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otunsman:
.Several of them have seduced me in the past

You are actually a pedophile.
You need urgent psychiatric evaluation and support.

markidoo:
I am not being biased here. I seriously condemn the man's act but come to think of it mst of dz underaged calabar girls seduce men to engage them in transactional sex. Y didnt she scream or resist while d paedophile ws carry out his devilish act. I served in calabar n am telling this forum dat sm underage girls in cali r so corrupt that they even go all d way to seduce sm vunerable men.

You served?
You are a graduate?
If you answer to any of the above is yes, then your education is futile and fees wasted on account of the lousy Comment you made above.
Being seduced by a 9 year old?
You actually sound like a pedophile.

PassingShot:
Is there any difference between the two? Both are not worthy of being a senator. But then what can we do?

Between the devil and the deep blue sea.

NemzySeries:
urs is fair....her hubby dunt want dem to cum ova.....konji kills faster dan cancer oooo

konji is manageable when there is an expiry date.
This one is endless. That is what is worrying the woman most.

AdaEkube:
tell him how u feel and u guys would settle dis with one understanding.Marriage ain't roses like dat,there are sacrifices u make to keep it going.

Some sacrifices are not worth it.
It is not that he has a plan to live together with them but it is not materializing, from her comments he has no plan.
That is completely different.

prinwa:
Initially when we got married he told me he will prepare my papers, which he did but it didn't work, because i already had my daughter, so the embassy said that he doesn't. Have enough income to take care of me and his daughter. We kept on trying over and over again but nothing. Seems to work. Now i have another baby who is 11months old. My daughter gave him alot of space. My concern now is that he told me February this year that when he gets back to Europe that he will apply for his citizenship, so that it will be easy for him to take us. Up till this moment he has not applied for it. He is taking good care of financial, i won't deny that. But i need companionship, i need a man in my life. I feel empty with out him. I don't want my children to grow without their father.

You actually do not have a marriage. What you have is a copulation arrangement.
Life is all about priorities. Two cannot walk unless they agree.
You and your husband have conflicting priorities. One has to give.
Case closed.

edwife:
An ignorant calling out another ignorant.

Please who is a muslim? or you just wanted to make yourself feel better.

Just so YOU and the one who avoided quoting me know,i am a christian,born and raised as one-never had a muslim friend or among muslim.



Why do you keep referring to others rather than to quote me directly?

What is it with you?i was corrected by bukatyne who is also a human being like you,are you that a genius that you find it difficult to see that not everyone is knowledgeable about some facts?

I thought i was conversing with mature men.

Apologies. As he sounded like he knew you personally.
The rest of your post directed at me was irrelevant.

funlord:





Because YOU are a muslim it does not give YOU the right 2 be myopic! Which 1 is @ least MUSLIMS DON'T TRASH A PARTICULAR MOSQUE? So what the "sunnis and the shiites" do or "boko haram, the yoruba islamics of ja'mal or the syrians" do all look like ISLAMIC UNITY 2 U?

She is a muslim?
Then her ignorance is unacceptable

bukatyne:
@Bold, that is the context I am referring to.

So, if you pray, are spiritually sensitive and have inner peace, the spouse you choose is God's perfect will?

bukatyne:
Through prayers, spiritual sensitivity etc. amongst others.

Characteristics? Inner peace etc.

It is the will of God as revealed in His Word that brings inner peace. Not some specific will for a specific individual.
I am actually narrowing it to the context we are discussing (choosing a partner)

bukatyne:
They do.

Infact they usually do not intermarry and the Islamic boards is filled with their fights.

Hausa Muslims also think they are 'better'/ 'purer' than Yoruba Muslims who are more accommodating.

I saw her comment and laughed.
I am non-denominational and see her point but saying muslims are different is ignorant.

bukatyne:
I believe there is one perfect will of God for you and several permissive wills while others just jam themselves and try to work it out.

For example, God's perfect will was for Balaam not to respond to Balaak's call to curse Israel, when he insisted on going, God told him to bless the Israelites.

Also note that even if God gives you your perfect will, you both still have to make it work.

So, how do you know which is the perfect will of God?
What are the characteristics of His Perfect will?

bukatyne:
@Bold:

Long story

If you had wooed and God said no, won't you have taken who He gave you?



The important thing is to find the bone of your bon and the flesh of your flesh.

And yes, I believe in soul mates/ the one person God destined/prepared for you.

God does not give people wives/husbands as a standard practice.
There is no one person for any one.
If you believe so, what happens to the destined spouse of all the persons who died in accidents before marrying?
Are their destined spouses destined to a life of marital unhappiness?

This girl and her attention seeking disorder.

aspirebig:
Pasting your pictures with Obama across the state with bad roads, criminals, no light, no employment, show gross unseriousness by "my people, my people governor".
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In fact, it looks childish to me, pasting Obama pictures of handshake across the state, while Owerri is full of thieves, kidnappers, fraudsters, killers, rapists, bad boys, area boys, even they have one of the worst interstate road in this country, check out Owerri PH expressway, .....it is a death trap. In 2015, we still have such roads in this country , people are suffering and very few oppressors are enjoying.

The 419 that Okorocha practiced in Abidjan is still in his blood.
The man is a scammer of note. This things are spiritual. No wonder he is birthing loads of fraudsters in Owerri.

delishpot:
Ta! go sidon for gutter. You are too rude for my liking.

You are too daft and silly for my liking.

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delishpot:
Stop being stupid boy. Now get out of my face and dont quote me again until you learn to talk to people with some respect.
You do not desreve any explanation based on your rude attitude. Stupid kids of these days lacking or rejecting home training when given one by their godfearing parents.

Since you do not know your elders, I refuse to be surprised at you lack of reasoning.
Next time try and apply your brains before posting unreasonable comments.

delishpot:
I am happy for you o. But lets face it. If they were more prepared you would have fallen.

What crap are you driving at?
That the Op is not smart and that the scammers are smarter?
Or you just want to pretend that you are smart too?
If you really have nothing to add to the discussion, why not just move along?

Venom104:
Nairaland just dey fuel my paranoia daily...

It is expected but disappointing.
Ever since it became a business tool, scams increased.
You never enter the scams wey go dey that romance section.

flyca:
The matter tire me o. Even OP could have gotten this guy arrested. He know it (or at least had a premonition) before going to the so called meeting. And his her shinning teeth (with smilies) telling the story like its child's play. Or does he expect us to start hailing him hero when you could have saved more lives?

Mcheeeeeew

It sounds so easy to type.
How many thieves have you gotten arrested in your lifetime?
As a business man or woman, every time you have a premonition, you go along with police?
You get barracks for your bq? Abi IG na your senior broda?
Let is be real.

iiiyyyk:
NIGERIANS ARE THE WORST SET OF PEOPLE ON EARTH, WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR THE DEVELOPMENT OF NIGERIA, IF U CAN REPORT A LOCAL CRIMINAL TO THE POLICE AND MAKE SURE HE IS ARESSTED. SHAME ON YOU ALL

2 YRS AGO IN PORTHARCOURT, A SMALL GANG WAS USING BADOO AND GIRLS PICTURE AND VOICES TO RUB MEN.
MANY PEOPLE WERE RUBBED, BUT THEY DID NOTHING, UNTIL AN ENGINEER, A YORUBA MAN WITH CHEVERON LOST HIS LIFE THROUGH THE LOCAL GANG.
STORIES START COMMING OUT.
ITS CREAZY HOW YOUNG EDUCATED NIGERIANS REASON.

IT COULD HAPPEN TO ANY BODY.

First of all the caps in your comment is distracting.
Furthermore, while I agree with your points exactly, I think the Op has done the best thing as opening a thread here is more useful that involving our inept police.
Have you thought of the money police will collect from him in the process?
He will be termed an accomplice until proven innocent.
He will have to stay in Owerri till further notice while he helps police with their investigation.
Knowing naija police this case is a dead end after an hour or so.

Chrisbenogor:
I feel like throwing up. Bleep!
I have grown more paranoid in The past three years in this country than my entire life put together.

I understand the feeling.
Evil is prevailing exceedingly in the country.
Scams are becoming more elaborate every day.

PassingShot:
This man used to be highly respected across the ethnic divides before he decided to side with corruption. Now, his name is synonymous with betrayal.

Funny enough those who know him closely say he was always a hustler whose turn had not come.
That his plenty grammar was just a ruse.

Poverty must have dealt with this clown in his youth,until CHANGE showed up.
That must be the only excuse for this childish display of opulence thqt has arrested his sanity in recent months. Are these the sort of change agents we are banking on? This buffoon has nothing to offer apart from snapping pics and loading his pockets.

Taylor86:


Amaechi deceived Dakuku perterside, he sold his only property to Amechi's wife for 12billion naira

where did Amaechi get that kind of money from

we the rivers men will tell u more of Amaechi

he was against Wike because he knew all his shortfalls and lapses

Look at the kind of beer parlour rumour being peddled by an educated person.
You rivers people will feed us more gutter gossip about Amaechi, right?
Try and stick with stories you can substantiate. No be only 12 billion na 12 trillion.

atlwireles:
Tompolo has already made his point.

“Political, opinion and religious leaders and the international community should prevail on Buhari to have regard for constitutionalism in the Niger Delta region and stop the violation of the rights of Niger Deltans. The IYC would also take immediate legal and related actions to address these violations. Whether President Buhari likes it or not, the Niger Delta people would meet to determine their destiny in Nigeria,” they added.

Did they just wake up from a deep slumber?
They did not determine their destiny when they were eating like gluttons from the Commonwealth of their people in the name of endless amnesty and coastal protection contracts.

The hatred these old Afenifere washed out men have for Tinubu is mid boggling.
As bad as Tinubu is, he has rendered them useless in the South West,yet they will not retire into ignominy in peace.
Who is Ayo Adebanjo to advise Tinubu?

Old men with expired ideas!!

thisisbankole:
a custom made Igbo attire popularly known as Etibo

Was this crap written by a Nigerian?

kilmix:
He's the best political analyst on nairaland... take it or leave it... hence my drawing his attention.

Thank you sir.

You are drawing his attention to the crap you spewed?

Adaahjacob:
Op how did u knw d don't use condom?


I hate long notes so I couldn't really read all u posted.

But you could type crap in the name of commenting?

esere826:
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abegoooo, i no think reach there ooooo

I know say you think pass there sef.