₦airaland Forum

seunmsg:
My understanding of the part in bold is that Nigerians can no longer immigrate to the US except those that have acted as moles for the US government. Very harsh and unnecessary.

The Federal government should engage the US government diplomatically to get the restriction reversed. If Trump insist on keeping the restriction after all necessary engagements, we should consider a reciprocal decision.

Reciprocal decision like?

flexyrule:
God bless you. Those governors are doing nathing!
I visited Akwa Ibom last year December and I almost cried.
The level of unemployment and poverty is heartbreaking.
Yet the state receives almost the highest subvention from the FG.
Akpabio tried in the area of Infrastructure and selling the state's image for investors to come in, but the current mentally-lazy governor has practically taken the state back to 1999. The only thing he is good at is dishing out motivational words. Daakada, Only God etc.

Don't mind that blind dude judging achievements with the pages of news papers

blowjohn:
Imagine what someone just sat down to write!
Isms it not better to sell recharge cards that put up lies about savido to gain attention?
It's like people just go to school and come out worse off

My brother I tire, Nigeria youths lack creativity

solmus:
heen heen, i dont know that Ndi land grabers now means Ibo anyways straight to the point

Ameachi has wowed us with Rail Revolution, sourcing finance outside government and oil and building rail, ameachi started portharcourt lightrail, he was responsible for peace in rivers, and he promoted tourism through carnivals, his tenure witness the completion of over 900km of roads accross town, also tried building a new urban city built couldnt finish

as for his tenure as a speaker, he was responsible for smooth running of Odili administration

As for Akwa Ibom earnings through 13% derivative, bayelsa and delta also earns more and are not doing anything impressive

Its obvious u know nothing about rivers, I was born in rivers, grew up in delta, schooled in RSUST.

Pls and pls and pls, focus on ur area. SS governors are doing nothing and we will continue to say it, we will continue to ask for more.

Right here in SS we don't worship people because they give us a plate of rice when we know we deserve a farm of rice.

Keep on doing ur comparison over where u are..... because delta is blind doesn't mean akwaibom should be happy with one eye .... Hope u get that.....

solmus:





Watch how some developers and Land grabbers would rush to Akwa Ibom and claim no mans land

I must say i have huge respect for Akwa Iboms past and present Governors, they are strategical about diversifying from oil
*They built world class Stadiums and backed it with 5 star hotels and several golf resot and to crown it the started their own Airline Routing Lagos and Abuja.. this is tourism master peice
*now they are about finishing their own seaport and to crown it up an industrial estate is being built and almost completed,
*If only the can build their own Intergrated Power Project and the development and industrilization would be astronomical

This is why Vissionary Politician like Tinubu, Ameachi, Akpabio, Udom, Ganduje, Kwankwaso and Fashola can never ever do any wrong in my eyes


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U wrote well but ur stupid tribal mentality destroyed ur whole write up. Listen the igbos are industrialists they move far and wide not just Nigeria. No smart biz man will just sit in his corridor and do biz, u explore far and wide.

Since u know ameachi very well, let me ask u ... What did he achieved as governor for 8yrs and speaker of the house for 4yrs.

Do u know how much akwaibom worth as a state, I guess u don't that is why u could see akpabio as god and do no wrong.

sarrki:
The truth is Gej would have shined if he aligned with the masses .

All Nigerians from across the country supported him in 2011 , we see him as one of us in the seat

He chose to favor the same people that ruined the country

Having a good heart is different from governing a controversial nation like Nigeria

So I believe things wouldn’t have been better

For Pmb I and many want a change and we see him as an alternative due to the approach and assurance he gave during electioneering campaign

But the truth is !!!

It’s a hoax

Are u the sarrki I know or a different one. Am surprised

solmusdesigns:
yes

Waow, never knew its possible

solmusdesigns:
even people using Apple macbook run Microsoft

U mean running windows on macbook?

stevmatt15:
I see Fulani herdsmen in Enugu steady, but they never hold gun, is it true that they actually move with guns?

So ur sense is telling u that if thy hold gun u will see it, they will carry their guns like army......

Fragility6:
In a way e no surprise me. Na only woman dey follow blindly like diz

IcraveLove:
Please break up with your girlfriend and focus on your baby mama.

because she have a baby, pregnancy that was agreed to terminate. This mumu boy was played from the onset by a desperate girl. He should move out from the area, destroy all contact and social media account and start a new life with his GF ..

At least let her know whats up, she is the only one that deserve his focus. Let the mumu baby mama deal with it

Fragility6:
In 2015 Grill guy was not this st*pid

The mumu na girl o

ZombieHUNT:
Buhari has nothing to offer the country except hardship and tyranny

Buhari is a failure

Let them keep deceiving them selves

In 2015 fuel was not 145

In 2015 dollar was not 360

In 2015 bag of rice was not 30000naira

What more can I say, let me stop here

hisexcellency34:
Leceister too small for Ndidi. He should join Arsenal fast

Hello how is arsenal better than leceister

femolii:
Amotekun is for only south west states alone na for God sake.

U sound shocked .... U guys really don't know who u were dining with?

I hope the SW learn a lesson after this.....

VenusEAGLE:
Being single is not a disease

Is this all u deduce from the entire write up?

NwaAmaikpe:





God will not bless him for this supposed act of charity because the money is not his.

Why bless him for a gift that technically cost him nothing?

God will only bless him if he goes to his bank account, withdraws from it and gifts these widows in private.

Will God bless him if he buy private jet with it?

AZeD1:
This rule doesn't affect the rich. With $500k you will get an investor visa.

From which country bro, can u provide a link to this ?

PussyKing:
Fail Mc, blogger, comedian

If not for Instagram.

Minus Instagram this Yoruba guy is nothing

At least he kept pushing till something favoured him....its that not good enough.

Social media is demn powerful. It can mess up any business

D1official:
So when your Supreme Court makes useless and senseless judgement people should rejoice and keep quite. You the one the reasons why this nation is still a shithole .

When executive was making judiciary its puppet they all sat and smile like goats, now they reaping the benefit

Sense is really far from Nigerians, supreme court has made its judgement, u are protesting, for what exactly?

Joshmodest:
The children in question are adults they may have thier reasons , whether acceptable or not ...
BTW men should learn to care for thier children , gone are those days when you let your wife suffer to take care of the kids , and you tell yourself , that the children would come to look for you in the future after they are accomplished . Any body tries that with a child like me , you'll be finished , i totally would have nothing to do with you even if you come back yourself to beg ...take care of your kids , cos if you don't , there's always a repercussion you wouldn't like or expect ..
I'm not saying that's what happened in funke's case , I'm just putting this out !

I had a course mate who his father divorced his mother when he was 2yrs old. The man ignored him and his mother, the mum was a nurse, she struggled to bring this smart dude up, guess what, he was the best graduating student of my set then. 4.88CGPA, chemical engineering.

The young man visited his father who now have 5 other kids with another woman, invited his father to his convocation, he said he want to show his father what he became without him.

On the convocation ground, when the boy was called up, two instant employment from two oil servicing company, the boy's father started crying he knelt down started begging the boy and his mother in the eyes of the public. The boy asked him to stand up hug his father and told him, ur REJECTION was my MOTIVATION.

The last story I heard about him, was that when his father was dying he willed all his properties to the young man, asking him to share it among his other siblings, because he is the only one he can trust, that he showed him what a failure of a father he is.

What am I trying to point out, we should learn to pay evil with kindness, it is the greatest joy anyone can get.

Ur parents are ur parents, come what may..... I will always treat them with kindness no matter what, because that is the kind of legacy I want to leave for my own kids

LadySarah:
Your wife is crazy. The tables will be turned in the future very soon.
Does she want your mom dead. Why won't your mom add her own guests? Is it not a Nigerian wedding thingy anymore?

You are speaking long grammar while she disrespect s your mom. FU... CK HER


Your mom on the other hand should ignore her if I was her and stop visiting every damn weekend. At most twice a yr except an event or emergency.

Both of you will beg before you hear from me or see my legs in your house.

Nonsense and it's ingredients!

It seems the son is the only idiot the mama have, if not the best decision is to avoid him and his stupid wife, wait for them till the day they will come begging

E685:
My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.

Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.

Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.

Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.

Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.

This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.

And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.

So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.

What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Listen to ur self, and the trash u wrote, this ur wife will put u in deep shit, what is there if ur mother want to add additional guest to the list, where is the problem there is ur wife is not wicked, if its her mother will she turn her down.

Imagine the trash u wrote that she didn't add a dime to the wedding, listen to ur self bro, u are weak.... As in very weak, if ur wife can't look for a ground to accept ur mother, then she is a devil, all I see here is a mother in law who just want to be heard , who is proud of her son...

See how u ran to ur wife father's birthday, am sure ur wife will tell u ur mother birthday is not worth celebrating.

Bros u be ewu, it means goat in Igbo language ....

U are a mumu man

9jii:
Topical PDP type of governing leaving the important aims of being in power by creating divisions to sway the people attention to politics of hatred.

All u know is PDP and APC, when will u grow up

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

U are a mumu man, what is depression in this case, u even open a thread for this trash. Listen this is Nigerian, men go through worst, if u go to prison and people narrate their story for u, u won't even have the mind to talk about depression.

For u to even went as far as putting hand on her shoulder shows how naive you are, as a Nigerian, u are optimally alert at any time

helinues:
CBN governor - SE
Deputy CBN governor - SE

Yet nobody is shouting marginalization

See how dumb u are, when we keep telling u guys to read and know simple current affairs, no u won't.

Come online showing how shallow u are.

CBN governor is from agbor delta state, SS