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IrishKez: Thanks!

I mind though

Just kidding, hope u all having great day.
D weather is sunny here in d big black city.

purplesummer: Dem no dey try am for where i dey nau

This lip am seeing, will love to b kissed with her consent. I guess u're good kisser. I will bet 1mil$ for that!

dozzzybaba: APC is responsible for the crashed Helicopter - Doyin Okupe

Lolllllllll..


Naija.

pelusi: Please is this norma?. I noticed that anytime i finished making love with my wife,i will be feeling nauseating-as if i want to vomit,the whole thing will be disgusting,turning me off even looking at her after the love making.But when i have the urge,it will be as if i need it more than food as i always disturbing her that i need it almost frequently,but immediately we finished the game,i will start feeling as above mentioned.Please is it normal.Mature advice please.

Yes its normal. when u cum, u av expended at least 85% of or energy, and it makes u weak immediately u done. But next time, don't tagged it as sex when u get down with or wife. U tagged it love making

kaima1984: Like is an understatement,I Luv money bc money makes d world go round#proudly Anambra babe#

OK babe. good to know that. Anyway, d lord grant ur wishes

IrishKez: No guy can just come and kiss me. There must have been a thing going on between us for him to try it. Say, there'd been a unspoken chemistry between us for him to suddenly initiate that.
My cent!



Disclaimer: I haven't kissed before o
Waiting for the right man and time

Yes, u're beautiful n ur lips look kissable without u authorising it
Do u mind?

kaima1984: Amennnnnn ,hahahahhahaha

U go like money oooooo. Anyway, thats my type of lady

Can't stop laughing.... I dey laugh ooo. So many thinz in this country make me wanna jump from an 100 floor skyscraper see if my head will break...

vanguard1: Sylva without any doubts is corrupt even a newborn is aware of that. On the issue of presidential pardon, he will not be getting any because he is not on the president's good books.

Reason why he's been witch hunted. Oga jona, we dey observer well oooo. Make I go take my pakurumo with coke jaare.

Petitequeen: There was this time that i was so obsessed with this guy,he was d son of my mum's friend , tho we weren't friends o, buh i had this huge crush on him and the guy was boarding at corona high then....

i thought of possible means on how to be friends with him , that could lead to a relationship, so i decided to start learning tailoring in his mum's shop since it was at d front of their house,Just so i could see him during the holidays ....i did it for three terms thinking he could look my way . until one day, he came home with 1 "over-made up" gurl, introduced her to me as his girlfriend and introduced me to hr as his mum's "apprentice"...choi choi choi....i swear na dat dae i stop d work

Silliest thang.. Uhmmm, mine. Maybe waiting all these years just to propose to Rihanna to be my 2nd wifey... I know it will come to pass. Can't wait for that girl to be in my arms. Help me say "amen"

Faith93: plaese I fell bad for all insurt I rcevoing for people I thoughgt I av friendships form

Faith, " WTF" seriously if u're d one in d profile pics. U definately look like my 2nd wife to be. Miss Rihanna. I hava a better idea, I will go for u, instead of waiting till kingdom come to get Rihanna. Will u be my second wife? To love u, adore u, till death do us part!

martronilla: A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian
woman, but a Christian man is not permitted
to marry a Muslim woman.
I remember hearing an interview on the
radio with a Muslim, a few years ago. As the
interview began, the host asked the Muslim
guest whether he was married. He replied
that Islam is so open and tolerant that he is
married to a Christian. Islam means equality
and no discrimination.
However, the quick-minded interviewer
asked him if Islam allows a Jewish man or a
Christian man to marry a Muslim woman.
The guest’s enthusiasm dropped a little. He
had to concede that Islam does not allow
this. The radio host pressed home the point,
saying that the guest’s first statement was a
little misleading, wasn’t it? They argued for a
moment or two. Then, if I recall correctly, the
radio host sensed his guest’s unease and
changed the subject.
A short article from a Muslim website,
representing many others, says about
religiously mixed marriages:
It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to
marry a non-Muslim man.
It is permissible for a Muslim man to marry a
Christian/Jewish woman strictly under these
two conditions:
1. She is a true Christian/Jew – not by
name and/or ancestral background.
2. She did not renegade from Islam and
become a Christian/Jew.
Why is marriage allowed in only one
direction? Maybe seventh-century Arab
culture will answer this question. Perhaps
the Quran itself does not honor women,
married or not.
What does the New Testament say on the
matter?
The Quran
For the historical and literary topical context
of this next sura (chapter), please click here.
The Quran in Sura 5:5 says:
. . . Likewise you are permitted to marry
chaste believing women [Muslims] or chaste
women among the people who were given
the Scripture [Jews and Christians] . . . .
(Maududi, vol. 1, p. 427)
This verse, as noted, says that Islam permits
Muslim men to marry non-Muslim women
who are Christians and Jews, but a Jewish
or Christian man may not marry a Muslim
woman. (In this article I will address only the
Christian community.) What is the rationale
behind the ruling?
Beyond any doubt, Islam is patriarchal, so a
Muslim man must have final control in the
relationship. For example, Sura 4:34 says
that a husband may hit his wife, but no
verse in the Quran says a wife may hit her
husband—as if domestic violence in any
form is acceptable.
It may be true that Muhammad at first
respected Judaism and Christianity, but he
turned against them later on in his life, as
seen in this article and this one. So this
means that in seventh-century Arab culture
a Muslim man may dominate his wife or
wives, but not a Christian man who would
dominate his Muslim wife.
Islam allegedly is the best and final religion
for all humankind, and the Muslim man may
convert his submissive wife. Perhaps in
Muhammad’s mind no woman could ever
convert a Muslim man, if he is a
traditionalist. Today, this is especially true if
he comes from a hard line region in an
Islamic country or a hard line Muslim family.
Therefore, Christian women must be careful
about marrying Muslim men. Islam does not
give the same rights to women as it does to
men. In fact, the Quran clearly says that
women are inferior to men.
Further, to be blunt, but also factual, Islam
generally is a cruel and harsh slave-master.
This article shows that Muslim men are
permitted to have sex with their slave-girls.
This article gives the top ten reasons why
Islam is not the religion of peace. And this
article offers the top ten reasons why
Islamic law is bloody and excessive—six
hundred years after Jesus showed us a
better way. Finally, this article gives the top
ten rules in the Quran that oppress and
insult women. Islam, as the whole world
knows by many, many reports, does not
honor women.
Therefore, Christians must not trade in the
eternal Son of God who sets people free
today and offers the love of God, for a
human and mortal messenger Muhammad
(Suras 3:144; 39:30; 41:4), who is too often
cruel and harsh and misogynistic. Islam
does not honor women.
If a Christian woman marries a Muslim, but
holds on to her beliefs, such as the Sonship
and Lordship of Christ, then ipso facto she
holds on to a false belief and may be
considered a "heretic" or an "infidel," if the
Quran and traditional Islamic theology are
followed consistently.
Also, would the children be Muslims or
Christians, or secular? The answer is clear, if
Islam is followed consistently.
What kind of marriage would this be?
Where is the spiritual connection and
agreement between husband and wife and
God?
The New Testament
The New Testament starts the soon-to-be
married couple on an equal footing in the
selection of a mate.
The New Testament in 1 Corinthians 7:39
says that a Christian woman may marry only
a Christian man (and vice-versa) (see also 2
Corinthians 6:14-18). At first glance, this
divine counsel seems too restrictive, but
looked at more deeply, it demonstrates a lot
of wisdom. If a married couple starts their
walk together with the same faith and
theology, then this takes the pressure off of
possibly converting the partner to the
other’s faith. One partner does not have to
"evangelize" the other partner. Neither
partner starts off as an "infidel" or "heretic."
In Biblical Christianity, the man and the
woman must have a deep, spiritual
relationship with Jesus Christ, individually,
through the power of the Holy Spirit before
they become one flesh in marriage. This
means their spiritual intimacy with the Lord
will be shared in the couple’s own intimacy
with each other.
Also, this true spiritual equality takes away
any patriarchy. The woman already agrees
with the husband in matters of religion, so
what need does he have to control the
relationship and lay down religious law?
In a way, Islam acknowledges this
restriction when it forbids a Muslim from
marrying a polytheist or idolater (Sura
2:221). They are too far apart theologically.
Likewise, though neither religion is
polytheistic, Islam and Christianity are too
far apart theologically and spiritually, notably
in Muhammad’s denial of the Sonship of
Jesus Christ, an essential, non-negotiable
doctrine in Christianity. Islam wrongly
demotes Jesus to a mere prophet. The New
Testament everywhere affirms the Sonship
of Christ.
On a heart-felt level, the Muslim does not
receive the Holy Spirit because he does not
receive Christ as Savior and Lord. In fact,
Islamic theology erroneously reduces the
Holy Spirit to the angel Gabriel. This means
that a marriage between a Muslim and a
Christian would be unequal. And this is risky
for the Christian, since she would be most
vulnerable to a particularly strong patriarchy
that may rear its ugly head later on in the
marriage.
Remember, the Quran gives permission to
husbands to hit their wives if the husbands
merely fear high handedness or rebellion in
their wives (Sura 4:34).
Besides this practical reason, if a Christian
understands the New Testament, then he or
she must not marry a Muslim, for spiritual
and theological reasons.
A Christian couple must keep spiritual unity.
They must raise their children in spiritual
harmony, as followers of Christ.

Your quote is from mars; way way to long, just can't read it all. Am a muslim yoruba guy and am married to a christian yoruba lady.

Eneze1: this statement coming from a muslim guy you need a big hug

I'm also a muslim, and Islam is my religion. I second on this. In honesty, the truth been said. I live in IB, close to a missionary school, St annes girls grammar sch. They have both xtians n muslim girls in d sch, but, not for once I have ever come across a muslim girl goin to sch with an hijab on, d only time I see that is on fridays and after sch hours when they are going for the jumat prayers. To be frank, their are muslim missionary schs also, where u won't find a church in it. I only wish we can start living in reality and not some sort of old primitive ways.

Madam Bimbo Akintola woud have been ok for me if she was younger.

GustavoFring: Well I live with my girlfriend and she doesn't cook, nobody go chop that day so...

Hey chief, I love d nick " gustavofrings" I guess I need to change mine also to jesse pinkman. Off to watchg season 7

Tbken: Did he sleep with you before marriage?? Be sincere

Sorry to intrude, is their a crime in sleeping with my gf whom then turn to my fiancee and now my wife b4 marriage? She cook, wash, do all house chores in d evolution. I believe what u have inside of u matters.

Wislet: Don't talk ignorantly.

Our mothers did not go living with or cooking daily in their husbands' houses. As soon as it was determined she was wife material (especially by the man's mother or sisters), a visit was paid to her parents' house and her dowry paid. She was made a WIFE without much ado... And not the warped mentality of the men of today who think a woman should sleep with them or reside in their house with them or be their cook. To prove WHAT? Is that the way to prove it? And after all that is done, what next? Isn't it the same men that will see a girl that refused to do all that/refused to give them the time of day and quickly dumped the 'maid' who they successfully deceived(as they are deceiving some girls here) and married the new one? And later you will hear funny tales of "my boyfriend dumped me after I did everything for him"...bla bla bla...

In this time and age, any lady that thinks doing all that will land her a husband is not being sincere with herself. You wash, sweep, cook for, sleep with a man who hasn't seen it fit to visit your father's house and put paid to your services for life, and you are not ashamed? Yet it is your 'mates' who did far less who keep sending you their wedding invitations every other week. And he keeps deceiving you with "When I am settled/financially 100% I'll go the next step".

My dear, if he says he's not ready yet, why don't you make him want to speed it up and work harder so he can come to your place faster? If you wait AT YOUR FATHER's HOUSE he will be hungry enough for you to want to pay your bride price quicker before he loses you. Won't that result to working harder? Then you will have value in his eyes. Sleeping with him everyday, cooking, washing, etc are all a WIFE's duties. If you are doing all those for him, why would he remember you aren't his wife yet? Why would he want to work hard for you?

There is a law governing everything in this life. As long as you keep breaking the rules for any, the more its fulfilment eludes you.

Not doing all those things will not make him think you aren't wife material. But, should he think you aren't 'serious' because you don't sleep with him etc, please dust your clothes and move on! He is the one who is not husband material. When your man comes, from his character and attitude toward you, you will offer a thanksgiving to God for being wise enough to run away from that one you almost made the mistake of your life with.

Do not deceive yourself, and do not be deceived.

You can get more wisdom from your elderly mothers (Elderly because even some young mothers of today deceive their children to pursue men to their detriment).

Stone age tinz. Yes we don't need to deceive ourselves, I have once dated a girl for 2 years all thru my ND days. She decided to travel to dubai, I gave her 500k, and when she got back from dubai" alas, she found another guy. This other guy travelled from America to come and shop in dubai, for that I wasn't fit enough to continue to be her man. What transpire later is a story I love to delete forever. Though am happily married now. Cooking or not doesn't shows a character, but home training, moral and d foot step you decided to thread does. D girl camr back after some few months begging, do u know what I did to her? Cooking, washing and all other chores don't define it. But what's inside. Rest my case for now. Breaking bad season 7 is out, off to watch it with a bottle of andre.

ivyy: In honesty I hated it shege. When I go to my bfz crib and he begs me to coook especiali if some friends are over ( for my mind I done turn to slave abii)
You need to see boning. Bone of life and sharp sharp he wil join me in the kitchen


But With time I got used to it. Looking at it critically, you and your bf in the house and then when oone or both of you get hungry and guyz have got to eat out? Haba!

You guyz can eat out once in awhile , other times you cook, he cooks(that's if he can, if not u bear it all) either way,we all know that as a girl you wil do the cooking more

Why would a guy disrespect you cause you cook for him once in a while For some guyz if not most, its the fastest way to their hrts o

Still I don't expect guyz to force their gfs to cook for them if they don't wana

For me I don't see anything wrong in that. Believe me, my gf need to cookl for me, mostyly over the weekend. Though am married now, I once met a cute girl some few months back, she told me her mum advise her d road to a mans heart is his belly. So my sister, don't be consumed with a negative thought abt that. Never knew we got some cute sisters on here. Well am new.

Felow nairalanders, do u all support Sharia law on this one??

Boarding the next chachangi airline to upper iweka abi na nnewi? So i can have a fair share of d national water...

I guess it's a time I start acting like David copperfield, and jump from d zenith of koko house. May am gonna win who got talent in Mars. Pls next thread...

Observing with caution. Never knew Season 7 of breaking bad is out. Issokay.