people can learn from u
I don't know basic geometry like you so I used algebra and calculus. My working is long and involves differentiation. No vex. grin. Show your workings sir.
Family › Re: Should I Save My Marriage Or Let Go? by Martinez39(m): 4:49pm On Apr 22, 2019
prizequest:
CONTINUED...after she divorced her first husband, we clicked and i collected the marriage list but somehow even when the family gave me the list they introduced her to a more wealthier guy whose business concern affect the family fortune positively but the engagement failed and my wife ran back to me. During the course of her engagement to the other guy my wife kept delaying our ceremony, no longer visit and her family wont tell me any meaningful excuse not until the engagement was put off and she ran back to me and we immediately commenced the marriage process. It Was a week after marriage i discovered everything and despiced her sexually.
Oga this your marriage will not work. She is not for you and your in laws no be better people. Stop being a f00l and leave the marriage. Make that big decision.

We have been separated 4 months now but the mom had been calling and begging we reconcilled even employing a marriage counsellor for us but the dad had been indiferent and my wife though pompous had shown signs of reconciliation but wont apologize for the irrational actions that sent her away.
Now the mother is begging? Where was she when your bride was placed for the higher bidder? Why is your father in law angry? What the hell is wrong with him? Leave that marriage. You deserve the best and nothing less. Despite everything, she is still stubborn and rude and have the audacity to make a silly demand and fight you for not meeting that demand. Hian!

There can be reconciliation BUT DO I NEED IT
You need to walk away. Don't wait Untill children are involved.
Education › Re: Using " Area Boy" Song,Or Your Unique Way. Solve The Area (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2019
The area is 2 units².

Cc. Ifada123
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Billionaire Buries Dead Girlfriend With Hummer Instead Of Coffin -photo by Martinez39(m): 6:46am On Apr 22, 2019
Vanity upon vanity.

Crime › Re: I Killed My Wife Because She Planned To Remarry After My Death by Martinez39(m): 5:54am On Apr 22, 2019
When atheists like me say that sincere and wholehearted embrace of religious beliefs is harmful, moderates, who don't even take their religion seriously, will start debating me.
Christianity Etc › Re: He Heard Sounds Of People Screaming In Hell by Martinez39(m): 4:26am On Apr 22, 2019
The lies men tell.
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 2:25am On Apr 22, 2019
IFADA123: THE MASTER OF SHAPES

Ifada, Ifada, Ifada
Tell me who the hell is your father.
With the shape questions you gather,
Yout make our brains think harder.




I salute the master of shapes. grin
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 2:21am On Apr 22, 2019
ifada123:
Tangents on the center of a circle (formed by diameter) will never intersect, they are parallel
You are indeed the master of shapes. Tuale. Bring more shapes.
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 2:08am On Apr 22, 2019
ifada123:
Ok thank you sir,
Look forward to my next shape by later today
How do you know that |BC| = |CF|? the point of intersection is not necessarily the centre of the small circle. I guess that's where you got it wrong. What say you?
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 2:02am On Apr 22, 2019
ifada123:
|GAl and |GF| are tangents to the small circle which intersect at G so the lines are equal,
Check this out
Thus the assumption is correct Sir
You are correct. I was referring to another line segment. My bad.
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m): 1:57am On Apr 22, 2019
ifada123:
|GAl and |GF| are tangents to the small circle which intersect at G so the lines are equal,
Thus the assumption is correct Sir
|GA| is a tangent but |GF| is not necessarily a tangent. |GF| will be a tangent is it passes through the centre of the small circle. How do you know that it passes through the centre of the small circle?

Even if both are tangents, they will not necessarily be equal. It is possible for both to be tangents and still not be equal. The methods I used in algebra and calculus made no assumptions and went straight to the point. I cross-checked my workings many times and the length of the chord is (15/7)a units.
Education › Re: Any Idea To Solve This Drop It, Shape is Beautiful, Try This Out (mr Shape) by Martinez39(m):
@ifada123

? = (15/7)a

My working is not basic and lengthy so I can't show it here. I used algebra and calculus and I cross-checked my workings many times. Can you show your workings?

Edit: I have seen your working. The assumption that |BC| = |CF| is wrong. It renders your result invalid.
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Celebrating Winning The Serie A Title With The Juventus Squad by Martinez39(m): 4:13am On Apr 21, 2019
What killed Juventus this season are their shabby defence, manageable midfield and tactical deficiency from the coach. Ronaldo knew this himself hence he called for a squad overhaul. If Juventus must win the UCL next season, they must build their defence and solidify their midfield. A coach with the right and effective tactical diversity must be employed. Their wins in the Seria A were not even convincing as they were not the stuff of champions.

How can a coach not know how to properly utilise Dybala and Mandzukic? grin
Nairaland General › Re: The True Test Of Friendship... The Few Unpopular Truths... - Meme List by Martinez39(m): 2:38am On Apr 21, 2019
ajimo54:
True sayings. I was betrayed by 3 different friends at every stage in my life. I believe that no true friendship exists!
True love and true friendship do not exist. Girls will love you only if you have money that will be spent on them. Friends will hang around when the going is green and they are benefitting from you but they will disappear when the going is hard. Everyone has their price. That's the truth.

This thread of mine would be worthwhile.
Romance › Re: The Lack Of Money Is The Major Problem That Destroys Marriages In Nigeria by Martinez39(m): 3:24pm On Apr 20, 2019
No girl can love a broke man and marriage cannot work without money. These are two things. The former is a red pill philosophy and the latter is common sense. A family is an economic unit, without money, suffering abounds in such units.
Webmasters › Re: It Cost Facebook $22 Million To Keep Mark Zuckerberg Safe Last Year by Martinez39(m): 2:52pm On Apr 20, 2019
enemyofprogress:
I mean I want him to adopt me as his mail sun, one of his childrens
Mail sun grin.
Webmasters › Re: It Cost Facebook $22 Million To Keep Mark Zuckerberg Safe Last Year by Martinez39(m): 2:45pm On Apr 20, 2019
enemyofprogress:
I will like this guy to adopt me as his sun
The one he has is effectively serving our solar system. No need for you.
Travel › Re: If You Haven't Entered Plane At 40, Life Has Passed You - Nigerian Man by Martinez39(m): 2:32pm On Apr 20, 2019
The worship of foreign things and foreign countries is a sign of inferiority complex and backwardness.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Tottenham Hotspur (1 - 0) On 20th April 2019 by Martinez39(m): 1:18pm On Apr 20, 2019
Kulas:
I am a core man City fan,but honestly speaking,i dont appetite of watching this Match and and OTHER matches again till the begining of new season since we were crashed out by Spurs last wednesday 4-4 aggregate.

I tell you that since then i dont even have appetite to eat because of the heartbreak when i thought we will reach final and be crowned as UCL Champions

I have not get a greatest shock in Football than last wednesday City Crash out. I am yet to recover from such a shock
Considering the fact that you guys had all it took to land the quadruple. The usual Pep Guardiola bad luck in the semis and quarterfinals.
Education › Re: Easy one, At Least You Should See One Of My Shapes U Can Solve (mr Shape) SOLVED by Martinez39(m): 1:06pm On Apr 20, 2019
Haba, this is simple. The area of the yellow whatever is 9 unit². grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by Martinez39(m): 8:53am On Apr 20, 2019
raumdeuter:
Your education is an investment into your future and as with every investment, you put something into it

When you start making millions from your investment, you keep the bulk of your money

While some people are taking loans to study Medicine, Law, Engineering, Finance and Science, Some are taking these loans to study Tree climbing, How to watch Television, Angry white Male Studies, Surfing Science, Pop culture, Comedy and Professional Nannying. And you expect them to do this for free?

https://www.ccn.com/angry-white-male-studies-class-at-university-of-kansas-stirs-backlash
grin

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