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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 2:34pm On Feb 03, 2022
Tonnyray:
Now "redpillers" have evidence Greenwood cold approached the bitch and was not "chosen" I suppose. grin
It's a thing to argue, it's another thing to push it beyond the confines of intelligence.
All discussions on Greenwood so far (before Smartb0y's post) had nothing to do with cold approach, "cold approachers," or being chosen, neither did anyone say Greenwood cold approached her or he wasn't chosen. The first discussion on Greenwood happened when the allegations surfaced and it was about giving Greenwood the benefit of doubt, nothing about cold approach; the second discussion on Greenwood was simply about d!ck control (which is invaluable and applicable to all men) and it only involved two people: victòr88 (who started the discussion) and Skeptiçus before Smartb0y joined, and both Viktòr88 and Skeptiçus never mentioned cold approach. The second discussion obviously stands on its own and isn't related to the recent fray on the issue of cold approach.

By using the plural "redpillers", you make it seem like Smartb0y's post is reflective of the thoughts of many redpillers here on this Greenwood matter. Except this is a typo, then I would say you should properly dissect discussions right from their origins. Smartb0y might have spoken amiss (except if there is a clarification I know not), but it shouldn't be taken that far. Let the argument or logical lapse of one person not be seen as a reflective of others in the group; doing the opposite is a logical lapse in itself. This pattern of misrepresenting redpillers in their thread should stop. Instead of misrepresenting redpillers, why not follow the origin of a discussion and point out when some is digressing or talking off point? Better still, you can refuse participating in the discussion like I did. Anyway, I want to believe you actually meant "a redpiller".

NB: see my post as a honest take. Don't misconstrue things or make any assumptions about my intentions. I would have said the same to anyone, even a redpiller. Finally, I have nothing against people who cold approach.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:48pm On Feb 02, 2022
richkal:
This is the reason why it is being said that it is a LONELY world for men. Men operate like individuals. I am not surprised that the mantra is also manifesting TRP.

This is what women don't have, they are always in support of one another no matter what happened. You guys call it herd mentality, but it always work for them in most cases. Women are sisters under different clothings.

The guy in question lacks balls and the waiter handed him one to safe his face. And he was very appreciative about it. That was the reason why he went back to thank the waiter.

All fingers are not equal, so our frame differs from one another. Let us be our brother's keeper. Some people might receive tough love and come out stronger while some others burn into ashes. Peter might survive What kills Paul. As for me it is Bros before H.oes always.
I get your perspective. My intention wasn't to disregard him. My intention was to help him grow with tough love. I believe in helping my fellow man in the intersexual dynamics, but you know one of the ways we help people is through tough love. Even in parenting, there comes a time when you have to show children tough love to help them. That's my perspective.

The guy might appreciate the waiter's help, but will the help make him start getting his priorities right and aptly inform the lady of his budget? Will it make him not to chase another nawalt and find himself in that situation? Will it give him the balls to say "NO" to billing? If it does, then good for him... even though it's not likely. As you said, people learn differently and they are different (I agree with you on this).
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:09pm On Feb 02, 2022
Osas187:
I met her at genaral hospital,when I walked up to her and I said "Hello" "hi" she replied,I ask her if she's working here,which she said yes,after all I asked for her number and she declined.I walked out,we later meet so many times that day but I didn't talk to her.I slept in the hospital because my brother was in the ward receiving treatment (surgery)I saw her the next day and I crossed her,I said to her "you don't want to greet me right ?"she said "good morning" and left,anytime she see after that she'll just wave her hand.The following day after she had closed I follow her and asked her where she was going,said she is going home,I told her to call me when she reach home,she said she doesn't has my number "ok bring your phone let me give you my number" I said. She said "No not today" and walked out of me.
LOL. The moment she didn't give you her number the first time, you should have withdrawn and close her chapter (ie. forget about her and move on with your life).
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:20pm On Feb 02, 2022
CaveAdullam:
The topic is always exhilarating when it is about women, but we tend to shy away and corner ourselves when men are being dissected on that same table. I kid you not, average man and woman are alike especially in their personality traits.

What happened there is manipulation. But the question is: will the waiter had prevented the man from buying an expensive drink if it was his male friend?

What I'm driving at is that manipulation is manipulation, but will see it as a big deal when it involves intersexual relationship and neglect it when it comes to friends and families.

Yeah, as men, we grow by helping one another because no human is truly/plainly independent!

Thanks.
If I was the waiter, I wouldn't have helped the man in such situation. If I had helped him, would it stop him from simping or being bluepilled? Why hurt my pocket for someone that can't say "NO" to billing and will likely look for another nawalt? It's best to let the girl bill him till he has sense and can develop the balls to say "NO." He can't even budget before hand; maybe he is living fake life and has bragged of his nonexistent riches to the girl and took her to a restaurant of her choice (if that's the case, then something is wrong with him). Tough love is good in this aspect, and I don't care if my salary is fixed. Someone men will have to learn the hard way. SMH.

Who knows, maybe the waiter's salary is fixed; he and the customer think alike; and the waiter is probably his friend. Whatever.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
Ketapu:
My reply
I didn't bother watching the video until I saw your post. I started skipping posts a long time because I was tired of the argument; what caught my eyes was the word "rape" and I had to investigate to know how rape entered the discussion. In as much as you advocated cold approach, there was no indication that you partook in rape or any diabolical, callous or inhumane method to get women. So no one can hold it against you.

I think the misunderstanding, a funny one at that, came from Ubunja's part. When he read that you go out at night to cold approach women, he assumed that you are some nightstalker who creeps up late at night in the dark to cold approach women (It would be confounding to anyone who perceived your activities as such) and he was also concerned that you might be badly misconstrued as a strange and creepy person with a bad intent and be falsely accused or harmed. grin Keep in mind what that cold approach means to Ubunja is different from what it means to my guy Junnior and co; Ubunja embraces the meaning in the usual game/red pill sense. Also, we have seen how Ubunja associates cold approach with PUA, and those who know the PUA community know what they are capable of. It's a misunderstanding, not necessarily malicious intent. This is what I think happened, and I could be wrong.

If I am wrong and Ubunja really wanted to defame you or strawman you, then I don't support his actions and I find them despicable. I say this not to defend him, but to drop my honest and avoid what I perceive to be a preventable clash. I am the type that prefers people operating amicably, agreeing to disagree, and settling misunderstanding instead of clashing and whatever.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:17pm On Feb 02, 2022
CaveAdullam:
You forgot to add anointing oil and YouTube.
I have stopped watching YouTube a long time ago, except when necessary or to investigate. It was a good research tool on one, but entertainment and distraction on the other hand.

As for the anointing oil and engine oil, they abideth with me forever.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:22pm On Feb 02, 2022
EducationRe: Three Childhood Friends Celebrate Their 15-year-long Friendship (Photos) by Martinez39s(m): 6:57pm On Feb 02, 2022
Hope money and women don't separate them?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:41pm On Feb 02, 2022
NamelessOGBENI:
I've been indifferent since I saw the news
Good.
RomanceRe: Pornhub Insight: Year 2021 by Martinez39s(m): 5:54pm On Feb 02, 2022
Datboredberry:
United States top relative searches
Did I just see Harley Quinn in the top searches? WTF! grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:44pm On Feb 02, 2022
Junnior:
First off, I gave that number as an example to buttress the point of cold approach landing more body counts.
Even the greatest players of all time cold approach regularly. But you and ubúnja will come here and claim they're not redpilled for doing that. Just because you consider it a waste of time doesn't mean it is that to others.
I have said it before that cold approach is not just for the sake of sex. But your thinking is too shallow to get it. For example, people in marketing do it every time.
Someone who is very extroverted will have no problem talking to 10 new people every day and still be productive in his life.
No one is forcing you to cold approach -- you probably sh1t your pants when you try. Just don't think you are more redpilled or better than those who choose to do it.
Junnior my guy, let the matter rest. There is no point since, right from the start, it was clear people will stick to what they want despite the many arguments. Just my suggestion (you can continue if you want, nothing bad). Everyone should do what works for them.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
James150:
KKK
This thread has its purpose. Cyber crime or perpetrating fraudulent activities isn't what we do here. Keep your fraudulent lifestyle to yourself or take it to another thread.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:37pm On Feb 02, 2022
heniford2:
she wiped all her old post and made that post currently know mason has been Released undecided
Drop link. No vex.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:14pm On Feb 02, 2022
heniford2:
is on her Instagram page right know
Nairaland, Google and WhatsApp are my only social media for a long time now. Please, redpillers wey dey Instagram should confirm this. The only thing I know is that Greenwood has been released on bail.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2022
heniford2:
Mason greenwood ex girlfriend done cone out openly saying this from her Instagram page[b]Fear woman guys[/b] undecided
shocked Is this news confirmed?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:26pm On Feb 02, 2022
Never let the urge to prove a point or have the last say/strike burn hot in you. grin

#GrownMenTips
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:28am On Feb 02, 2022
heartofcity12:
#trp. Pass her shit testings with flying colors.
One of the worst things you can do in a relationship/marriage is to be all talk and no action, or setting boundaries and failing to enforce them when she defies your boundaries. It is detrimental.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m):
Martinez39s:
I don't really understand his party scenario. I have been to a lot of parties myself. Socialising with people in a party isn't necessarily cold approach (as used in the red pill/game sphere); every interaction with a female or male in a party isn't necessarily cold approach. Even establishing contact and building up connection isn't cold approach (in the red pill/game sense); I do this all the time. Let's not conflate all sorts of socialising with cold approach. I don't need to cold approach the ladies in a party before I have fun... jeez grin Also, I have had fun in a party without saying a word to certain strange faces, male and female.

Party is all about fun, to me. Maybe it's the kind of parties I attend. You don't need to cold approach ladies in the party to have fun, neither must you go to a party with the intention of cold approaching ladies. If all the ladies in a party that you attend (with your guys) refuse to talk you or give you the light of day, will it ruin your fun or imply that you can't have fun?
I think the confusion in this discussion so far comes from the meaning of the phrase "cold approach." Outside the red pill/game sphere, the term "cold approach" is broad and in this sense, a man can cold approach a man or a woman with no romantic or sexual intentions. Most people outside the red pill/game sphere don't even use the phrase "cold approach"; it's mainly in the red pill/game sphere that you see this phrase.

Since the discussion festers even though people have agreed to disagree, I might add my honest contribution soon if I am in the mood, maybe.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:50am On Feb 02, 2022
Paygram:
Okay. What I don't understand right now is that, for every approach to any lady is cold approaching? What if you're going somewhere and you can't find your way, and all you have to do is to approach a lady coming down the road, is that cold approach too?

Ubunja has stated the facts believe it or not.

No, sit for your table with the mentality that very approach to a lady is cold approach.
I don't really understand his party scenario. I have been to a lot of parties myself. Socialising with people in a party isn't necessarily cold approach (as used in the red pill/game sphere); every interaction with a female or male in a party isn't necessarily cold approach. Even establishing contact and building up connection isn't cold approach (in the red pill/game sense); I do this all the time. Let's not conflate all sorts of socialising with cold approach. I don't need to cold approach the ladies in a party before I have fun... jeez grin Also, I have had fun in a party without saying a word to certain strange faces, male and female.

Party is all about fun, to me. Maybe it's the kind of parties I attend. You don't need to cold approach ladies in the party to have fun, neither must you go to a party with the intention of cold approaching ladies. If all the ladies in a party that you attend (with your guys) refuse to talk you or give you the light of day, will it ruin your fun or imply that you can't have fun?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:54am On Feb 02, 2022
sajmark:
Fall from grace...
Believe me, except Mason is an incorrigible idiòt, this experience, if he avoids jail and returns to the club, will make him wiser and shrewd, just like it did to Dr. Olufunmilayo (#OurFavOnlineDoc). grin grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:47am On Feb 02, 2022
ubunja:
nowhere on the manosphere are people promoting cold approaching. From Stephiscold to Alpha Male Strategies to Corry Waine to Cousin TTaw to Rom Wills All the red pill groups are on Choosing Signals, that's the red pill. If you want to push an idea that is not really red pill all in the name of trying to be inclusive and accommodating people who want retain their blue pill methods, you're corrupting the very game you're trying to understand.

Cold Approach doesn't give you confidence,, what gives you confidence is a girl you don't know, whom you've done Nothing for, and she chooses you to be her BF as you are. That's what will improve your self worth and make you feel like a human being of value.
Remindèrz is one of the alternates of Kiñg0G.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:44pm On Feb 01, 2022
CaveAdullam:
DAY 32, REDPILL 2022

No forming a dictator around a pvssy. After set and done, let go!

And as they say: "it is not yours, just your turn".

Authority: Maintain frame.
Simple!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:07pm On Feb 01, 2022
luminouz:
Seriously bro?

On a redpill thread?
The report button is there for a reason. grin
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:55pm On Feb 01, 2022
Calibrator:
We can all agree to disagree.

Or We can keep at this till we wear each other out.

But let's keep the discussion civil, men should not act bitchy and emotional to get their point across, at the end of the day, a man gotta do what a man gotta do!

Shalom.
I concur! Men who do this are childish and they demonstrate emotional incontinence. Also, people must watch out for the need to prove a point by all means (even when you start twisting/changing your intended argument and throwing anything hoping something will stick). Highest, agree to disagree if you are convinced of your point and don't want to change. Anyway, as I always said, discussions will come and go... and the thread will move on.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:23pm On Feb 01, 2022
Karleb:
Amber Heard did same with Johnny Depp and ruined his career.

Her own case was even makeup, where as she was the one abusing Johnny Depp.

If not for CCTV, Johnny would be in prison by now. If a wife could do that, how much more an estranged girlfriend.

This girl could be lying and incase she is, only God can help Greenwood if he doesn't have evidence to proof otherwise.
Even though the presumption of innocence until proof of guilt, just like freedom speech and expression, is one of the core principles upon which western civilisation is built, it happens that men are guilty until proven innocent in cases like these.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 2:54pm On Feb 01, 2022
SMH.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:50pm On Jan 31, 2022
Seandisputed:
Lol.
Good gesture from her. But he should have it have it at the back of his mind that it's not a guarantee for a blissful marriage. For all i care, she could have her moves calculated, and this could just be one of them to win his trust completely, thereby lowering his guards.
Well, what do I know? I pray it doesn't end up how I imagined it.
I wish them a happy married life.
I like the way you and sajmark are demonstrating wisdom on this issue.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:52pm On Jan 31, 2022
Aaron12:
If you can't control your dick, you will destroy yourself by yourself.

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:31am On Jan 31, 2022
posty56:
From greenwoods mother herself, yet emotional niggas here will be crying more than the beraved, cool, I am not pro greenwood or anti greenwood, I am just telling you there's is evidence, if you like carry the thing for head like gala I no go answer you
This british celebrity is not Mason Greenwood's mother. Besides, Mason doesn't play in the academy anymore. grin Even if it's his mother, it doesn't mean shit. The mother can be showing allegiance to the sisterhood; it's not a new thing. It's even unlikely that his mum would throw him under the bus if she is benefiting from his career and his conviction would sabotage that.

It's funny how you call those asserting common sense and logic in this situation "emotional niggas" as though not following the bandwagon makes us emotional and you act like we all said Greenwood is innocent. SMH.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:54pm On Jan 30, 2022
SOZINN:
Imagine, a woman that young is already supporting domestic violence and physical abuse just because he's a man. I told these vettors all hope is lost, I know they are willing to break their frame and kiss ass at some point in their marriage but are too ashamed to admit it.
You dey shake table small small. grin Don't destroy the hope. grin grin No spoil market for VETerans grin

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:38pm On Jan 30, 2022
Osas187:
Go and modify your post
Done.
RomanceRe: Man Faints In Church Alter After Girlfriend Rejected His Proposal (photos) by Martinez39s(m): 7:54pm On Jan 30, 2022
Simp!

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