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The girl has weighed her OPTIONS and she has finally settled for the financially best option. All these while, she had her eggs in many baskets, she played along to know who will eventually turn out to be the best basket, and she picked the best basket. Too "bad" your friend wasn't the best basket.

Hypergamy doesn't care about all you have done for her in the past. Swallow the red pill.

343tipster:
Icardi own funny me he dey even proud to marry wanda who's like 6yrs older than him and already gave birth to Maxi

Check di Natalie bcs of wife the guy no fit leave one professional club till he retire, Napoli and other top club really want to get the player but na the wife dey said NO

Wanda monkey branched. Her hypergamy saw an upgrade in Icardi. Icardi made a beta move.

cococandy:
You have good points.

However, The purpose of this exercise is to also get the subjective interpretation of Muslims adherents. So, varying interpretations were welcome from the beginning. I wasn’t setting out to only understand what Allah and Muhammad teach but also how the followers have understood those teachings and how it affects their lives in those specific categories I listed.

There’s definitely a whole lot to unpack in understanding any religion but this thread is limited and specific in what it’s looking for.

Thanks

Okay, I get your point. I hope you are successful in your inquiry. Good day.

NB: In my initial post, I have corrected the "blantant honesty" to "blatant dishonesty."

Saviolamemphix:
exactly bro i don't understand wat dat nigga is saying o

Even me sef no sabi wetin he dey talk.

luminouz:
Isn't it wonderful how she was quick to broke shame a dude over what she can't even afford? Na ojuelegba luxury she be na

That's female delusion, solipsism and entitlement. No wonder many females were angry when Kevin Samuels told a woman "you are average-looking at best".

ObinnaValentine:
let's forget about manipulation or shit..if you are toxic or any other shaming name..then that's what you are..a woman mustn't tell you that cos you having issues before you know...don't use redpill to justify your lankad attitude..

I don't get you bro. While the redpillers here are not toxic and they don't encourage bad behaviours, the post (which I will post below) you responded to is accurate. What's really up with you bro?

i926:
When men expose women, she feels threatened & she'll respond with indignation.

When she can no longer manipulate you, she labels you the enemy, the hater, the misogynist, patriarchal, toxic & all other shaming names.

Be proud if a woman calls you any of that, it means you ALPHA

#copied#

ObinnaValentine:
let's not allow ''redpill'' make us lose our sense of judgement o..going by her explanation he always makes excuses for monetary issues..at least he tried looking for the money..only God knows what she's been tolerating though (mind you I am not siding with her)..she in the other hand wasn't sensible enough to pay the deposit when he brings the money she collects it through whatever trick she devices..don't make this look like women are evil e get why!

In that CAPSLOCKED's post, there was no loss of judgement or attempt to demonize women. Let's assume the woman's story is accurate (something I don't do due to fact that women are usually shameless and bold liars, and they are good engineers of a spurious narrative and impression). If your husband has been financially incapable and always made excuses for money, why decide to teach him a "lesson" with your daughter's health at stake? Why not do it with something like the PHCN bill (refuse to pay that bill and let the heat reach everyone so you can teach him a lesson) ? Why put your daughter's health at stake over #25,000 when you have #3.6M and you can simply leave the marriage (if she had had enough with her husband) and care for your own daughter by yourself?

Not only is she petty, she is also trying to shift blame when she could have done better; this shows she has no remorse and doesn't desire to be a better human in future. Throughout your life, have you ever met any loving parent (especially men) who would have #3.6M yet put his/her daughter's life at risk over #25,000 just to teach their spouse a "lesson" ? Don't you see how incredibly stupid, petty, and heartless that is? The daughter had been convulsive for two days, two fùcking days.

For those who would say "but the money [#3.6M] might not be her money," they should have it in mind that if that were the case, she would have mentioned it without hesitation and used it as an excuse, trust women.

All I see is dumb attribution of blame to the man:
1) It was okay to put my daughter's life at risk in order to teach my husband a "lesson" BECAUSE my husband is financially incapable and always make excuses. [It's the husband's fault].
2) It's not my fault that my daughter died BECAUSE I am not the one that is supposed to provide. [It's the husband's fault for not providing].

What could she have suffered in the husband's hands for her to make such heartless and stupid decision? I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out that the husband happened to be a great provider in the past and he recently hit hard times; or that the story is not what it seems. I personally know a senior colleague of my mum who has money but the husband is broke and struggling; the woman is stingy like madt. If her children meet her for anything, she will tell them to go and meet their father. She would rather see the family struggle than help out, even her kids. It took my mum's intervention to force her to open her stingy hands to provide for her daughter who was living hand to mouth in the university while mum was earning big. What do you think the story of woman would be? Would it be any different from what CAPSLOCKED shared? There was even a story on nairaland about a woman who fell sick and instructed her sister to hide her money in case the husband, who was running helter skelter to pay her hospital bills, finds it. I am not saying all women are like this, but most are.

In a bid to show you are fair and a moral champion, don't make excuses or downplay any harsh truth about women in order to prove you are not a woman hater or misogynist. No one cares bro, drop the moral badge and accept the red pill as you see it. If not, when the red pill shows you certain devilish aspects of women, you will ignore it and think it is hatred or misogyny towards women. The truth don't have to be the way you want. If it happens that the truth says "the kind of specimen A are heartless, brutal and remorseless in their manipulation", you must accept and not ignore it because you don't want to be a misogynist or a moral defaulter. It's just like ignoring the truth that many Ashkenazi Jews have a higher IQ than Africans because you don't want to be a racist.

Let me drop this harsh truth that many might not come to grasp in their lifetime: you can either love or understand women, you cannot do both. This is pure fact. It doesn't mean you should hate them, just approach women with indifference and let your association with them be based on necessity and what you can benefit from them. Forget about friendship with women.

We can agree to disagree.

pansophist:
You reasoned the vices of uncontrolled "tetesterone", now I'll list the positives to it. Tetesterone it is the reason why human have gotten this far, and a bio-fuel that propel men to do what he sets his mind into. The glory of civilisations is nothing but a design of male's creativity, which every sentient being including human females have to live and integrate into. Tetesterone is a blessing, and a curse. The average cultist, agberos and criminals would have probably be great at boxing like Anthony Joshua, or a wealthy entrepreneur if they channeled the work of their hand in something meaningful, and make the world a little bit brighter, not darker with their devilish work, all fuelled by Tetesterone.

Tetesteone is only regrettable when it is channelled for evil, its like fire, it is useful, and destructive, all dependent on how you utilise it. You can't fault a fire because some idiot used it to burn your house, but the fault rest solely on the stupidity of the burner. Same fire is used to warm houses in cold climates, cook your food and blow human into space. Tetesterone is merely a vehicle for the execution of good and evil.

The woman is putting her game on because she probably didn't choose you. Which speaks to the probability of you not growing your smv, with the help of your bio fuel. So she knows that she can do better in attracting other men. (doesn't matter if you're high value, a woman's formula in determining high quality man is bleeped up.). Also, do not take female's rejection serious, you can't expect proper judgment about your value from an emotional being. It is an antithesis. Dangote may even dress on sport wear and approach a random women who know Dangote only by name, and she would reject the richest man on the continent with her myopic judgment. Na their way.

There is no alpha man without a healthy those of massive tetesterone, infact, a simple Google search of tetesterone pills will reveal that people are buying and consuming it in high numbers, and when you voluntarily submit yourself to a transformative suffering (such as powerlifting and marathon), your tetesterone level skyrocket to a higher level, as its nearly impossible to achieve such feat without it. Tetesterone is the single reason why a woman will never compete and beat you in anything you set your mind to do.

Pick the best of marathoners, investors, scientist, entrepreneurs, politicians, philosophers, just anything, and the best man in that game is better by a far mile than the best woman in that game either. Infact if a woman call the police because a dangerous criminal is lurking around, or a fire fighter because her house is about to get burnt, deep in her heart, she wants a man to show up, not a woman. So even women through their actions (not words) recognise the superiority of male tetesterone, what more a man? Appreciate what you have man.

Youre not thriving in your frame, hence you're asking a girl out. Girls bombard celebrities dm with message, simple because these men are not wasting time asking girl out. They build their life good, and the girls will beg to live in it. That is the formula. My present woman I met on Instagram, she was one of my followers that I've been stalking her lifestyle for months, and could see that she was decent enough to make me settle with her after meet up and thorough investigation of her lifestyle.

Before ever asking a woman out, you must do it from the height of your glory. She shouldn't just know you as "just another man", but "the guy that is so so and so". And if you know the advantages you have as a man that women don't have, you will appreciate every component that makes you a man. If you do not utlize your glory when it comes to attracting females, women will benefit from your ignorance, making you feel like you're defective. Peace.

An overdose of wisdom from proper research and observation. Chai!

@Cococandy

I hope I am not late to the party. When it comes to understanding a religion, it's best to read the holy book by yourself. While it superficially makes sense to consult the self-proclaimed adherents of the religion, you should have it in mind that each adherent has his/her own "interpretation" of the Qur'an. The "interpretation" a moderate Muslim born and bred in a secular society will give you will differ from that of a Muslim born and bred in an Islamic society. Some "interpretations" paint Islam as a religion of peace while others do the opposite. To avoid being misled by any Muslim's personal interpretation, I will advise you to do your own research and read the holy book for yourself. Your research should focus on the history of Islam, its Prophet, and holy book; find out what scholars think.

A lot of muslims come about their interpretations in any of the following ways:
1) ignorance and presumption of the Qur'an due not having read it or blatant dishonesty,
2) cherry picking (picking the good parts only), and/or
3) complete understanding and submission to the entire doctrine and scriptural injunctions of the Qur'an.

This is also applicable to Christians.

Regardless of how any Muslim came about his/her own "interpretations", it's best to do your own research and read the Qur'an by yourself and formulate your independent thoughts on the matter.

Nb: I am an atheist. I am encouraging the best approach of inquiry.

Stùpid nigerian women. The woman cutting the chicken isn't complaining, but these rotten feminists at it again.

I weep for simps. Who did this to them?

jaxxy:
That’s why u can clone and animal bt not a human.

... or is it that we don't know how to clone humans yet? Because scientists don't know how to do something yet doesn't mean it is possible.

ChoCho54:
Have you died before? How did you know this for sure?

Have you seen heaven, hell, or any purported afterlife before? Why is it that we believe there is no afterlife for insects and other animals, yet we think differently for humans? By all indications and common sense, there is no afterlife. Your brain is the seat of your consciousness; once it stops working and it perishes in the grave, you are no more.

kingxsamz:
...
someone just came back to his senses.
The hard truth is none of them ever works.
That's why churches are thriving, but most of the people going to these churches never seem to have their problems solved.
The traditional method is even worse as some of its requirements is human sacrifice.
But none of it ever works.
I'd say this is a huge step in your life as you've finally come back to reality, now you can tackle problems, the real way.
Watch people who have huge problems in their lives come here to preach to you about coming to their church for a miracle.

All the religions and mystical stuffs like voodoo, spells, curses, psychic/clairvoyant whatever, rituals, mediums, divination etc are ridiculous garbage. They all have no basis in reality, and people need to stop taking these things seriously.

39 years wasted in foolishness when you could have applied common sense and critical thinking for 30 minutes to examine the falsehoods called religion and voodoo. Had you done that, who knows how far you could have gone with being pragmatic and realistic in your approach towards life?

There are no gods, supernatural beings, and supernatural dimensions (eg. Heaven, Hell, Purgatory etc). Death is the final bus stop for humans: after that is eternal nonexistence and oblivion. Don't let anyone deceive you.

Horiolah:
Any idea

I don't understand what you are trying to say.

mitchelle16:
Give your wife the attention she needs women love attention alot why not give it to her and have your peace

Don't be a daft bitçh. So if your spouse is not giving you any attention, you will start maltreating and abusing your child just to get back at him? Besides, op never said he wasn't giving her any attention, so where did that presumption come from? Are you trying to heap the blame on the man as usual?

Only a piece of śhit will mistreat and abuse her child for the petty reasons of power dynamics/leverage in a relationship... and only pieces of śhit will support her, absolve her of any accountability and/or overlook her infamy to attribute blame to the man. I guess you know where you belong.

RisenPhoenix1:
I could give you tonnes of literature on maternal filicide or maternal harm for the sake of spousal revenge, but that would be overkill; and you can easily Google it anyway since much research has been done on it. Just don't keep provoking her to use your innocent child against you. Pretend that something else; like lack of sex; is more hurtful, to distract her attention away from using your daughter's discomfort to hurt you.

Supply with these cases, I dey beg you.

MJBOLT:

stop trying to educate anybody about the redpill,it's a futile effort,eventually most men will learn. I have friends who laughed at me claiming "I too dey do hard guy,I suppose free body", one of them had to drop out of school because his babe messed him up real bad.

My guy, share the story in details, and let's learn from it.

Fear not sis, simps are marching to your rescue.

SweetHearted:
[s]I don't need anyone to deceive me as to what type of woman I should love.

When I was teaching in a private school, there was this girl that was a prefect in SS3.

Anytime she was asked to write names of noise makers, she wrote only the names of girls even when boys also made noise.

When they asked her to bring those who made noise out of the class for punishment, she would go and call only the girls out and the teachers would flog the girls.

She excluded boys from any situation that involved punishment.

Anytime she was in charge of any activity in the school, if junior students came late for the activity, she would ask only the girls among them to kneel down but will pardon the boys.

She so much respect and love men to the extent that she would make everything ready if she knew a male teacher was coming for the next period of lesson.

Do you know that I fell secretly in love with her due to the way she treated males with respect.

But because a teacher should not be found friending a student, I couldn't do anything more than loving her secretly although she didn't know.

I later discovered that some male teachers were already so captivated by her respect and love for the male gender and were already speaking of how fortunate a man who would married her would be.

Till today, even when she has left the school and I am no longer teaching there, I still find it hard to forget her.

I love her so much and she is my idea of a perfect woman.

She is my idea of a wife material,a perfect woman and a rare jewel which a man should desire.

There is no day I don't think about her.

If she is already married and I am already engaged to another woman, if I see her today, I will give her hundreds of thousands just to say thank you for being a rare jewel.

That is if I discovered we cannot marry each other due to her being married already and I being engaged already, I will find a way of rewarding her.

I am looking for her just to give her something.

I don't know where she is now but when I find her, only God knows what will happen.

Also there was a time man o war was doing drilling/induction.

As all the new comers and Juniors among them were asked to lie down on the floor,a superior female among them went around flogging only females as they lay on the floor.

She didn't flog any male among them.

Before you knew what was happening,all men that came to watch the drilling/induction started clapping for her.

Most men said they love her so much for her respect for the male gender.

Therefore anyone writing false information online cannot deceive someone like me.[/s]

Lies without an iota of intelligence.

RisenPhoenix1:
Lol. How are you doing Martinez39s? Glad to see you still have your acerbic wit still up and running.

I am fine bro.

Jesus never existed. He is a mythical figure.

Monkey S—I—M—P—A—N—Z—E—E.

Lexusgs430:
We dey shout, people no go hear...... Keep investing ó.....

People no dey hear word. Dem think say dem sharp. Nothing like free money anywhere.

MyOpinion1:
Government should just make a law that the number of children you gave birth to should corresponds with your net worth and every parents who fail intentionally and abscond from responsibility should be jailed and the child taken away from him or her..
Until then, our society will know no peace..

Itchy joysticks and restless vaginaś will be having none of that.

Na Thomas Partey I dey pity. Dude is good, and he should have stayed at Atletico Madrid and helped their midfield.

emmaodet:
Okay ooo.
How is your side bro

My side is fine. How is yours?

emmaodet:


Are you praying for the marriage to crash?

I was simply saying the op is lying or at least being economical with the truth. OP is giving us a spurious impression.

When is the part 2 coming out?

Edit: I am simply saying the op is lying or at least being economical with the truth. OP is giving us a spurious impression.