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We could have beaten Liverpool FC. They were lucky. I hope Liverpool will start respecting their elders (Manchester United) from henceforth.

JasperVII:
Those people have killed us. Feeding us with bullshit on a daily basis. And some people still buy that idea as what real love is/should be like(The kind of posts I see on WhatsApp statuses comes to mind).

That's why the red pill is important. Going into relationships and marriage, people have an unrealistic expectation about females based on their ignorance of female nature. The blue-pill agents I listed are ensuring this.

JasperVII:
The guy and his friends dey tight corner. It's just a matter of time before e go sup

Their wives have almost done a praying mantis on them, if you know what I mean.

MJBOLT:

I'm sure if someone had mentioned the red pill to them before marriage,they would have given the person NAWALT logic and statements

Or back then our parents and relatives who are bluepilled would point to the "blissful" early periods of his and his friends marriages to disprove the red pill. The most important thing is that the guy has woken up. I hope he is prepared to take everything he sees here.

CuteRat:
Is it redpill-permitted to marry a woman of higher class;
a woman with more money
More income
And more influence? What should you do when your fiancée is making more income than you, should you continue with the marriage?
Is there a way a man could tame her and bring her into submission?

A woman who has more money than you and has a higher status will not select you as a husband. Her hypergamous nature will seek a higher male. Women marry their best financial options higher than them.

If you started out higher than your wife and she started earning better than you during the marriage and her status surpasses yours, the disrespect and resentment from her towards you will build up. When a man has all the wealth and status, he tries to make them reflect on his wife and kids; in the case of a woman, she looks upon her husband with disdain and pride and asks herself "is he the best I can do?" It is what it is. A wife with a higher cash worth and higher status cannot respect her husband.

In other news, hear this:
Red pill: "Nothing builds resentment and disrespect to a husband greater than when his wife brings home the bacon (ie. when she is the breadwinner). The resentment and disrespect will come from the wife"

I am sure Hollywood, Nollywood, IrokoTV, romance novels and Disney have painted women to be beings who can love you as much as you love them, and they are equal partners who should run things equally in the household (no male authority), and they are selfless and considerate enough to lend you a helping hand in your down times and make sacrifices for you. This is BUUULLLLLSSSSHIT.

Edit: any gift or financial assistance she renders you comes with conditions: you must pay back or give her something in return. Besides, when she does that or some breadwinner role, she will continuously drum it over your head and to everyone when the opportunity presents itself.

Mizzyliz:
Damn.....

This is painful man

It is painful. I am sure like most men, naenaesosa and his friends loved their wives and are ever willing to make sacrifices for them, but they don't know that their wives don't love them and won't do shi shi for them when they face hard time. Their wives are living the "strong independent women" lifestyle while they have naenaesosa and his friends as financial pocket handkerchiefs "just in case." Such is the harsh truth of life.

naenaesosa:
* Friend A's marriage is over because business took a hit, wife works a 9-5, couldn't weather the storm with him and the insults started.
* Friend B's wife was recently caught cheating with a "bigger boy" with Gwagon. My friend is a hustling guy that drives the big yansh camry. Granted he married an instagram slay mama. I think she fell in love with the lifestyle of the gang (rolling together like a unit, child naming parties at each others houses etc and the trappings of having rich friends)
* Friend C's wife works in an oil company. He pays the bills and she keeps all her money. Business is suffered setbacks in 2020, asked wife for help she refuses but still managed to upgrade her car to the 2019 Lexus jeep.
* Before i got married, Friend D used to always borrow from me( and payback of course) . I used to find it strange that he did that because his wife is super rich, until the day i asked my wife (who works and doesn't pay any bills) to borrow me and she flat out said she doesn't have.
* Friend E and wife migrated to USA. Luckily she got a job first while my friend was just hanging doing menial jobs here and there. Over a few months, the disrespect started. She stopped buying groceries, she would just buy her own food to eat and go to bed. She has left him under just 2 years since moving to yankee.

I pity you people, especially friend C, D, and E. If you people fall sick today and you guys needed N900k each to save your life or you die, then be prepared to kiss your ancestors in the afterlife. You know as I do that your wives won't help śhit because you all, by being in that situation, have completely outlived your usefulness (Briffault's law).

Like all modern, working women, her money is hers while your money belongs to both of you. They live the "strong independent woman" lifestyle and the man is just the ATM or he should fùck off. Such is life. Women live for themselves, men should start doing the same. The status quo has changed, but it seems men have not adapted.

@naenaesosa

You experiences showed you two timeless truths of the red pill: (1) Women don't and can't love you. They are only attracted to what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
(2) Women see men as expendable utilities (it could be for money, sex, attention and ego boost, etc). An expendable utility serves and makes sacrifices for the women, it doesn't happen the other way round.

Women love men the way we love phones. If you can afford a better phone, you trade up no matter what the previous phone have done for you. Having a phone doesn't stop you from having other phones or checking out other phones if the opportunity presents itself, and you do such without remorse. It's the same way with women.

Your wife and the wives of your friends don't love you people. They don't think you guys are worth any financially assistance no matter how little the risk is. Like all women, they used you and your friends to ease their financial burdens through life while they kept their money to ensure their financial security. This is the fate of many men with wives who earn. They don't care what happens to you guys, once you guys can't serve any financial purpose in any way, they will spit you all out. I am sure the disrespect and resentment they have for you guys given your financial shortcomings are piling up. They won't take any risk by giving you money because they are concerned about themselves (being selfish and inconsiderate) but they don't mind having your money.

Do you have children?

I have never worried about or concerned myself with how a woman ends up in the her twilight years, let alone that of her sexual attractiveness and fertility. Personally, I don't care how a woman chooses to live her life. If you want to be single forever or eventually get married, that's your business, not mine. Every man and woman are entitled to their aspirations and choices, as long as you are willing to bear the consequences and not complain and blame others.

LIES!

I don't know what your point is. If you are not interested in doing a DNA test for whatever reason, others that are smart and interested in the test will do a DNA test.

NeoWanZaeed:
Ori e daru

You will be alright. Just be calming down.

obembet:
U are mad

No, you are mad.

Jaqenhghar:
Look at this monkey. Maybe you should do a DNA to determine if your dadis your real dad. Better yet maybe they should do a DNA to know if you are truly human

What is your point?

Without DNA test, you can't be sure if that girl was your daughter...

Anyway, RIP to the dead, aaannnnnndddddd my condolences to your family.

luvmijeje:
E don tay!

Good! I vividly remember how you were tenaciously clinging to your religious beliefs, bad-mouthing atheism, and running away each time I brought tough questions to discredit God's existence and the bible. Good thing you have seen the light.

I hope you don't mind, how did you come to abandon religion? Are you now an atheist?

luvmijeje:
It is the absolute truth. Religion(Not just Christianity) is a tool of slavery. It limit your capability in life. It absolves you of responsibility. It makes man to be intellectually lazy.

What! You are no longer a Christian?

sweetmelanin:
People keep deceiving themselves calling themselves "christians"... so religious yet so corrupt.
.. I remember when my grandma told me that God answers her prayers faster when abroad than in Nigeria because the evil atmosphere is blocking the prayer from reaching heaven.. hehe

Queenlovely:
[s]what stupid money are you hussling that you cannot keep an eye on a woman you left at home?

have you noticed it is the rich men who are falling victim to this paternity fraud thing.

poor men plant their seed and watch it grow, and can predict with accuracy when the baby will arrive.

no matter how weak they are they are there to service their pregnant wife to ease safe delivery.

my sixth sense is telling me this paternity fraud thing has been hijacked by doctors to sell their products. and to do DNA test.

afterall if our Endsars protest can be hijacked, anything can be hijacked[/s]

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ayusco85:
Did you actually try to understand my stance? I said we should not be in a haste to take sides, it might be true and it might be false. I didn't say the girl was telling the truth or lying. Don't ever compare someone u don't know to anyone else.
Argue with ur points and don't take things too far to the point of attacking my person, u don't even know me. Be civil pls

But I wasn't replying you. Are you AlphaNomega?

Tozara:
Were you also there? How can you believe that kind of bull story without any accompanying evidence? Women lie about rape with a straight face, even against people who are still alive. Imagine how comfortably they would do it to a dead person that has no possibility of contradicting them.

1) There’s zero evidence for her claims.
2) The story makes absolutely no sense.

Therefore, believing it is evidence of stupidity.

A friend of mine was accused by a random lady he HAS NEVER MET of threatening to rape and assault her. She went as far as posting his picture on Instagram and tagging him a rapist. He got a call from a government agency in Lagos, accusing him of threatening rape and assault. This is a girl he has never spoken to and didn’t even know exist before this accusation.

Why did she do that? Because she disagreed with a screenshot of his WhatsApp status posted by one of her friends. She hated his opinion about women. Can you imagine how devilish that is?

Women tell wicked lies about rape without any form of remorse. Anybody who believes them without convincing proof is an idiot of the highest order.

This is beyond devilish. That girl deserves fifteen years in prison.

alphaNomega:
ayusco85, this post is for you.

If you are a man, I wish what happened to Dr Olufunmilayo last year would happen to you. That useless doctor was like you, always dragging men that women tagged rapists even without evidence until it happened to him and his registration with the British Medical council was at stake. He was lucky to prove his innocence, but I can bet you that he learned a sound lesson.

Ninisun, you and ayusco85 should share this cup of tea

Dr Olufunmilayo learnt a sound lesson. From his recent online posts, one can see that he has started being reasonable, and he is no longer a mangina.

0 × 3 means zero is three places. Counting zero in three places gives you zero. Since multiplication is cumulative, anything times zero will give you zero.

Get a DNA test. It might be that the kid isn't yours. Her husband is broke and can't provide, she might be trying to come to you so that you can provide for her and the child. You are a possible financial means for her and she is using the kid to link both of you.

Stop listening to what she is saying, get a DNA test.

HARDDON:
Op painted the story so subtly and tilted the light on her part living the sad side of her, ever so slightly, out. Here now, the gullible ones are having a field day calling out the guy.
But I see through it all.

The thing is that the op has had a grudge about the guy not coming through for her like she has been doing for him. And ladies naturally pile this kinda stuff up until it gets to head. Which is when the ride arrived.

Forget her tale of not needing his help, her body language was screaming it. Yet, once again, the guy ignored it.
This is what lead him to apologise after the whole ish.
Even though he has his reasons for not supporting financially.

Why he went off the handle is the cold way she responded. That wasn't a normal response, it was a coded attack on his person. then she even had the temerity to drop the call.

May he never return

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Mide3367:
mad o ... Stingy men association don dey make some set of women get sense

Ishilove just said what I wanted to say. Could it be that her husband got a hold of her nairaland account? Anyway, I rest my case.

Ishilove:
Aunty talk true and tell us what really happened because no sane man will just go off on you because you bought a car with his knowledge. You people come online to paint the other person bad in order to reduce the guilt of fücking up.

When you give us the true picture of what happened then I will know what to tell you.

Ishilove, is this you? I kanot-bilivit.

BigDick70inch:
till we hear from him sha.....

Her story doesn't make sense.

Hassanmaye:
Lol you have solved half of your problem on earth how come you understand vagina people well well? Have you swallow the Redpill?

I don swallow am tey tey.

I said it in the earlier thread.

Martinez39s:
In absence of evidence, I won't believe the words that come out of a woman's mouth.

Tozara:
See here: https://www.nairaland.com/6358027/man-accused-molesting-9months-old

I have learned to doubt all their accusations too.

In the absence of serious evidence, I will NEVER take them seriously, no matter how much they cry or sob.

Women lie and manipulate as effortlessly as healthy mammals breathing in and out. They tell their lies with boldness as if it is the truth. The tears and sobs, and self-inflicted bruises sometimes, they present are usually tactics to sway public opinion and elicit public sympathy and support. No lies and manipulations are beyond them; if they can, they will. Even though women don't trust each other because they understand each other, they will always have each other's backs against men (when it comes to manipulating and lying to men and keeping them in the dark about female nature).

In absence of hard evidence, never believe a woman even if she is crying and sobbing. Don't let her tears and sobbing count for anything.

Haters will call me a misogynist, but they can kiss my aśs.

In absence of evidence, I won't believe the words that come out of a woman's mouth.