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Re: Awka Ibom State Governor Appoints Ini Edo as Special Assistant (SA) on Tourism.

Hmmm...No Wonder they say Money, Power & Women go together. I'm not implying anything o. Just stating the fact

Cos anywhere you see money, there will be power, and women...its like a magnet. An attraction most ladies cant resist.

Just imagine when the likes of Psquare, Olamide, Flavor, Wizkid, 2Baba, Kcee, Don Jazzy, Iyanya, Dbanj were still struggling and unknown, they had no love nor power. Girls weren't coming or hanging around them, like they are doing now. They were even the ones begging for love and acceptance. Some of them even had their hearts broken by girls when they had nothing. But now that they are famous, rich and powerful, they can afford to have any girl they want, sleep with any number of girls they desire, impregnate girls as they like and also dump girls anyhow. Cos they have the money and the power.

Same thing applies to State governors, ministers and rich politicians. Who when they were nobody, hungry and poor, no one looked at them. But now that they are in positions of power and wealth, women and favor seekers now flock around them like bees to honey... No wonder most of them have mistresses both home and abroad, whom they lavish with gifts, favors, contracts, and money in exchange for sex and other unprintable experience.

Anywhere you see money and power, you must find women waiting in line for their own share of the goodies!

Cos these days, a lot of guys and girls ain't sincere nor loyal. Each in a relationship for their own selfish gain. Even celebrating/ marking Valentine by many is also a way of satisfying their selfish interest...for sex and money!

As a bride, would you do this on your wedding day, out of love and respect for your boo/husband?

If you have a car and you're living in a compound where there are little kids, pls always look carefully before you drive your car...

Most times, gentle guys turn out to be the best lovers. They tend to understand girls better. More understanding and romantic than guys who are so full of themselves or proud. Gentle guys though hurt and taken for granted atimes, by girls who are confused or greedy, they are ready and willing to make any sacrifice for the sake of love...And most gentle guys are loyal to a fault...though not perfect, but better than the rest!
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It's very obvious that its only black girls that like cheating in their relationship. Most white ladies hardly cheat in their relationship. They stick to only one guy while dating...You can never see them cheating or sleeping around like black girls do. Black girls ain't loyal at all!

COPIED:

"Sometimes, him being the wrong man isn’t the real problem. The real problem is you deciding to give him a chance, knowing he’s the wrong man, thinking you can change him.
"Never go into a relationship thinking you can change a man that has already shown you his true intentions are not what you want.
In the end, he won’t change and you’ll end up frustrated, heartbroken, and alone wishing you had done things differently."

When a single girl finds herself living in a community or area where almost all the unmarried girls are babymamas (have kids out of wedlock), it makes her look odd and old fashion. Since, almost every girl these days are becoming babymamas. I've been in a place/community where there is a babymama in every household or compound (Jos, and somewhere in rivers state). And such lifestyle has now become part of the society. More like a competition among loose/irresponsible girls sort of...

There are some very stubborn guys (ex boyfriends), who usually find it difficult to let go of their ex girlfriends. Especially if the girl is now looking finer, better, happier and with another guy. You find such ex boyfriend doing his best to frustrate, harass, intimidate or make life unbearable for the girl, unless she comes back to him. They don't want to know if she's with someone else, or no longer has feelings for them. All they care and think about is their own selfish desire...to have her back by all means. That's why girls need to know the kind of guys they get involved with. Cos there are guys who are psychopath but pretend to be nice and sweet. Girls need to do things with wisdom and caution. Especially if it has to do with relationship or love. And one more thing, I will also like to advise ladies not to take things (gifts, money, favors) nor give hope/encouragement to someone you know you don't have feelings for or have any intention of being with. Cos, most guys don't like being taken for a fool. And some can play dirty and do anything to just to revenge...Ladies, behave!

Most women will choose their child over their husband cos of their love and bond with their children. While alot of men would prefer to save their wives instead of their child cos, of their love for their wives...most times, when a woman start having kids, she cant help but transfer all her love, affection and attention to her child. Thereby neglecting her duty and commitment to her husband. Women are known to behave like that. But a man will always love and cherish his wife, even when they start having kids. He will never love his kids more than his wife...

Its a known fact that most girls crave to be loved, cherished and appreciated by their partners, while most guys are only interested in sex sex sex. To most guys, there is no love when there is no sex! But is sex everything!

I've noticed that most guys usually go to the grocery store (super market) to buy every other thing, except tissue papers. You hardly see guys buying tissue papers on their own. Some prefer to send their little sister or girlfriend/wife to get it for them. Guess many of them are too shy or ashamed to be seen carrying tissue papers. Some say buying or carrying of tissue papers are for ladies, and not for guys. And that it usually make them feel uncomfortable being seen with a tissue paper. The whole thing tire me. As if guys don't use tissue paper to wipe/clean their bum-bum after using the toilet.

Most footballers are hardly honest while on the pitch. All they care about is to win by any means. what Raheem Sterling and Man City did last night against Everton wasn't fair at all. That's why a player like Messi is loved and admired all over the world not only cos of his skills, but also cos of his honesty and fairness on the pitch. Other players should emulate players like Lionel Messi...Life/sports no be do or die...Man City, Shame on you! The second goal you scored wasn't a goal. that ball was already out of play...

Atimes when a girl turns down her boyfriend's marriage proposal or keep telling him she is not ready for marriage, it may not be due to visible reasons (i.e, studies, age, family issues, finance) but due to some invisible reasons...like delaying things so as to keep the door open for a better option/person. Some girls do this, especially if she doesnt find the guy good enough to be her husband. Such girls will always be posting, declining or giving the guy all sort of excuses not to marry him yet while hoping or trying her luck elsewhere...cos, nothing should stop a girl from saying yes to her guy's marriage proposition if she truly loves the guy and wants to spend the rest of her life with him. Except she is not really into him or probably hoping for someone better, while at the same time blocking other girls from coming close to the guy, she doesnt want. Naija girls and their ways...

Seeing Jay Jay Okocha (a married man) doing this, shows what a lot of married guys do despite having a beautiful wife at home. They cant help but stare at a woman's backside anytime they see a sexy lady. Lusting and craving to take her to bed. A woman is not a sex object. Men should stop seeing them as one...There is more to a woman than sex.

Some Girls And The Things They Do...Is it Cos of Love or infatuations... When you see or hear about most of things some girls do all cos of love or infatuations , you begin to wonder if they ve bn jazzed. Imagine a girl sneaking out, lying or cooking up a story just to hang out with a guy and have sex with him. Or doing other things like; Having sex with a guy within a week or month of meeting each other. Taking money from her parents to give to a guy. Buying clothes and other nice things for the guy. Fighting other girls cos of a guy. Renting an apartment for a guy. Allowing a guy to use her car anyhow he likes. Going to a guy's house to cook for him, wash his clothes, clean his house and have sex with him. Leaving school to go and spend a weekend or a week with a guy. Getting into a lot of trouble cos a guy. Changing jobs cos of a guy. Relocating with a guy to another place. Losing interest in Church/closeness to God cos of a guy. And many of them(girls) do this with a genuine heart and with good intentions. But trust bad guys, who end up hurting and breaking the hearts of these girls after making all these sacrifices for them. Some of these girls even take risks to be with a guy. They ignore warning signs showing a guy is bad, all cos of love. Prefering to risk their reputation and happiness just to make sure the guy is happy and satisfied. And when you see such girls, its as if they are jazzed or simply madly in love with the guy... To me, girls make more sacrifice than guys, and also give up alot just to make things work out in their relationship...

There is a friend of mine, whose girlfriend whenever she visits him, is always fond of leaving the dirty plates for him to wash after eating. She always find it difficult to wash the dishes after eating. All she does is to eat, drop the dirty plates in the kitchen, watch movies and then leave for her place later in the evening. Imagine? And she is craving to become his wife tomorrow, with such a bad attitude?

Making a movie is actually fairly easy. But making a good one is much harder...Anonymous

Spying on ur partner: is it right? When a guy or a girl decide to spy and eventaully start spying on his or her partner either by checking their phone msgs and call logs, or by stalking/monitoring their movement, he/she will never have any peace of mind doing that...cos when you decide to dig, u wil certainly dig up dirt. In order to have ur peace of mind, one should just allow things to be rather than to spy on ur partner. Cos doing that is just like embarking on a sucide mission...

An unfaithful partner has no feeling nor conscience. If he/she can cheat on you, he or she can also hurt u without feelin any guilt...

Most ladies worry too much about their imperfections...forgetting that nobody is perfect. Trying to be 100% perfect is what makes some girls to have low self esteem...you dont need all those fake body enhancement to look the best cos of guys or cos of ur peers...cos you are already the best just the way you are...

Imagine what a passenger was given as food/snack while travelling with Aero Airline from Lagos-Port Harcourt after paying about N22k as flight ticket. Imagine serving each passenger one small pack of happy hour juice, 50 naira biscuit, two small pieces of cookies worth 100 naira and 10 naira flash sweet. When it comes to treating passengers well, Nigeria still has a long way to go...

when it comes to being faithful or keeping one's promises to his/her partner, most guys and girls only keep and honor their words when talking to you (boyfriend/girlfriend) on the phone or when they are with you. But once your back is turned or you're off the phone, they might decide to do whatever they like. That's how relationship is nowadays. Most people are hardly faithful and honest. And we now have married ladies who have also joined married men in sleeping around. They no longer fear God, nor respect/honor their wedding vows. And as a guy, don't ever make the mistake of leaving your girlfriend in the care of a male friend. Cos, you never can tell, your so called best friend might also be eyeing your babe and planning to sleep with her behind your back. It has gotten that bad. People no longer have the fear of God in them. And there is no more honor among most guys and girls these days. we are now living in a messed up society. You just have to live with it, since you can't deal with it. And I guess, the best solution to all this, is not to expect much from anybody...not even from your girlfriend or boyfriend!

If you are a girl, who goes out every week with different guys for lunch, for shopping, to buy phones, watch movies, have fun and visit them at home to have sex, you are nothing but a street dog with longer throat...

Most Guys are like; one woman no dey do! To such guys, having one woman is not enough. No wonder you see so many of them running after every girl that comes their way, even though they are already in a relationship. Such guys are the ones messing up the real essence of true love and relationship.

Some girls are good and responsible girls not cos they want to be, but cos they haven't gotten the opportunity to be bad. And such girls are the ones I fear most. Cos, once they get such opportunities to be bad, they usually end up over doing things...

when a lady is single and searching, is just like job hunting for most of them. Cos, in order to attract suitors and eventually get married, she needs to be in her best behavior and also present and comport herself very well in public. Lacking any of these is bound to scare serious minded guys (correct suitors) away from her. Same way not having the necessary credentials or good attitude while applying for a job could prevent one from getting a job...So, ladies try to work on yourself, and I bet you, correct suitors would come after you same way bees are attracted to honey!

Ladies, please always be wary of those banana peels (bad guys) on the ground. So that they don't make you slip and fall (hurt you, break your heart or make you miss your way)....

Most times you hear a girl talking about getting a guy who can take care of her needs, and also pay her bills. They voice such out even to the hearing of others, as if its mandatory for a guy to do that for them all the time. Are they babies? What stops a girl frm getting up and working her ass off to take care of her needs as well, Without depending on any guy. That's why I admire oyinbo girls (ladies who are based abroad), they take care of themselves. They hardly wait or depend on guys. You see a girl abroad doing two jobs to pay her bills, despite having a boyfriend. But here in Nigeria, most of our girls just love to wait or depend on guys to pay their bills...

These days every girl wants to marry a rich guy. No girl is even thinking of becoming rich on her own. Guess, they can become rich by marrying a rich guy. After they will start saying ladies rule the world....Tah! That kind talk na for mouth...

And she is not from a rich home, but owns three very expensive phones, has an ipad, wears designer clothes and shoes, uses designer bags and she is always looking very classic, What kind of girl is she?

You only have #5000 with you, you dont have fuel in your car to go to work and your girlfriends needs money to make her hair. Will you give the money to your girlfriend to go and make her hair or use the money to fuel your car and go to work? Which of them are you going to sacrifice for the other, as a guy?