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Jewessgratitud3:
That's the only thing they know and TikTok. Every Gen z girl has a ring light in her space. All they do is Stand in front of the camera and be dancing like possessed beings. Ndi Amapiano.

Every Gen Z girl doesn’t have a ring light in their face

Some are doctors, some are lawyers, some are engineers (me), there are geniuses, there are innovators

In a bid to sound special, some women just disappoint me the way they talk down on their gender, girls will always be girl doesn’t mean you have to refer to them as possessed beings

Not everyone had to cook at 8 and it doesn’t make you special that you did. Some had maids and chefs and will continue to have maids and chefs till they die. Why does that bother you? Or is this jealousy?

Some of those girls will still be better than you in the future, some their present status you can’t even contest

You had better let the young generation be the young generation that they are and face your front, our parents did worse with no cameras in their face

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

The guy na mumu

The vagina of a woman way don give birth to 4 Children is always obvious
Forget about the elasticity of the vagina

It must show say you don born 4 Children
That is why if you are with a woman always ensure the two of you are naked at times gisting and playing when you are not horrnny

If the only time you see your woman’s nakeddness is when you are hornny and when you want to have sex then you will never take note of her body, breast and vaginal because at that moment you can't think

The Vulva is obvious, the vagina is inside

slimjohn2k5:
Apart from paternity n maternity fraud, women also do age fraud. A woman that hv reached 38 will tell the man she is 23. Then they start struggling with child birth.

Man must be blind then

Franzinni:
see let me tell you for free... There is NO woman that will willingly stay with a sinking ship... Women are wired to survive so what she is doing is instinctive. If he betters himself, he would become valuable to her and it would kindle something that made him pick her to start with and if it doesn't, at least he would be valuable to women who appreciate good taste in men. It's a win win... And the pain is one of the greatest propellant there is hardly any great name that was not built on the back of pain.... So if you have pain, use it as fertilizer to grow..

Why are you a man, telling me a woman what a woman would do? 😏

This is not a sinking ship, he has plans and a job. All she has to do is be patient

There are no things in the house yet but her phone spoilt and the next thing she could do is rain insults on a man who provides for her to the point of fetching water


There are better ways to trigger ambition and I really pity your experience. All women are certainly not like this. Or should I begin to open my mouth and say what I went through with mine before it finally became better?

I make my man want to take over the world everyday and I don’t have to use insults because he is my whole heart. There are smart ways to those things, it’s pity this man married a jobless uneducated fool

SkengRay:
Them don Group Intimacy you before?

Lol. This is funny but yeah it happened to me in school and I have forgiven them


Never made me hate Nigerian men for once though, you guys are still far far better and have dignity

Jakumo:
I hate that country called India with a passion. I would not set foot there for a million dollars paid in cash upfront.

😏

TrennixGLOBAL:
Both of them is childish. How can you be attracted to a red flagged characteristics of the opposite gender.

People are really weird.

There are things that you are attracted to that other people consider red flags too, you may not know. Let me give a general example

A slay queen with a curvy shape she flaunts is not seen as responsible by men but men are secretly more attracted to them than the modest ones

Bad boys with dreads are not seen as responsible by women but women are secretly more attracted to them than the good guys

eepeepook:
Childish topic.

The responses are childish, not the topic.

Franzinni:
Oga don't buy any curtain, use bed sheet for now, and don't buy any tank, keep fetching water... Now use whatever money you can save to invest in learning a modern skill that is computer and tech related... That teaching job is a self appointed limit on your potential, remember that your identity dictated your life... A gate man and his oga are not different if not for their mindset and it's limits

I was in your shoes and for 10 years I was constantly being reminded of my shortcomings as the head of the family but I kept going back to John the Baptist and Jesus, they had to go through the wilderness... You are in the wilderness but you have to have a plan that will turn out in your favour in the end. Invest in knowledge, computer-based knowledge, your wife is doing exactly what she is supposed to do... You will have to take the pain and use it to propel yourself... Remember, computer related modern wealth generation skill. Let the pain COUNT!

Shes not doing what she’s supposed to do, she is a helpmeet not a spawn of the devil


Men don’t have to use pain to propel themselves all the time. If he has a woman who knows how to be a woman, he will live in bliss whether he has or not.

She doesn’t love her husband abeg

junketer:
you make sense. That guy is a simp. The wife sef go add the gp tank for the insult say na people dey buy tank for am. Why can't men be men?

As a woman I feel very angry because I know exactly what that woman thinks of him, yet she’s jobless

When I was in school I used to listen to 21year old girls brag that they will slap their boyfriend if they catch him cheating or if he doesn’t send them money but will sleep with all the yahoo boys in school while mature men in Lagos hustle and train them


Make men continue to dey disturb themselves, y’all don’t know how special and too sexy you are when you act like what you were created to be. A MAN, YOU ARE THE PRIZE.


Rubbish

Viking007:
If getting a tank will save your marriage because that’s all I can see from your write up. Get the cost of the tank and send me a dm. ✌️

This exactly what he wants. Tomorrow when his wife calls him poor and wretched for not having any furniture in the house, Una go still contribute for am to furnish

Simp ass man fetching water for an ungrateful abusive thing

AkporsMechanical:
I promise to be very brief.
My wife and I live in a three bedroom flat without paying rent, although we only occupy one room since we don't have much property yet. The owner of the house abandoned the house before now and when we had accomodation issue asked us to stay there. We have been here since last year. However, there is no Geepee tank to supply water into the house. We could only pump water into our little drum when there is light. So I always go fetch water from the neighbouring compounds whenever there is no light which have resulted into several insults. My wife has been dragging me that I must buy a Geepee tank.

My salary as a private school teacher is barely enough to feed us talk more of saving to buy a Geepee tank especially in this economic crisis. In the midst of all these, my wife's phone went bad and needed a new one Just this afternoon, my wife started raining insults on me that I am not behaving like a man at all, that I should have settled down fully before thinking of marriage, that I want to make her go hungry. This was because I told her I would cut off some part of my salary to be saving so I can buy curtain for our room, television and save for Geepee tank. She even went ahead to say I am poor and wretched just because I can't afford her a new phone for now.

Since afternoon, I have refused to eat. My problem here is that my parents love my wife and my parents are far from where I reside. And I don't want to report my wife to my parents so it won't bring disrespect later to her in the future. Secondly, as the first born of my parent,I don't know how my parents will take it if I tell them I don't want to marry her again so they don't have b.p. I am really really confused. The little extra money I get from extra tutorial is what I do send to my two siblings in school even though is very little compare to their needs but at least it is something.

I feel like running away but to where? I truly love my wife but she is regretting marrying me. Please what can I do?

I’M A WOMAN I WILL TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT YOU ARE A SIMP!!!!!! You fetch water for her too?


What a fucking pity.

Why do your parents love her? Abeg don’t make me angry which one is you truly love your wife?

What do you want us to do now apart from tell you to dump for a while let her learn money doesn’t fall from the skies?

You want us to contribute money for Geepee tank or what?

Mr ‘I truly love my wife’ that calls him wretched and poor for because of ordinary phone GO AND SLEEP

SIMP

This story made me so angry if I were a guy, I fit track you woze you 😡

hasyak:
It isn't forced, it inherent in men, to provide and protect. So is their nature to sample..

Why do you see men start thinking of marrying more wife or increase sampling when money comes their way? But for women, that's when they start saying I don't need a man, am free and independent?

If it’s so inherent, why are men of today fighting their destiny so hard? Many are even turning to women to escape at a frightening rate. Some are using it as joke, some are downright serious about it.


This is because men and women approach relationships differently, being in relationship as a woman is completely different from what you can ever tolerate as a man. Women tolerate it because of MONEY, even a lacking man will tolerate a woman’s excesses if she builds him the way men build lowly women.

I am not against polygamy at all, all I’m trying to tell you is that real men don’t feel too Hot for ladies until money enters their accounts. Even the rich easily get bored of themselves and cheat.

What does that tell you? It is money that is polygamous and not your dick.

BodyCount:
This only happens to loose girls, girls with numerous BODYCOUNT. The more BodyCount a girl has, the more she loose her capability to love and bond with her partner.

Same with men, he’ll start seeing all women as prostitutes

tiffanyfan:
There are five reasons a woman gets attached to a man after sex.

✓ Women naively believe what they hear.

The way to a woman is through her ears. For a man to sleep with a woman, he says what the woman wants to hear:

“You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met. You are so smart, focused and intelligent.”
This way, she doesn’t feel like he’s taking her for a fool. And whoops, she falls to his trap!

✓ Women believe in love.

Outside marriage, men are just cheaters (irresponsible men). For men, there’s no love gained or lost. After sex, a man walks away with zero feelings. The game is over. She’s left confused and wounded. Women don’t easily slow down after intimacy.

✓ Women are more emotional by nature.

The woman’s body releases volumes of oxytocin during intimacy. This is the hormone responsible for bonding. She naturally gets emotionally attached to the man she slept with. And the more time he took with her, the more attached she becomes.

✓ Women are nurturers by nature.

Women unconsciously nurture relationships the same way they nurture babies. Women foster and nourish whatever comes their way including grownup men.

✓ Sex for women is an act of submission.

When a woman sleeps with a man, she totally trusts him. In sex, a woman surrenders her life, will and body to the man to do with her as he wishes. That’s why women get broken to pieces when relationships break down.



Fritzy

No one surrenders their life to you during sex please, get a grip bro

Men writing articles on women never fail to destroy me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

hasyak:
You ask an interesting question.

Hatred is usually caused by mothers, and to some extent, fathers. Polygamy? The truth is, man is polygamous by nature; it's society that's trying to change the narrative. That's why you see baby mamas all over. If a man is capable, why accept his mistresses/baby mamas outside but restrict him from marrying them? Why shame the mothers outside? It should be encouraged, honestly. The benefits outweigh the shortcomings. It gives children legitimacy, secures the women in case of death, and more, which I won't delve into further.

The capacity of the man when it comes to managing two or more women is where the majority of the problems come from. On the women's side, the major problem is their inherent sense to protect their own, and this leads to jealousy and competition.

We first need to accept our shortcomings, then work out a way that protects All..

Man is irresponsible by nature because of their forced provider status, not some polygamous DNA strain


No person that provides wants to stay with one person, man or woman

Angelfrost:
This is why some of you are so easy to deceive by so-called "Virgin-looking" ladies.

Una think say na every lady wey dress well, comport herself and bend head all the time for public truly dey sexually inexperienced or chaste.

I have known ladies who looked and acted wild but no man ever came close to their cookie jar.


Make una dey play!

No need to spill secrets

Let dudes keep marrying refurbished hoes, it’s their destiny

JessicaRabbit:
😂🤣

What will you have them do, OP? They may be Christians who claim to have "faith" in the divine and supernatural, but surely you don't expect them to anoint their iPhones with holy oil for better battery strength? What's Christianity without a tiny dose of hypocrisy? Got to abandon imaginary fantasies for reality once in a while. Tsk tsk.

Brothers and sisters in the lord, please plug in and let the spiritual amperes flow! Just remember, while your phone might be reaching 100%, your faith might still be stuck on "searching for signal". Hallelujah, indeed! 😁

#JesusTakeTheWheel...andChargeMyPhone

Total gibberish

CrownedPhoenix:
Dude deleted social media posts, considered quitting the national team. At some point his other team members and league manager had to publicly encourage him.

So yes, it had some telling on his esteem.

I stand corrected

CrownedPhoenix:
Congratulations to them!

Hopefully, this goes a long way to recover the lost self esteem after the trolling he got for his performance at AFCON

Perhaps he can find reasons to believe in himself again.

Who told you he lost his self esteem and stopped believing in himself?

I’m glad I’m not a public figure, the power people assume they have on others is hilarious

stormborn28:
Even Dangote didn't build a house at that age... When someone makes foolish statement, condemn his or her stupidity... For a man to make such breakthrough, he must be into fraud, hard drugs or born into extreme wealthy family

His mom has a vagina and he is wondering why people who possess such body parts act dumb

He should simply ask her, no hard feelings there

APOPTOSIS:
And women will stand by men if the table turns around. It seems you want to wake up the wrath of the gods on this forum. The wrath you Guys are feeling in that country is not yet enough. You want more!
Better allow sleeping dogs lie especially when you don't know what to type.

Lol. Online chest beaters

Namaster:
Sometimes I wonder if having a vagina is a symptom of stupidity.

No need to wonder, next time, ask your mom

Rich4god:
When they call these gender names, na them go dey foam for mouth. But every of their action points to the name of what they are usually called.

Funny enough, some of them will still come here and shout "it is my body, i can dress as I like".

Should we call your gender names based on the rubbish your fellow men do everyday? The day will you learn to face the person involved when you have issues and leave others out of it, that’s the day you will have peace

ufotunang:
.. jealousy

Person marry old woman, Wetin dey to jealous am? See ehn, if person wan hustle to come out of abject poverty, there are questionable things he/she has to do.

However no be to come dey loud am for social media

Really sorry for y’all stuck in Nigeria

I was on a live earlier where a white man was warning a Nigerian guy to get off that site and stop trying to trying advantage of young girls and old women

The way you see white people as gods is so embarrassing to the black race, there is no difference between their race and ours

They are just financially literate and have more intergrity
One down there even said he can roll in the mud as far as he gets the ring

From an old woman?


The fact that they see such comments online and wonder whether we are normal or sick in the head.

These guys will forever see us as subhuman

chriskosherbal:
these are pure hustlers and it's accepted on the street...you can even roll on the floor to get that ring on her finger to narrow the road in getting your papers..you deserve to live well abroad.

But doing same thing to those local hoes we are used to who you feed, cloth, accommodate and at the end they will still cheat ...a capital NO from me.

E reach men turn them call am ‘Hustlers’

Ladies and gentlemen, look at what a grown up black man with supposed self respect typed, they can do anything for the white man/woman to accept them into their land

Prostitute themselves, roll in the mud, deceive people’s mothers, gold dig from young women who all live abroad…


Things that fatherless women in the first world and third women normally do, black men also do to survive and call it ‘hustling’.

They are proud of it until the money gets them into places that make them feel worthless as men when they meet real men who actually know how to earn money without deception or deceiving grandmothers

It’s all ‘hustling’ as long as you’re a man

David0002:
see painment

You are the one pained bro

ExudeLoveToAll:
Get well soon

You will be fine

Peppysco:
While not supporting the guy's action, but na this kind mentality wey you get dey make some mean guys treat women as trash.

Why did you not quote all the men saying exactly what she’s saying or are you scared of them?

Because she’s a woman, it makes the point less valid?

Are those guys insulting the men up there also to be treated as trash?

The guy is a fool and did not play his game well, that is the fact. No woman will advice their brother to train a girl in school, women are not angels.

The gender of the person saying it shouldn’t matter, if you like treat your girl or wife like trash because of online opinions, it will affect nobody here but her

Incrediblekutty:
Clear but not valid. Must she sign an application before he takes her serious?? You don't need to form smarter or perfect in situations like this, that man is not in any way different from any of us that date and spend on our girlfriends, that he decided to react in such way doesn't make him less of a man. That's my problem with his/her take on the issue

Oga your real issue is because you know that moniker is a WOMAN 🤡🤡🤡

Everyone is saying the SAME THING but na where you feel say you get power you go show am! I no blame your bitter self

bluebay:
Your boyfriend or husband need to see this. Aboki Ashawo like you

You are complete bastard

Bitter thing why did you not quote your fellow men that are all saying the same thing she’s saying abi you dey fear?

Una go just come internet dey show say na rejection una dey face everyday

Tonididdyx:
What would you've said or done differently?
Was there a written agreement to his stupidity?... Only then he has a case!

Help me ask the bitter dude


Everyone is saying the same thing but men are only quoting that mention because it’s a chick

Una don see where Una go show Una power na, bitter things