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Timson01:
Good day nairalanders,

I have a question bothering me. I have been in a relationship with my fiance for almost 3 years. Our wedding is this Easter. So we got a new apartment and he has been living in that apartment .

I visit almost every day and we both cant wait to get married. We moved some of his stuff in one of the rooms and I was trying to clean up and arrange some of the items when I saw some pictures of my fiance and his ex.

Personally,I was surprised he still kept pictures of his ex. (I discovered this ex is in the same church with him. I recognized her cos she is a church worker but he never mentioned they were ever together until I found these pictures). I put them together and my intention was to confront him and later,maybe burn the pictures. So I packed them in a bag waiting for him to return so I can show them to him.

I continued cleaning but I also saw like old CDs and I was wondering which ones to keep or throw away so I had to play them one by one in the DVD to determine which one was still good or which ones are bad so I can throw them away.

Just as I continued playing the CDs,I played one that I was not expecting. It was a sx tape of my fiance and his ex (his church member o) and another woman. I recognized the ex from the photos that I saw earlier on. I was stunned and shocked. Why did he make sx tape of himself having a party with his ex and someone else?
At this point,I lost it and couldn’t wait for him to return. He of course lied that he did not know he still had the pictures and video. He said the video was a mistake. He was young and stupid. The video was made when they were drunk.

I met my fiance through a mutual friend. Never for once did my fiance mention that his ex is still in the same church with him. In fact,he never mentioned her. I go to his church once in while but I never got any hint…I feel so fooled.

For me,its bullshit. All I can picture is him and his ex and that LovePeddler. Who is she,that ex…who is the other woman?…why is the ex pictures and videos still with the man I am getting married to in a few weeks.
My fiance has been begging me,saying he has destroyed the pictures and video.But that is not comforting me,my gut is telling me there is something about this ex. I mean,I know my guy is not a virgin,I know he has been with other girls in the past but never in a million years did I picture him as the kind of guy who would sleep with two women at the same time and even film it.

Plus filming it..he kept the tape…We have been together for 3 whole years…why does is that tape still in existence?Maybe he is still in love with the ex or maybe they are still seeing behind my back.

Or maybe he kept the tape as a reminder of the kind of s*x he likes…I am confused and I truly feel like there is something he is not telling me but he says I am just paranoid for nothing,that there is nothing going on. That he has not spoken to this ex for over 4 years.
Please advise me…is he telling the truth…his motive for making the tape too is scaring me…is he that type of guy or was this just one time stupid mistake?

Abeg nairalanders,make una advise me on what to do?

eduman365:
Coronavirus has reportedly resurfaced even after patients had fully recovered...

I think they should keep the patient under observation for a few months before releasing him into the public cos he may spread it fast if the virus reappears.

Humblega:
Dats a lie......Italy has more cases and death

FlyoruB:
The only reason the ibos didn't want to adopt the Amotekun template is because it was initiated by the Yorubas. Their elites and their Nairaland fanboys have said and done everything to discredit the Amotekun concept without success. Na that typical ibo pride and overbloated ego. But maybe now that the SS folks are about to adopt it they would have a rethink.

Arrewa:
The difference between Northern politics and Eastern politics...

In the north if a politician refuse to perform, na beating him dey collect...

We do hold our leaders accountable for our financial federal allocations...

In the east... They will only insult Buhari and the north

And their greedy politicians will pocket their allocations... Eastern politicians are benefiting so much in this Biafra stuff...they no longer work, they know that Las Las na the north their people go still blame

Instead of holding their selfish leaders accountable they'll rather keep insulting the north for dragging them backward

God bless northern Nigeria!

Commentor:
This is a man some boasted to be an intellectual.

Day by day, Sani displays such crass and primordial traits, it is baffling how he ever managed to fool some.

This is one who was once a legislator.

LegendHero:
That law in itself sounds crazy. Why should they recruit someone just based on the fact that they’ve lived 20years in a locality.

So for example, if an herdsman lived in that particular community for 20years, he is entitled to be part of Amotekun too?

Just like the Miyetti Allah leader in Oyo that claimed he lived in Oyo state for several decades and even said he married a Yoruba. After all his utterances and provocations, this kind of law from Lagos means he also qualifies to be part of Amotekun right?

CanadaOrBust:
Our weather will protect us.
Viruses don’t do well in hot weather.

johnmartus:
the kind of fear that gripped this guy when he read the news that pdp would give their presidential ticket to south. He understand the fact that APC will beat anyone they give in the south.

But what you don't understand whether Apc give the ticket to south or north Apc will still carry the day.

CAPSLOCKED:
"THE VIRUS MAY...... "

ANYBODY CAN PREDICT ANYTHING, SO I DON'T SEE HOW WE ALL SHOULD BECOME JEHOVAH WITNESS MEMBERS NOW.

Ade24682:
That’s their business. I am already planning on getting large quantity of it. And selling at a higher price.

seunmsg:
This is very laughable coming from PDP. The party started the show of shame by rejecting the judgement of the Supreme Court on Imo election and calling for a review. They protested everywhere, abused the Chief Justice of the Federation, wrote to multiple embassies to tarnish the name of the country and even called for visa ban to be imposed on all the justices that sat on the panel.

Now that APC is doing just a fraction of what they did, they are crying about destabilization. PDP had gotten more favorable judgement from the supreme courts than any other party. If we all continue on this ignoble path of asking the Supreme Court to review final judgements, PDP will be the one to suffer.

PDP should stop the show of shame and take the back seat. It’s hypocritical to ask for the review of Imo judgement and be condemning APC for asking for the review of Bayelsa judgement.

Ausrichie:
Jonathan is not an igbo man for God's sake. And all that you wrote there does not make any sense. Hausa and Igbo people have been bloody enemies for years now.

helinues:
Mr Tewonde...

Why is it hard for good messages to come from Nigeria opposition?

All they wish for the same country they plan to rule in the future is evil.

Pdp and her supporters are definition of Yeyelity

Girlwhocares:
Yes,have been dating my bf for (15yrs)he was my first nd the only one have ever loved,our problem started when my dad said he witnessed where exhibited an unruly characters to some elders and also cos of the friends he moves with recently as at then and that he wasnt comfortable with our relationship (which i pleaded and made him understand everyone deserves another chance but cos how principled my dad was he insisted he won't consent to our union)
To be candid,this is the guy have share all my life with,he's all i wanted in a man but my dad opinion ruined our relationship.

I think seperation from my husband is all i need just for clarity sake but honestly,the more i try to make the marriage work the more i drift away from him and I dont know how to go about it.

I have visited two marriage counsellors without informing my husband all in my effort to work things but not yielding results as expected

BlackfireX:
Afenifebi ...


Go and put him there, as for OYo state , APC is coming to take over from that audio governor.




Old expired noise makers

AdemolaA2:
Wonder why a 13 year old boy would resort to committing suicide because of mere allegation .. shows his parents aren’t close to their son ..otherwise , he would have waited for them to get back and allow his parents to defend him .. may his soul Rest In Peace ...

Digmygold:
And you sound like a deadbeat relaying a fake story.

Are you a deadbeat or an intending one? Get a vasectomy. Never breed babies if you aint gonn ,cater and be there for them. You'll end up in misery.

Digmygold:
What useless properties should be shared? The young man will.make much more. Thsts how God works.

A deadbeat is not a parent . He/She is a rotten ccrpse that should be thrown to wild pigs for dinner. Nonsense.

Or11:
Bush girl, which one is overhead tank?

NonFarmPayrol:
the cities he mentioned even have rail systems and were way ahead of Lagos even 50 years ago

poor comparison

designking:
You want Lagos to be a mega city just like London, Paris, Jo'burg but you don't want to pay the price.

Every tom dick and harry can't be running from their respective states and constitute nuisance in Lagos State.

What is Okada and Keke doing in a major city like Lagos state?

anonimi:
You sef, how can he buy car with the uselesss BMC slave wage of 30k?
Na who want dash am
The only thing dey dash them on top of the misserable pay is food.


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Hmmm used to hear about this BMC WhatsApp group, never knew its real, so this is what they did to paint GEJ black.....

No wonder they never change , because of 30k peanut


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LabDNA:
Lol..the dead meat mongrel will have to fast for 3 years and save all the 30k stipends from BMC just to get a gwora-gwora jalopy.

mrvitalis:
The informed you 10 months ago ...you are now setting committee now to save face abi what ?

And one idiot said he is suppressed about our security situation

How in heavens name was I convinced to support buhari in 2015 ?

pwansunriseteam:
Hmmm
This is a trying time for Lagosians
This trycycle ban will affect many. Any time i am going to any location in Island, If I am not with car. Keke is the easiest way to enter any where in Island. The same way with Ikeja. They should not have banned Keke.

Yankiss:
Well, they have money to burn. If I were to decide, it's crazy to wed in foreign land to impress whoever. Only inferiority or superiority complex can occasion this. I am yet to see Arabs or Indians or whites coming to Africa to wed unless the spouse or so is from here. We cant learn.

solmus:



Ambode almost caused chaos before he got booted out, trash and dirt littered everywhere all because he wants to destroy Fashola's legacy, he abandoned Fasholas light rail, and only concentrated on ikorodu roads,

too bad Audio Governor Seyi Makinde would welcome this bike men to neighboring Oyo now just to form nice guy for the media


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