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Ofadaman:
He may not even notice the money left, this is what true wealth is about , it just trickles in endlessly, plus he knows just by a single ad post of his profile, he'd make more than that in minutes

The exact lesson I draw from this story. Wealth overflowing like a sea that you don't notice what's leaving your accounts.

generalwo:
.... Bros go buy your gen or pack out..... He can't inconvenience himself and his family because he wants to keep his neighbor happy...... As far as he can afford the fuel to run the gen all night, allow him be..... Blame your government for not providing constant electricity

Don't mind those people asking the op to go destroy the gen. Government takes the full blame, not the innocent neighbour who is trying to give himself and family a better life in a dysfunctional system.
I can't suffer because everyone is suffering. Move out if you can't get your gen, or better live with the generator noise.

PDPdestroyer:
You've probably gotten a Yahoo boy as neighbour, that's one of their characteristics

Stop this poverty thought pattern. It is not everyone who runs generator whenever NEPA goes to sleep that is a yahoo boy.

As for me, I hate to come back home roaming inside a dark house, be it afternoon or night. Your government plunged us into this mess. We have to solve it in the best possible way.

If neighbours can't cope, then they should relocate. I have not apology for the inconveniences. They should go get an apology from their government.

ItzProspero:
So TB Joshua get private jet too.

Those shouting and arguing that he doesn't can reschedule now. Bunch of hypocrites

I thought I was the only person who read it. Surprisingly many of his followers commenting here are playing blind to it. Funny how some people can be hypocritical acting all modest and pure.
Kudos to preachers who are not hiding theirs.

More will be revealed.

Kobojunkie:
A dead person's image tells you in a dream to go fulfill a vow and you self go carry yourself go do am?

ROFLMAO

I know your type. What you think means and changes nothing! What exists exists irrespective of your ignorance.

You folks mocking this guy are obviously displaying sheer ignorance. Where your personal experience ends is where another person's encounters begin. This world is not in mere black and white.

Guy, go fulfill the vow as quickly as possible.

emmyN:
Trash

You will learn in a bitter way. Truth bites really hard.

Parizz:
...and chop assorted banana

I didn't add that o.

Katier00:
End it at 3 months if you are not seeing any clear direction

This is too short, ma.

Nnamaka1:
Fool! you think Sex Is everything? ungodly sex is the reason most of us men miss our destiny.

I use to allow my sex urges to control me in the past until am sure I had sex with the wrong Lady and my Life tumble down. am still trying to get up.

Its best to Learn from other people experience than to have to Learn from your own.

There is a friend of mine who had sex with a 'sent' lady. It is almost ten years now, he has not recovered. Some special features and innate gifts he had were lost for good.

Susily:
What's sisi?

She wants enjoy the life of a single girl. Play games without relationship restrictions. In other words, freedom to run around and mingle.

Afriqan:
Bro, you are in for a big heartbreak, mark my words.

A 25 year old girl who still wants to do "sisi" thinking she has time like her 19 year old course mates is a very silly lady, she doesn't know she has a very short time left.

She will probably go for NYSC and taste different guys and if she doesn't see a better lover she will come back to you and serve you leftovers.

If you are serious about your life, go for a graduate who is looking forward to marriage. I have girls younger than her who are currently asking me for marriage cos they are in that stage of their life where they are ready.

Her age is not the issue, it's her mind and she is still thinking like a teenager who isn't ready for commitment.

Very annoying to read. A 25 year old girl wants to continue doing sisi? What exactly has she been doing since she turned 18? This is unbelievable! When most girls are marrying between age 20 and 22, this one doesn't know she is even too old to be in 400l unless of course had had some other kind of education somewhere before.

Rubbish talk!

Pavore9:
Hope when he visits other people's houses, he flushes after usage.

I recall I along 3 others went visiting a couple, one of the guys requested to use the toilet and madam of the house showed him the way. He came back after usage and just about 10 mins later, madam came to the sitting room and requested the guy to go back to the toilet and flush it, should also use the brush to clean the stained sides......felt so embarrassed.

The annoying thing was that on our way home, the guy was justifying his dirty action by saying what is the big deal if the woman had flushed it, that is it not her home!

Some people are damn irritating. The madam should instead have showed him the way to the nearest bush where he belongs. The guy is a nonsense person!

Elanozy:
I am financially and emotionally down



I am actually fed up and hopeless




Should I just kill myself?


I am tired of this life

Killing yourself solves nothing. Life is has its night and morning seasons. For many, the night season is usually longer. Those whom you are wishing to be like have had and endured their own night seasons. You have them as examples today because they fought through to reach their morning seasons. If they didn't fight, you would never know them today.

You too would one day be envied by someone going through his or her night season. That is if you persist and make it to your morning season.

Best of luck and GOD'S grace as you fight on.

Angelfrost:
...And I asking why the average Nigerian has continued to wax strong in the midst of this widespread pandemic. Why is the mortality still so low in this nation and continent.

Even the doomsayers like Melinda Gates (Who projected millions dying in the streets in Nigeria) have all gone into hiding in shame.

Proper science would be to investigate what makes the average African less susceptible.

No they don't want to research on that, they just want us to get vaccinated for something that is not killing us. Wicked humans forming care.

htdot:
And people still die after they took the vaccine.

Leave them to continue their fear campaign. It's an attempt at pressuring people to get vaccinated against their will. Today every health challenge is attributed to covid. People die, they say it is covid.
Meanwhile Israel that vaccinated nearly all of her population is battling with what it calls covid again.

I will continue to maintain that covid might be ravaging many parts of the world, that however doesn't include Nigeria. Whatever people are calling covid here is pure institutional lie.

Malaria still kills more people here. Yet they won't do anything to create malaria vaccine. It is one unknown covid that they so care about. Caring government indeed!

Semaj77:
My father died from complications of Covid last week Wednesday ( 1st of September ) , please stop trying to deceive people.

I am sorry for your loss. However I would rather queue up to take malaria vaccine than covid vaccine. Every health mishap is now attributed to covid 19.

Nellsworld:
If a family member tell them to invest in his/her business, they go say, dey no get, but they get millions to invest in an online farm

Please don't let me laugh. Online farm indeed.

goodigoodi:
Ambassador Sam Afolabi eatrich farms came to Ondo Town Around June this year to conduct a kangaroo skill acquisition , he used the opportunity to snapp pictures with multitude of crowd and made a lot of bogus promises to attract the crowd , the second day he left for Lagos without fulfill promise made and pay any candidate and facilitators of the skill acquisition project
What surprised me most was he brought his father who is a pastor and his mother to the podium to make a speech in that fraudulent event , so his parents surppoted him and they are pastor for that matter

Don't be quick to blame his parents. He may have been deceiving them too.

ezechi24:
the angel wey carry me come this country....i will shock you.

Jokes have limits! An angel can smite you in one minute for this rubbish you posted. Angels are not as gentle as you think, bro. Be careful the way you speak about them.

Agboriotejoye:
Even gold can be found in the desert aka Zamfara. The people there have their means of feeding and taking care of their daily needs.

Though its true they are more deprived than the south

I think you are one of the few sensitive and sensible people left in Nigeria. I wonder why people are celebrating shutting down mobile network services in order to fight terrorists.
The implications of this notorious action are many. Let me state a few.

1. Economic activities in these areas are crippled.
2. When you are in distress, you will be helpless, unable to call anyone via telephone.
3. Information darkness has covered these areas. The havoc the military and bandits may be wreaking on the locals the world will never know.
4. What happens hereafter? Will they keep shutting down mobile network anytime they want to go after terrorist?
5. Some day, this same unprofessional measure will be replicated in other parts of Nigeria because evil example has been set.

This is exactly what the government of Cameroon did by shutting down the internet thereby destroying many businesses in the English-speaking part of the country.

alizma:
Have you read about temperaments? Two opposing temperaments from two good people cannot hold a relationship.

I think this is the most important study I have ever had in regard to relationship and marriage. Anyone who understands temperaments, unless is under spell, will certainly marry correctly.
If a person is already married to a wrong temperament, he or she will know how exactly to manage the person.

This topic I think should take centre place in relationship and marriage seminars. It makes everything so clear. In fact you will know whom not to marry even if you love the person so much.

anochuko01:
Being temperamental cancels the "good".
A "good" person should be slow to anger and quick to forgive.

You don't understand one bit of the person you quoted! He didn't mention 'temperamental', he said read about temperaments. I know you will start arguing right now. But let me help you with a few concepts, and then go look them up for your own enlightenment.

1. Choleric.
2. Sanguine.
3. Phlegmatic.
4. Melancholic.

Go and study, my friend.

Lokojatoofar:
Maybe it's someone whose loved ones have been murdered by the police doing payback

Best description of what played out. It is not everyone that can stomach losing a loved one unjustly. Quite unfortunate!

richidinho:


Wike is the father of True Federalism

Abeg check other things, they are more that you can challenge, Udom is still sleeping

Government subject scheme of work needs to be updated immediately.
Wike, father of true federalism.

izubext007:
Calabar girls are known to be baby mama not wife.
2face make mistake to marry her, abi her jazz don fade.

Can you read the nonsense you have to say about a whole race? I resist the urge to bath in the mud with you.

Janosky:
You are not the OP.
Reading is a way of learning.
If you never learnt anything by reading, you won't be here typing with your phone or laptop.
There are several points expressed by different individuals whose message had been passed across for the OP's benefit.
I come in peace.

I have faced exactly what the dude is currently going through. I mean the diffidence part of it. Too much reading has a way of disconnecting one from real people. Reading is good for learning, but certainly not for solving shyness and confidence issues.

Dude needs to go out and mingle with real people. The most shy and depressed people are actually those who spend most of their time reading endlessly. Books cure ignorance. But books don't improve social life. In fact, the more you read, the more introverted you become. The more separated you are from your real surrounding.
You guys should just leave book matter out of this unless you want to plunge the young man further into his miserable solitary living.

Mind you I still love reading, but now with commonsense. Let him go out and explore his world! Now is not the time for any book! He needs practical face to face interactions! He doesn't need some book illusions! Enough of this isolated living!

Who are these ignorant people telling this guy to read books? You guys sincerely lack the commonsense to solve his problem.
Let me tell you something. Too much reading actually drives you away from the real world. I am speaking from firsthand experience here. So don't say shit!

Op needs to go out and socialize. Simple! Stroll around your area and locate where guys gather to play football especially weekends. Take yourself out for some swimming enjoyment.

Become active in a youth group in church. In fact this is one place where your shyness will be cured! I am not talking about attending church services only. I am talking about youth groups involving music since you like music. There you will meet people who will pull you out of your shell.

Sincerely you need a sanguine sister. She will do a good job breaking your shackles of shyness.

Juanmike:
you are right, My house is almost complete, would be moving out latest,beginning of next year.

More grace. Finish it and move sharply. Kudos man!

Juanmike:
People like me, if you see the way they look at me every time am leaving my abode with my new wagon, full of hate and envy.

I would advise you to move out of that neighborhood as soon as possible. A word is enough for the wise. You wonder why the rich don't like living among the poor. It is because of what you just stated.

Now breaking into houses to kidnap? The right to keep arms may be the way forward as it stands. Imagine being in your house and someone comes to abduct you. What craziness!

Millimann:
E be like say this village people thing na true oo

It's no joke, brother. Forget about the fact that we joke with it all the time. Dude was cut short from within.