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freethinker01:
can u just imagine that? I provoke u, u provoke me, let the provocation cycle continue.

No. You need to teach women that if they are going to embrace equality then they have to take responsibility for their actions and they are not getting free passes because they have a vagina. If you slap me, I will slap so that you will think twice next time.

ecstasy357:
If na guy slap u and u nor respond, dem go call u lazy guy o....

Gender equality says we should see all ladies as guys.

Bro, u nor try shall...na woman she be. Even if we dey talk bout equality, we all know that we ain't truly equal. She knows too that's why she can't stop shouting "equality"

This exactly what I am talking about ---- giving free passes to irresponsible women. Are we for equality or not? If we, as society, embrace equality then let's stick to it. No compromises. Women have been hammering on equality, we have given it to them, let's follow it completely and ensure that they take responsibility for their actions. Nothing like "she is a woman sha." Is society for equality or not? No half way equality.

freethinker01:
That Cardi b issue really struck me, it's obvious the laws in US doesn't only protect the women from taking responsibility for their actions but as well the laws were made to emasculate men. It's very pathetic how their lots crave so much for gender equality but the responsibility that comes along with it. Reminds me of a scenario where a girl and I were arguing some few years back, I only said women don't have integrity what they only do is talk with no action, didn't know I've already stuck a nerve with that statement, the next thing was a slap in my face, nah, I won't take that shit from anyone Motherfuka, I returned it with 3 massive slaps that left her face sore, I was like what effrontery. To my dismay, people around were just blaming me that I shouldn't have touched her that I should have let it slide, seriously!? What amazes me more was that even most guys said the same thing.

Good that you gave her that slaps. Don't mind the rεtards who were putting the blame on you. The most painful thing is that men were likely part of those putting the blame on you. Any girl that goes about slapping men had better not mind being slapped in return.

I remember two events I watched :
1) On a game show in India, a girl got angry at a man and started shouting at him. She went close to him pointing her hands aggressively on his chest while shouting at him. She slapped and the man slapped back. Guess what? Many men, about 17 of them ganged up against him, slapped him and hit him while shouting and condemning him. No one questioned the girl for slapping the man. As I have said, such compromises in gender equality happens when men yield to irresponsible women in giving free passes to women.

2) A guy and four girls were discussing about violence against men. The guy said his opinion which the girls didn't agree with. Guess what? One of the girls drank water from her water bottle and spilled it on the guy from her mouth. The guy was upset, told them to go away and said "I hate you guys."
The girls went apologising saying "we are sorry but you should not have provoked her."

MJBOLT:

the annoying part is that a large part of the society @bolded are men

Exactly! As I said in my OP, such compromises in gender equality are possible if men (whom I refer to as simps or beta men) yield to irresponsible women in giving free passes to women even at the expense of men.

@ecstasy357

WOMAN : I am not a man's slave and I am not obliged to do the house chores for my husband. He should also learn to cook, wash and do other house chores. I believe in gender equality.
SOCIETY : Nice! Empowered and progressive woman. Go girl.

MAN : I am not obliged to be my girlfriend's ATM. I am not obliged to cover the finances alone. The woman should also contribute to the financial upkeep of the house. I believe in gender equality.
SOCIETY : Shameless man, broke man. You are not a man if you can't spend on your woman. You no dey shame. It's a man's duty to provide.

ecstasy357:
In Edo state a bill has been passed into law;

if any man touches a woman, he goes to jail. If a woman accuses a man of molestation, same thing happens.

Where is this "gender equality" please?

When a girl ask a guy for money and he turns her down, they call.him stingy

When a guy ask a girl for money...he is seen as unproductive and lazy.

I'm angry.

I am sure it's likely a man that authorised such bill. This has happened because Edo men folded their arms and allowed/supported irresponsible women to give such free pass to women. Compromises in gender equality are made possible when men yield to irresponsible women.

ubunja:
I think I also saw that video. Is it a British show? And the guy was this slender guy with a little girlish voice?

Exactly! It's a British show.

ubunja:
I think I also saw that video. Is it a British show? And the guy was this slender guy with a little girlish voice?

Exactly! It's a British show.

CAPSLOCKED:
THE SAME WOMEN THAT SAY IT IS DISRESPECTFUL FOR A MAN NOT TO KNEEL DOWN WHEN PROPOSING TO A WOMAN, ARE THE SAME WOMEN THAT ARE FIGHTING AGAINST WOMEN KNEELING DOWN FOR THEIR HUSBANDS DURING WEDDINGS.

These feminists are so obsessed about showing that they would bow to no man or no man can boss them even when no one gives a fvck. They see oppression even when it isn't there. They are proud and egoistic manics.

I remember watching The Jeremy Kyle Show where a man was talking about how his wife domestically abused him. I remember he said "... my wife threw me from the balcony and I fell landing in the garden." Guess what? The audience burst into laughter. Jeremy Kyle immediately corrected them saying that he doesn't see why they should laugh that had the genders been reversed, the reaction would have been different. There was an immediate silence and the guy continued narrating his ordeal. What a compromise of gender equality and this happen because many men let and support irresponsible women in giving free passes to women.

PRESENTATION:
People are staning for a mad woman who openingly bragged about drugging, raping and robbing men. They say her life was bleeped up and people don’t know half of what she went through to life such life style.

Why didnt she work 2 or 3 jobs combined ? Or raping, drugging and stealing is the only way out of poverty ? These set of people are the first to call out Bill Cosby for an allegation and man be chilling in jail now, nobody staning for him.

People still fail to understand that what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

That mad woman is cardi b that loves shouting

Exactly. I read about the Cardi B story. Bill Cosby is in jail for drugging and raping women but Cardi B gets a free pass because she's a woman. People are even rationalising her case. Had a man said something like that, he would have been in huge trouble by now.

You asked "Why didnt she work 2 or 3 jobs combined ? Or raping, drugging and stealing is the only way out of poverty ?" Well, as I said, a lot of women would overlook that because taking responsibility for their actions isn't in their blood. Even men are among those supporting Cardi B ----- talk about men betraying their fellow men when it comes to gender equality.

Rahman was a good boy, I'm sure they corrupted him.

Padosky200:
if I have been given the money spent by my father on my head from year1 to NYSC to start up a business... believe me... by now I for don buy at least one car.... with many jobless people under me as apprentice

This is what they always say. You think business is easy and is for everybody.

JONNYSPUTE:

Why you dey shine eye for here?

ubunja:
I saw the two videos you're talking about on youtube and they were really sad.
The people who ignored the man being attacked were asked later why they acted when the woman was attacked but did nothing when the man was attacked replied they thought whatever the man did he deserved it. Those videos open a man's eyes like nothing will.

Men have been trained to be women's toy soldiers, always ready to defend for no pay

As in. Seeking the validation of pussy is a serious problem for many men.

@bold

We all know that gender equality is a good thing but why is it that most women only want the good parts of equality but readily run away from responsibility? Why does society give them free passes? Why does society betray gender equality? I remember seeing two social experiments and one real life situation that exposed the hypocrisy of a society that claims to support gender equality. Here is what happened :

1) 1st Social Experiment : A man was physically harassing a woman on the streets and as he did that, men and women, mostly men, came to the woman's rescue and they were yelling at the man "you can't do such here, it's not allowed." After they had separated them, they asked the woman if she was alright. They were really concerned.
When the genders were reversed, no one came to help the man. People just looked with surprise as if they had seen a ghost and kept on walking. Some kept looking without helping the man out. Then the most shocking thing happened, a man passing joined in to hit the man and walked away ---- I kid you not.
2) 2nd Social Experiment : The same thing happened only that no one joined to hit the man.
3) This one was a story shared on nairaland were a woman was raping a man in public. Luckily for the man, another man came to help but I noticed another man was calmly watching before the intervention and he did nothing throughout. Imagine if it had been a man raping a woman, the public would have given the male rapist the beating of his life and he would have been shamed all over the Internet.

Why is it that when a man sexually touches or kiss a woman without her permission he is severely punished by society but when a woman does it, nothing happens? People, men including, joke about it and even insinuate that the man should be happy to have such free enjoyment and he should be glad. What happened to equality? If a woman screams rape in the market place and points at a man without evidence, he is in trouble especially if she is very dramatic. If a man accuse a woman of rape in our society, some would mock and laugh at him for being weak or not being able to recognise the "pleasurable privilege" his female rapist(s) is giving to him. This has to stop and we need to start taking equality seriously. If it's wrong for a man to hit a woman, it is also wrong for a woman to hit a man. If it is disgusting for a man to rape a woman, it is disgusting for a woman to rape a man. Society should stop shaming male rape victims as weak and female rapists should face the same condemnation as male rapists.

Another way society has betrayed equality is seen in gender roles when it comes to relationships. While society has agreed that a woman is not obliged to do the house chores, cook or wash for her man and men should learn to do these things, society had failed and resisted the introduction of equality in the responsibilities of a man to his woman. Society screams "women are not men's slave and it's not their inherent duty to cook, clean and tidy the house for her husband" but society screams "if you can't spend money on your girlfriend or wife, you are not a man and it's the duty of a man to provide. If you love your girlfriend, you will spend on her." Why can't society support the idea of equality and insist that men don't owe women a dime and it's not a man's inherent duty to provide? Why doesn't society insist that women too should contribute financially and can be the bread winners? Isn't it about equality? This seems like a harsh truth that society doesn't like address. Society thinks men should take part in keeping the home but thinks the man is shameless to have his woman provide for him. So much pressure and exploitation of men in relationships. Men buy into this rubbish all in the name of love and then end up committing suicide when they get dumped after investing so much money. Why should you, as an undergraduate, pay a girl's school fees when her father is still alive? True love?

Why does this happen? Simply hypocrisy. Why support gender equality when you can't truly keep it? Things like this happen when men don't stand up for their fellow men when it comes to gender equality but give irresponsible women free passes even at the expense of their fellow men. Why is it that in the USA and other parts of the world, if a girl accuses a guy of rape without evidence, he goes to jail and can spend years for a crime he didn't do? Even if the girl is caught lying, she is allowed to walk away free. Sometimes, it is proven that the girl lied but the man still stays in jail. Why is it that men have to give women half of what they own during a divorce even when the woman has two hands and legs to go and hustle? If the man can't pay, he goes to jail and many men are in jail because they can't pay child support and alimony. Many men are in prison for rape they didn't commit. If turns out that the child support a man was paying was paid over a child that wasn't his, he still has to keep on paying and the woman is never prosecuted for paternity fraud. In France, the leftist country and soon to be Islamic caliphate, it is illegal to get a DNA test for your own child. What free passes for irresponsible women and betrayal of men despite the so called support for gender equality. Later, people wonder why the MGTOW movement is gaining momentum. Notice who always benefit from these gender equality compromises ------- the female.

There is this movement called the #metoo movement and another #believewomen (google it) meaning that any accusation a woman brings up against a guy should be believed and that a woman cannot lie about sexual assault. I kid you not, these happen and many men have been destroyed by this. Is this not madness?

What's more shocking is that many men support these nonsense and can be seen at the rallies voicing their support for this ridiculous garbage. As I have said, things like this happen because men and irresponsible women have joined hands to give women free passes even if it means using men as the scape goats. Men must know what gender equality is and start standing for it without compromise. Responsible women must call out irresponsible women who are hypocrites when it comes to equality. Many women should make up their minds on whether they want equality. Wanting equality without taking responsibilities and facing consequences is like wanting free speech but censoring speeches that offend you or don't agree with you. I know rεtards will come to attack me but if you truly support gender equality, you will agree with me that society can do better when it comes to gender equality. Gender equality should not be enforced only when it comes to academic careers and vocational skills.


Cc. Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, Ishilove, abeg just carry this thing put for front page tomorrow morning. E no hard.

One of the hardest things a man who has been in the spotlight can do is to ignore shame and pressure and bend down his head to hustle. Kudos.

BLUEJAYY:
If I had a second chance I'd have chosen computer science over medicine I swear!

Why? I see a lot of medical graduates wishing that they went for something else. What could be the reason? Please put me in perspective.

freemanbubble:
See as the doctors cute
Sometimes when i see doctor on white
The thing go just dey pain me
Na medicine and surgery i be want read o

Untill uniben change my destiny

Imagine uniben go throw me all the way to computer science

Everyday na im i take dey dull for the department
One thing i nor know. No programming language dey enter my head.
Fortran D
Pascal D
Assembly language F

But las last i go dey alright
After all nor be education be the only way to succeed in life

If you are serious about it, get a JAMB form. In med school, you will see much older people studying and graduating from medical school with MBBS and BDS.

ImaIma1:
Easy tiger!

The point i am making is that one party should not be redundant while the other keeps getting upgraded. Whether you agree or not, they cannot relate effectively well as spouses. There will be a lot of leaving the spouse behind for events, not being able to watch a movie together (while one wants Africa magic Yoruba, the other wants Comedy Central).

Don't get me wrong...the marriage could last forever but many things that could foster bonding will be absent. You might think what i said is vain and childish but it is the sad reality.

I understand your write up but I was talking about going to events.

Messi has been fantastic this season. Dribbles, free kicks and assists everywhere.

candlewax:
That is quite commendable, if you've made money,
please help the needy. It's not because of a big God up there but because you will be saving a life

The needy should go and work and stop giving birth to children that they can't take care of. Nobody owes the needy a dime.

ImaIma1:
Both parties need to develop themselves along the process. So that they would be on the same level of understanding and no one will feel left behind when they cannot match the standard.

No one would want to take someone who is below standard to important functions to avoid disgrace.

If you feel disgraced about your spouse whom you claim to love then you are not the right person for your spouse since people's validation are more important to you than your spouse. Sincerely, this is a vain and childish thing to say. You must not act like everyone.

She leaves you when you are broke, when she becomes very rich or when a higher bidder comes --------------- she's a hoe.
She sticks with you and when you become rich ---------------- she's a liability.

Ilamina:
Both

Wow. You went to Pakistan?

Open a game centre with spot for charging phones. Get the right location.

Ilamina:
Beginning to think Pakistan is the greatest country in the world

Pakistanis outside Pakistan or Pakistanis living in Pakistan?

Did she rub Nutella on her face in the third picture?

talkme:
Bro, when it comes to helping people as regards jobs and others the muslims are doing it with passion but we christians find it difficult to help a fellow that is down with all the requirement. We pretend a lot.

The worst hypocrites are christians and catholics are the champions of hypocrisy. I know first hand that Muslims love themselves more than christians and during job interviews, many Muslim bosses hire Muslim workers. Though there are bad eggs but they are better towards one another.

Christians manipulate, scam, steal and betray each other but some how you see them lifting their hands in worship during church service as if they are holy and are serious about the faith. Forget about the christian label, don't put down your guard because someone calls himself a christian. In many cases, the label and outlook is used deliberately as a cover for something sinister on the inside.