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Floxyluv: What do you want with her phone? Dont you have yours? . There's this thing called PRIVACY you know?

i pressume u guys see chaeting as privacy too, truth be told, theres nothing to hide if theres nothing fishing.

my girl leaves her fone open, if i see any funny text, she explains it to me and i understand that guys would always come around her, its normal, but when a girl starts getting secretive, then she is either cheating or on the way to do so.
when a woman loves u genuinely, she does so with everything, its a natural thing with women.

i am 29yrs old, i hope to get married soon, since i was 23, i ve always wish to be the best husband to the woman that would be my wife, but i ve noticed that a lot of married folks(mostly women), complains about their husbands, so i want to know what are d most necessary things that a woman would want from her husband to make her happy?

would appreciate tips from married ladies most.
thanks all.

Mynd_44: If you both are too open and you don't have a emblem of yourself, you will get frustrated. Everyone needs to be reminded that he/she is still human and still has a personality

i pressume u guys see chaeting as privacy too, truth be told, theres nothing to hide if theres nothing fishing.

my girl leaves her fone open, if i see any funny text, she explains it to me and i understand that guys would always come around her, its normal, but when a girl starts getting secretive, then she is either cheating or on the way to do so.
when a woman loves u genuinely, she does so with everything, its a natural thing with women.

i see its a gathering of the derailers,
guys, am i late?

jay bee: I was the one that changed the title and my rationale for doing so is because, IMO the previous title wasn't descriptive enough even though it was correlated to the message the OP was trying to pass across.
Sorry if you feel offended OP

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queensmith: ehn heeen, is it women that dont have busy schedules or work to do? Do women fly? Do they have wings? Is work easier for women than men. Why should they use anything?
Unless you are gay, you cannot tell me what makes a man attractive to a woman, I am a woman I will know what im attracted to.

Yes im saying the same thing, men need to take care of their crusty feet, say no to the devil!

talking of attraction, from experience, women would rather compliment the built of a man's chest and shoulders, and the whole of his torso, sometimes d shirt he's wearing could be complimented, but additional effects from cosmetics is rare, except perfumes. and most men are aware of that, so its not rocket science to know what attracts a woman in a man

as for the crusty feet n d devil, lol, some men are truely guilty as charged, but my emphasis is, in as much some women can spend so much to acquire hair(brazilian n all those crap), they should also endeavour to spend some on their feet to make it look pretty- *gosh*

queensmith: This is the reason why theres soo many fine women, but not enough fine men. We women need eye candy to, it's unfair to subject us to demonic looking men especially when we take the time to maintain out looks.Its a reflection that these men harbor the devil and they need to succumb to a good beauty regime to chase it out.

Many men need to learn to use cream, aftershave, a doorag, that gel for waves (whatsitcalled), perfume, deodorant, anti perspirant deodorant, face cream, hair cream, nail cream, toe nail cream, foot deodorants, dettol.

Men are more guilty of this, I havent met many women that can clear a room by simply taking off her shoes.

girl, tell me what man with a busy schedule, worrying about how to beat the morning traffic to get to work early, and after a tough day @ work, gets home to rebooth for the next day, would have the time to bother about these loads of cosmetics you have prescibed here, like i earlier said, ladies are good with such details(kudos given though).

as for the "finess" thing, a man's admiration do not depend on the application of cosmetics, but its on his natural masculine features and approach. we (men), has left the women to make use of cosmetics to their best advantage, (even though they look terrible on it sometimes), and in doing so, please and please, do not leave your feet out. consider that as a tip

queensmith: its true- eurgh its disgusting when you see men and their herculean feet. Looking all scaly and dry, when they take off the shoes the whole house will stink like rotten cheese.
I cannot take it, a man has to have sexy feet. He has to take care of his feet and do regular manicures and pedicures 2ce a week.
He is even meant to use polish, and a file to cover all the nasty marks he might have on his toes nails. So at least when your both curled up in bed it won't feel as if someone is scratching you with a toothpick.


Men need to take care of their feet! hmph!

Am not taking sides here but truth b told, women are the ones who do alot of details with their hair, facials, skin and all that, so its really annoying when u see that same woman with an unkempt feet, goes to show that whatever its is that might look nice on her is not a true reflection of who she is inside.

Most men feet are covered with socks virtually through out a whole day, that way their feet comes out looking neat(except those who have a problem changing their socks). so more women are guilty of negleting their feet than men

slimyem: lmao @ op's post directed at women and other posters turning it around to men..
everyone loves clean feet...
But not everyone take care of theirs.

imagine the irony

Idowuogbo: I get u! But! is dat ur determining factor?

part of it(comes under personal hygiene).

and very important.

ifihearam: @poster
I totally agree with you
If you see some pretty babes feet you will understand
If you venture try to kiss it as part of being romantic
I swear na automatic cancer of the tongue be dat oo

Guys be warned

cant help but LMAO

Saw this pretty looking chick, nice hair, pretty face, great outfit, am loving her already, in moments of admiring her beauty, my eyes trails down to her legs and finally to her feet, and a shocker; terrible looking feet, ugly looking, immediately i lost my interest in her.

A lady's feet is ugly when-
*her pedicure looks horrible
*her nails are incomplete (broken nail)
*her nails over grown roughly
*dirts are obviously seen in d cuticles

and worst of them all is *when the heel of a girl's feet is designed with broken skin cracks, damn, its so disgusting and a big turn off for me. i think a girl should take care of her feet properly, cos to me, it tells alot on your personality. guys do u agree with me on this?

very nice prescription, but on the contrary, these days most girls are looking for a guy who-

1.drives a flashy fast car
2.sends recharge card after they flash his phone
3.buys them clothes that would make them look hot
4.owns a shapeless bank account
5.buys them more make-up to look pretty
6.listens to their financial heart beat
7.buy brazilian hairs
8.fund their monthly BIS
9.take them shopping on weeekends

and finally,
10.marry them after 2 weeks of meeting

REALITY101: What in the name of wrinkled pusssy is this? Where's the stewpid jay bee ass to move this ish. Oh not a thread by reality. . asscracker

Abeg shut up and speak pidgin
*laughs in pidgin* hehehehehehehehehe

Woke4all: Guy:  O baby Hw your own be?

Girl: wettin happen?

Guy: you don just forget me na na na?  It's wa 4 you o,

Girl: please i dont know you. Don't vex

Guy: Na me u giv numba inside bus nana o.

Girl: oh, no vex abeg.

Guy: no wahala just dat i mistakenly delete am just na so call dis line make i save am again +123456789

Girl: dials +123456789

Guy: no qualms na.

Girl: ok

Guy: Na nkechi abi?

Girl: you don just forget my name too. I be Joy na

Dis guy, na criminal brain u get o, see tactics

omega25red: dont take this as an insult but your question is really stewpid. No break up happens that everyone is happy. if someone is unhappy after the break up trust that there will be bashing and trash talk. Anyone should already know this without asking on NL

There is nothing stu.p.id at all in d OP's queation.

He is not talking about the incident dat led to a break up, but the life span of the relationship a guy and a girl spent together, there may have been times when the guy was really nice, caring, loving, supportive and all that, but just because something bad happened and there was a break up, the girl might forget all those wonderful times they both had together and dwell on the incident dat led to the break up, thereby building rage and anger inside her, thus, the guy becomes the "devil".

To me, i think thats uncivilize, all relationship must not lead to marraige, even if there was a catastrophic break up, be matured and learn ur lessons, forgive, but dont go back to him, dont hold on to anger forever, everyone has a good and a bad part, give them kudos for the good part, and pray for change on d bad. thats how i see it. peace, am out.

if a guy kisses u immediately after sex, then u r not just a sex mate(he might not do it every time though)

if he introduces you to his female friends as his girl friend, count urself lucky

if he reaches out to open the door for u, he is a gentleman

forgive him if he forgets ur birthday, guys don't av elephant memories on dates, women do

if he cries too often, then he's an actor

a guy is equal to his ego, do not ever dampen it

if he buys u chocolate, he's is romantic

if he extends his love 4 to ur family, then he's ur husband

if a guy cheks a girl's butt out, doesn't mean he's promiscious

if he calls u like 7am,he went to bed thinking about u

if a guy hits it on d first date, u r cheap to him

guys like it wen u flaunt them before ur friends

if he calls u thrice, return d forth, he'uld respect u 4 it

never dated outside 9ja, but would love an Angolan, i av 1 as a friend though, but we r so miled apart

Orikinla: . Too many cliches and generic notions of boys, but may not apply to all boys in specific terms. Well, the ladies can always separate the boys from the men. Lest we forget that boys from the country side are not the same with boys in the cities. And majority of boys in Nigeria cannot afford the games owned by boys from rich homes and don't care about European soccer matches and in fact majority of them have never been to a shopping mall or night clubs. Even most of the boys in Lagos are too poor to afford the lifestyle of the kind of boys portrayed by the poster.

tell me, what part of the OP's post indicates luxury?(i guess u mean d video games and European soccer)
ur statement shows dat u live in a remote region of 9ja or u r barely expossed.
even as at 1995, 8bits nitendo games were already in homes of average Nigerian kids, n 1999, 64bits nitendo games.
dat is not a luxury to me.
as for the soccer matches, u should already know by now how versatile n fanatic football fans in 9ja r
(if u were talking about owning cars like porches n rovers, i might agree wit u)

"nokia 3310, blackberry porche, phona na phone"
"mercedes benz 190, range rover envogue, motor na motor"
"palmwine or grey goose, highness na highness"
"aba made or H&C, shirt na shirt"
"economy or 1st class, flight na flight"
"9ja uni or havard, school na school"

...and so on

kay9: **remembers something he'd seen on another thread a while back...**
**....**
*looks left..*
*looks right..*
*shits on thread and runs away*

*comes out a corner*
*set leg 4 u*
*u trip n falls*
*pulls u back*
na who go pack d sh1t 4 u?, common, pack am fast fast

i wuld only do dat on 1 condition; that is if we move out of town

cindyrella: Stay there make pant dey wear you... Na we mess pass sef..

Eh en, so all dem pretty girls i see in shopping malls and cinemas actually do mess.

its fun to me when a pretty girl does it, i mean if we were dating. truth is, wen a girl does dat in ur presence, she has little or nothing to hide from u anymore, i see it as a level of intimacy.

so all dem pretty ladies, just keep messing, but not d killer type o

Harbioollah: I have always avoided teenage relationships cos of d pain,heartbreaks and most importantly Break Ups.
Moved to a new environment late last year,i met dis dark skinned beautiful girl. We started as friends initially but she was soon to become my first girlfriend.
Just 2 months ago, i went to her house only 2 find her sleeping and snoring loudly. I initially thought it was due to tiredness/stress but d same thing kept repeating itself anytime she sleeps. Whenever we are both in a place, i try my possible best to keep her awake(even if we are both tired) to avoid embarrassment. I havent told her this bt....
Plz what do i do to Help her??(matured advice only)

ps: Breakup is nt an option 2 me

Love overcomes, if u truely love her u would rather help her than leave her, snoring can be cause by a whole lot of factors, and it can be cured or effectively reduced to d mildest state, especially if the sufferer is not over-weight.

Firstly, tell her about it in a loving manner and then seek medical help with her, visit a doctor together, go to d internet and make researches; i once came across a snore reduction gear dat u wear on ur neck while sleeping(looks very comfortable), and i think it has a good effect reducing the snore as one uses it continuosly. Its just a medical situation and not a bad habit, so help her if truely u love her and she would respect and cheerish u 4ever, dats wat women do.

i been dey think say Cinderellas nor dey mess o

cindyrella: Yes ke!
it is a nose destroyer

*runs at speed of light with shoes in hands*
i am already weeping for ur boyfriend, or next boyfriend

cindyrella: Now this is crazy

@topic
Yes i can.. but only if he starts it first.. Na there i go show am pepper no dulling.

do u mean ur mess has a peppery smell?

MsDarkSkin: Well you don't have to worry about that.
I am sure the last time you saw punny was when you were being pissed out.

ouchhhhhh, dat really hurts