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Organsmuggler:
not dicks u uncultured swine

Na so, I have heard you bitçh. Anyway, good day hòe.

Organsmuggler:
my moniker is my profession

You needn't say. Everyone already knows you smuggle diçks in and out of you.

Regex:
Although the case is dead, I don't know why people are still bringing it up. This very issue is what I'm facing right now. I mean I'm experiencing it right now.

My best buddy's ex still comes to his office to steal a kiss. They've broken up over a year now. Whilst me on the other hand will never look at my ex twice if she comes to me. I don't have much ex, but this particular one, I have my reason which is:

I am not sure I can beat her in the game, since she manipulated me once. I don't wanna play that game with her anymore.


Case is, like you said, the redpill is all about putting yourself first. I know myself and I can't de with her in the sense of game. Since I don't want to put myself in danger, I'd never let her come close to me. Assuming we broke up like my buddy with his ex, I can use her for any benefit at all. But I can't because I know what it took me to leave her claws.

So everyone should know their limits and work with it. Your limit only makes you stronger and not weaker. That others still communicate with their ex and you don't shouldn't make you insecure, in fact that's your style, and you should rock it till you leave that stage and get to the next stage. This truth is in stages. You keep progressing as you take it. It all depends on how much truth you can take.

This shouldn't bring a rift here, and everyone should forget about the issue of ex thingy.

Though I didn't touch the ex issue even though I only commented on receiving financial gifts/financial favours from women, I agree with you and Ubunja that there is nothing really wrong or simpish about having sex with your ex as long as there is no bad blood and boundaries are in place; this is common sense. Why stress yourself and burn bridges unnecessarily? The discord on this issue isn't worth the anger, disrespect and name calling thrown around.

As for receiving free financial favours/financial gifts from women, I have my repeated experience and I have sworn I will never collect such from a female (ex or not), whether it's a gift she gave of her own accord or I agreed to pay back later. It may be different in another country, but check out this thread below (please read from start to finish) which dealt with the issue I am talking about in details. This isn't about exes, it's just most women in general. Hear the same from experience from other Nigerian men (even a certain waywardpikin, a fellow Nigerian, mentioned his experience on this thread in this POST )

https://www.nairaland.com/6049404/women-very-calculative-dont-accept

NB: you have to read it from start to finish, and think carefully about it post to post.

I had to make the comment I made here because someone said "what if your ex gives you free money? Won't you collect blah blah." If I had an ex, I will have sex with her if there is no bad blood and boundaries are in place, but the issue of collecting free money/financial favours is what I won't do. It's not about exes, it's just most women in general, ex or not. Ubunja might want to check out that thread and see how Nigeria girls are doing their men in that aspect. Everyone here should read the thread carefully from start to finish, I repeat, from start to finish. Ubunja, please boss, is the situation similar in your area and what are your experiences in this aspect?

Saviolamemphix:
The word simp alone makes me cringe, talklesss of going bak to d plantation fully

Red pill for life, anything that wants to happen, let it happen. As far as my knowledge of the red-pill is with me, I am happy. Good night bro.

Saviolamemphix:
That money is tempting though, but i just can't go back to d plantation never

It's better for me to make one million naira per month and be a red-pill man than for me to be a hopeless and disgusting simp/mangina with that money ($1B). It might not sound reasonable to many, but I am never going to turn my back on the red-pill; I value it too much. Red-pill for life.

emmaodet:
Waoooooo, waoooooo really waooooooo
$24,000,000/year to a woman? And people think this is fair? Many ladies sing and praises the western world for been civilized, can we really say these people are civilized? Atleast marriage wise?
Is this the kind of system women say is plain level ground and equal? Definitely, women really hate men.
From this moment on, i now believe women really hate men and won't stop to see us crushed if a system like this could be applauded.

As western men are adoring their women and trying to please them, the women are growing in their narcissism, entitlement and manipulation; they want to milk these men as much as possible.

Korllami007:
Wahala for men wey de western world and still wan marry. And wahala for men wey de find unicorn.

Lol. I am not surprised. Give them an inch, they take a mile.

Jimmy17:
Link to the group?

I don't have the link. I am not even the admin.

Martinez39s:
Here is the end of the conversation. Also drill the red-pill in you till it becomes you second nature or you will forget some things and go back to your vomit.

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mickelkingz:
e be say ubunja smoke Ghana skunk.

This is very inappropriate to say to a man who gave his stuffs for free here and toiled hard to liberate people. Most of the redpillers on nairaland were freed by Ubunja and those that were already freed benefitted hugely from him. If you don't agree with what he said, state your counter argument and discuss things. Agree to disagree if possible. Another one accused Ubunja of trying to remain relevant; imagine the temerity? Let us try to speak constructively for our own benefit and the benefit of this thread.

We are all different individuals and clash of opinions are bound to happen, no big deal.

@Caveadullam

Your post was deleted by a mod. Can you please repost it?

Here is the end of the conversation. Also drill the red-pill in you till it becomes you second nature or you will forget some things and go back to your vomit.

MJBOLT:

Oga,there's nothing finesse or charismatic about being homeless,nobody wants to be the friend of a homeless person. If you like be more alpha than a alpha werewolf, you will be on your own till you get your sh1t together

Be calming down boss. Trex4 never said homelessness has finess and charisma; he only said these characteristics can help a biological alpha with the alpha mindset to rise from the bottom to the top. Of course, we know it's every man for himself out there and one is not considered until they make some tangible out of their life.

As to his last statement, I understand what Trex4 was trying to say. From my experience, you can't trust MOST men who claim to be redpill or mgtow until they become insanely rich that they can't go broke again.

Don't be surprised when you see some of us here who will later become very rich for life simping and spending lavishly for pussy and very beautiful, sexy and "classy" women they never got when they were struggling, and pursuing LTR with them using money. If you confront them, they will sing the rich simps anthem and excuses "it's nothing to me, I can afford it. Women are supposed to be taken care of. Go and hustle." Not just spending unnecessarily, they will simp big time. They will take the easy route instead of standing on their red-pill convictions and applying game.

It may sound funny but it will shock you like madt when it happens. Nevertheless, there are true redpillers and mgtow men who still maintain their principles even though they are rich.

The red write-up is a fact. This was once discussed in a red-pill WhatsApp group I joined, and we joked about. Observe my discussion with Chuka who experienced the temptation. I had to search for it.

miracood:
Pertaining the question of a billionaire simp, and a homeless alpha..

I'll choose to be a simp billionaire...

A simp, can be reedemed.. but getting wealthy takes a lot. My one cent!!

But I thank God for been an alpha.

You didn't read the question, you just saw the $1B. The simp in question is pathetic and hopeless. The means he cannot be saved and he will always sink to abject levels of simping.

Trex4:
I thought it was only me that chose that option. Mehn, like do people know what being a true alpha male entails? The confidence, the fearlessness, The charisma and also the finesse that comes with being a true alpha. With those qualities You can even become a billionaire self. A boss. A leader.

Everyone will listen to you in a meeting, everyone will want to be your friend or have a connection with you. You'll have the 48 laws of power, Art of war, laws of human nature or any redpill book of writing at your fingertips.

You'll rise to the top in no time. At least with this question we know some "Redpillers" here will choose to be the same thing we condemn here daily. Wow.

The red pill knowledge is invaluable to me and it's a lifesaver. The red pill will save you from many things. I could have listed them but I don't have the energy. I would rather start from the bottom in this case with all my supposed characteristics. You can also pull the Jeremy-Meeks effect on wealthy and broke women alike, and you can explore other opportunities.

MJBOLT:

She dey search for maga.

JasperVII:
The homeless redpiller and alpha male part got me.

Which one would you choose?

I would be a homeless redpillers and alpha male (talking about a biological alpha male). You can still rise from being homeless to being financially independent. A pathetic and hopeless simp cannot change and would always sink so low, and if care is not taken, he would lose his money to many cunning women and take care of kids that ain't his. Remember, he is hopeless and pathetic. The question is funny even though it sounds silly.

emperorventure4:
Please that woman contributed a lot to amazon she was among the first employee with Her husband, She built and supported the business with Her husband, and besides Bezos cheated on Her, and you still wanted Her to stay married to Him. Haba sometimes during divorce men are the cause when though we are taking redpill let's not support all things against woman haba

I never said she should stay with him. I only questioned what she did that is worth $38B, and I pointed out your many presumptions. I was not supporting anything malicious or evil against women. The divorce laws are what they are, but it doesn't mean they are fair and rational.

JasperVII:
This question funny die. Homeless redpiller and alpha male

I'll go with B

Lol. Someone in a WhatsApp group asked this question. I found it funny too.

emmaodet:
Do you mean $2,000,000/year or per month? Because this sounds ridiculous

Per month.

TOUGH QUESTION FOR REDPILLERS.

If you were to pick one, which will you pick: (a) to be a homeless redpiller and alpha male, or (b) a pathetic and hopeless simp and beta-looking billionaire with $1,000,000,000 ?

(a) or (b)



Edit: by "alpha male", I am referring to biological alpha male.

viktor88:
Most guys here don't have much knowledge how divorce work in western world. Jeff bezos got a good deal on that divorce.

He didn't have a good deal. He payed what the divorce laws designed for his wife to receive. The outcome would be the same even if his wife cheated on him. He is lucky and fortunate for two reasons:
(1) The divorce could never have left him financially struggling as a billionaire. He would still live well even if he never made a dime after the divorce.
(2) With or without the divorce, Jeff Bezos net worth was always rapidly rising. After his divorce, everyone, me included, knew he would bounce back.

As to the question of he was a simp which I haven't touched, I cannot tell since I don't know Jeff Bezos in person. He could have been ignorant of female nature and got married. A man oblivious of female nature cannot give what he doesn't have even if he is smart, assertive and doesn't let women run over him.

holuwasheyiWGP:
Bezos cheated, Bezos cheated, Bezos cheated. He was caught red-handed and he had no choice. Even if there was prenup, I'm pretty sure that tilts the divorce proceedings in favour of his wife.

Cheating doesn't matter. Women still divorce rape their husbands and take what the system designed for them to take even if they (the women) cheated. Prenups are glorified toilet papers in courts.

Other than this, he might be more than happy to give his wife a piece of the pie, after all she stuck with him through thick and thing.

Lol. You are making assumptions bro. You were not in the marriage. How much did she contribute to his Amazon business? What work did she do that is worth $38B? No man will happily part with that huge amount of money for an ex wife of his own accord, a shrewd businessman for that matter. Over $30B is no child's play. Jeff Bezos had to pay because it is how the divorce court wanted it; he had no say in the matter. What kind of loyalty is "womanly" possible to deserve $38B?

Probably supported him when he quit his job to work on Amazon fully.

Glad you used the word "probably".

There's nothing simpish about him (except lack of self control). Redpill is all about treating people how they deserve and as for me I don't feel his wife deserves to be cheated on. Loyalty shouldn't be replayed with infidelity irrespective of the gender, there's no excuse. If someone is loyal to you, you gotta be loyal back.
You don't have to agree

Lol. You assume too much. What makes you think she didn't cheat on Jeff during the marriage? What makes you think she was loyal? Can you say for certain the type of wife she was to Jeff behind the curtains? Jeff Bezos wasn't a broke man. He had a well paying job, money saved up and had to quit to start his Amazon business. Keep your assumptions at a safe minimum bro.

A woman called into his show of her own accord and rated herself a 5 when she is without makeup and a 6 when she is on makeup. Yet some emotional and deluded females, who are hopelessly divorced from reality, blasted him for calling "average-looking at best" and giving her sound advice.

Fyi, KS is not really redpilled/mgtow but he knows what's up about the game of the dating and sexual market place.

odinson1:
What i still don't understand is why Men over there are still getting married. They should have learnt from Jeff bezos, Johnny Depp and Dr Dre but I guess they are still blinded by Love crap.

You still see Guys getting married every weekend because the love their Wives and also believes that she reciprocates it

Now Kanye west is about to Enter hot pepper soup

The western world demonstrates two things about most men:
1) they can make potentially harmful, regretful and self-disastrous decisions just for puśsy and the illusion of love/happily ever after.
2) they think they are special, and what happened to other men won't happen to them.

Even if a woman is a nawalt, you can never know until she has the ring and has fully settled in. What men do is assume she is nawalt and assume she won't do what other women did to their man. They even believe her words when she says "I am not like other girls" and "I would never do that to you"; it's all assumption, assumption and assumptions. Why make these assumptions when it's not worth the risks of being torn apart in the divorce court? I still smh over Robin Williams's case. Dude was divorced raped twice and he was paying ridiculous amounts in alimony and child support, yet he married a third time. His wives were seriously bleeding him dry. He had to look for work in order to keep up with payments when he was supposed to retire and enjoy his money. He complained of money issues and he eventually committed suicide. People who saw him last said he looked like a shadow of his former self. His latests projects failed and he was humiliated; too hard for a comedy and acting legend.

What makes it worse is that after his first marriage ended, he knew the law and joked about how the court fleeced him during the his first divorce. He called alimony "all the money" and likened the process to "ripping out your genitals through your wallet." Yet he married the second time and got divorced raped again. He was in his third marriage when he committed suicide. Suicide among divorced men is astronomically high, but no one cares.

ubunja:
the way he tore up the prenup agreement infront of her secretly knowing he had a backup copy elsewhere was the outtwitting. It gave Ex wife a false belief that Dre was without protection and her divorce action was on the strength of that.

Dre was extra cautious because he had been played before in another business deal. Was it Death Row records? I don't remember. So he was moving differently this time as concerning agreements and anything signed on paper.

Oh! If that's what you meant then I agree with you. Dr Dre was smart about it from the onset. His downfall was that he didn't do his due diligence well enough to realise that even with a prenup, he was still not safe. It seems he had a limited knowledge of the law: this is the only possible explanation for someone as clever as Dr Dre. Believe me, Dr Dre tried all clever maneuvers in that court, but he still failed. I believe if he knew the system in and out, he wouldn't have married Nicole Young in the first place.

By the way, you are spot on with the Death Row info.

ubunja:
I'm deciding whether to answer or not because of your interrogatory tone and use of negative statements like "just spill it bruh", and I don't even understand why you felt the need to say, "I notice a lot of guys look up to you on here". Like what does that have to do about anything?

Im probably not going to answer you. You sound entitled af.

Lol. I don't think the guy has any ulterior motive or bad attitude.

"just spill it bruh"

Lol. He means you should say your mind and know hold nothing back.

"I notice a lot of guys look up to you on here"

He looks up to you as high authority in red-pill issues because he noticed a lot of guys speak highly of you. So he feels you are in the best position to answer his questions. That's what he meant.

ubunja:
I think Bezos got married before he even started his business. Divorce laws usually force the fair sharing of assets acquired during marriage.

I do agree he was a simp in the way business leaders have to be to make it, but in the divorce settlement his hands were tired. He could have handled many things better tho.

Jeff Bezos was married before he started his business. Would he have married if he knew he would later become the world's richest man? We can't tell since most men are simps. Many men over there know the laws yet they fooliśhly get married assumption their woman is a nawalt. Some are so ignorant thinking a prenup will protect them. There are many men who get divorced raped yet they are still marrying again.

However, I agree that Jeff Bezos hands were tied in the divorce, that's how it is designed. Even if a man's masculine frame is as strong as steel or adamantium and the he more redpilled than all men, he will still lose in the divorce court; the court doesn't care.

ubunja:
yep Elon is as red pilled af.

Problem is in this world to make it you need an element of simping or blue pillness. Red Pill men have a tough time making it out there because society is largely run by blue pill men on blue pill principles. Guys like Jeff Bezos who have a lot to lose and to whom being harsh on women publicly will reflect negatively on them have to simp to a certain level as a strategy.
Even now Dr Dre, after outwitting ex wife, has just agreed to give her what she wants. He has to simp to remain in the good graces of Society. That's just the way it is.

Dr Dre didn't outwit his wife. From the start, I knew he was already fighting a losing battle. He initially tried his best, but when he had paid over a million dollars in attorney fees for he and his wife (over there you are responsible for your wife's legal fees), he wanted the divorce proceedings to be over and he told his wife he was willing to pay her but she should to come a generous agreement. Dr Dre's legal fees = $300,000; his wife's legal fees = $750,000 and Dr Dre is still owing over a million dollars to his wife's attorney. The divorce was bleeding him, that's why he conditionally capitulated.

The wife didn't agree as she still wanted her $2,000,000 per month alimony settlement. As the case continued despite Dr Dre's offer, he suffered a brain aneurysm and was rushed to the hospital. As he was in the hospital, his house was robbed. The stress was just too much that he surrendered and agreed to pay her $2,000,000 per month.

Is he a simp? I don't know. However, whether you are a simp or not, if you find yourself in the divorce court, you have already lost. You can delay your defeat by acting tough and trying to outwit her, it will just cost you more money in attorney fees.

needanswer:
Thank you martinez39s.

Nice thread bro. Feminists are never going to change. Females here are not interested in truth but what they feel and want to believe and what benefits them. They don't argue for the sake of truth but for the sake of pushing their twisted lies and derailing your thread. Have a nice say and keep bringing these memes.

@needanswer

Next time, avoid replying or arguing with any female. A female will end up wasting your time, taking too much space with argumental posts and sophistry, and end up derailing your thread. This is a wonderful thread. Too bad you derailed it.

needanswer:
Why the name calling"obtuse"? I didn't call you names in my previous post

JEEZ! You should have just ignored her from the start.