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Mercisharelove:
Arrivals needed.


1. Do the right

2. Don't claim to do the right and not doing either

Verdict: didn't do.

Question: why worried about the hypocrites?? Let the day trouble the destroyals of the earth


What do you do


Answer for yourself alone and forget about another man worries.


But you love to carry another man's matters.


So we said

You are fully worried.

Here we proposed "fully rested!!!!

If you have clear conscience, the truth won't hurt you.

When the truth is being spoken, those with guilty consciences always try so hard to fight and surprise it with tongue, mouth and weapons. That's why I said being yourself is the best thing you can ever do for yourself.

I will never preach against something and still be hiding to engage in it in secret. I will rather be truthful to myself than hiding behind the umbrella of holiness.

The reward of those that do that is worse than the unbeliever you know?

Mercisharelove:
Free your mind of issues, it's difficult for you to make up your mind. What's your take You stand too much on the fence!!! Fully rested I proposed to you??

I don't stand on any fence. I don't just like it when adults hide behind to do things they preach against.

When you care less about others, you won't have the time to be thinking of who is watching you. Perhaps someone whom you must have preached to get to find you in a compromising situations, I believe you will feel quite embarrassed right?

That's when you will hear the expression: no be this girl wey dey preach for my guy every Sunday be this? Na e this guy dey carry pass so? Chaaii na yanshing them dey go yansh so o.

That's the point I am trying to pass across.

Don't claim to be who you are not cuz someone u know might get to see the double standards staring at him.

And one more thing. Parents these days don't teach their kids sex education. They feels talking to the kids about sex will spoil them.

But I will advise parents to talk to their kids about sex, to educate them in time about the influence.

The reason why teenagers get exposed to sex influence too early is due to the fact that the parents fail to talk to them and educate them about it. Due to that, they chose to explore it themselves.

As future aspiring parent, I will educate my kids about sex once they start attaining their teenage ages. They need to know about the influence and damage it can cause if not properly managed.

Children that are educated about sex by their parents have the potential to grow into meaningful adults.

Dear parents, do give your kids sex education on time immediately they start to grow into their teenage age.

Testate:
All ladies go form virgin on this thread,

No mind them.

Mercisharelove:
You are fully worried!!!

Worried indeed! I am worried over you maybe.

I am good at speaking the truth. I am straight forward. I don't pretend about. I dish out the hot truth and it hurts those who have double standards.

If your conscience is clear, the truth won't hurt you never ever.

I sound the truth. Most of you claiming to hate sex are mere pretenders.

If you be yourself you won't fill your mind with the thought of someone seeing you engaging in what u claim to hate. You will always move with fear cuz you engage in what you preached against.

It is good to stay off sex till marriage but do not portray yourself as a saint in the open and engage in it in the secret. That's the worse form of hypocrisy you will agree with me.

Just be yourself and stay off every form of pretense and you will have no worry of who is watching you.

It is more like being a Pastor in the day time and doing fetish things in the night time. That's double standard.

If you are following a course, follow it with all your heart.

No room for pretenses.

So with my cogent explanation, will you still say I am worried?

ongback:
Understood, but this is not all about people and relationships.

But the post said thing or person you can't do without. That's why I post on the persons aspect and put a disclaimer on the things aspect.

When you can't do without a person, you make yourself a slave to that person.

Those that are readily available are not valued. So learn how to do without others.

Disclaimer: This doesn't apply to what you considered as hobbies.

My post is only related to our day to day dealings with individuals. Also to relationship but not what you find interesting and love doing as per hobby aspect.

Why I won't say the unmarried adults should remain till they are married before having sex, one thing I know for sure is that those that are fond of portraying themselves as holy and claiming to hate sex do worse in the secret when no eye is seeing them except the eyes of God.

If each and every one of our secrets is to be played to us here one by one, you would be shocked that those persons do worse in secret than the open minded folks who are opened about sex.

If you claim to hate sex and still do it in secret when no one is seeing you, you are simply deceiving yourself.

Let's wait till the last day, you would be shocked with what your eyes will see. People you think are holy, don't be surprised to see their worst hidden secrets exposed. Lots of mouths will be opened that day.

Let's learn not to be those that say A and do B in secret. Hypocrisy is the order of the day.


Let's learn to be ourselves. You hate sex but you hide to watch porn. You hate sex but you finger yourself in secret. Come on do you really hate sex? I am not saying it is bad to stay off sex but what I am trying to imply is that if you hate something you must hate it in all ramification and stay off it. You hate sex but you sex chat with the opposite sex.

Do you really hate it? If you stay away from anything sex only then I will commend anyone for that. But if you preach it but still engage in other sex related pleasures in secret, mehn you are worse.

If u are claiming to hate something pls don't hide to do it when no one is seeing you. You will just be deceiving yourself.

iamvictorbassey:
For fairness, you should have compared it against the Redmi Note 9pro.

Anything Tecno is shît. That camera you hype will fade in 2months max.

I want to know if Redmi cameras fade too?

Eriggs:
Funny. Join the 2 phones together times 2 times, My Samsung S20 Ultra still beat dem hands down.

But Samsung's batteries are not always strong.

These phones are getting too big. A phone of 6.3 inches is big enough.

Why 6.9 inches? Na TV?

wizzakosh:
Common, you guys should use Una head, did he point to him as a yahoo guy, he only said all the yahoo guys will die like that which is not a bad prayer considering the pain they have caused their victims and their families.

You don't just see a flashy guy and term him Yahoo.

As if u don't know our Nigeria Police. Every flashy young man is a Yahoo. That mentality is stereotypical.

There are lots of hustling Nigeria guys making legit money online. If u see such walk by u, u will still term them as Yahoo because some of u feel that it is a crime for a young man to have money in Nigeria.

Let me tell u, not every flashy young man out there is a Yahoo. There are a lot of them working their Ass out, making legit money. Money one cannot enjoy with peace of mind in Nigeria because some backward thinking set of persons believe that it is not possible for a young man in Nigeria to own a car, own landed properties and the rest due to that myopic reasoning of terming every successful young men Yahoo.

We need to stop that mindset. You don't just wake up from your bed and term someone Yahoo because he looks flashy.

Our stupid Nigeria police do not know what's trading. There are lots of young guys doing trading making legit money every passing day. If such decide to buy a car just to give yourself a nice treat, it is people like u that will still term them Yahoo because u believe that it is impossible to make such amount of Money legitimately.

There are others investing in cryptocurrency. If their investments grow and over the years and they decide to give themselves nice treats, people who do not know how they make their money legitimately will be the first to spill trash terming every flashy young man yahoo.

We need to stop that stereotypical mindset.

If you have not investigated someone source of income, do not just rush to shout Yahoo Yahoo. One cannot look flashy again in this Nigeria for the stigma of being termed Yahoo for money he made legitimately.

Why must it be a crime to look flashy in Nigeria?

Why must every well to do guy in Nigeria quickly be termed Yahoo?

Do u know how much people make on YouTube legitimately?

Don't be among those that jump into condemning people when u do not know how they make their money.

Investigate first, if they cannot present their sources of income, only then u can term them Yahoo.

Or11:
Every single Yahoo boy will die like this whether they repent or not unless they return every single penny gotten illegally. Nonsense, awon olori buruku.

Stop this useless post. How did u know he is a Yahoo boy?

So every young guy driving a car is a Yahoo to you?

We here that are hustling legitly we have the money to buy car but we no gree buy are we still yahoo?

Such a myopic reasoning.

techtechh:
Do you know if any overseas scholarship for coding boot camps

No bro. But you might want to research on that.

IamD18:
This month alone, you've created 6 threads on this forum about your girlfriend.

Bruv, are you actually okay? I hope you are normal?

In Mr Macaroni voice: Are you, are you, are you normaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal!

Op you have no issue. I do save ladies' names based on where I meet them so as to avoid any miss up.

For instance, Maria Bus, Cynthia Market, Bola swimming pool, Sarah Shoprite, Blessing Indomie.

If anyone of them graduate from friendship to dating that's only when I will remove the attached acronym and replace it with Sarah Bae, Blessing Bae, Maria Bae, just like that.

Bola146:
Omo ologo, I'm so happy for you. Please i need a deep freezer from anyone here. Thanks


* See me laughing here seriously

Go carry one from big brother house. I heard they are going to dash everything out.

Jman06:
Honestly! Everybody readily claims to be AA even when they have not done the genotype test.

You are not far from the truth. I can tell you some persons have never done genotype test since they were born.

But they believe they are AA by faith.

Michelle55:
Nah, I'm not.
The core reason why it must be an AA spouse or nothing. Ain't ready to watch any of my kids suffer all because of love related issues that could have been avoided from the onset.

That's true. You are right.

tunlex01:
Hello,
I did not ignore your post rather I forgot to respond here because immediately I read the post, I forwarded the pdf to you straightway.
Check your email 3 days ago.

Thanks for forwarding.

But it seems I didn't get the message. I can't find it in my inbox. Pls kindly resend.

Michelle55:
True.. AA or nothing

Don't worry. There are enough AA to go round.

If we are to carry out genotype census right now, almost everyone here will say they are AA.

Are you AA?

tunlex01:
it will fly with Vetassess. Vetassess is not keen on tax or pension....payslips, reference letter and bank statement are important to them.

Hello tunlex, I was surprised you didn't reply my earlier quote. I believed it was an oversight? I understand. I am not asking for your number bros. Don't just allow your mind to go there. I am not trying to keep in touch with you too. It's just a pdf I believe u have that I am requesting nothing else.

If you observe very well, I have been following this thread for 4 yrs now, taking note of all information. If u can help with the pdf pls do. I need it that's why I am requesting it.

I am not asking for ur contact or anything else, it's just the pdf. So, I was surprised. At least a reply of I still have it or I do not have it again won't bite.

Simply ignoring someone's urgent humble request doesn't really seems cool. I love it when the person bluntly tell me NO or YES. A honest reply won't bite at all to prevent the person re-quoting you.

It is because I lost all my PTE PDF files. I didn't back them up. This particular one I got from u sometime ago is all I need.

Pls do kindly attend to my humble request.

Simply let me know if u still have the pdf in your archive. That's all. It is just the pdf I am looking for not any other assistance. Just the pdf so u can forward it to my email.

I hope you will not ignore this one this time bros.

xynerise:

The best thing is to define the kind of relationship you want to have with the said girl so issues as this won't come out from nowhere.

Me wey like kpekus pass oxygen

Lol the bolded. No be small.


You are right. Defining a relationship from the beginning will save one from wasting one's time.

I am very blunt and raw with what I want when approaching the opposite sex. I define it from the beginning and I have never been wrong with my approach style.

I don't like beating around the bush. I will tell u what I am bringing to the table and it is left for her to say YES or NO and look elsewhere.

Confidence is every guy's selling point.

The more a guy waste time being too careful with his words with a girl, the more she will get to friend zone him. That's why from the beginning I will tell u what I want and what I am bringing to the table so no one will waste the other time.

Girls like sex more than guys. It is just that we guys no dey hide our own or try pretending.

We hit the nail on the head. No time.

xynerise:
You are absolutely right. Betrayal has made many guys shun this no sex relationship stuff. A lot have been scammed. Would you blame them?


Leave some of those hypocrites here making it look like those who are afraid of No sex relationship are sinners and Wicked....whatever they call them.

A lot of people just hate to face reality

Exactly. The truth is always bitter. And some ladies always want to eat their cake and have it.

No lady can manipulate a guy like me with no sex till marriage trash. If she is not a pure virgin, it purely shows she just wants to play smart cuz I know how hòrny girls can feel when they are ovulating.

They can do anything just to bang at that moment. A girl who has already been bleeping can hardly control that horniness during their ovulation. That's where most that are deceiving naive guys with no sex relationship will start looking out for another guy to bleep cuz they know they can't request it from the guy they are on a no sex relationship with.

They will rather do it with one of the good-bad guys on their WhatsApp lists. Even some do it with their acclaimed male bestie who they are very free with.

Only the fraction small percent of pure virgins who have never experienced sex I can reluctantly still vouch for. Not those that had already been bleeping for years now coming with no sex till marriage scam.

Sixfeetbelle:
Still does not answer the question explicitly but I'll take what I can get.

Guys renegade on the no-sex agreement because they are guys, so why is your emphasis only on girls who do such? Are they not being "girls"? Why the need to hold them accountable when their body count is their problem? Besides, you'll still marry whoever you choose, so, it baffles the mind what your agenda is.


My advice: stop discouraging people from going into a no-sex agreement since, in your own words, boys will be boys and girls have preferences.

I never discouraged anyone from going into a no sex relationship with any girl that opt for that.

I base all my emphasis on the need for guys to be wise and not trust foolishly any girl they choose to go on a no sex relationship with.

They must ensure the said girl is deserving and not the type that will start shagging behind. If that happens, it will completely ruin the relationship and the agreement.

In conclusion, guys should only agree on a no sex relationship with a girl that is 100% honest to hold on to that agreement till the end.

Simply don't opf for such a relationship with an innocent guy if you know within your heart that you cannot stay completely celibate till the end.

Sixfeetbelle:
Attend to the first paragraph of the previous post, then we can talk.

For the first paragraph, the society didn't place more emphasis on whether a guy should have sex or not because a man still remain a man whether he bleeps multiple girls.

But this is not the same with ladies. If you can keep yourself and stay off sex, I will encourage you to do that because it will help you have less body counts till when you are ready to settle down.

Sex of a thing really doesn't affect guys much as it affects girls. Cuz at the end, the bleep boys will still settle down with the descent girls that are able to keep themselves.

My verdict?

No sex relationship will favor girls the more cuz it will help u have less body counts.

While this won't affect guys whether they have sex prior to settling down, there is no where the society has ever applauded guys for remaining virgins or staying off sex for long time. With that in mind, we have seen girls auctioning their virginity but never have I seen a guy auctioning his virginity.

So, in all you can see that staying off sex benefits female more than guys.

So back to your question of do guys not reneged on a no sex agreement?

I will say that's just guys being guys cuz at the end it is still the descent girls we will look out for to settle down with. So, it is left for girls to have multiple body counts or not. It is an individual preferences.

When it comes to ladies, my posts are always undiluted and this truly feel quite threatening to ladies.

I understand how you girls feel about posts like these. You just have to swallow the bitter truth. I just don't like it when girls fool innocent guys around or manipulate them in relationships.

Every guy should learn how the female's mind works and they will never have reasons to create threads on how that holy girl ended up disappointing them.

Ladies please don't feel threatened by these type of posts. The news need to be spread and that's what we the experienced guys are doing.

Of a truth, we are just trying to help our fellow guys to open their eyes to the hidden truth regarding the opposite sex.

That is not a bad thing to do, is it?

Sixfeetbelle:
Isn't it weird that despite all your ramblings you are yet to admit that men sometimes don't keep their end of the "no-sex agreement"?



You definitely sound bitter

Yeah you are right. I am very very bitter with the truth. You and I do know the truth is always bitter right?

You ladies always feel threatened by any post that intends to open guys eyes to the truth. What according to you will that be called again? Isn't bitterness too?

Sixfeetbelle:
Babe, stop debating this issue with this guy. He is all over this thread regurgitating the same points over and over again and somehow claims he is coming from a logical point of view. Like really? Nigga sounds like them ladies did a tumble dry process on him

Truth is, arguing with a man who holds on strongly to whatever he thinks/believes is like pouring water on a stiff rock. It would never get soaked.

My advice to guys is never to take advice from ladies.

There is no way u can control yourself if you meet a guy that can control your emotions.

That's why guys shouldn't believe whatever that come from you ladies. Your ways are opposite of guys. That is the truth.

Sixfeetbelle:
Your point makes it sound like guys are totally exonerated from those that renegade on this agreement. Men pretend they are staying celibate with the lady whilst shagging a lot of ladies on the side. It's not designated to one gender alone.



No offense, but from your write-up all over this thread, you sound embittered.

I am not embittered. My write up is just a wake up call to all guys who may be thinking they are dating good girls. They need to make deligent investigation they will be shocked of their findings.

Guys shouldn't be the type of guys girls can deceive and fool around. That's my wake up call to all guys.

ugbede69:
I really learnt a lot from her...once a girl tells me no sex, then there's nothing like relationship

That's the right thing to do. That experience has now opened your eyes. Even virgins do bleep up let alone a girl who is a non virgin.

So far so good, I can never put so much emotions with the opposite sex. Even if I end up getting married, I am not going to do that out of emotions. I need to be logical when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Emotions can make a man take irrational decisions.

While ladies always bleep up is because they reason with their emotions always. So, if any experienced guy comes in and work on their emotions , they end up breaking the agreement they have with the first. That's just because they just can't control their emotions making them to disappoint naive innocent guys.

I can never believe what girls say. The secret, always do the opposite of whatever a girl tells you and you will find yourself not getting emotionally entangled with any.

And I don't take advice from ladies on how to handle ladies. Their advice are always filled with emotions and illogical while as guys, we are the logical type.

Alexaonfleek:
I have a huge problem with the fact that you're generalising this issue.

And again,I'm not trying to justify girls having side lovers,but it's a two way street.
Sometimes,it could also happen that a guy agrees to the no sex and all,and then gets himself a side chick or patronize olosho.

I am not generalising but the percentage of girls that will hold on to such agreement is quite a meagre 10%.

90% of girls will flop up even if they see a guy that agreed to the no sex relationship.

It's a break of trust which history has repeatedly shown that is preventing experienced guys never to agree to such.

90% of girls will break the agreement. Just 10% can genuinely hold on to such till the end and they are very rare to find.