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humilitypays:
A smart chick or lady don't need to tell her so called committed boyfriend that she is fvcking another guy or seeing another guy or considering another guy because we men are sexual hypocrites, we will judge and crucify such lady, she only needs to be smart, play smart and make the best decision to end up with the right man ready to wife her.


So many ladies were loyal to their so called husband they wished would marry them at the end the guy goes and marry one lady he met after a one night stand, so what do you have to say


Not all guys marry ladies they courted or dated for too long cos of see finish and it become boring too, many guys marry any sweet lady to them they meet when they are ready to settle down irrespective of how many guys she had dated in the past.


Ladies should learn to keep their mouth shut about the guys they are seeing cos men are hypocrites who judge them but refuse to subject themselves to judgment also.


How many sexually active guys here can swear that they have had sex with only their main girlfriend If they dare it, many go fall and die

But they want their girlfriends to keep herself only for them while they fvck around, whose girlfriend are they fvcking and chasing around like hegoat Maybe ghost


The world has evolved already beyond anybody's absolute control and beyond any gender's control so we men need to wake up to the reality that our girlfriends and fiancé's and even wives are also being fvcked codedly nowadays and there is nothing anybody can do about it, at worst you go to the monastery and turn to a Monk and face serving the Lord but if you want to date, do relationship and even marry, you must prepare your mind to take any boomshyyyyt that may come; bear in mind that your girlfriend, fiancé, or even wife may fall once in a while and get fvcked without you knowing and life goes on.



Making guys making noise here, if the table were turned and cute rich ladies start approaching guys for date, flings, etc, all the guys yanning dust here will be fvcked anyhow by these ladies if tables were turned so let's cut ladies some slack, they are humans.


Do you think it's easy for a pretty lady who is dating a guy that's struggling financially, not that handsome, nothing special to resist uncountable handsome looking guys with loads of cash, goodies and amazing profile Don't you know ladies too fantasize about their dream man, and when they come across such a man you think its that easy for them to resist him just because of one yeye boyfriend that she don't even know where the relationship is heading to


I have seen ladies who remained loyal and faithful to their so called boyfriend for years and at the end nothing good came out of the relationship

Have you watched the video I posted? Try and watch it and you will see why a ladies need to remain loyal in their relationships.

You can't compare a cheating man to a cheating woman. When a man cheats, he still loves his woman but when a woman cheats, she fall out of love with her man. That's why the society condemn cheating women because they are expected to stay loyal whenever they are in a serious relationship.

No sane man will leave a loyal woman to marry someone else. Unless they believe that the lady is not a faithful lady during their courtships. Just like what this girl is trying to do. These are the kind of things that will make the guy not to marry her if he planned of marrying her before. Do you think if the guy finds out, he will be happy?

The reason why most men leave their spouse to marry someone else is because they have noticed from the beginning that the lady is cheating but for some, they will never confront such a lady but rather majority of guys will convert such a lady to a side chick or a bleep buddy. They will keep bleeping tthat type of a girl and later dump her and marry a more faithful lady.

Why some guys will instantly dump a lady who is cheating, for others, they will still keep her for sex and dump her later. That's why when you heard that a guy left her girl to marry someone else, just know that the girl is a cheater.

That's why it always good for a lady to remain loyal in any serious relationship she is in.

If I catch my girlfriend cheating, I won't dump her if I know she can still serve as a bleep buddy. But within my heart, I know I won't marry such a girl because I find out she is cheating. That's the main reason some guys leave the girl they are dating to marry someone else.

Why will I marry a girl I know is cheating during courtship? It is the loyalty of a woman that make most men marry their women. If a woman is loyal, 70% of the issues in relationships are solved.

Now the question is will you marry a girl if u find out she is cheating when dating you or you will convert her to a bleep buddy and dish her when you are ready to settle down?

The bolded? If a guy ever leave a lady to marry another just know that the lady was cheating when the guy was dating her. That's the only reason a man will leave a lady to marry another. Don't let anyone tell you they never cheated.

Definitely such ladies will tell u they never cheated of course but the guy that dated such a lady knows he left her because she was not faithful during their relationship.

Do you now see why ladies should remain loyal in their relationships?

Kokaine:
Brother you're sounding so hurt. Your message almost looks personal like you've had an experience. Calm down o

Don't pity ladies that cheat. You need to reprimand them. Women will always take nice guys for fools. As a guy, don't think by handling a woman with care and love and being all that nice to them that will make them stay with you.

When your woman do something wrong, don't be too soft when reprimanding her. Women mistake niceness for weakness. Don't be a weak man when reprimanding a cheating woman.

Mawex:
Whatever is your problem don't carry it come NAIRALAND.

Anyways this tori sounds lyk my girlfriend, precious is that you

Your girlfriend? Is she banging another guy? Abeg sama us the full tori. What happened?

Otuamaka:

Okpo how are old are you?

Mindgame404:
This happens to be the most sincere unbias advice... please guys stop the hypocrisy nothing like loyalty and commitment until you put a ring on it. Please get the best package while you can gal

If you are a lady who is still between 18 to 25, stop jumping from one dick to another. You will soon realize that when you are ready to settle down, the guy will ask about your past and if you tell him you dated 15 to 20 guys in the bid to get the best package which you will end up not getting, he will instantly loose interest in you and you will be surprised why such a guy lose interest?

In that case, just know it is your past hunting you. Most ladies between 18 to 25 usually behave unstable in relationship in a bid to exploring and having fun.

They only wise up when they approach 25 to 35 and when they have been used by many bad boys. Who wants to get married to a girl that have been bleeped by numerous guys? No sane man. That pussy will be too slack for any man to pay a bride price on.

If you are jumping from guy to guy just to find the best package, you will never find the best package ever. There is no best package out there for any lady. Make the most out of the one you have.

You think a guy with money will intentionally settle down with a hoe? They use their wealth to attract ladies, bleep them and dump them. They are not fools. They will never settle down with you if they find out you dated multiple partners in the past with loads of body counts. Damaged goods is what we call such ladies.

So, if you are a lady, my advice for you is to put your head down and know what you want in life.

Don't ever conceive the notion that by jumping from one guy to another you will find a better deal which you call better package.

There is never a better package ever. It is what you make out of the one you have that will offer you the better package you are looking for. Guys are not fools to settle for a hoe who have hoed about in the past.

So be wise.

lastchild:
Many guys are just childish in this nairaland, maybe they are still children, someone brought up an issue that needs an advice, all some of you could offer was insults, maybe you already felt you are the first guy she's about to dump or maybe someone once dumped you that way

@op
The truth is this, based on my own experience in life, don't ever pity anyone you are not indebted to when it comes to relationship, I do advice people to an extend I advice them to leave a marriage once they have tried to keep the love going but failed

Make sure the person you are dating or marrying is a second to none, make sure he's number 1, never had someone somewhere you are wishing you are together with especially when the person is feeling the same

My prayer for men like you is to marry a cheating woman only then you will realize that a hoe will forever remain a hoe no matter how.much you tried to be a better man to her.

A girl wanting to leave her guy who treats her right is a hoe. Or didn't u see where she said the boyfriend has not done anything wrong to warrant her leaving him?

Why must we take side with what is bad all in a bid to portray ourselves as not being accountable to others for whatever action we take?

We are accountable to any action we take in life. In as much as we think we have the free will to do whatever we like in this world, there are always unseen consequences on the way for whatever bad decision we choose to make in life.

A woman with a cheating spirit will never be satisfied no matter how you tried to be a better man to her.

When you see what is bad, reprimand it without bias so that the person will know what she is about to do is bad.

If she can do such to an innocent guy whom she has no quarrel with nor whatsoever form of violence from the guy side, what makes you think such a girl will never cheat when she get married?

What is bad is bad. Don't make excuses for promiscuous, cheating ladies so you won't end up attracting one as a wife.

Otuamaka:
lol

When you are ready to retire from hoeing, let me know, I will fund you to learn a skill. But for now, let me save the $150 I want to give you in my dollar account.

You know where to reach me when you are ready Bitch.

fasmukol:
Honestly, you have said nothing but the truth and that video nailed it. Because, I have passed through that same situation with a girl I have spent over 2 years with (with wedding already being planned). But the only thing that God assisted me with is that immediately she started her stupid behavior I am lucky to pull myself out.

That's it bro. Never ever tolerate a cheating girlfriend whom you plan to marry. Once you know she is cheating, dump her. Don't look back. People like that will bring men from outside to be fvcked in their matrimonial bed when the man is away.

The earlier men know this, the better. A hoe will remain a hoe no matter how much you try to be a better man to her.

That is why go for a girl you know will be loyal in marriage. And that you will get to see whether she is the loyal type or not during courtship.

No one should give any excuse for promiscuous ladies parading as girlfriends.

God forbid bad thing that I will tolerate a cheating girlfriend let alone a cheating wife. The moment I find out a girl is double dating, I dump her immediately. I don't want to father another man's child.

humilitypays:
Ladies are their own problem.


relationship is not marriage. Until a guy pays your full dowry, you don't owe him any explanation to walk away or fvck another sweeter dick.



Why must u seek for permission from others to date a guy u find attractive for your taste.



We guys are hypocrites, we make too much noise, we want ladies to be what we can never be.


Can that your boyfriend swear that he hasn't fvcked other chicks since u guys started dating And if he says yes he has not, then he is broke, ugly, not classy



You better your eyes and explore, guys do same. Don't listen to guys opinion on this cos we are hypocrites, we want ladies not to double date while dating us but we fourtiple abi fiftiple date and heavens haven't fell.




Don't break up with your boyfriend, just flow along with both of them and stop brandishing one yeye boy that have not paid your bride price in the name of girlfriend boyfriend that most times don't lead to anywhere good at the end!!



You mustn't tell every guy you meet that you have a boyfriend, you ladies are demarketing yourselves by doing that. You are single until you are legally married!!!

What will make a man to make up his mind to marry a lady? Please kindly answer with all honesty.


If you are dating a girl and you find out she is double dating with some random guys aside you, will you boldly want to.marry such a lady?

If you go on marrying a girl that double dated when you were courting her, do you believe such a girl will be loyal to you in marriage? Can you boldly marry a lady that is cheating on you with other guys even though you are aware?

If you can answer those questions with capital YES then those are the kind of girls you will keep on attracting because you believe a girl who is in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage should keep on cheating because to you she is Still very single.

But you forget that it is from dating that you will know whether to marry someone or not. And if she is the cheating type, you will still go ahead to marry such. Don't be surprised when a woman hang another man's child on your neck without you being aware.

Don't ever give excuse for promiscuous ladies. You can't compare guys that cheat to ladies because it is men that will wife them. Every lady should learn how to control their sexual fantasies and emotions when in a serious relationships with the exceptions of those that just want to fvck around and in the end become too damaged for men to marry as wives.

Marry a hoe and watch how she will fvck around in your absence and born you another man child.

gaius01:
well I understand your point let's talk this talk out of the basket. like you said no signs of abuse neither unfaithfulness. Do you know a girl could break up with you because of lack care, incompatibility, too boring and lots more. from what I can deduce her boyfriend ain't giving her the vibes the other was giving her can you imagine the qualities she listed. dam look at it again, and Las Las her boo is not cheating neither does he abuse her. when I was dating I never allow my chatting vibes to be low, I read alot of wide range so that when we start chatting men she won't have time texting those boys because I know if I don't occupy her with vibes others will

one problem with we Nigerians is that when our Bea is cheating, look at your self, take a deep scan through, ask your self, What makes that guy different from me not getting angry or shouting at her every body want a lively boo no one boring, faithful dude. learn new ways to be Romantic, learn her phycology so that you can inflict it for your sef. if she love your vibes trust me she woñt look out albeit you been faithful.

If a woman cheats it is your fault oh yes it is your fault. Do me a favor by watching this video.

There are some types if men mentioned in the video who think when their women cheat, it is their fault. And you seems to be one of those men who will never dump their cheating wives because they think they are not doing more that is expected of them by their cheating wives/girlfriends.

When a woman cheats on you, don't be foolish to believe that it's all your fault. No sane man will put up with a cheating spouse. She will simply not respect you.

Watch how Coach Red Pill classified such men who think when their partners cheat, it is their fault.

If a woman cheats on youbkindly watch:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9Rjlr1RCqM

Otuamaka:
[s][b] i still stand my ground of you not robbing your oga (boi_boi) from a failed family ... not so many damsels will advice you

Oh you meant you do rob from those guys you sell your pussy to and bleep you through the night?

I see! A hoe will always be a hoe. I feel pity for you and I wanna help you.

Otuamaka:
[s]like I said, you are a poor wretched idioot from a failed and cursed family

I still stand my ground to help your hoeing life Bitch. How many guys will do that? I will fund you just to make you turn a new live and stop hoeing around.

Not so many guys will do that for a hoe.

Otuamaka:
[s] you don't need to tell me you are not a thief xx lol.. don't be petty... na jungle justice remain for you... broke illiterate

Your say doesn't matter bitch. Not for a classified hoe like you. Like I said, I want to help your hoeing life.

merieam16:
Fake story. i kno is a guy under dat moniker

Which fake story? That's how majority of ladies behave. They are hoes. They will never be satisfied with one guy.

You see why I won't blame guys that say fvck hoes and marry virgins?

Nothing will prevent that type of girl from cheating. Will you say Omotola doesn't see other men she feels are attractive more than her husband on a daily basis? Or Mercy Johnson doesn't come across other men she feels look better than her husband in looks on a daily basis?

It is all about having self control. But no, 80% of ladies are hoes who just can't remain committed to one man. They will always allow their emotions to fool them into believing that the new guy they meet is better than the one they are with which is typically false.

A girl that always fall for handsome looks is a hoe and I don't blame bad boys who use and dump them like tissue papers and when marriage time comes, bad boys will always go for the available virgins.

Girls need to start thinking with their God's given mind instead of thinking with their pussies. If not, a time will come when ladies won't see men to marry due to their promiscuous lifestyles of not being contented with one dick.

The wise ones should take note.

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

It's ladies like you that will cheat in marriages. You see where the issue of hypergamy in women is coming from?

Do you know you are already cheating? If you can leave your boyfriend for one random play boy that appeared from no where and start falling for him, what makes you think you won't leave that same new guy for another when you see another person you think is better than the new guy?

You are simply a hoe nothing else. You are typically unstable. A girl like you is to be used and dump cuz you are one of those damaged goods that are being spoken about by redpillers.

Let's take an instance. If perhaps your boyfriend had paid your bride price and you meet this new guy, will you say you want to leave your boyfriend for a random guy you just felt a mere attraction for? What makes you think this new guy won't use and dump you? When that happens, you will now crawl back to your ex boyfriend you are already cheating on and start begging him to take you back right?

You are simply a hoe. Ladies like you are not always stable. They jump from one guy to another. If people in serious relationships or marriage commit the evil you are about to commit now, will you see them getting married or staying long in their marriages? Or do you think ladies that decided to remain faithful and stable in their relationships are not coming across other men whom they feel attraction for on daily basis?

You lack self control. That's all I can say. And a lady that lack self control is nothing but a hoe who can't just remain put with one guy in a relationship and stay faithful. Any guy who marry a girl like you is doomed for a divorce in the future cuz you will definitely cheat.

Watch the 18 minutes video below and see why I said you are not fit for a serious relationship or marriage. You are a time bomb ready to explode.

Bet me, that new guy will use and dump you. You don't deserve your boyfriend because he is a nice guy.

This video sum it all:

If a woman cheats on you


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9Rjlr1RCqM

Otuamaka:
[s][b] i want you to stop stealing from your oga where you do boi_boi and @ least don't represent your cursed family in pub...

Hehehe I have never stolen in my life. I don't have any oga. You said I should go and make money.

You want me to start looking for job? Hell no. How much are they going to pay me to do a 9 to 6 job?

Hell no, I love my freedom.

But that's not the main issue between you and I. The main issue is that can you please stop fvcking around and stick to one dick?

I will highly be happy if you can and I promise to fund you to learn a skill trust me.

Otuamaka:
[s][b] let me repeat it to you again, you are nothing but a broke wretched idiott from a cursed family !!! Have you eaten today

I want you to learn a skill so you can retire from your hoeing lifestyle.

Simply repent, declare it and I will fund you.

Don't allow pride make this opportunity pass you by OK.

Otuamaka:
[s][b] lol... wretched modafvka of a mouth breather mom and a galah drunk father.... Stop dreaming broke idioot

Let me reiterate it to you again and again. I am ready to fund you to learn a skill if you will change from hoeing around.

I will fund you with $150 to learn a skill. That's over 60k with the present rate.

Simply tell me you will stop fvcking around and I promise to fund you.

I don't want you to be fvcking around. You've over stressed that conctus too much.

Otuamaka:
[s][b] cry cry baby... make money first... a blind man can't lead another... make money you this wretched nairaland miscreant

Hoe I am making money already that's why I want to help your hoeing life.

I don't have any oga I answer sir sir to. I have my freedom. I go out any time I like.

But you? You bleep around for a living and I want to help you leave that kind of lifestyle. Is that bad?

Otuamaka:
[s][b] stop using the same line cause we know say you are broke and from a poor home so, you can't afford my pussi

Oh my goodness! I can afford your pussy 100 times but the thing is that I don't do okpo.

That's why I want to help you. I want to fund you if you are ready to leave that okpo life.

This is a good deal you know?

UDUJ:
Mcslize and Otuamaka you guys should get a room, haba

Baba no mind the babe. I am just trying to straighten her life.

Otuamaka:
[s] [b]feed your wretched family first and be free from your boi_ boi first... you've been stealing from your oga so, be humble cause, he might not settle you

Hellooo, boi boi? I don't work for any one. I am a self employed fellow. Hellooo can you hear me? Hehehe boi boi indeed!

Not so many guys will be generous enough to want to fund you to learn a skill so as to stop your hoeing lifestyle.

I truly want you to repent from hoeing around. That kind of lifestyle will do you nothing than waste you.

Okpo life no be life bikonu please I truly want you to change biko abeg OK?

Otuamaka:
[s] [b] you need the help... a grown man still living under his ashewo mum... na why you dey talk like a mental deranged person... lol... i don't blame you sha... na why you dey give your mama belle at will !!!

Helloooo Bitch I said, I want to help you learn a skill so you can stop hoeing around. Have I not tried?

Damaged goods like you need total restoration and I will see to it that you are completely restored.

Am I not generous enough used Hoe?

Otuamaka:
[s][b] Joseph the dreamer... E go shock you when your ashewo mum will wake you up by 5am to wash plates after she don LovePeddler around all night... Mumu wretched idiot

Okpo life no be life. Hoe how is that conctus now? Bad boys don wide am for you shey? Ekpa oloburuku.

Simply say you need help and I will help you restore you from your hoeing lifestyle.

Bitch turn a new live and I will help you fund any skill you want to learn. Yes, I have taken this upon myself to restore you back to the society. You are nothing but a lost soul and it pains my heart. So I want to help you Bitch.

Otuamaka:
[s] lol... broke foool trying so hard to make sense... mumu baby rubber, have you chop biscuit today

Broke bitch like you that live on guys proceeds shouldn't call a well to do guy broke. I earn hard currency every fvcking day. What do you do for a living order than Bleep around? Hahaha that's the only thing you know how to do.

But being a generous guy who feels pity for people easily, I am opting to fund you to learn a skill if you will stop hoeing around.

All you need do is declare from now on you will stop fvcking around and will do something desirable to cater for yourself order than jumping from dick to dick over stressing your conctus.

If you over use that conctus hellooo, what will the simp nice guy that you will finally end up hanging that over used conctus on enjoy later?

I simply want to rescue you Bitch so you will stop using your stinky conctus as your only source of livelihood.

But my only question now is Bitch are you ready to change or you wanna remain an unrepentant over used hoe? What's your answer to that?

Otuamaka:
[s][b] cry cry baby, I want to see my mummy, shame !!! Again, Again !!! Lol... your mama rotten toto

Wasted hoe, try and find something meaningful to do to better your life rather than putting your over used hole for sale on a daily basis. Your type is classified as damaged goods and I truly feel for your type of girl. If only I can change you.

Your mannerless is as result of idleness. So, if I may suggest, how about you learn a skill so that you can put your over used hole to rest a bit? Nice idea right?

But the only prob is that, that won't still stop you from jumping from dick to dick. Oh yes, even if I fund your life, you will still be fvcking around.

I truly wish I can help change you. It truly beats my heart that a wholly born girl child like you has taken to hoeing - a life of promiscuity.

I feel for you girl. But the bitter truth is that there is nothing no one can do to help you out of this cuz it has become part of your life - a lifestyle you have no intention to leave behind any time soon.

If not, I would have said let me raise funds for you to learn a skill and have something to do for yourself, to fall back to just in case your hoeing business goes bankrupt.

If you will change, I am ready to raise funds for you to better your life. How about that bitch?

Otuamaka:
cry cry baby ... have you wondered what your ashewo mum will cook tonight

Now I know you are a product of a broken home. No single manner. I know what your innocent mother will be passing through in your hand.

Stupid cheap hoe.

Otuamaka:
[s] mummies boy... cry more, I don't care... broke mumu boy lol

Broke boy? Hehehe wretched bitch I am not broke. You that young boys fvck with 3 to 5k? Without guys, you will go hungry.

You should be shamed of yourself for being an unrepentant hoe who can't go a day without selling her under priced cheap pussy.

If not for guys who you sell your pussy to on daily basis, can you feed?

See a wretched bitch calling me broke. Ekpa!

Otuamaka:
cry cry baby... who do the ladies cheat on with if not men... mumu man

If you are not a cheap hoe you won't feel pained. Keep fvcking around until you will end up birthing a bastard.

What could be more painful than when you get pregnant and you end up not knowing who impregnated you?

I am very sure you are a bloody cheap runs girl putting pussy on display on social media.

Such a damaged overly used goods.

Otuamaka:
[s][b] you still talk like a kid and, I believe you are mature !!!

You ladies always try too much to defend your hoeing lifestyles. Out of 100% of ladies out there, how many are faithful? Not up to 20%. 80% of your gender fvck around including some married ones.

Most of you ladies are not just contented with one dick. And just some days ago, I have been there defending you people and non of you were bold enough to comment.

So, if players say they fvck hoes and marry virgins, do you think I will still go on defending your gender?

You are simply guilty of this, if not you won't go on being defensive.

Where were you when I was defending your gender against red pillers? I guess you were somewhere hiding and now you want to put up your defensive mode cuz the truth says 80% of ladies hoe around.

Is that too a bitter truth for you to accept?

I can tell you've fuvcked different random guys at some points aside the person you presently dating. That's the hoeing around we are talking about.

Any lady that fvck with another guy aside the guy she is dating is nothing but a chronic hoe. Red pillers call them damaged goods. They are not fit for marriage.

They are disaster. No sane man wants a damaged goods type of lady. That's why I support those guys that say fvck hoes and marry virgins.

It is what you girls made yourself to be. You can be among the meager 20% that are loyal or continue to be among the 80% hoes that fvck around. It is left for you to decide.

Zzor:
who is a thing?i have no business with an insecured man

It's not about being insecured or not. Some ladies are just typical hoes.

That's why I don't blame bad boys who say they will fvck hoes to any extend they want and marry virgins.


Now, I am in support of that notion.