₦airaland Forum

odinson1:
Bros I'm Agnostic and very sceptical but there have been video evidences of the Pencils moving without human interference

I'm even scared to try it

it's all a trick. It doesn't take much to move a pencil placed on another pencil. Watch the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CASghTzNhc

waywardpikin:
Always deal with a woman with one leg out the door. You stick around accepting favours from her thinking you're smart and that's how you catch some serious insults.

How many women even offer tangible help without some serious strings attached to start with?


I laugh in witchcraft.

I remember a story on this forum about a guy that broke up with his gf. The gf called the police on him and claimed he stole her 30k whereas she had given it to him as a gift during the relationship. From my experience, it seems like for women, most at least, that anything you give them is a gift but anything they give you is a loan or has some conditions attached to it. Can women be of substantial help? Maybe, but I will rather take my chances and live as if my destiny is entirely in my own hands.

Edit: I am not saying you should be your ex's enemy. I am not talking about exes.

It's all superstition and make-believe.

"...After some time at the hospital, she was declared dead. One of her relatives said she did not show any sign of depression."

Hmmm. Almost all people who commit suicide don't show signs of depression before they commit suicide. They've already made peace with their decision, and they've set the time they will off themselves. I know this from speaking to many who attempted suicide and eavesdropping on some cases.

Enigma2049:
It is very simple nah , if she claims that it was switched babies, then ask that Dna test should also be conducted on her . If her Dna doesn't match that of the baby then she is exnoreted , but if the child carries her Dna , lolzz , her lies would be exposed for all to see . Men should look beyond their silly excuses ND threats

Any man with an average IQ can look beyond their lies, excuses and threats. All that is needed is common sense. Unfortunately, common sense in this issue isn't common.

Sixfeetbelle:
You sound pained.


As if you don't know medical science isn't an exact science. There's always room for an error.

Olodo Rabataaaaaa!

mymoney001:
[s]As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.[/s]

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️

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YUSTECH3:
Islam is the best way I swear cox even If the results comes out that u are not the father of those kids islam has given u that u are the automatic father the kids since u married her legally...those ones just waste their semen...u are still the father....if u understand islam u won't disturb yourself with all this DNA wahala

Paternity fraud sympathizer.

Sixfeetbelle:
But, as with Op's story, it is the man that would do DNA first nah. And if it's negative on him, will he wait to check the test against his wife before accusing her of infidelity?

It is where husband and wife agreed to do DNA test together that wife can be vindicated, not when the man does it behind his wife's back.

You are really really full of crap.

boyjo:
Like serious louding o.

A woman had 4 kids.
When her husband died he willed everything to everyone else except his children.
The man revealed through the lawyer that he had done DNA and the 4 kids were not his.

The woman had written in anonymously.
I was just a kid then. She was so confused because she said she had never cheated on him, and had no idea how the result were even possible, and as at that time she had no idea how to start all over.
And the man, was no longer alive to even speak to.

It wasn't until I read that nurse story that I realised what MAY have transpired.

So men should learn to do DNA for their wives too if the result shows the kids are are not his before acting rashly. Thw wife may JUST BE INNOCENT.

Sixfeetbelle:
This is the exact reason why this DNA test of a thing is worrying to me. Yes, it's true that it will help prove 99% paternity for some and hence help fish out liars and deceivers, but what about those that would be part of the unfortunate 1%? What about those that will encounter swapped babies or swapped test or medical irregularities?

We are talking about families here, not skin colour or hair texture. How many men will be patient/understanding enough to run the test also against the wife in the case of medical irregularities?

SMH. Both of you are so full of crap, and you both know it.

Yamiriflathead:
Choi, they just made the process longer
At least before the final result go kom outside, those wey go fit sleep with lab technician go do am, others can visit babalawos and pastors to change the results through incantations and prayers. Some of them can even eliminate the man or the doctor just so their own results would remain pending.
This is just like saying a rapist who impregnated a lady should not be held liable because it could have been a case of gang Rape
LMFAO

Don't mind these wicked and heartless beings. All that matters is that more men are waking up, and they are beginning to ask questions.

maynia:
It's nearly impossible for that to happen, the switching of baby thing.

Women bring up the switching-of-baby excuse in a silly attempt to subtly cover up the fact that women can be guilty of paternity fraud: they achieve this by shifting blame to innocent nurses instead of the culprits. By doing so, they indirectly and passively imply that women are faithful, and culprits of paternity fraud don't exist and it's the nurses who swap babies at birth. It's also a defense women use to cover up their fellow women or themselves when a man discovers that his kids ain't his (as exemplified by the contrived dialogue below).

HUSBAND (Tunde):
WIFE (Bisi) AND HER FRIENDS (even fellow women):

Michelle55:
What is this world turning into?

DNA test should be made compulsory in every hospital to save one from stress biko.. I would allow it if we talk about it but going to conduct such test without my knowledge is a big No for me.
Come to think of it, some hospital do switch babies at birth right? What if there's a possibility of carrying someone's else baby home

Paternity fraud sympathizer.

Barbsamiin:
E be like say DNA test is now a new trend in naija, LOLS!
Well, imagine staying together happily for morethan 11years as a husband and wife then one day your husband ask you he want to go and do DNA test for your kids, How would you feel? you'll think all the time you've spent together there's no trust. Forget that.
Even if the kids are yours or not, as long as they treat you as their father, respect you and do all the thing they are suppose to as a children, seems there's no worries when scaled on common sense.
At last, when people leaves God and follow their hearts, they'll suffer in life. Believe and have peace of mind.

A paternity fraud sympathizer is mentioning God. You are so full of crap.

ubunja:
True. guys need to remedy this.

Because of hypergamy the average lady doesn't date her mate. At the same time an average man can catch a top woman's attention if he's physically in shape. Because beauty =money (for both genders). But by the way most men have an aversion to hitting the gym that's never going to happen. So they'll stay dating trash. And not wanting anything to do with that after breakup. It's a shame. Because men can do better.

I just sent you a WhatsApp message. Please boss, I will be grateful if you look into case I presented to you.

Yamiriflathead:
Damn, this is deep....

Women understand each other and they don't trust each other. They know that it is rational and okay for a man to take a DNA test, but they deliberately paint it as a bad thing for wicked and selfish reasons using the following:
(1) trust and love ("don't you trust me? What is love without trust? Where is the love?" ).
(2) picking offense and unjustly getting angry ("are you implying that I am a hoe?"
(3) silly threats ("I will leave with the kids", "you have lost my love and loyalty" (like women have these), "you will never see me again"
(4) some will have the temerity to harm the husband in some way even though they know he did nothing wrong by getting a DNA test. They feel getting a DNA test is "crime" and they want it to be so, therefore it is to them.

They even cover up, justify and downplay the crime of paternity fraud by using the following:
(1) start reciting the constitution that any child born in the marriage belongs to the husband.
(2) start saying "men do it too" or "men have been doing it too." ❌❌❌
(3) start saying "if the children know you as their father, you are their father", "Real men step up to take care of...", "remember the love you have for these children" (using your emotions to manipulate you) etc.
(4) refusing to hold women accountable.

Why all these? Because they support paternity fraud: either they are guilty of it or they are supporting and shielding those guilty of it, or they are doing both. The sisterhood comes first. Even if the OP's wife knows the kids are his, she will still have to act like it's an offence to get a DNA test because such idea helps the sisterhood to protect women guilty of paternity fraud and it prevents men from digging deep on this issue. They all want all men to remain at a position of giving them blind trust or to be afraid of questioning so paternity fraud can go unchecked. The easiest people to manipulate are those that blindly trust you and those afraid to stand up to you.

boyjo:
I hear you. So that is why he should do it behind her back instead of having a discussion and both of them agreeing to it?

A father doesn't need anyone's approval to conduct a DNA test on his kids.

TheRedpillguy:
Dose it matter, what matters Is she birthed your children. Thats enough. You expect too much from women.

She is not yours,it's only ur turn.

Is it then okay for the wife to cheat?

crackhaus:
LOL...

When it comes to the issue of infidelity, which is really what the entire write-up boils down to, I have always held the opinion that every person (male or female), especially of this internet generation, is capable of cheating while married.

What women mostly lack and what stops most of them from cheating, is NOT love for their husbands – if you as a man think this is it, then you have fallen for their tricks.The only thing that stops them is first of all a fear of being caught, and next is the shame they assume they will feel after the sex act, nothing else...
Once you are able to guarantee a married woman that you have as much to lose just like she does if both of you have sex, and she already likes you and is really attracted to you, she will lose guard... It's a MUST.

The wise and sensible married women who are aware of this, will usually ensure that they don't create any opportunity or allow any form of closeness that will make them become too attracted to a man who is not their husband – meaning, they won't want to spend time with you, they won't want to have regular chats with you, or exchange frequent calls with you...
They know what these things can do their basal feelings, especially when you consider the fact that their husbands won't be as romantic as he was when they were dating or during the first years of their marriage.

I can say that I understand the OP to a certain extent. The only issue with the write-up is that in a quest to drive home his point, he may have gone over and above...

The summary however still remains that, as a man, if you associate with women (whether she's your wife or girlfriend) with the belief that she will/can NEVER cheat on you because she LOVES you so much, then my brother you're on a very loooong thing...

Don't be stupid!!!

Loud it bro.

It's nice to see an alpha-king with an alpha and red-pill mindset. Here is for you bro.

Nonsense. Rubbish. May you all choke on your faeces.

Dude is adding weight.

Keep showing her more love bro, even if it means compromising your self-respect like you have already done. Make her the centre of your world and overvalue her and keep on chasing what doesn't desire you. Also, act like you can't do without her even though she is just human like the rest. You have my blessings bro.

It's not your fault that women stubbornly act like getting a DNA test is such a bad thing even if the kids actually belong to the husband. She, like other women, has to maintain such narrative (getting a DNA test is somewhat a bad thing) to protect the sisterhood and look out for their fellow women who are guilty of such wickedness. They are all conniving rattlesnakes, and I wouldn't be surprised if she "punishes" you even if the result shows the kids are yours—you have already committed a "crime" by doing the test.

If your wife refuses to acknowledge the rationality of you getting a DNA test, let her go. It's not your fault that she cannot recognize that smart men do DNA tests. The men who were victims of paternity fraud trusted their wives, didn't they? Chill bro!

Why the guy come resemble lefulefu? Lefulefu, na your broda be dis?

angelfallz:
Are you a Manchester United fan?

Yes.

wiseone28:
Liverpool will win

It's better they lose.

ofiko123:
I am telling you..

The guy is a pastor. He is pandering to the majority of his congregation (women and manginas). He may be faking it or he could actually have overdosed on the feminist kool-aid.

"Amen" has nothing to do with gender. The man has overdosed on the feminist kool-aid.