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The day I paid my girl an unexpected visit at home is an experience I will never forget. I was in her neighborhood one early morning and decided to quickly check on her. But when I saw her I didn't know she was the one, dressed only in her nightie, wearing an hair net to cover her hair and without any make up on her face. She was looking the opposite of the beautiful girl I used to see/know. I thought I was staring at another person until I heard her calling my name and dragging into her house with a mischievous smile on her face. No wonder she always insist I notify her first before coming to see her at home (so as to prepare herself and her face very well, I guess). Our girls really need to cut down on their make up so that one can know which one is their real face...

Most times, when a guy doesnt have a girlfriend or is hardly seen chasing/hanging out with any girl, a lot of people(especially girls) tend to think he's gay or abnormal. Being alone or not interested in girls, is usually seen as an aberration in the society. As a guy, you must date & sleep with girls. Anything short of that, makes the guy a gay, according to most people. But wot if he doesn't want to be in a relationship or have anything to do with girls. What if he's hardly seen with any girl in his neighbourhood or in schul cos he's in long distance relationship & decided to be loyal to his babe despite the distance btw them. We do have guys like that. Or he enjoys been alone so as to be focused. You no girls & relationship can derail even a train. You cant say a single girl, or a girl without a boyfriend is gay or a lesbian. What if that is how she wants it at that particular time, just to have her peace of mind. You know relationship can be stressful.

If you find out that the girl you are about to marry or start a serious relationship with, was left by her previous boyfriend cos of her cheating habit and weakness for guys, will you still go ahead to date or marry her?

Whenever a girl mistakenly or knowingly fart in the presence of her boyfriend, is it a show of love, naughtiness or that she feels so free, happy and calm around him? To me, whenever a girl does that (mistakenly), she's only being natural and free around the guy. Unlike most girls who like to pretend or behave as if they don't even poo. If your girlfriend 'mistakenly' fart in your presence, just endure the smell. All na love.

Don't cos a girl is beautiful, sexy or very good in bed, you decide to stick with her or marry her, despite her bad or troublesome traits. And don't cos your boo gives you money, buy things for you or is handsome, you decide to be with him despite bn a bad, violent or a promiscuous boyfriend. You are not helping yourself, but hurting/endangering yourself. Cos being in a relationship, that doesn't give you peace of mind, or you and your partner are always quarreling and fighting almost every week, it shows a very shaky and unreliable foundation. Marrying or managing someone like that will only cause you injuries (whether physical or emotional), pain, tears and heartbreak in the end...don't be deceived or blinded by his or her show of love, affection or bedmatics, when his heart is full of shit. When you find yourself in such a situation, biko simply do the needful! A 'one week, one trouble' relationship is a toxic relationship. And the signs are visible enough to show you what lies ahead.

I dont why when most guys hammer (become wealthy overnight), the first thing they do, is to start carrying women here and there. As if they never had any woman or girlfriend when they were stil hustling....

How long should a girl take to make up her face? Cos most naija girls are fond of spending 'hours' making up their face. Even when they're going to a near-by market. Naija girls can make up for Africa!

Back in the day, a lot of naija girls were so much in love with this particular Mexican soap (Second chance), cos of the handsome dude in the middle...Salvador. Girls were so crazy about him and many even ditched their boyfriends cos of him then...

A girl I know recently told me how her guy(boyfriend) insisted on sleeping with her despite knowing she was on her period. She said the guy just wanted to do it even after confirming and seeing her blood stained panties. Imagine? Its like most guys no longer mind making love to a girl even when she's on her period. Cos I've heard other cases like that. Now, what they do is, to use condoms when having sex with their girlfriend or any girl who is on her period... This crave for sex is really getting into something else. Cant one just endure until when she is free or done with her period?

This guy and his girlfriend are fond of spying on each other by checking each other's phone (by going through the call logs and msgs on their phones), whenever the other person is not around. Guess both of them dont trust each other. Sometimes, the guy do ransack her handbag whenever she visit. Dont know if what they are doing is good for their relationship. Cos when two people dont trust each other, they cant work together, talkless of being together. As a girl, if you have a boyfriend who does this, then you really have a lot of work on your hands. But if you are a guy and your girlfriend likes going through your phone, she is only trying to know if she is your main chic or side chic.

When a girl you like eventually reply your DM(msg on facebook, twitter), after such a long time, she's either no longer in a relationship, considering you for a relationship or hoping to use you as a maga....So, dont rejoice yet!

Before I used to think its not every girl that likes money or care so much about it. Thought we stil have girls who would put love first before money. But after what happened yesterday, now i know there is no girl who doesnt like money. Imagine a girl having/keeping another male friend by the side, who gives her alot of money regularly despite having a serious boyfriend who has been doing his best for her. To her boyfriend, she behaves as if she doesnt care about the lack of enough money in their relationship or the little things her guy usually do for her. But with the other guy, she's always demanding and collecting money from him. And always asking him to buy her phones, this and that or take her shopping. I never knew that she is just like most naija girls, who love the sight and smell of money. And can also be greedy cos of it...chei, I pity her guy, who thinks she is not money conscious, and also an understanding, caring and patient girl...no girl is patient. Many would dump their hustling boyfriend, once they get the right opportunity or find a richer guy...

If you've ever given any girl or your girlfriend anal (indulge in anal sex), you dont have the right to judge any gay. I know the truth is bitter. Cos you both are doing the same demonic and disgusting act... There are guys who practice such act on their girlfriends.

Jenny

A girl was complaining recently about her married elder sister who likes tying wrapper almost all the time, ever since she got married. She said, her sister used to like wearing trousers, leggings and bum shorts when she was single and in school. But since she got married, she now prefer to tie wrapper alot when she is even still young and beautiful. I guess, she feels since she has finally gotten what she wanted (getting married), whats the need to be wearing skimpy clothes or trousers upandan and hoping to attract guys. Which is one of the reasons why most ladies wear trousers or seductive clothes. But once they finally get married, they turn to 'mummy' and start wearing more of wifey gowns or wrapper.

When a girl has a male friend apart from her boyfriend, who gives her money regularly, to make her hair, buy things and also take care of her needs, is she cheating on her boyfriend by doing that? Most girls dont see such as cheating, so far she hasnt slept with the generous male friend. But since most guys dont give without receiving, she would surely give in to his demands some day...

A girl I know doesnt want her parents (especially her mother) to know she sometimes spend wkend at her boyfriend/fiance's place. Anytime she is at his place and her mom calls, she usually tell her mom she's at her female friend's place to spend the night. Guess she doesnt want her mom to see her as an irresponsible girl. Though her boyfriend is well known to her parents, and has also gone to collect the marriage list from them, but that still doesnt give him the right to be eating her cookies when they are yet to tie the knot. But there are girls who doesnt hide such from their parents or anybody. They freely and openly visit their boyfriend, spend nights or wkends at his place when she's suppose to be at their parents' place. So far the guy is serious about marrying her. But should a girl hide such from her parents?

My Research About Igbo Guys

1. Imo guys are handsome, caring & romantic, educated but most of them are players. They like to feel on top (boss) and proud of themselves. Can brag for Africa, but faithful once they marry.

2. Anambra Guys are very romantic and caring. And when they are dating, they can take you to all the joints in town, all the eateries (stingyness na their second name, but they have the money ooo), but giving their girls cash, na wah. Once it comes to marriage, they will turn to mommy's boy(Ndi mama anyi si). But when they were doing that thing with the girl in the other room, they didnt take permission from their mother.

3. Enugu guys are kind, they can do everything for their wives. They sabi marry well, but they are not romantic. Ndi obi akpor.

4. Abia guys are good but timid and naive when it comes to handling a woman.

5. Ebonyi is not available at the moment, please try again later *in a low voice, heard Ebonyi men beat their women*

compiled by Ms. Jenny

Girls and guys, who do you think is the most sexiest among these three Nigerian musicians. Is it Flavour, Iyanya or Peter of Psquare?

* Dont make your comparism or judgement based on these pics alone, you can use their other pics as well.

Dont mistake this for co-habitation, which is when a guy is living under the same roof with his girlfriend in school. The one I'm talking about is when a girl decide to share a room with one or two other guys (whom she probably havnt met before) on campus, sometimes due to accomodation problem or when the owner of the room is trying to share the rent or make some extra cash. But Wont such an arrangement not lead to something else between the girl and her male roommate? What if she already has a boyfriend, how would he feel seeing his girlfriend sharing a room with another guy. What about when he is not there, especially in the night when the girl and her male room mate will be all alone in their room. Allowing your girlfriend to have such an arrangement is like taking a very big risk. I know there are girls who wouldnt mind sharing a room with a guy in school. But you never can tell. When a guy and a girl are alone in a room, so many things can happen. And I hear there are girls who are sharing rooms with guys on campus, especially those living off campus. Mind you, they are not dating these guys (in most cases), but have no other choice than to stay in the same room with them due to circumstances beyond their control. But is it right?

I dont understand why someone will leave her house in Achara layout to come to Shoprite to buy just one tooth brush and orbit chewing gum. Can someone explain this act?

Jessica

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If you are single and still waiting and hoping either for the beautiful ones to be born or to come out of their shell so that you can marry them, you are wasting your time. Cos the beautiful ones are no longer available...They've all be taken and married by sharp guys. If you are so keen about getting married, you better do so right away, rather than wait for ms perfect....cos nobody is perfect!

Imagine! Do you agree with this guy aspa how to spend/manage your finances as a guy. Any girl with such a boyfriend don enter one chance!

Why do most girls like snapping pics whenever they are in the front seat of a guy's car (with their seat belt on), and posting it online. Is it to show that they have a boyfriend that owns a car, or to show that they always use the seat belt whenever they are in someone's car?

Is it right for a girl to pay tithe out of the money given to her by her male lovers (Most times after having sex with any of them)... Many feel its not right, since its an income not gotten genuinely or with a clean mind. And such money usually leaves one with a lot of guilt at the end of the day.

No guy likes hearing others talk bad or say negative things about his girlfriend. Most guys won't take kindly to it at all. And it might even result in a confrontation or fight between the guy and the other guys. Hearing negative things about your girlfriend wont only affect your ego but also affect your relationship with her, if what you heard about your girl is actually the truth. If you are the one, what would you do? Confront them, go home quietly to confront your girlfriend or pay no attention to whatever they say about your girl?

I once dated a girl, who usually don't like seeing me answer calls or attend to any other person whenever she's with me. She used to see it as a distraction. Truth be told, girls and their jealousy is much more than that of guys. She may not show it openly most times, but almost every girl silently boils with anger each time she suspect or sees her guy flirting with other girls...Girls don't like competition.

Hollywood Actor, Gerard Butler of '300' fame and his girlfriend Morgan Brown have split. According to reports, the break up was due to Butler's inability to balance his relationship with all the female attention he receives.
The source said to Mailonline:

'Girls throw themselves at him. It’s hard for him to constantly say, "No. Get away from me. I have a girlfriend."'

Guess some girls don't like such competition...lol

An ex girlfriend of a friend is so keen to find and date another guy immediately just to forget her ex, and also kill her love and feelings for her ex boyfriend. She says she cant stop loving her ex, but feels dating and sleeping with a new guy would help her forget about him completely. And more so she doesn't want to remain single or without a boyfriend. That's why she's also serious about having a new boo asap. But can such a move work? Will having sex with a new guy immediately after a break up, help a girl to forget an ex? Cos there are some feelings that can never go away no matter what a girl does to kill it. Just like the story of a bride that abandoned her groom at the altar and went to sleep with her ex in an hotel. That was just a case of everlasting love for someone else....girls and their way....hmmmm

Love them or loathe them, without girls social media won't be exciting....cos if they ain't taking selfies, posting pre wedding pics, dabbing, pouting or doing snapchat, they are filling up the internet with enough interesting write ups, images, pictures, and videos that will thrill you, shock you or make you smile, laugh and blush...Don't joke with Girl power!

She makes serious sense. Everything just dey on point. Behold the most beautiful Nigerian female corper...

There are men who would do anything to marry a virgin girl. They don't mind to wait just to get the kind of girl they want. But in this time and age, getting a virgin girl to marry is like looking for a pin in a desert.. And according to most girls, you go wait tire!