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When she has no boo for school, she must enter town to cruise....cos there is no time to lose...for na so dem dey roll


*Who is a financial woman? Is it a girl that dates only rich guys, or a girl who doesn't like dating campus guys?

Footballers & Their Love For Beautiful Women

I don't understand, is it their money that is making their wives or girlfriends to look beautiful or just that our footballers like 'fine fine' girls. Hardly will you hear or see a professional footballer coming to any local area or to the East to pick a wife. If the girl is not a beauty queen, nna forget it! Its like they are all competing among themselves to have the finest girl. Is it deliberate or is it due to the fact that these rich footballers are usually paired with classic chics by nature of their status or cos they don't mingle nor go to where ordinary girls are? Even Iheanacho don arrange him own babe too....

Biko, there are so many Cinderellas over here o...correct chics with wifey qualities...smiles

Teacher: Class, where is our president?

Class: We don't know!


Let those in the presidency do the needful. The president need to address the Nation. And put to rest all the speculations flying about. If it were an American president, he or she would have come out to address the situation even from the hospital... We need to change the way we do things. Power belongs to the people. Thats what democracy really means

@Looke, I said in most cases. Its not easy juggling motherhood with work or studies for most married women. Even if they are married to an understanding man, the stress will still be there. I know women who have had to suspend their own goals just to raise their kids. Some end up becoming full time housewives before they realize it. All I'm saying is that single girls should try as much as possible to do enough for themselves before getting married. Cos when that time comes, their home and their kids will be their number one priority.

I'm asking this question, cos of what is happening presently. Most girls who are graduates tend to forget about their degree once they get married and start having kids. And its like the most important thing to them once they get married, is to start having kids immediately. Some don't even bother using their degree to get a job or do any other thing. Many of them, including the ones with masters end up becoming full time housewives or business women. Thereby having no need of the degree they laboured to acquire in school. So I ask, is it still necessary for girls to further their studies, knowing fully well she might not make use of it in the end, and since getting married seem to be their number one priority?

Girls, don't cos you are still single, you must wait to get married first before upgrading/improving yourself professionally and personally. You're forgetting that once a woman gets married she will hardly have time for herself or for her own goals. A lot of women/girls have sacrificed their dreams or ambitions all cos of their marriage. Once you get married, no time again for other things in most cases. So, the right time to better your life is now! Go get that degree you've always wanted or do any professional program or business to better your life, now. Waiting to get married first before doing such, might not be easy. Cos nursing a baby, raising kids and tending to your husband and home, no be moi moi. If na lie, ask those who are in it already.

Most girls are fond of changing their boyfriends every year. Sometimes due to their insatiable needs, and also no thanks to bad guys who go about hurting girls every season. That's why you see most girls celebrating valentine every year with different guys...A girl that did valentine last year with John, might be celebrating this year's valentine with Kingsley. Having made John a part of her past. But I want to know, how does a girl feel being seen with different boyfriends every year?

Imagine how disappointed he was after realizing what he was staring at lustfully wasn't even a girl's boobs...hehehe

It's only guys that can be single and also searching, but ladies don't! Cos a girl who is single, doesn't need to search. All she does is hope to be found by the right guy

Why do some men like blaming women for any misfortune that comes upon them. Why cant they just accept they are at fault and leave a woman out of it. Cos most times whenever a man is infected with HIV, loses his job, suffer losses in his business/bad investment or is having financial problems, he is always quick to blame it on his wife or girlfriend. What if the woman is innocent? Men need to stop seeing the opposite sex as bad influence or bad omen. A man need to be a man at all times.

Whenever a girl is about breaking up with a guy and she tells him he's too nice, sweet and good for someone like her. And that he deserves a better person (which has become a normal line for most girls), I begin to wonder who then deserves a 'girl' like her? Since she alone knows why she feels she isn't good enough for any nice and sweet guy...maybe she is the type that prefer dating a Bleep boy. Guys that would treat her like a piece of trash, use and later dump her. Cos when you are with a very sweet guy, why hurt him in the end?

When you are single and have so many suitors on your case, it makes a girl overwhelmed and confused at the same time. Cos with each suitor claiming to be the best, its just like hiding a key under a cup and being asked to point out the cup later among other similar cups placed together with it... Getting it right is usually a tough task!

How much does a guy need to save or have in order to have a very nice wedding. Left to most guys, any amount from #500k is enough to do both your traditional wedding and white wedding. But to most girls, such an amount is a joke. If the budget is not up to #1M or above, then the guy is not ready to get married according to most girls...no wonder a lot of guys ain't married yet, cos they are still hustling, trying to gather enough money to get married.

Who do you think are the best slayers? Yoruba, Igbo or Calabar girls?

To me, its calabar girls. They are beautiful, sexy and can slay!

Who do you think is the most loved Nollywood Actress among these three remarkable women....Chioma Chukwuka Akpotha, Genevieve Nnaji, and Mercy Johnson.

I think its Mercy Johnson. Cos a lot of girls especially like her alot and seem to see her as a role model. The love they have for her ehn, no be here o!

We used to know them as hausa cattle rearers when I was small. But now they are known and seen as armed fulani herdsmen. The former were nice, friendly and peaceful bunch of Hausa men and kids who used to go about with their cattle from one place to another peacefully and without any confrontation. Then they were even invited or allowed by house owners to take their cattle to graze at back of houses with grasses. And sometimes offered drinking water or food by their host. The relationship was better then. And hardly were there any incident of clashes or attacks between cattle rearers and land owners or farmers. Compare to what is happening now. These present Fulani herdsmen seem to be on a mission. Ever ready to attack and unleash mayhem at the slightest provocation. Which are most times deliberately initiated by the herdsmen. I don't know what they stand to gain by killing innocent people or why they now go about treading on people' properties with so much swag and without any care... And I dont really know why they move about with guns and weapons...if they don't intend using it on people on whose land they trespass on...

We used to know them as hausa cattle rearers when I was small. But now they are known and seen as armed fulani herdsmen. The former were nice, friendly and peaceful bunch of Hausa men and kids who used to go about with their cattle from one place to another peacefully and without any confrontation. Then they were even invited or allowed by house owners to take their cattle to graze at back of houses with grasses. And sometimes offered drinking water or food by their host. The relationship was better then. And hardly were there any incident of clashes or attacks between cattle rearers and land owners or farmers. Compare to what is happening now. These present Fulani herdsmen seem to be on a mission. Ever ready to attack and unleash mayhem at the slightest provocation. Which are most times deliberately initiated by the herdsmen. I don't know what they stand to gain by killing innocent people or why they now go about treading on people' properties with so much swag and without any care... And I dont really know why they move about with guns and weapons...if they don't intend using it on people on whose land they trespass on...

Imagine you going to join a secret cult just to fortify yourself against a particular enemy that has been attacking you with juju. Only for you to come back from the initiation and discover that your so called enemy has repented of his sins and is now born again...What will you do?

Patience is a virtue. There is nobody God can not change or use. When you are troubled, run to God and cast all your burden on him, and He shall give you rest. It is there in Psalm 55:22, and also in Psalm 23:4, which says "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me. For Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me." No matter the storm, God is able.

I don't understand why most girls don't know how to handle rejection from guys. Once a guy tells a girl he is not interested in her or turns her down, she would be so angry and instantly develop hatred for the guy. But why is it like that? Ain't girls expert in turning guys down all the time. So why feel bad when served the same medicine?

When you (as a guy) brings an high class babe like her to show your mother as the woman you want to marry, what do you think would be your mom's response? Will she be happy or worried?

She wants to drink this garri as her lunch, and she's asking if she should use water?

No matter the recession, guys go still dey drink beer....I've noticed that nothing usually affect the weekly budget for alcohol consumption for those that take alcohol. Any time you pass by a bar or beer joint, you see guys taking several bottles of beer, as if tomorrow no dey. You begin to wonder if recession no dey affect alcohol consumption ni?

A lot of girls cant do without pinging on their phone all the time. Even when they are in the toilet or when taking their bath. Their phone is always close to them. And the worst part of it, is pinging on their phone when they are walking on the road, without looking up. And this is very risky.
Pls for your own safety, do not ping on your phone whenever you are walking on the road...

Update On The Man That Gave His Girlfriend A Convertible Car

Heard lots of girls have been sending and bombarding the guy with a lot of friend requests and direct messages on facebook, after she posted the pictures of her boo and the convertible car he gave her. The girl has threatened to deal with any girl that comes near her man.
Hehehehe. Wetin she expect? After advertising her man and his wealth on social media. Trust naija girls! Now the vultures are coming to snatch her boo from her

Matters Arising: Aspa Tonto Dikeh

The problem with Tonto Dikeh and why she's going through a lot of emotional stress presently is cos she's lonely and bored. Yeah, bored! And a lot of married women(especially those who were once career women before getting married), have found themselves in such predicament once they get married and start having and raising their kids. A responsibility that indirectly pull them away from their job/business. And since the husband is always at work or out hustling, the wife is usually at home tending to the kids alone. Thereby creating that feeling of loneliness or boredom in her from time to time. All Tonto need to do is to get back to her acting job or start a business that would involve her been at work 24/7. To me, I believe once she start getting busy with her job or business, she'd start caring less about what her husband does outside their home. She won't even have the time to sulk or be dramatic anymore. And it will also help her in other ways.

A working mom/wife, is a happy and fulfilled woman...

As a girl, what will you do if your parents keep rejecting your boyfriends or fiancé?

At times choosing someone to marry, to most girls is never an easy task. Especially if her parents are the difficult type. Like a friend of mine whose parents keep rejecting (indirectly and directly), all the boyfriends and suitors she has introduced to them so far. According to her " By their reaction will tell you they don't want them" You can imagine! As a girl, if your parents are like that, what will you do? Get pregnant for one of your suitors in order to force your parents to accept him or allow things to continue like that until you eventually find the man they'd would like and approve of?

What do one need to keep a relationship alive? Is it looks or money? Cos nowadays most naija girls no longer care about dating fine boys. If the guy no get pay, his good looks won't get him any babe in our society today...

Don't because of a guy/girl or your relationship, withdraw from school, give up the chance of going to school, turn down a lucrative job opportunity or any other opportunity that might better your life or situation. Cos should the relationship not work out in the end, that's when you'd start counting your losses...don't kill your dreams cos of a dream.

After getting married, how you do feel as a wife? Do you feel caged, supressed or unhappy. Or do you feel happy, loved and fulfilled?

If your girlfriend is always looking good, but you know perfectly well that you haven't contributed anything towards that, my brother you are not different from a security man guarding a bank- Anonymous

They say he who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord. But can the same thing be said about dating? Cos I used to hear guys talk about getting a lot of favors while dating a particular girl. And I've also heard other guys complain of losing jobs or opportunities while with someone (girlfriend). But are such things real? Has any guy ever experienced this before? Do girls come with different luck? Or is it just the normal talk you hear most times wherever guys are gathered drinking and taking pepper soup....smile

Dating a girl or a guy who is still attached or has feelings for his/her ex, is just like trying to separate a mother from her only child...its somehow difficult to break such a bond. But at the same time its possible, if you really want the best for your new relationship. One need to let go of the past and embrace your newly found love and happiness with all your heart. This is necessary for the good of your relationship. For it is written"Old things have passed away, and behold the new has come." So let go of any ex/past, and commit your heart into your new relationship and love. So as to experience happiness and joy.