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The girls are very stupid to have dumped their pads where it could be seen not to talk of been picked. Lobish

I applied. I did my homework well good, I researched, I put my best in it but I wasn't selected. I will try again next year.

One thing is, during the application process, I learned a whole lot about my business idea.

So, I've just confirmed it. Nairalanders applied.

I am so so so very A. IT'S SO SO DAMN TRUE.

dake40:
Cool. Thought you bought the activation key

How can u help me with the Ai?

dake40:
You paid for Adobe illustrator?..

I bought the cds

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Tekevwe:
I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.

Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.

The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.

The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.

I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.

There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.

Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40) and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.

He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.

I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.

Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him?

Give him time, I'm begging you. Continue being a good wife. Take pleasure in God's word. Pray for him. When he wants to intimate and he's all smiling with you, don't deny him, but subtly make him know how sad and used you feel. If he's a good man good enough that you married him, he'll come around. Trust me.

cruzita:
this boy is really a child !!! PURE ATTENTION SEEKER

Who be dis? Ain't supporting wizkid's outburst but he's definitely not seeking for attention he's got it already. Linda might have crossed a boundary. Bloggers could go extra miles to break a news. They don't care if it damages people's image.

But wetin concern me? I once begged linda to help myself and my colleagues to publicly call LASU out to give us our certificates but she never responded, I guess cos she won't make a penny from it.

Wizkid, Iwo naa o ti to.

Odunlade Adekola is my best Nollywood actor. But I'm 1000000% sure he wouldn't have spoken these big big oyinbo.

So, what's the difference between wizkid and linda in this case? Birds of feathers.

Pidggin:
Are you physically attractive?

She may be punishing you. Maybe you cheated and she saw you but kept mute.

cionon:
I confided in my husband when he accused me of listening to people. I then opened up and gave him an instance that if i listen to people i would ne doing what they asked me to do.I told him the advice a former neigbhour of his gave me. Of which I told her I can't do such. Now he uses it against me. I feel bad because he didn't even say what I told him exactly. He changed the story. He lied about it.


My husband goes about telling everyone i am diabolic because I jokingly told him that he should be grateful I don't have a wicked heart if not I will use magun to catch him and his mistress. Which he even replied that he knows i dont have that mind. That i am still a child.
this was said around march of 2015

Fastward to November he started asking for a divorce because he of his mistress he met online. Telling both his colleagues and family members that I am diabolic which is not true. I feel bad because this same man have also confided in me telling me things about his boss and others. We are currently separated

I just regret everything. I regret confinding in him and opening up to him. With pleas from everywhere, he is still insisting on divorce.

There are some words best left unsaid.

PaulKillerman:
This woman fine oh.....


Anyway back to the topic, I'm a christian and i believe in miracles..... God heals, but many a time out of ignorance and foolishness, and superstition, we fail to do the necessary things that should be, ..... nothing stopped her from giving the child the drugs while she continues her prayers.... Her case might just be 1 in a thousand, another with a more sever case might want to do likewise and will end up killing their child....

FAITH WITHOUT WORK IS USELESS .... you can exercise your faith while working out the problems.....

God help us all, and God bless Africa...

Goodnews. But it's very stupid to disregard the doctors instructions. They might have killed the innocent child. But thank God for his kind mercies.

I don't really know what to say but I just feel something is wrong with the image. I can't call it a logo.

Ask yourself.... Does this identifies or describe my business?

Oblinks

midehi2:
fake guys everywhere

Fake attracts fake.

To any who cares to listen.

Adam was a perfect man. He sinned, became Imperfect and produced Imperfect children who get sick, suffer and die because of a sin they know nothing about.

God wanted to exercise justice even in his own case. Imperfect cannot redeem Imperfect. And sacrifice of equal quality was needed. Adam lost perfect life, we need a perfect man to redeem us from Imperfection. Who could do it here on earth? No one!

So the second Adam - Jesus had to come and die in our place.

You might get confused cos your pastors say Jesus is coming again and all eyes will see him. If that happens, then, OP you have a case. But it won't happen. If we all see Jesus again, then it nothing but OJORO. HOW CAN YOU BUY BREAD AND STILL KEEP YOUR MONEY?
Jesus gave his body/flesh and precious blood.
When he resurrected, did he use the door in entering the midst of his disciples? NO! When he was walking with his disciples on the road, did they see or recognised him? No!

Have you wondered why his disciples asked him for the SIGNS OF HIS PRESENCE? if they were still expecting to see him physically, would they have asked for signs? NO!

SO OP, JESUS CHRIST'S DEATH WAS A SACRIFICE, HE DIDN'T RESURRECT BACK AS A PHYSICAL PERSON.

Some may say what did Thomas felt? Jesus has performed plenty miracles. Couldn't we just accept that as a miracle?

Why didn't Jesus go to those that killed him when he resurrected?

ireneony:
FTC

This Thread will not pass me by.
I know am not a guy. Abeg make una dash me like.

Let me share mine even though I'm not a guy.
There was this guy I love so much.
I have this feeling he was going to marry me.
He took me to his friend's birthday party.

In front of everyone in knelt down facing me, before he could utter any words, I jumped and screamed! Yes!!! I will marry you! Unknown to me , the reason he knelt down was that he was trying to lace his shoe. The next thing he said was babe what! I am not ready for marriage .

I was so embarrassed ...
Before I could face the audience, I woke up from my dream

Oya clap for yourself.

tosyne2much:
Nearly every guy has at least once in his lifetime experienced a memorable awkward moment when he was brutally embarrassed for visiting a lady either by the lady's parents, her brothers, uncle or her boyfriend whom she never told you about.

*Let me share mine*

A few years ago, I was in a long distance relationship with a very pretty lady. After several months of regular chats, calls and SMSes; I planned on how to meet with my supposed girlfriend and of course, our wishes came to reality as I travelled down to meet with her.

She entertained me with pictures and we started discussing those nasty things we used to say on the phone and how we have both been fantasising about the day we will meet, make fun and perhaps, make love. We discussed at length and later ran out of gist after which I went to the bathroom to have my bath and she followed suite after I was done. (She lived in a self-contain apartment)

We further had a little gist, we became quiet and started looking at each other just like a puppy that has not been fed for days. That was when I knew it was time for the show to begin when someone knocked on the door. She headed towards the door and opened it and here came this young man of an average height, dark sinned and a bit mancho. He didn't greet me but as a perfect gentlemen, I greeted him but I noticed he didn't respond (whether you answer of not, na ur own wahala be that, I said to myself).

What I noticed was the sudden facial expression of contempt registered on his face and the first question he asked her was what I was doing in her room and I was like wtf !! "Shey dis one dey craze ni?, who be dis dog wey no get rope for neck?" Be like say this guy no know me, even Goodluck Ebele Jonathan no fit pursue me comot for here" .... I just throway face dey reply my BBM PINGs as I no kuku get business with am

When I got the greatest shock of my life was when she introduced me to him as an ex classmate way back in secondary school and that I only came to say hello to her and would be leaving soon.. The dude started shouting calling her all sort of names and demanded I leave the room before he's forced to do what would hurt me I couldn't just stand the humiliation and was forced to leave that night after which I passed the night in an uncompleted building.

She later called and start pleading that it was her uncle and that he had gone so I should return back. I got furious and heaped curses on her never to call me again..

I later deleted her number, blocked her on whatsapp and unfriend her on facebook.

I have never felt embarrassed like this in my life all because of punni

Guys, don't be shy, share that embarrassing moment of yours and spread the fun

You for go back nar

haryomikun:
From my mouth!!!!!

Well done. Hope you feel better now?

Because tithe in the Bible was never money. And Abraham paid it just once, and guess what, he didn't pay it with his own property but the spoils of the war which he won. Besides, the tribe of Levi were the only ones allowed to collect tithe. I'm wondering how these men became Levites today. God is patient.

Oya... I've never been to the cinema.... Who's gonna shoot me?

haryomikun:
Everyone knows that they sound the same na.. u dont need to have an ear for music and sounds Stop hyping urself

Where is this one coming out from?

Banner

talk2cj08:
Bro can u do something for our new company
GO-CAB if you get it right you be hired to do the branding for us.
What is Go-cab

Go-cab, is a smartphone community focused taxi app company that connects drivers to passengers.
Go-cab is an indigenous brand with a global perspective of bring people and their cities closer. we pride ourselves in providing an excellent service. Our idea is to drive Africa while creating wealth for its people.
Go-cab was founded to solve the intra city transportation need by providing Africa with a world class transportation services wherever and whenever. All customers need to do is download the app to their smartphone and push a button to have a car in minutes.

Let's discuss officially. Kindly send me a detailed mail jimmy.sdcf@gmail.com

Mountain of faya. Unar dey hear. Everything na die die die. Choi

Sunnycliff:
Go and sit down Femi! If you don't want to celebrate you don't disabuse the minds of people! Its just a remembrance of the resurrection day of our Lord Jesus Christ! We Pray to God through his son Jesus Christ and not to any fetish god!

I'm sorry for you. This thing you still celebrate is still having those same symbols of rabbit and eggs as that of the worshippers of Ishtar and you see it justifiable? Worshiping God with idolatry oriented celebration?

Like I said, I pity you. If na JW talk this one for here unar for don kill am but one of you is saying it and you all still won't hear. Well, it has been prophesied that your ears will be blocked from the truth.
Same as Kumuyi said Christmas is not Biblical and many of you castigated him.

Ayobo: N200/ltr. Black market.

Erhmm Egbon Daniel, if you still want the phone... Go and collect it.

oglalasioux:
This is one of the things the bible can teach;

God created Adam and Eve. They sinned by eating a fruit (put there by the same God). Therefore the whole world has been guilty for the last 6000 years including the children unborn (who don't know shit what this fruit tastes like).

My point: Why is there continuous birth on earth into Adam's sin and subsequent sufferings following it?

My answer: Contrary to your belief that it's one Mr. Adam's long throat for a fruit that is the reason for earthquakes, wars, pestilences, diseases, death etc, I believe that things we term bad in terms of natural disasters are simply the forces of the universe in action. It's not Adam's fruit chewing.

What about wars, diseases, pestilences? Read history and you'll see that we are better off in the world today than a hundred years ago in terms of man made problems. That's the tangible evidence that Charles Darwin's evolution theory is real. Our brains are evolving and in the next hundred years everything you termed miracle in the bible will be a child's play to what we can achieve. In a hundred years we'll have the power of the gods.

Please read and research;

Science can record your dreams and thoughts and play them back to you.

Science is almost at the point of finding the reason for aging at the molecular level.

Science can practically change the weather and change the seasons. In less than 20 years from now, rains can be diverted to drought areas by the press of a button.

Science has found the reasons for diseases and ailment. It is not Adam's fruit chewing. It's defects in our genome. Science is on the verge of repairing the defects to eliminate diseases like cancer.

The bible didn't give me practical answers to any of these. The bible told me everything is in chaos because a man and a woman ate some fruit in a garden. The bible told me the only way out of it is to wait for someone from heaven to come and wage a war before they are fixed. I say no! World problems are practical problems and mankind have solved a great deal of them already.

Hmmm. I really do understand where you are coming from.
We are talking about perfection and Imperfection here. The bible say that everything that God made was good, perfect. Satan came along and deceived Adam and Eve. He thwarted God's original purpose. He insinuated that we can survive without God.
I used to fell like God should have destroyed Satan instantly and reset everything. But will that removed the accusations against God? He called God a liar, he questioned God's sovereignty (right to rule) so God in his humility allowed Satan prove himself. God allow him take over the rulership of the earth. If this is not true, Satan wouldn't have tempted Jesus with the world if it's not really his.

Can you expect anything good from Satan? 1 John 5:19
"We know that we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one."
Is God the wicked one here.
Satan knows that he has just a very little time left, so he's doing everything possible to destroy God's work.

You call all these natural disaster, that world's problems are practical. Can't Satan control nature? Can't he control people to start destroying others? I saw a video on YouTube white roosters raped a hen to death.... You call that nature. Cain killed Abel, you feel what he did is normal or practical? What excuse has he to give for killing his own brother? Under whose influence is he, God's or Satan's.
Under whose influence would a person in charge of people's pension pay herself 36m in a month while pensioners are dying of hunger and malarial?

Satan is the cause of all the problems in the world... See what Revelations 12:12 "On this account be glad, you heavens and you who reside in them! Woe for the earth and for the sea, because the Devil has come down to you, having great anger, knowing that he has a short period of time."

The time to end Satan and his work is very close. God has given the wicked spirit enough time to prove himself and he has failed, we humans can see, the billions of angels in heaven have seen, so when God, our God of justice destroy Satan and his cohorts, no one will say Satan might be right to question God's sovereignty and no such rebellion can ever occur again.

okitz4:
He must have been studying the Bible with them for a while, u can't conclude dat he's a JW. y associate hypocrisy with the set of people who try their best to follow the Bible? unlike the rest who borrow doctrines from paganism

You all must know that even if one is born of a jw parents it does not make that one a jw. He or she must grow up, study the Bible, get to know the significance of getting baptised, he or she will get baptised..... Then that one can be referred to as a Jehovah's Witness.

oglalasioux:
You that have searched the scriptures give me just an answer to one of the questions I put up.

Okay. I'll give you time to ask people you think knows the bible if you don't know.

I'm particularly waiting for a Jehovah's Witness answer.

If you want to sincerely find answers to these interesting questions, kindly ask any of the Jehovah's Witnesses to get you this book... What can the Bible teach us. You need to first acknowledge the accuracy and authenticity of the Bible and this same book will help you only if you clear your mind of any bias.

A very popular Deaconess also attended the memorial of Jesus Christ's death in my congregation and after the program she's said she's been studying the Bible for ages but has never heard what she heard that night and couldn't blv they actually are in the Bible. She said she felt she's a candidate for heaven but she now know better, that to be born again is never an individual decision but God's.