What about lucozade? I never drink it but it's popular.

Probably use it as an excuse for an opening for friendship/date whatever

I know you will say that the majority goes, that age and maturity are not the same.
Somehow I always believe that age and maturity are the same.
Maturity comes natural with age. It is not earned. If you observe little children and even teens. Are you flabbergasted with their wisdom and firm actions?  How much more would you expect of people who are more advanced with age in numbers.
The main tenet is that they all have their five senses operating and are still able to get around in this world in spite of inhibitions in life.
People who lack at least any of the five senses, are still able to get around in this world, few don't.
The general pattern or norm is that age and maturity are the same, but there are a few exceptions.
When you study law, there are general laws but there are few exceptions.
When you study science, there are theories or general assumptions but there are few exceptions.
If you observe people today, they are working, married, have children, own or rent rooms, have cars whether old or new and the list can go on and on and on. People socialize and have friends. Just very few are not able to do so or have these things. It's even amazing.

don't really kiss each other? That's good. We don't want it to be seductive like hollywood just modest. Nigerian movies must be unique different and set the example for the world.

Give no place to the devil. Flirting, even in itself may not be wrong ,opens the door for sin. We cannot say we are strong, or have good motives. It just gives room for the devil. Once we are in wrong territory, that's it. We lose control.

It's being secured in the true sense of the word when the marriage certificate is signed
Also it's after-glow lol or smile (not true)

Love is an act of the will, not a feeling.
Love is not pain like most people believe.
Love cherishes to the extent that the other party is not hurt, even in rejection. This is where openness, honesty comes in.

I disagree with King Tut
A man cannot love 2 women at the same time. Lust is not love. It's either love or hate. There are no degrees to love.

Lack of nudity, vulgarism and that sort.
Spirituality, about Jesus and God.

To God be the Glory.

know nudity nor obscenity and the like in Naija movies.
praying to Jesus and talking about God wow yes.
culture learned for an outsider.
Like them in spite of the flaws there may be.
Lovers' Creek has some suspense.

Holllywood is too much exaggeration in their stories, highly extremely impossible situations

Bollywood never like them. too much tears

No, it is not ok for christians to flirt. Christian couples, if there be, should be involved in the work of the Lord, doing evangelism together with other groups, having fellowship together like reading the scriptures together, praying for the lost and families or whoever, going out there for the lost souls. Really.
Abstain from all appearances of evil and flee youthful lusts the bible says. Check them out. There are more scriptures to support this question.

ah really don't know. I think they feel secured after signing that marriage certifcate. They are happy.

Love is a feeling that you feel, when you feel you are going to feel a feeling you have never felt before.

Love is making no excuses.

Seun, ow can i post a thread or question?

How can one delete an account?

I know a girl who divorced her husband. He took her money and usually gave to his mother. She was the breadwinner or worked for most of the income.

Leave and cleave.
A man shall leave mother and father and cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh.

I've noticed most of the secrets involved man-woman relationships. Just a note here I've learned over the years is Most times or sometimes "Never get involved in couple's lives.". I rather stay away from that and pray if I do really care.

Under no circumstances, someone should beat up her mother. Period.

I like fairy tales like Cinderella.
What about Princess Diaries - a movie?

It takes 2 hands to clap.
Appropriate?

you said he ditched and/or dumped you. No I won't attend if I was in your case. maybe he just wants to show off. It depends on how he ended his relationship with you. If he ended nicely you can attend. If he truly apologises to you how he mistreated you, maybe you can attend. If I was you, in any case I won't waste my time and money and effort to do so. I have better things to do. What can u gain for yourself by attending.
In future will he be able to assist u in any way, business-wise or other.

@send him a message on the cell phone or tell him you need a break to think.
No this is not nice. If you tell him u need a break to think, give reasons as much as possible and with all the details as possible. He can fully understand this and see his faults and make corrections if possible.

No, to me a person can't love 2 girls or guys at the same time. Men especially loves one and lusts the other.
Another thing, check the scriptures about Jacob and Elkanah. In these two instances, there was reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal jealousy and conflict between the two wives. Jacob spelled it out that he loves Rachel and the same goes to Elkanah.