₦airaland Forum

Wayne4uall:
The biggest girl in Nigeria is a male

What kind of nonsense is this?!

rezzy:
True, if he truly loves the girl and wanted to marry her. He would have done the marriage same month she discovered she was pregnant. Nobody will know except God.

A guy once did it in one of our parishes. Though, he told only pastor, he did court wedding and church blessing on Sunday.

Nobody suspected until he was suspected from being a worker that was when some workers knew

Exactly. This is what this murderer should have done if he was actually interested in marrying the innocent girl. Worst that would have happened is suspension from his church role for a period of time. Everyone is prone to temptation. Our GOD is not a wicked Father.

But this monster never had marriage in mind. He was just using the girl and tying her down with a false promise of marriage. People are terrible!
No matter what rites the girl's family may have compelled him to carry out, the blood of the innocent girl will continue to cry after him. He practically murdered her.

Sometimes I wonder why mature adults who claim they are planning to marry would want to abort an unplanned pregnancy. It's sickening! Face the temporary rebuke and get going! I don't encourage it. But taking a potentially deadly risk like abortion is pure stupidity.

purples25:
Why date a woman for five years.

Very annoying. Between a year and half, wedding plans should already be underway. Five years? He never wanted to marry her. The more reason he tried to terminate the pregnancy. Too bad the innocent girl lost her life in the hands of a deceiver who paraded himself as a lover.

izombie:
Why are Nigerians always going to this India for surgery? Most people I know that went to India for surgery have all died. They will come back and then die.
What happened to America, Europe, even south africa? Why always India?

Don't mind them. Sadly most people don't do proper research before embarking on sensitive trips. India, a country where sick people are used for medical experiment.

Lastmankc:
She has a very terrible anger problem.I have endured for her to change but no way.When my mother visited me,she displayed the anger issue one day and my mum advice me to leave her before it's too late

Do you have anger issues yourself? What gets her angry? How was she when you first met her? Is her anger issue a family attribute? Sometimes we rush from frying pan to fire. So I would not rush to 'aid' your breakup with her. But if you really have made up your mind to break up with her, I am not stopping you.

1. Stop calling her. Let her be doing the calling.

2. Don't take her calls all the time. When she fumes and rants, play dumb. I am saying this because you are dealing with a potentially bloodthirsty person. This may sound like a joke. Hence, you have to play dumb as you initiate the breakup process.

3. Don't ever make the mistake of telling her face to face that it is over. Never! You will only be starting a dangerous fire.

4. Withdraw all your commitments (emotional, romance, financial, guide) towards her steadily and quietly without saying a word.

5. Don't forget, when you see her missed calls, never ever return it.

6. Chats should be restricted to greetings. If you both were used to chatting online, make the chat as dry as possible. Reply with one word at a time. Don't initiate any chat. Only send dry replies.

7. Stop her visiting your house. Abi una dey live together? If this is the case, na long thing o. I hope it is not. Do everything never to have her in your house again. Although she could come uninvited to cause a scene. Once you are inside during this period, lock your door always. Never ever let her in on compassionate ground.

8. Do this for a period of two weeks to one month. Then when she starts blowing hot air, tell her you are busy with some things, and that you need complete focus now. Keep repeating this line, until you ghost her completely.

She will let you go eventually. Before she does let you go, she will cry and plead that she will change. My guy, you have to harden your heart. Harden it well well! I have been there before.

Lastmankc:
Nah wetin dey fear me now to break up with my babe.The day i threatened to break up with her,she just took the insecticide in my house and wanted gulping it before I hit it away from her hands and told her that I was only joking about the break up..I am in a dilemma now because I really want to end the relationship.

Why am I even laughing? The LORD have mercy on you. You are in a deep mess. By the way, why do you want to break up with her?
Let me hear see your reasons first before offering you smart breakup tips.

szen:
Reims formation: 6-3-1

Wicked analyst.

Seun, please update this scoreline for credibility sake. I thought the game ended in favour of Chelsea not until I went to Goal.com to see that it ended 1:1.

How can a mod leave such misleading headline on the front page of such an influential news and social medium? Seun, mynd44, lalasticlala....see to this error immediately.

Everyone has a burden. Everyone has a challenge. Everyone has a worry. Everyone has a valley. Everyone has a brick wall. This is what makes life life (the repeat is not a mistake). Without something to worry about you will be useless! Life is worthless when there is no new challenge.

Being depressed solves nothing! Depression only damages your mind the more. Falling into depression literally means you have succumbed to defeat, loss and failure!
We are born to fight. Nothing comes on a platter. Fight, you must. Victory isn't a gift. It is a reward...you earn it!

The night may be dark and long. Daylight will sure break out at its set time.

AuntRose:
Worshipped there twice, it's not a bad place but the man is very much into politics

Now I understand. He is a fellow politician. Let them resolve their differences.

RoxyBrownAutos:
This is the reason a man of God should hear from God before he speaks, so that when challenge comes, God stands to defend the petson, but when you speak to gain attention from members of the public, the repercussion is usually heavy. The MINISTERS of God should focus on primary assignment of reconciling men to God and leave politics for the politician.The best way to remove these dictators is through prayer and not press interview.(2nd Chronicle chapter 7:14).

You have said the plain truth. Most ministers don't know how ruthless politicians are and how far they can go to protect their selfish interest.

Unless GOD has given you the divine authority and approval to rebuke a politician publicly, you will be setting yourself up for embarrassment if you did so. Expect the politician to come at you with all state instruments at his disposal.

Unfortunately some ministers are driven by their emotion, and the fame they think they have.

MrHealth:
This picture below mirrors the life of majority of people. THEY LIVE ON DRUGS DAILY.

How long will you keep SWALLOWING DRUGS
How long will you keep SWALLOWING PILLS
HOW long will you keep SWALLOWING MEDICINE

Your body is not made of Drugs
Your body is not made of Medicine
Your body is made up of CELLS

ONLY CELLS CAN REPAIR CELLS

Oga stop pushing lies with false pictorial representation!

An unending irritating series of tales!

If you were within reach, I would have landed four dirty slaps on your face. Two slaps to rid you of foolishness, the remaining two slaps to continue where the former stop.

''Move in with me. Chief tenant. Mattress we bought. My boss this and that. Police came and left.'' Pile of rubbish!

You can continue to recycle your life around stupidity and indecision. Soon it will all end in tears, not by you, but your loved ones. Why? By then you won't be around to cry. Yes you won't! Continue to play games with your life in the hand of a violent fool! He'll kill you one night, and abscond in the dead of the night.

Be there building castles of false hope on a nonentity. As some people have pointed out, you are secretly wishing and waiting for him to pay your bride price. Wait! If he wanted to, would you accept it after all these nasty displays? I sincerely doubt you are 100 percent sane. I think you have mental issues. Check into a psychiatric hospital right away.

mariahAngel:
Who takes up the responsibility of paying for the new apartment? Op abi?
Op should leave the car for his brother!
Op should start up a business for his brother’s wife!
Op should rent an apartment for his brother’s wife and his children!
Does the op not have his own life to live?
Should he kill himself because of an irresponsible sibling?
Who cares to know whether the op is married or not...

Leave all this your bravado aside. You think blowing hot air solves family problems. The mess on ground was created by the same family. He should not have been pressured to marry especially when he showed all signs of irresponsibility and unwillingness to do so.

The strength they had contributing to fund his wedding, that same strength must be recalled to clean up whatever horror the marriage is spilling out now.

Again the same OP for whatever reason doesn't want this brother to end up in the village. Now we see what his stay in the city is amounting to.

Whether you like it or not, if his stupid brother kicked the bucket today as a result of his illicit relationship with the said widow whose husband died of an undisclosed illness within a week, the OP alongside his relatives will still have to shoulder those left behind.

Worst case scenario, let his brother murder his wife today, the same burden, the same burden (I deliberately repeated the line).

I know you want to sound tough. I can bet that you have never faced or be caught up in this kind of family mud. It's easy to dish out tough measures when you are not an actor in a distressing drama as this.

I am being realistic. Tough measures like taking back the car will worsen this whole trouble.

Do they have other better, more realistic options than setting up a business and finding her a safe place to stay before the lunatic brother kills her?

I await your response.

mrsteel:
Why are u emphasizing on op taking the car from his brother? Do u want their family to produce another criminal? Don't u know a lot of evil can come out of an idle hand?

@ Dailyparrot
Please if the car is something you can leave for your brother, please leave it for him, he is your blood! Believe me u won't be happy tomorrow if he is paraded for armed robbery or kidnapping, your conscience will prick u because he is your blood. If u make him idle, u will be adding another financial burden to yourself, don't ever think u can abandon him, he is your blood & every family got a black sheep. Including those telling u to take back that car, the black sheep in their family may even be doing worse than your brother. Though your bro is irresponsible, u people compelled him into marriage, that was bad & the result is what we are seeing now! Marriage should be a thing of self decision.

It seems you are the only one applying discretion here. I wonder why many responders are asking him to take back the car. What a regrettable and potentially disastrous move that will be!

Let him have the car for good. See it as your last contribution to help fix his broken life. With that he won't dare bother you again. As for his wife, start something for her. Very importantly also, start looking for another apartment solely for her and the kids pending when the rent of their current apartment expires.

Such is life. Hold on to GOD, and fight on.

theForth:
His family were right to throw you out since you and your family were only after his money or you guys thought they wouldn't notice?

Your husband died after a brief marriage and you wan claim property.

Oga, it is because most Nigerians don't exploit our marriage laws. Even if the marriage was for one day, she is legally entitled to a large chunk of her late husband's estate.
Whether she married him for money or not, it wouldn't count in the eye of the law. Don't let sentiments and ignorance becloud your sense of judgment.
She deserved to get some material benefits from that marriage.
What you feel or think means nothing if she had taken the matter to court.

2dice01:
My brother or Sister
They are my Blood
My wife isn't

I am not sure you know that sexual intercourse is a blood exchange.
For your information once you marry, your spouse automatically becomes your number one blood relation.

elonmuskbaby:



But even if he didn't die, wetin he wan take the certificate do at 72.make una chop am na
Village people o

I can't stop laughing.

Ferdinandu:
See how he is using 10% of Magas income who never see three square meals to buy expensive car for his prick massager.

You are the opposite of your signature...the worst is what you truly are. Commit suicide if you wish, she has the car already. Cry blood!

Mftivi:
what of the Many pastors that are extremely poor ? What do you guys hate prosperity of others ?

Don't mind those evil minded people. They are only happy when they see pastors suffering in poverty.
By the way, who in his sane mind wishes another person poverty? Only a devil!

imagrg:
That's why I refuse to pay tithe and offering to these so called Pastors. They are the actual robbers in God's House.

Go and sit down, poor boy. Your tithe and offering that can't buy one microphone. Idiocy personified!

dobnina:
What are you even saying?
Are you her accomplice?
How can someone be in 300level in a polytechnic?
Is that even possible?

He is an accomplice. Devilish people who go about ruining the chances of others in real need.

Mozino007:
300 level is equivalent to H ND 1.....If she can only snap her face with d same id card.....I will personally be of help.

Oga you are either an accomplice or a dummy. Take your pick! There is nothing like 300 level in a polytechnic!

Newboss:
Those are exceptions. Don't work with exceptional cases. I also use Twitter. I know Nairaland creates an even playing field you can never get on Twitter or Facebook. Nairaland is in a class of its own.

Many Nigerians don't value indigenous creations. Just see the way he is screaming twitter up and down. Shameful!
As you have stated, Nairaland offers you a sure community of perspectives whenever you need inputs on an issue. You can register today and be heard today. Simply put it's a village square where the rich, poor, known and unknown can be heard without much hassle.

CharisEleos:
Your case is different because you told them you're awaiting a call up letter and no sane company would want to waste their time employing someone that will soon leave the job and go for service which was clear from the womans response.

Not the same. Op, doesn't want to go for service, is not eligible to go for service, cannot can.

Sincerely, I am relishing your responses.

Jack14:
That laporta na werey..he just use Messi win election
Meanwhile psg this season

Laporta is a confirmed criminal. He won his election on the promise of keeping Messi at all cost even though he already had plans to let him go. I think one of his rivals lost out after openly telling the press that Barca couldn't keep Messi, considering the bad financial implications. Truth hardly wins election. Fact!

Chibuezem:
all your life have you scored a goal jealousy jellof..

As in, the jealousy is on a dangerous level. Such a person should never be drawn close at all.