₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,329,402 members, 8,440,441 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 July 2026 at 02:36 AM

Toggle theme

Mcdokwe's Posts

Nairaland ForumMcdokwe's ProfileMcdokwe's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 (of 95 pages)

FamilyRe: 15 Innocent, White Lies Women Tell Men That They See Right Through by mcdokwe(m): 11:20am On Mar 12, 2015
What about " my first time was a rape"?
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle BB Fredrick, Ghanaian Pastor Predicts Jonathan Will Win Second Term by mcdokwe(m): 9:33am On Mar 12, 2015
All these predictions self
PoliticsRe: Suspected Boko Haram Member Feigns Madness, Narrowly Escapes Arrest In Yobe by mcdokwe(m): 9:28am On Mar 12, 2015
Na magic?

But where are all those people counting down the six weeks, I don't see them counting the recovered territories, is it that they want a total breakdown of Nigeria so they can have more campaign selling points huh

There is God o
God Bless the FRN
God Bless the Gallant Soldiers (not those collecting tolls in roadblocks o)
God guide whoever wins aso rock.
FamilyRe: A 2 Day Old Baby Abandoned By The Roadside Named After Okoya-Thomas by mcdokwe(m): 10:38pm On Mar 11, 2015
Hmmm
PoliticsRe: Danjuma Visits Jonathan, Avoids Endorsement by mcdokwe(m): 11:55am On Mar 11, 2015
Is it needed?
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by mcdokwe(m): 8:44am On Mar 11, 2015
bigt2:
That's either the effect of shock (experienced from physical forces) or the screen have deteriorating pixels which in some cases spreads over time or remains stagnant. I'm sorry to say this but you'll have to use it that way. However, you can return it if you'r still covered under the warranty or buy a new screen entirely .
screen issues are not covered under warranty
Nairaland GeneralRe: Open Letter To NCC On MTN Spammessages by mcdokwe(m): 6:20am On Mar 11, 2015
Aunty port o, even though MTN keeps sending me messages, it is a lil more bearable than when I was with them
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by mcdokwe(m): 11:59am On Mar 09, 2015
smoothicon:
please tolzeal,zyxx and other gurus help a brother updated to windows 8.1 on my hp 620 and cant find "sleep" and "hibernate" wat can i do abt it its really frustrating
windows 8 systems don't particularly have hibernate options unless you do some tweaks. However updating or installing a graphics driver would solve the sleep option problem
PhonesRe: Need A Tablet!!! by mcdokwe(m): 7:29pm On Mar 08, 2015
Gabbyswit:
Hello everyone, i am looking for a good tablet with nice camera quality, i really would have loved the infinix joypad8s but cannot find it any where online to buy. Will love your suggestions for a good tablet within 20-25k price range. Readily available for purchase online or in abuja. Thanks.
asus fonepad 7 @30k
PhonesRe: Need A Tablet!!! by mcdokwe(m): 7:27pm On Mar 08, 2015
Gabbyswit:
Thanks but will prefer a brand new one. Please where can i get it.

What is your review about the tablet.. Performance and all..
Acer iconia B1-711 1.2ghz quad core processor, 7.0 inch wsvga tft lcd multi-touch screen 16GB flash memory, 1gb, 10hrs battery, wifi 802.11bgn, Bluetooth 4.0, 3MP camera 3g, 4.1 android jelly bean. Gets to u @33k
FamilyRe: When Stealing At Home Goes Wrong(pic) by mcdokwe(m): 6:30pm On Mar 08, 2015
Loyalblak007:
grin NOW THATS F**KED UP..
I WOULD'NT SCOLD HIM...INSTEAD WE'LL CLEAN IT UP TOGETHER...







DAD WILL DO THE SCOLDING grin grin
now that's a bad idea, dude would grow up thinking mum isn't capable of anything if dad does the scolding always. Might also create resentment for dad and you won't enjoy that either. So to you and all mamas and would be mamas, do what gets to be done and stop pushing all disciplinary role to papas.

Thank you
FamilyRe: Parents, How Will You Handle This Without Embarrasing Yourself ? by mcdokwe(m): 11:19am On Mar 08, 2015
huh
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by mcdokwe(m): 6:04pm On Mar 07, 2015
tsdarkside:
tixatihuh?

never heard of that before..

is it windows or linux based.... huh huh huh
rocking it on my windows
FoodRe: Restaurant named Don't Mind Your Wife & Her Bad Cooking. Lol (pics) by mcdokwe(m): 6:45pm On Mar 06, 2015
Next
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike Shares Sexy 'kitchen ' Pic by mcdokwe(m): 2:45pm On Mar 06, 2015
mtch
CareerRe: Help! My Brother Have Not Being Paid Since September 2014. by mcdokwe(m): 2:41pm On Mar 06, 2015
lipsrsealed
Forum GamesRe: Tag And Ask by mcdokwe(m): 2:33pm On Mar 06, 2015
HFOG:
sent...
replied
CrimeRe: Car Hypnotists Caught In PH (photos) by mcdokwe(m): 2:25pm On Mar 06, 2015
Good for them
CrimeRe: Photo: Actor/comedian Funky Mallam Survives Food Poisoning. by mcdokwe(m): 8:32am On Mar 05, 2015
Hawlahscho:
Yes! he poisoned himself abihuh undecided
smh, lol
favoured234:
Food poisoning actually means eating contaminated food. It doesn't really mean food that rat poison was added to.
Maybe the food was not stored properly for a while. Lets say he bought salad from KFC and left it for too long on set, microorganisms can grow on it and when consumed can cause the illness. In such case who poisoned him? huh
thank you sister, helep me educationing him, lol
Hawlahscho:
Yes! he poisoned himself abihuh undecided
CrimeRe: Photo: Actor/comedian Funky Mallam Survives Food Poisoning. by mcdokwe(m): 7:44am On Mar 05, 2015
Apex32:
Poor man, na God save you o! God punish d evil doer. Get well soon
does not necessarily mean someone tried to poison him
CrimeRe: Photo: Actor/comedian Funky Mallam Survives Food Poisoning. by mcdokwe(m): 7:42am On Mar 05, 2015
Jah bless
PoliticsRe: Patience Jonathan Is A Crude Woman, Says APC by mcdokwe(m):
you mean like crude oilhuh
ComputersRe: My Pc Needs Help...what Should I Do by mcdokwe(m): 10:33pm On Mar 04, 2015
promisedeco:
after using my computer three days ago i shut it down, but the next day i boot it only to find out that it is terribly hanging. whenever it reaches to WELCOME it takes a decade to finish booting. Even if it mistakenly boot it does not show all my files. Like scanty desktop. whats the cause and what should i do?




THANKS
does it complain about anything like creating a temporary file?
ComputersRe: Advice Needed: Best Value For Money Laptop by mcdokwe(m): 10:22pm On Mar 04, 2015
Gotten one yet @ Nwanioma?
Forum GamesRe: Tag And Ask by mcdokwe(m): 10:13pm On Mar 04, 2015
HFOG:
Hi sir. Couldn't find how to do the PM. cry
mail me @ famousebere2002@gmail.com
FamilyRe: Sacrifice All For Sake Of My Hubby by mcdokwe(m): 12:58pm On Mar 04, 2015
Misssessay:
It's a head over heart issue - while I love and trust him dearly. I think all of us women have AT LEAST one friend who has screwed up their lives at the expense of a man...... angry
that is what happens when you get into it with the kind of mindset flying around here, (expecting the worse and planing an exit route even before getting in) my people would say "Onye na anyi elu si ka eshewere ya mmiri oku na oga ada elu" which translates as whoever goes tree climbing and ask that water should be boiled for him cause he is going to have a fall.

Hope for the best and work for it. It is a marriage you are into already, not one you are planning so give it your best.

Grace
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by mcdokwe(m): 12:44pm On Mar 04, 2015
mazizitonene:
how fast is it ?
fast enough, a trial will convince you. Incase u don't know, torrent files are not like your regular files so patience is needed
Jokes EtcRe: Is This A Long- Distant Relationship? ( Photo) by mcdokwe(m): 8:07am On Mar 04, 2015
Lmao
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by mcdokwe(m): 8:05am On Mar 04, 2015
tsdarkside:
best is still utorrent.....google it..its free...need no settings...
I think I prefer tixati
FamilyRe: Sacrifice All For Sake Of My Hubby by mcdokwe(m): 1:36pm On Mar 03, 2015
Misssessay:
Hi guys, I really need ur frank advice.

Me and my husband have been married for 3 years on and off long distance. We are both career wise doing very well for ourselves although he's more advanced than I.

Needless to say the spark has fizzled. I love him deeply
Most important, where is the love if you can't give up the whole world to be with you love?

Plz I need ur advice - given the unemployment situation in Nigeria, is it reasonable to expect me to give up everything - in search for a career/ life in Lagos? ( am not Nigerian)

Hard to say, but the unemployment situation globally is also something to talk about especially for strangers, but foreigners get advantage over Nigerians even in Nigeria

Ladies who have done this -[s] what is it like giving up ur independence - monthly paycheck - income? [/s] singlehood

Forget about how it worked for them, how do you want it to work for you?

Can't help but think [s]it would be easier for him to join me in the UK[/s]I am selfish - really frustrated - but can't stand the separation sad sad

Frank opinions plssssss
FamilyRe: Sacrifice All For Sake Of My Hubby by mcdokwe(m): 1:10pm On Mar 03, 2015
babyosisi:
Marriage is a choice
That choice comes with sacrifice,sometimes a lot of sacrifice
you cannot be married and live apart
A 3 year marriage and you are in two different continents?
It won't work
Separation cannot be called marriage,maybe there's another name for it?? Separation marriage?,sorry I may not be current
About giving up your income and financial leverage,I ask again,do you want to be married?
If the answer is yes move to Lagos and live with your husband,if the answer is maybe,I don't know,I'm not sure then stay in the UK
But a word of caution,he probably has a woman there anyway
That's the reason he is comfortable with the choice so far and hasn't pressured you to move
Are you even sure he wants you to move
You may disrupt some things,you know
There could be a whole family with kids that may not be comfortable with your return
Do your homework
op you are better off not taking the advice of women like this. Believe me or yes, she cuts across like someone who brags about having a perfect union and would need the constant misfortune of others to remind her how perfect hers is.

How on earth does she dare insinuate your hubby is married to other women even when nothing in your post suggest same thereby generating destructive ideas in you?
From my little time here on earth, I have come to acknowledge and appreciate the fact that our fates are dynamic whether in marriage or other secular or conventional endeavours. That something turned out perfect for you doesn't necessarily mean it would for me if I applied your tactics to the later therefore calling for the need for us to be discretional.

You got it all wrong in the thinking that you are doing it for your hubby- the better choice should have been marriage, yes you are doing it for your marriage and not hubby. You need to tell yourself whether beinG happily married is more important than proving you can do without him.

I have heard some ask why he didn't consider moving to the UK himself. But now let's look at the bigger picture here- as an African, a man is wholly responsible for the upkeep of the family, the ladies role is mostly seen as supportive and as such when it isn't there, it is inconsequential. Believe it or not, if the man moves to the UK, he and his family who are likely to be dependent on him would have to strain you awhile for succour whilst he tries to get employment or not and the same women here would berate his lazy ass for living off a woman thereby giving you the impression you are doing something that never should be done in marriage.

Then you said his income is higher

it's a pity such things weren't sorted out before the marriage, but believe be you should move down here and if your prefer life in the UK, be around him to convince to move with you later in life, you got that power, don't lose it for anything but if you make this about personal interest now, then forget the possibility of ever getting him to move no matter how bad things get now or ever.

Beautiful unions are built by people in it, build yours now and reap from it in the future.

God bless you with the wisdom to make the right choice

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 (of 95 pages)