₦airaland Forum

Durchess:
You wished you were still in an abusive relationship all because he is doing well. I guess your write up would have been different if you found out he wasnt doing so well. Let go of the past and value yourself.

Is this the only thing u picked up from all her story?...

U women are ur worst enemy... Living in proper denial.

The relationship was never abusive.... She know she could have work things out with the guy if she didn't listen to her so called friends.

She made it clear that the only two times he hitter her was as a result of how she pushed him hard...

Well I can summarise for u.

The young lady has something good going on but she lost it out of stupidity.

HMarshal:
Did u read where he said, divorce only when nothing will bring u together again? This lady went back after divorce,meaning she did not get over him.nigerians,u read & interprete tins upside down

A lot of NLanders lack comprehension capability... Na u go tire ... Just read and walk away

Daniel058:
Innocent people should stop these Dreadlocks of a thing ..

You can't dress like an armed Robber and expect to be treated like innocent person.


If am a police officer,Army or Sars, once you are on Dreadlocks, you are a suspect story no dey that 1

Why Dreadlocks when it will neither Make you Rich nor successful .

All smokers and guys on Dreadlocks are suspect and I will shoot them anyhow..yes nah!

U are part of Nigeria problem... A 40naira condom would have save us from u .... But still u need to isolate ur brain

naijaschoolguru:
Since February, we still don't know how we have been it? What are you even saying? four months gone yet we still don't know how we have been it. Alaye, you need brain surgery asap

U have comprehension problem.... But is OK , most NLders are in ur group...

fiizznation:
Lockdown is a waste of time. The only reason why the world adopted the lockdown approach was because it kind of actually worked for China. But the same world forgot that China is a communist state were your rights will be taken from you with or without your consent. Pray tell me; what has the lockdown achieved so far even in advance European countries aside from crippling their economies? Nothing. Why do you think they are opening up their countries now by adopting different strategies from the calamitous lockdown?

Bla bla, bla bla... All of una just dey run una finger...

Most of the European nation adopted lockdown measure when they have been terribly hit , Italy and Spain was one.

Donald trump refuse to lock down because of the economy, but when he saw how people were going down, he was forced to adopt lockdown.

And for Nigeria, with the whole world trembling, we didn't know how bad we have been hit, because of lack of test kit..

It was a wise move to lock down... To at least cut down the spread if we have been hit.

Within few weeks, we could assertain how deep we are in it.

Most state were able to know how bad they are hit and what to do next when lock down is dropped.

But most of u just come out and run ur mouth.

Despite what u people are seeing as nothing, I know we are a ticking time bomb.

Comparing us to Madagascar... Una well at all?

How many cases do they have

Meninmen:
Pls, remove Hauwei from that list?

Why bro

Eniolakiite:
Not so.

The Fathers that are irresponsible, abusive, beat the wives, cheat, have babies here and there are reasons why mothers get custody most times.

A judge won’t just give the woman custody cause she is fit. There is nothing like natural thing. There are people whose mother died after birthing them and fathers took care, whichever parent that is present during the growth of the child has influence on the child’s development, and it can be both if they are present.

Also There is a reason they are in court and most women win even if the child is already grown because the men have shown signs of irresponsibility and there are times few men win custody too.

Well am not here to argue it, we are seeing it everyday in our community even in western world..

When it comes to the child. The mother is consider first.

I once watch a video on IG, this baby is less than a year old.

The parents were playing game, where who won will hit the other in the head with a foam or so.

The first three the mother won, she hit the father severally.

When the father won and hit the mother , the baby hug the mom and started crying,


We have also seen videos of kids where both parents open their arms and ask the kid to come, we know where the baby always run to...

U see that bond, is something no one can explain, fathers don't have it with their kids... That development age is where the mother can make or mal that kid.

Lastly, look at our social media space, tell me how mother's day and father's day is celebrated.... I hope u can see the difference...

because a woman won custody doesn't mean the man us irresponsible and useless .

The mothers are first considered b4 the fathers.... U can't just take a child from the mother... When she is fit... She will fight u till grave... This happen in all level of animals....

foolbuster:
This is completely false and a figment of your imagination.

Ok

Eniolakiite:
They win custody mostly because some men choose to be irresponsible and won’t sit in a place to care and raise their kids.

Nope, is a natural thing, except the mother is not stable mentally, or she have other issues that will endanger the child....

Once she is fit, not even finicially , the judge will give her custody and ask the father to support her and get visit.

Mothers have great control over kids at their development age, every sensible and expose individual won't ague it, except maybe the feminist in our mix who bring equality to everything

Enterusernamehe:
Look here, you can't blame the majority on the mother because the father also plays an equal part in a child's life. This is not the olden days where women don't work. So the major blame should not be rested on the mother alone.

Let me ask u, during the development age of the kids who are thy closer to, mother or father.

Ask ur self why do court easily grant mothers custody during divorce.

There is a bond between kids and mothers civilisation can't take away.... That bond is the advantage mother's can use to bring this kids up in their own way.

U think the breast milk is just for feeding alone?

Joshmodest:
I'd like is to have this argument !
You just highlighted here that the mother should take 50% I don't know your reasons , but i want to glance at your thoughts , and I expect your reply to be .
Cos the mom is always around them , I don't understand how two people would have a child and one takes the larger share of the child's upbringing....now most moms work just same hours as the dads , if not more but society still tends to blame the mom for poor upbringing of the child .....
Fathers make the mistake as a result of what the society has constructed ,to always think thier wives should train the children why they portray themselves as head of the home with biblical references.
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Saying moms should take 50% while fathers take 20 ks like saying lalastic.lala should take the blame for nairaland's failure instead of se.un

Ask ur self why mothers most times win custody of kids after divorce.

There is this bond between mothers and kids and not even the father can come close to that.

That bond alone is the advantage mothers will ever have over kids.

Even if mothers works same time as fathers kids are still closer to mothers at the development age

Ubykcee:
All these people that are being arrested and sent to isolation center, I hope there are being given food. Let them not suffer for hunger there ooooo

Let them suffer, since sense hard Nigerians to get.

Simple order, they won't hear.... Stay in ur state, but no... They want to travel .... 2moro we keep blaming government when we are not too different from them

AroleOduduwa2:
Our brain have been programmed by ruling class to fight between each other along ethnic lines.

Of what different does it make if he’s Yoruba or Fulani, we should judge people based on their merit and not their ethnicity.

The man in question has a good resume, but he’s part of Nigeria problem, he has been in the corridor of power since the creation of Nigeria with no meaning impact

Very true bro, but u should know Nigeria itself Is built on the foundation of tribal lines.

More and more reason am not seeing this stuff called Nigeria work.

This is what we should be celebrating, not appointment that won't help uor ur family in any way...

ShenTeh:
It will take a lot of image making to repair this man's subliminal image after his hotel demolition and vehicle auctioning feats.

Garb a pig in gold...

Welcome to Nigeria when everything wipe in two weeks.

If buhari can be a democratic president after over throwing a democratic government .... Trust what woke did is just a joke ...

Nigerians forget alot

badaru911:
I don't know the reason why the influx of Northern youth to the south. If they are looking for job, their ain't no jobs as well in the south. To me, they are just trying to become a burden to the southern government with the meager allocation given to them compared with those given to them.

That is how it has always been... U are knowing this now because of the interstate lock down.

They are here for menial jobs, like shoe polishing, digging of holes, painting etc..

There is hardly such job in the north because a lot of them are into it there... So since the southerners hardly do such, the market is open for them.

They are the ones u see in sabo, mammy market rolling wheel barrows and all.

Nigeria can't divide, because they need Nigeria more.


Funny enough, they are not troublesome like the Niger counterpart

SocialFinance:
Now you know there is nothing good about PDP. Whether small or big pepper na pepper.

Continue romancing with them deceiving yourself with stoopid revolution

Continue reporting lie and concorted story about Nigeria. If PDP get back to power you will know the true meaning of i[b]t's finish[/b]

And ur stupid sense couldn't tell u is not about party, they have brainwashed u so hard that all u see is party...

Grow up and get sense, we hold people responsible not party, because the APC it self is built from PDP.

We saw Buhari using same power to oppress people with DSS... So they all the same bunch of old fools.... U better wise up

coins501:
Buhari's government is one of the biggest scams of the 21st century. How this dull man managed to fool very enlightened Nigerians to vote him in 2015 is still a mystery.

He didn't fool anyone ... Some people who said he was better off, packaged him.

Till this day, they are still telling u he is good

brexit:
They are telling us the truth, there was a time in this country when papers were covered and figures inflated to give a good impression of the government in power, but for the economists we knew what they were doing, giving false GDP growth rate without commensurate provision of goods and services, suddenly the economy entered into recession, evidence of false figures

Said by who? How can u prove the figures were inflated bro.

This is another story to give excuse to this failed administration... Let's call it what it is.... This men failed us.

No excuse ... Everything under them is crashing

murphyibiam15:
Nawa oo.. between Umahi and Wike I don't know who's more dictatorial..but I think is Wike..PDP govs have gone mad ooooooh

U have to look for a way to bring party in.

Come on, are u not too young for this kind of mentality!

What will it cost u to think straight

Peterobi90:
Our only means of getting foreign exchange is crude oil, there means of getting foreign exchange from Nigerians is uncountable, from everything we dont manufacture to the new social media..

Now the crude is at its lowest ebb and immigration policies are getting stiffer, we are headed for rocks if we dont curb our lifestyle.

Let them start from stopping their kids to school abroad, going abroad for health care, going abroad for vacation, going abroad for choosing...

Name it a lot and a lot...

Make una allow me enjoy my foreign movie, I don't think that will do Nigeria any harm more than the listed above

Kingluqman:
Man is incomparable! Prison Break is the GOAT of series

U can say that again bro

Miracle1991:
if they are talking about people leaving their region,then igbos have no moral right to open their mouth. 60% of them are not staying in their region,. Infact I know some of them that spend all their lives outside the south east.

Is that all u understood from this news?

Sometimes how u people reason baffles me, simple comprehension u cant understand.

Did anyone ask them not to leave their region?.

Interstate lock down directives is on ground, everyone stay in ur respective states, that is what NCDC and FG has instructed. But this people keep looking for a way to run into the south.

Have u seen any lorry on northern border saying they are from the east.

The igbos know how to respect orders and their hosts.... They are not lawless.

Peterobi90:
Going by the various foreign names mentioned, Nigeria is really not ready for growth..

Imagine the foreign exchange wasted in idolizing the international artist, while we complain of dollar rate skyrocketing..

For me:
Sam loco/Nkem owoh...

Is it their fault Hollywood refuse to get sense?

Keep acting trash and expect people to enjoy it.... Come on guy is entertainment, after hustling day and night, time to relax, make I watch watin dey pain my eye?

Kingluqman:
Any day
It is Wentworth Miller (Michael Scofield)

I remember one of his quotes “Preparation will only take you so far. After that you gotta take a few leaps of faith”.



White boy... you a king.

U are a legend, only men will understand u, all this indomie age kids won't know who scolfield is

taiyesoul:
Nice initiative. Health workers are on "suicidal" mission at this obstinate period. What Lagos, despite it's billions of naira monthly IGR refused to do is being done.
Kudos to the Ogun State government for this laudable initiative.

U mean audio IGR?

OkikiOluwa1:
Some people in authority behave like goats in Nigeria.
This is more than politics. Only a goat will not facilitate testing of Covid-19 in his State.
As in how can a whole gov be like this?

The goats are every where, look at one of them who commented immediately b4 u

NoSidonLook:
The church keeps leading from the front

Some people that have never done anything worthy of note even in their compound will still find one thing to say against the church. But it keeps marching on

Some will say Pastors and other religious leaders are waiting for cure from science before they can resume their business

Virus that started from science laboratory. Who else will provide cure if not science.

Did we hear it started from any religious place.

Others will say Religion is looking up to Science in this time. Science is leading

And I ask. Are these Scientist aliens
Or don't you know their many 'religious' scientist around the world.

Even most of the men of old that fronted for science were religious men
Isaac Newton
Michael Faraday
Gregor Mendel
Galileo Galilee
Al Quarismo (famous Arab scholar)

According to the great physicist and genius of the 20th century Albert Einstein, "Science without religion is Lame."

Atheism doesn't make you are smart.
It's not by too much grammar.

Most men that change the world of science na religious men.
Atheist na talk dem sabi

Who come ask u this story

Sentence her to death by hanging, straight forward. If marriage tire u, divorce and let us breath

Chikelue2000:
trash!!...who's in power?....PDP?....y can't dis government leave PDP n past administration alone?

They can't, because it is a game they keep playing to deceive the gullible, forgetting that majority in APC are from PDP

jumper524:
minimum wage doesn't determine the price of foreign products.

The point is, as u are quick to compare our petroleum price and advice us to stop complaining.

Why not compare our minimum wage and advice the government to also match up

Wickedfact:
Mobil in Nigeria is considering shutting down some rigs cos demand is more than supplies.
Total is talking about making losses.
Nigeria currently has more than 80 Million barrels of crude on oil tankers at anchor in different destination countries. No buyers. It's not about Buhari.

They would still call all of us to carry basin to Nnpc and be sharing crude as palliatives. Be using it to cook soup like our brothers under bondage in Abia.

Supply is more than demand, correct ur self