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SmartPolician:
I mean you will give them the dollars in cash.

And they will transfer the Naira equivalent to your naira account.

I have never tried local FBN-to-FBN transfer on my dorm account.

Oh noted. Thank you.

Will follow what u said cuz all those Aboki get jars and magic a lot. Receiving cash from them is a bad idea. Every transaction will be done right there inside the bank to avoid stories that touch.

SmartPolician:
I don't know how other banks do it, but First Bank pays cash. Afterward, you meet them

When you meet them, you decide whether you need cash or transfer.

To be on the safe side, please avoid cash.

If you live in Lagos, you will be hearing stories that the money will be complete when you count it. But when you get home, it will no longer be complete

Exactly. Transfer is better. But u know transfer will only be possible if the aboki is using First Bank dorm account cuz the First bank staff that opened my account said one can't do transfer to other banks dorm accounts. It must be First Bank to First Bank dorm account.

Is this true?

SmartPolician:
They are in every state capital and city

OK, nice but do you transfer from a dollar domiciliary account to the Aboki or u withdraw the dollar cash from your bank before selling to aboki?

johnHadey:
Go for masters on a course on the skilled occupation list, not any course.

You may get admission without english test, but english test solidifies your application for admission and visa.

You can't escape english test on this journey. You need english test result for your post study visa application and permanent migration. They accept upto 3 years for post study visa english test, so you can still use the same one you got admission with then.

School fees varies with course not generally

Budget about #4M initial fees for a management course.

Please, is PTE accepted for English test for the school route or just IELTS?

SmartPolician:
I sold mine for N460 on Tuesday though

That aboki don cheat me

How does one find Aboki to sell to?

well2do76:
doable but it means I've to wait for months not my kind of thing.
thanks for your advice i appreciate.

You're welcome.

well2do76:
thanks a bunch for your time, however i'm unable to purchase that book on i.legend made on amazon they say i can't buy it because i'm not in the us any idea about how to get it?

They don't ship to Nigeria. But u can contact someone in the US to help you buy it and ship it to u through DHL or any other logistic shipping company.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

For me, no. I will never take back a cheating wife. If caught, it is completely over. No family meeting will be able to change my mind.


I can't take a cheating hoe back. A wife for that matter.

well2do76:
you're far too kind bro thanks i've uploaded the paperback version however there's something i discovered during the formatting after i've this issue.
here's it
when choosing the default size i used 5.39 by 7.91 and zero for the inside outside button and top margin respectively.
however, here's what i discovered when you change the page orientation from potrait to landscape the page count increases by almost 20 however the document did not scatter and everything look good.
have you had similar experience?

The increase was as a result of the trip size you used. That's normal. Smaller trim size helps increase your book pages while bigger trim size decrease it.

Choosing the right trim size depends on your word counts. So, if you know your word count is not that much maybe 10k to 15k words, it is usually good sticking to the 5 x 8" trim size and 5.5 x 8.5" or 6 x 9" for word counts of 16k and above.

So, the increased in the number of your pages wasn't unusual. It is because you formatted the book with a small trim size. Definietly your pages will increase.

well2do76:
thanks bro please i've a very confusing problem right now.

what am i doing wrong i format my book very well and upload in mobi format...i convert the docx file to mobi using calibre and all i get is 56 page for a 20k book why the paperback is 126 pages 6 by 9 trim size
plese what am i doing wrong

is there a way of formating book so as to get the right pages...is there a method to this amazon madness? lol
cc helioshay
mzclize
lolo24
mk82
ilengend

any resource to check out, any book to buy, any little aahha will be appreciated, i know you guys are very busy but a rising tide lift all boat so they say?

It seems you didn't format it to any of the usual paper sizes of 5 x 8, 5.5 x 8.5 and 6 x 9 before you went on to convert it.

I am guessing you just converted it straight with the default page size of A4 word document you typed your content with. You need to format the kindle version too to any of the above listed trim sizes.

Don't convert it to mobi cuz some devices won't be able to read your book and you will miss out of those potential customers whose devices can't read mobi format. Doc format is better cuz every device can read doc format.

Simply upload the doc format of the 5 x 8, 5.5 x8.5 or 6 x 9" trim size for your kindle ( any one of your choice). And more so, change your font to Georgia, size 12 and 1.5 spacing. That should give you 90 to 100 pages for the kindle version.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Very timely advices. Should go both ways, though.

Crackkhaus abi na Crackhaus, why are you so bitter?

See your rants all over the thread. Are you perhaps paranoid about something? Oh. Certainly that guy just let out some truths which most of you these new generations guys are up to daily. Right or right?

There's nothing to ask our mothers, biko. He spilled up everything in a rap. And they are truths. However you chose to accept it is your business.

Stop supporting wrong advice. For those that wants to Bleep around, that advice will perfectly work for them but for the wise ladies that want a man to settle down with should try that at their own peril.

No man in a serious relationship with a lady will stoop so low to allow his partner to be seeing other men. You are simply saying, if you are a guy, you will wife a hoe who Bleep around with other men and will still remain in a serious relationship with such a bleeping hoe and even go ahead to wife her.

No man ,I repeat no high valued man will take that nonsense from any hoe.

And that lady that post those screenshots is still a kid because if not she supposed know those screenshots can never work for those in serious relationships. She go old be that cuz men will keep on dumping her after finding out she doesn't keep her pussy in one spot.

Who wants to wife a hoe? No body.

Ladycewhy:
funny enough its a guy who looks ten times better than you and has it all that is dishing out the advice .


Don't pick and choose what to do away with or keep ,if you want to remain in the 18th century go sit in the grave with your ancestors. Advice from our mothers are outdated for dealing with boys of this generation.

That advice won't work for girls that want to get serious with a man with the hope of marrying him.

Any girl who wants to settle down and still double dating is a big mess. She will get bleeped up and dumped if the guy finds out.

If a girl I want to settle down with tells me I am not the only guy in her life, that means she is a fucking chronic hoe. Only hoes double date when in a serious relationship.

Don't take advice from everyone you see. Sometimes use your brain.

Let's assume you want a particular man to marry you and you are in a serious relationship with such a man and end up telling him that you are seeing other men aside him. Do you know what he will do? He will keep bleeping you and keep you as a side chick and later will dump you and marry a more faithful lady.

So, those screenshots you posted above for number 2 will never work for those in a serious relationships. That can only work if a girl just want to Bleep around. And do you know how guys treat ladies like that? They make them fvck toys. They are not fit to be wives.

A girl can't tell me she is seeing other men and I will still go ahead and wife her. If she does that, she is nothing but a fvcking bleeping hoe.

realonecrilar:
Sincerely , I love this girl I intentionally sent her this message for her to value me and correct herself if she call back or inform my friend about the issue,then we continue with our relationship.
I'm a man begging her back is not an idea, this is SHIT TEST,she knows the right people to meet and if she really want me back she will definitely call back.
Don't see me as a bad person,i want her back too.
Relationship is about understanding and not taken as a slave.

You need to train your mind to be emotionally hardened so much that do not let anything a lady does get to you.

Free that girl. If you contact her, you are devalueing yourself. She has already made up her mind. Anything that makes you reach out to her, she now has more power than you. She will continue to treat you like a puppy cuz you are not emotionally strong enough to dump her.

Forget about how much you love her. It's just your emotions playing some magics on you.

She has already taken your manly power away from you. She will never respect you if you go back and try to work out things with her. She should be the one to get walked up and worried not you.

Can't you see she feels so relaxed? That's how ladies act when they want to turn you to a simp.

You better wise up. Never will I be emotionally traumatized cuz of someone who brings nothing to a relationship order that pussy. Most ladies are liabilities. That is the more reason you don't need to get walked over any that wish to misbehave because after all, you are the one spending in the relationship so why should you start to worry yourself over a liability? What has she brought into your life than the pussy she gave you? Nothing! Absolutely nothing!

A word is enough for the wise.

ubunja:
as long as you don't do virgins you're trapped in the Madonna/Hoe syndrome. All women are hoes, virgin or not. It's up to you to bring that hoe out. If you dealt with virgins you'll know virgins are the biggest beasts when they start having sex. They go harder than veteran sluts.

You're trying to sound better which is hilarious because no man of value will deliberately avoid virgins in favour of hoes who eat dick for breakfast, lunch and supper.

I can't see a virgin and purposely deflower her when I am not ready to settle down that's what I meant. If a girl you deflower and later dump, naked and swear for you, the swear will come to pass. That's how terrible it is . That's why I have never deflowered any girl. Let those that know how to pop cherries do the work.

Deflowering a girl is more spiritual than we imagined.

I prefer the non virgins so that if anything happens by the way, I will not be responsible for anything cuz I met her non virgin. She can't swear for me cuz I wasn't the one that deflowered her. That's why I stay away from virgins when I know I am not ready to settle down.

That doesn't mean if I am ready to settle down and I meet one, I won't wife her. I simply don't find it fun deflowering girls.

Let other guys do the deflowering for those they can deflower for others to marry.

I can only deflower a girl I will marry if she is a virgin. But as long as I am not yet ready to settle down, I can't go on and tear someone's child hymen when I know I won't marry her.

I can only do that if I marry one as a wife.

Teachermallam:
I don't also subscribe to that generalization that all non virgin women are whores. I know that women are vulnerable in our society today but it takes discipline to stand out. Most ladies become victims because they go for irrelevant things in a partner. Guys also who do not know their Worth think that they are LEGENDS for bedding many women, unknown to them that when the right time comes, they will surely reap the fruits of their labour; Good or bad.
when we were younger, I had friends who where pros when it comes to women affairs and they see us as the j-men because we were not the happening guys, but today they are living in regrets. whatever you do, good or bad, when the right time comes you will surely get your reward. And we the good people of nairaland will be available to dish out some advice when everything becomes clear.

Exactly. This is everything I have been trying to point out but hell no, the guy nick caveman refused to see things from another man's perspective.

Who sow okro and reap Yam? Everything a man sow he shall reap doesn't apply to some persons, some overly gullible ones think.

They don't believe that fucking multiple girls and using that to condemn a whole group of the female gender is myopic.

Majority of men did not meet their wives virgins. That does not mean because they didn't meet their wives virgins so they are all condemned wives. Many are still enjoying their marriages.

Men should learn when to filter some stuffs that some men composed regarding the female folks.

Not everything I read regarding the opposite sex I will absolve into my mindset.

That's why I told that guy that, I know much about the redpill but I know when to draw the line. I don't use my knowledge to take advantage of ladies and there after start condemning all of them simply because I read in a book that all women are whores.

That's the most gullible thing any man will do. Such mindset can destroy a marriage because even those clamouring for virhins wives will end up not being able to make their marriage work all because they accept everything they read about the female folks.

Many marriages will crash if men take into practice everything about the redpill. We need to know what to accept and those not to accept if not many will be heading to a divorce in their future marriages.

Teachermallam:
Humans are free moral agents with the power to make their choice. This issue of sex is a thing of choice, apart from rape. Girls that have sex do so because they choose to have sex not because they were being deceived.
The man wants sex so he plays any game, either clean or dirty that will give him victory. let us not blame the man for his decision because one off the golden laws of life is that you must surely reap what you sow.
Satan in the garden of Eden deceived Eve and then Eve convinced Adam to eat the forbidden fruit which God ask them not to eat. God punished them for disobedience and not for being deceived, it was Satan that got the punishment for deception. Every decision we make have consequences and so we should be ready to take responsibility.

My advice to young women is to unlearned what they have been brainwashed with about dating over the years. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEY SHOULD WATCH OUT FOR IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER IS INTENTION AND MOTIVE. And this is serious work.
Many men will do any thing to bed a woman but do not want to have a future with them.

This is exactly what I implied. Ladies can easily be cajoled and most guys use that to their advantages. It takes the grace of God for ladies to resist all the attentions they get from male folks.

Just by having a female pic on your dp, you will see the inflow of males that will message you. Why? Just to get in between a girl's leg and term her wwhore.

If a judgement is to be served between a guy that convinced a girl to get her to bed and the said girl, I believe the judgement will be served to both of them. The one that lured the other to bed and the said lady that wasn't able to resist such deception.

That's why we can't term all non virgins as bad and condemned humans. They are still humans. The one that bleeped them and opened their eyes to sex is not to be praised.

If we should go by God standards, God didn't make the law of abstenance only for women. God didn't say men should Bleep around and deflower lots of virgins then term them whores. He set the standards for every one so it's quite judgemental to term and generalize all females that men opened their eyes to sex are whores.

I don't support that generalization. Some of those ladies get bleeped when they were at their vulnerable States not because they all want to explore sex with men.

Not all non virgins are whores. 80% of men in the world married their wives as non virgins and they are doing well. Their wives are faithful even.though they married them as non virgins. Married men here can testify to this.

And it is bad for guys to generalize and term all ladies who are non virgins whores.

CaveAdullam:
O nature, why did you give women hymen and made men go away freely with debauchery?

O women, why did you keep coming back to the jerk who used you but don't want you and termed you a wh0®e?

O men, why did you seek virgin women for marriage and leave your youthful widows for the simps?

King Ahaxereus in the book of Esther comes to mind. Virgins were lined for him to choose from after using Queen Vashti.......looooooool. I love that tradition and if a man starts thinking and acting like a king, same fate will before him.

Karma where were you when king Ahaxereus dethroned Queen Vashti and opt for beautiful young and virgin Esther?

Hahahahahahaha

Let simps keep on wailing.

Cry me a river baby.........looooooool

You are merely being in fantasy. You are relating a mere movie to reality. So after fucking around and taking the virginity of so many girls away don't be surpsied when someone start fucking your virgin wife later in life. Karma knows no one but it has the address of everyone.

Keep on deflowering girls and terming them whores. You will be surprised that your intended virgin wife is being lashed by an up coming play boy whose game is tighter than yours.

Don't be surprised when your so intended virgin wife start giving you attitude. When that happens, flash back to what we discussed today.

You cannot eat your cake and have it bro. Be ready for the unknown whether you marry a virgin or non virgin. Don't be surprised when you start experiencing those stuffs with your so called future virgin wife.

I am not a simp. My game is tighter than yours. I can meet a girl today and make her sleep with me but I don't do virgins. I don't deflower girls and term them whores.

That's the difference between us. I can meet your girlfriend and make her forget about you but I will never do such all in the name of wanting to Bleep around and terming all non virgins whores. I don't abuse my redpill knowledge and I don't use it against girls. I apply wisdom in everything I do.

Korllami007:
According to your logic, a guy that has not deflowered a girl deserves a virgin because he's not reducing their number.

When you meet a virgin girl, don't deflower her. Simply leave her alone and encourage her to keep it. By deflowering an innocent girl and taking her virginity away, you simply took advantage of her and opened her eyes to the sex world.

Guys should stop opening innocent girls eyes to sex. That's my point. They are innocent and if you go on to lie to them, manipulate them and deflower them, do not go on and start terming such as whores because you manipulated them into having sex with you thereby opening their eyes to sex.

Teachermallam:
what is bad is bad. immorality is no good. What do you mean by good body count? What is your definition of good character? These are the kind of statements that make women to become loose, because they know that one nice guy will wife them. If women know that most men will not lower their standards when they want to pick a life partner. they will learn to be discipline and keep themselves no matter the pressure from random males that chase them.

Immorality is bad no doubt. But the question I am asking is who made these ladies whores? Are they fuckkng themselves? Who first opened their eyes to sex? It is still guys right?

What I am trying to point out is that don't be judgmental by teeming all non virgins whores because those girls you guys teem whores didn't Bleep themselves. It is still guys that opened their eyes to sex and it is bad to term all non virgins whores that they are only good for Bleep.

In as much as a guy deflowered an innocent lady, such a guy is responsible for opening such a lady to sex life. And you can't simply term such ladies as whores simply because they fell for guy's lies of convincing them into having sex with them.

You can term girls that do runs whores but not the ones guys take advantage of by convincing them into having sex with them thereby opening their eyes to sex.

CaveAdullam:
Cry me a river baby. Why do you so care about simps?

Have you seen kings crying over lack of virgin women to marry? How many wives do kings have? I said earlier that repentant whores are for simping men not for kings. Are you a simp or a king?

If virgin women do not guarantee a blissful marriage then no need for repentant whores. A woman will never marry a broke and faithful man! So therefore, a man should not marry a repentant LovePeddler. Virgins only!

This is nature and it is survival of the fittest. Let karma speak for itself, or are you karma's spoke person?

I asked you one simple question but you avoided it. Who are the whores? Is it the ones you deflowered? I asked you if you have ever deflowered a lady. You meet an innocent lady who is a virgin and cajoled her and deflowered her and thereafter term her wwhore. Who made her wwhore?

You need to be realistic. All the girls you have deflowered were they whores when you met them? If you succeeded deflowering them and term them whores, you and I will agree that you made such girls whores because you took their virginities away instead of encouraging them to keep their virginities and later term them whores. You opened their eyes to sex. You are to be blamed not them. They knew nothing about sex when you deflowered them. So, you can't outrightly condemn them and begin to classify them as whores.

That was why I asked you, if you have ever deflowered a girl. In as much as you took away a girl virginity by convincing her to have sex with you, you have no right to term them whores and not fit for marriage because you yourself disvirgined some.

You are simply being hypocritical. I am not a simp. I know about the redpill and everything about being an alpha male. But you cannot term all the girls you deflowered as whores simply for giving in to you to have sex with them cuz in essence, if you imply all non virgins are whores, then I can tell you that you made them whores.

LagBae:
I'm not referring to only those that 'pop cherries'. I'm referring also to those who keep sleeping with different girls. When they are done, they'll now start looking for a girl that has no or low body count.

There are those that sleep around and there are others that just do normally dating stuffs. If a guy date a couples of girls but non worked out, you can't term such a guy as the sleep around type.

It is a personal decision any way. If anyone chose to sleep about, no one has any right to question such person though. Some that sleep around was as a result of what girls had done to them when they were still being nice. Heart break make many guys heart harden.

But those that get involved in some series of relationships that do not work out at some point or the other can't be included in this group.

It just didn't work out so they moved on to the next available girl. Not that some find it pleasing sampling different girls.

LagBae:
And after playing around, you want to select a 'deserving woman'. First ask yourself if you are a deserving man.

For your info, I have never deflowered any girl before. I don't deflower girls if I find out they are vrigins. I simply encourage them. I don't do virgins. All the girls I have met are non virgins. And if I meet any virgin one, I don't escalate things sexually. That's just me.

You should be asking those that disvirgin girls and expect to marry virgins this question.

LagBae:
And after playing around, you want to select a 'deserving woman'. First ask yourself if you are a deserving man.

I hope you read my write up very well. I don't encourage guys to keep on deflowering the little virgins available so that those that said it is virgin they must marry can see some to settle down with.

But this does not apply to those that have popped uncountable cherries. Any guy that keep on popping cherries and expecting to marry a virgin is just being hypocritical.

LagBae:
And who disvirgined these non virgin girls? And how many guys themselves marry as virgins?

That was the same question I was asking those that are clamoruing for virgins as wives.

While it is not a bad idea to aim to marry a virgin, those guys that keep on deflowering girls up and down has no right to be seeking virgin for wives.

For instance, if I meet a girl and she is a virgin, I simply stop escalating stuffs with her cuz I don't want to disvirgin a girl down for others to marry.

If any guy is fond of popping young girls cherry and expect to marry a virgin later on, karma won't allow that.

Even if such a guy marry any virgin girl, he will still have other excesses to battle with her.

Those that supposed to clamour for this are those that have not for once disvirgin any girl.

Like me, once I notice a girl is a virgin, I usually encourage her to keep it cuz if I escalate things with her and end up deflowering her and leave her for another man to marry while aiming to settle down with a virgin in the future, karma won't allow that.

I have one on my WhatsApp list. We have discssued everything discussable. But immediately she told me she was a virgin, I encouraged her to stay off boys and keep it if she can. Since then I have never discussed anything related to sex with her cuz I don't want to implant anything like that in her mind.

Whatever anyone sow he or she shall reap.

That is why I urge guys to stop deflowering girls so that their prayer to marry a virgin will be answered.

You cannot disvirgin some for others to marry and then look forward to settle down with a virgin inthe future. Who will now marry the ones they have disvirgined ? Is it me?

So I ask and no one has been able to answer that.

CaveAdullam:
Take this balderdash outta your head.

Go for virgins with good character. A high value man will mould a woman into what he wants. Your wife is yours, command as a leader and see how follow submissively.

YOU WILL NEVER GIVE A NON VIRGIN HER BEST SEX IN MARRIAGE! Woe betide you if you weren't an ex player. It is finish for you bro.

Be wise!

I want to ask you one question and don't lie about it: Have you ever deflowered any girl before? Yes or No?

stanliwise:
I understand your own side of what you are saying.
What I am saying now is that the generally idea that there are few virgins is only based on conspiracy. Me, you nor redpiller actually have a reasonable figure.

It is just a generally held believe. Trust me.
We actually just made the conclusion, it is not like we know.

Nice having this discussion with you. I truly enjoyed it. I understand your point and I respect it.

We pray God should grant us our heart desire cuz after all said and done, we all hope for the best.

Best regards.

stanliwise:
I don't think you are trying to advice me how to spot game ladies.
All I am saying is this conspiracy theories is in everywhere. I have a friend who believes everyone is a criminal and everyone is a theif. They just need the righ conditions.
I have a girl who is a lesbian and she hold a strong sense of believe of how few good men are the world.
Till date I don't know how to convince any.
What I know is that none of them have a factual evidence of what the say. They only have some every day life story and theory to back up their belief.
Same here is playing out for the red pills. Since they believe the world is too lustful, they don't think any mature lady is worth it.
The feminist too have similar ideologies and loads of books to prove why men shouldn't worth it, I know of some who believes that men are made for only procreation and after that they remain worthless.

We are on the same page. My disapproval on one of your previous post is the impression of I must marry a virgin type of ideology. Virgins are the best. That's myopic ideology.

For the fact that some girls get exposed to sex early in their lives do not mean that they are not fit to be wives.

You will agree with me that if we carry on with that mindset, many of us will remain single because the little virgins available won't go round all of us.

As far as a lady has moderate body count, if she has a good character , she will make a perfect wive just like the virgin counter part. Some virgins even end up cheating in marriage because they feel they didn't explore when they were young. Yes, we see things like that and stuffs like these do occur from time to time.

I will go for good character than having a virgin wife with no good attitude. And that is what should matter to every man.

CaveAdullam:
Have you seen game of thrones season 6? Did you see how Jon Snow entered into battle with Ramsay Bolton even though his armies were few compared to Bolton's? It is better to go into a fight(marriage) you know you will lose with the right men and tools(virgin) than with poor quality men and tools(non virgins). But atlas, thank God for Lord Baelish who came to the rescue of Jon Snow and the North. You can check the statistics I posted in my first quote.

Marriage law is not in the favour of men, as women know what they will gain from divorce. Only kids are what gives a man joy in marriage because he looses from all ends just to make sure his family is strong and better.

Marriage is blissful, there are good women and ladies crawling, walking, running and flying around, all you need is a knack, especially with redpill awareness to identify these women.

There are virgins bro. I have seen a virgin woman of more than 40 years of age who got married few years back.........don't ask me how I knew, but it's true. In these days, 18-22 years of age, 23 at most if well sampled contain a good amount of virgins compared to above 23 years of age.

Go for the best. Virgins are the best. Seek and you shall find. Don't settle for repentant hoes whether in Church, school, mosque, market place etc.

Good day.

If guys can stop deflowering virgins, we will have more virgins to go round all of us. But u know guys will continue to sample, use and dump.

My concern now is who are they dumping them for? If all of us say it's virgin we must marry, there will be less to go round because guys will continue to sample and move on and expect to marry a virgin in later life.

I am not implying one should settle for less but you and I know it is we guys that still deflowered some of these girls even though I have never done one before.

This is to say, those girls that have dated 1 to 2 guys in the past are not fit to be wives if we go by your insinuation.

stanliwise:
Feminist have this same ideology that good men are like 15-20℅ in the world.... I am sure neither your nor them have such formal evidence to back it up.
Many people have sex on daily basis but shockingly many don't. Even some of my close friends think I have sex with about 80% of my ladies Friends which is about 20% the truth. The most decent of my friends are many times mistaken for the bad ones and the ones with the highest sex drive. I just feel people enjoys the thought rather than reality.

The world is corrupt bro. Most girls lie about their virginity. That's why most guys who thought were dating a lady and waiting till the wedding night before making out discovered later on they have been played.

Don't easily jump into believing a girl when she tells you she is a virgin until you confirm it. Many guys had been made a fool of with the I am still a virgin. Virginity is not written on the face until you confirm it yourself on a girl before you can actually believe it.

Many girls use that to deceive gullible guys perhaps whom they chose to make a perfect husband while still have a standby bad boy shagging her on a constant basis.

We see these type of things every day.

In essence, merely telling a person I am a birhin is not enough to make one believe me. And not so many guys fall for that these days.

We have seen a situation where a man marry a lady he claimed was a virgin but on the wedding night discovered that place has turned to a well.

stanliwise:
It is not hard to find virgins.... You also are falling for the ideologies this so called redpill are spreading.... We have more bad girls I think.
Many good and principled ones abound. Learn the spirit of discernment(social intelligence) and the free from fear of been used(redpill) and aslo avoid been a dummy(SIMPS).

There are virgins no doubt but they are not up to 20%.

In today's world, you will see small girls of 15 and 16 years who have boyfriends of the same age bracket and have sex with their boyfriends.

Except few who have disciplined parents. Even at that, they feel caged and when they get to school they have that feeling of wanting to try out things and explore.

This can be confirmed by those who are still in school if there is no atom of truth in this post. Just find time to go to any higher institution and see what's going on there. And who are deflowering these girls. It is still guys. That's why I said, looking for a virgin is not a sure ticket that such a person will be a good wife.

It is all about what you and the lady involved make out of it. Virginity doesn't guarantee fruitful marriage. And more girls are being deflowrwd every day. So who are they leaving those for?

Any guy that has ever deflowered a lady should not make it a do or die affair that he must marry a virgin.

Majority of men married their wives non virgins and they are still living well.

CaveAdullam in this era of boyfriend and girlfriend, it is hard to find virgins.

Any girl that pass through higher institution hardly get out a virgin.

In 100 levels, guys have started hunting for freshers. Some that enter as virgins get deflowered even before that semester ends.

That's why when you go to most higher instutions hostels, you will see boys and girls cuddling in open places, hugging and kissing.

angelfallz:
You're very wrong virgins aren't hard to find. They're many. Too many in fact.

Virginity isn't a sure ticket to a successful marriage. But if you end up finding one with good character, then consider yourself lucky. That if if you are a guy.