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Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 11:35am On Jul 24, 2020
Crownstar01:
She's only waiting for you to propose or marry her before she starts to demand things from you. Women can be controversial at times. Saying something like when we were dating, didn't you spend money on me or didn't I ask you for anything? LOL!

Anyway, it seems you guys are having a good relationship. But bear in mind that women always say the opposite of what they mean...you should know that.
Of course, I am still watching her. I am still doing my own underground verification to be sure she is who she claimed to be.

Although, she seems kinda genuine. For now, I have not seen any underground skeleton in her cupboard.

I always tell her she is free to misbehave if she deemed fit but she knows the repercursion of such.

In essence, simply know how to handle a woman and know when to draw the line. I have been playing around for too long. There was a time I decided to stay off babes for 6 months before I met her. Focusing more on my hustle.

she never believed I was single cuz she always says she don't believe a guy like me will be single that girls should be rushing me.

I simply told her I chose not to be rushed and I am just giving her a try if she mess up I won't get walked up at all.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:50am On Jul 24, 2020
Crownstar01:
Have you scored yet?
Haba why not? That one no be question na. She is even scared to lose me. That's how it should be. So she don't misbehave.

That how to earn a girl's respect. I don't even spend on her except I chose to on my own preference not because she wants me to.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:47am On Jul 24, 2020
stanliwise:
well said.
IMO I even advise most guys not to join the redpill bus. You may never know when you have gotten to your bustop.
People should read social intelligence books.
I recommend Neil strauss.
He wrote "The game" which talk about being a game player.
He wrote "The truth", the aftermath of a player life and the dead end of such road and how to keep important people you.
Exactly. Every guy will definitely have a final bus stop except fort those that have made up their mind not to raise a responsible family or whomsimply wants to be baby fathers.

It's a personal choice.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:40am On Jul 24, 2020
Crownstar01:
The problem here is most Nigerian girls always behave awkward whenever you are good to them whereas if you act the other way round, they intend to care more about you. cheesy
The way you handle a woman, that's what she will be to you. When you are dating a girl, have the wisdom to be able to figure out when you are being used and when not being used.

Be the man but don't be a dictator. Know when to draw the line.

There is no girl I will be with that will misbehave. That is because I apply wisdom in any relationship I am in. I am not saying you should be a simp type of guy that every lady will prey on.

Command respect with your action and attitude when dating any lady. She will value you.

The present girl I am dating knows I don't take nonsens and the respect is there. I just be myself. I don't grant all her wishes. I know when to say yes and when to say no. And that's how you earn the respect of your partner.

You need to tell her what you like and what you hate and point it out to her if she misbehave, you won't mind walking away (Let me not use the word dump).

When your partner knows what you like and hate, she will behave well.

While I won't advice any guy to be a simp, definitely know when to draw the line and apply wisdom in your dealings with someone you chose to be your partner.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:24am On Jul 24, 2020
Crownstar01:
The big question is how do you pick a good woman for marriage? Most girls nowadays are not ready to make sacrifices through love. They also do not know what marriage is all about.
You can tell if a lady wants to build a future with you. If you are dating any girl who doesn't support you or have genuine interest in you order than what you are offering her, simply leave her. She is not the right one for you.

You just need to be observant to tell if a girl truly loves you or just merely feeding on you. Waste no time to leave such a lady. When the time comes for you to chose a partner, just be yourself and be closely observant of any female you come across, you will definitely find one that will have genuine interest in you even without spending any dime on her.

When you see such a lady, get to know her and ask questions. Always ask questions so as to know about her past. And if she suits your conscience, go for her and make provision to settle down.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 10:03am On Jul 24, 2020
Liposure:
At the end of the day, Women are like recycled products. They are used, dumped and used again by men
We understand this. But you know you won't continue to use and dump them forever . That's the point we are trying to make here. Won't you want to settle down one day?

Except we want to have kids out of wedlock, no player will continue to be a player forever. That is the point we are driving at here. Of course, guys between the age of 20 to 30 definitely do play around.

But as you age further, a time will come when you will say, you will want to settle down. That's the time you will have to compromise on some of your games just to be a responsible husband and father to your kids.

When that time comes, you can't possibly be jumping from one pussy to the other due to your kids and the determination to bring your kids up well.

That is the time every one time player will have to drop his boots and be a responsible husband and father.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 9:47am On Jul 24, 2020
stanliwise:
I didn't even bother to watch the silly video. Don't give them any long epistles. They are nothing but a group of cult youth who has wants to pry over women. The end of their journey if they ever get there is to become a love-vendor.
A person who control women's and pry over them.
There are genuine women in the world who are not hoes but redpiller fill in most mind youth that they are all same. They create an atmosphere of women as potential enemy when in reality it is nothing but a mirage. I advise all youth to learn social intelligence and avoid lady and guys who play relationship games.
Entering the business of paying back women is the philosophy of the so called masculine occult society. Real men are not SIMPS, AFC nor are they redpillers.
Real men are normal people who wants mutual respect.
You are right. There are still some few good girls out there. That was why I said in one of my previous posts that we can't continue like this into marriage.

If we carry this mindset of maltreating a woman into marriage, we won't have a blissful marriage. There will always be quarrel and that will affect the kids one will have.

A situation where a man is being an ass hole and maltreating the wife will definitely affect the kids such men will have with their partners.

They will still end up being products of a broken home because the man chose to be an ass hole and not being able to control his home order than applying games and tactics on the wife.

People like that might end up divorcing in the end if the man is not able to be a responsible husband and father to his own family. That's why every man should apply wisdom when it comes to applying the redpill. If a man who truly wants to have a family of his own take the redpill too extreme, it can break his home and not enjoy a blissful marriage life.

As a guy, in as much as I don't take nonsense from the oppisite sex, I won't want to be an ass hole type of father or husband in the future to my partner. I should be able to earn the respect of my partner without applying tactics and games.

Having the knowledge of the redpill is good but aspiring husbands shouldn't take that into marriage as it has the possibility of shattering a marriage if not applied with wisdom to prevent one from having a broken marriage in the future.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 8:55am On Jul 24, 2020
Youngzedd:
80% of the young generation of women are damaged, while 20% aren't in Africa, Nigeria to be precise.

It takes the knowledge of red pill to spot the 20% and wife them.

If you can spot the majority (80%), you can spot the minority (20%). Take the below very serious if you're looking for a life partner.


Recognise and avoid damaged goods >>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lAdgC6OZRM

Ensure you take the above serious when you're looking for a woman for a long term relationship. Don't compromise on it, E GET WHY.


Cc: stanliwise Mcslize
I have taken time to watch the video and thanks for sharing.

Of course, no man will like to settle down with a damaged goods lady. That's why one needs to ask questions when choosing a life partner. Asking her about her past is very important. How many guys she has dated in the past and her sexual lifestyle. That will be able to help one make an informed decision.

But one thing is that every girl out there has her bad sides. Some may be homely but cannot run a home. Some know how to run a home but have anger issues. Others can run a home and support a man but are not good at managing resources. In essence, no man is perfect. One can never see a 100% perfect partner in this life unless the person will take clay and mould the partner he or she wants to settle down with.

That is why at one point or the other , we will make compromises on some stuffs just to accommodate a partner into our lives.

As far as a lady is not into runs in her past life, like those that do runs, I won't outrightly condemned those that have dated 3 to 5 persons in the past as damaged goods. I can't say same for those that are intentionally into runs.

I can term those as completely damaged goods. Most of those type of girls do those stuffs due to the bad influence of friends and broken homes. They start staying with friends that are into such stuffs and before they realize it, they are into the street doing runs online. There are so many of them. Of course, I won't go for such type of girls.

But for those that merely dated like 2 to 4 guys at some point in their lives, I can't actually term such as damaged goods as far as they never at some points took hoeing about as a full time job.

If one is lucky to see a virgin to settle down with which you and I know hardly exist, such a person will be a bit lucky than those who married non virgins if only her character is perfect.

But in all these, the so called women I can categorically termed damaged goods are those that are into runs. For marriage, such are a no go area.

But for others who merely dated one guy at a time in the past and still homely can be excluded from that list and are still perfect to be chosen as life partners. This is my lil input.

Besides, thanks for sharing the video.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize: 12:22am On Jul 24, 2020
stanliwise:
Same idea I now believe. After being the play guy and playing all the girls I think are not as smart as I am, I later discovered I would need to pick a wife someday.
Now my new philosophy is that if I find someone who wants to be genuine with what they want then I too will come out genuine too. There will always be a end to playing relationship games someday.
That's exactly the point. Every man will one day want to have a family of his own and when that time comes knocking, one can't actually put up his player's mode with the one he wants to settle down with.

90% of girls out there have dated at least 3 to 5 guys and more. And if we continue to be play boys, it simply means we don't want to settle down at all and have our own kids.

And among all those ladies, men still pick some deserving ones as wives to fulfil nature call.

That doesn't mean the man won't command respect from the one he wants to settle down with.

Every one time player shouldn't be a novice on how to handle his wife to earn her respect.

In essence, there is stage where a man will get to, he will just have to drop the player mode, settle down and still earn his wife respect.
Romance › Re: Men! Don't You Ever Be A Nice Guy To Her (photo) by Mcslize:
Of course, there is the hoe phase in every lady. That's why if you look very well, ladies between the age of 18 to 24yrs always live in fantasy.

They hardly have a realistic view of what they want in life. They want to get all the attentions so much that it makes them think irrationally.

They don't have clear cut of what life entails in general that's why they waste away their youthful age jumping from one dick to another.

Now, we hardly have virgins. If we should hold all of them accountable for how they hoed around during their youthful age, all men won't want to settle down.

But procreation must continue. At a time, you just have to fulfill nature call by settling down with the one that is not completely damaged.

As it is now, virgins are rare to find. You will hardly come across virgin girls these days.

And as a guy, you will not continue to toy around with all those girls so u must still in one day want to settle down except for those that just want to be baby Fathers.

And when that time comes to settle down, you won't actually put up your player's mode with the girl u want to have as a partner.


That's why lots of guy still get married today. If you are between the age of 30 to 40 as a guy, a time will come when u will want to have your own family and when the time comes, you will not because that a lot of ladies hoed around at their primes won't let you want to settle down and fulfil nature mandate of procreation.

For those that will want to have a family of their own will still marry irrespective of the fact that so many girls hoed around in their youthful age. That doesn't mean, you will be a simp. You merely just have to fulfil nature call.
Romance › Re: Any Agencies That Help To Prove Infidelity? by Mcslize: 1:25am On Jul 23, 2020
dammyklein:
If you wanna catch your partner of cheating...I have an App that can codedly spy all her social media apps( Ig, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Facebook and more) without physical contact with the victim phone. If your interested chat me up via WhatsApp zero9zero71sixzero69six9
How long will you scam people with this? You must be really hungry Favour.

Continue with this cheap scam format. Just know your account will be reported fraud.

Get something reasonable doing young man.

Romance › Re: Name Three Series You Can Never Get Tired Of Watching by Mcslize:
Kemblaze:
PM me lets have a talk
I hope you haven't sent that guy any message. That guy is a chronic scammer. He is a hungry local scammer using this this to scam people.


I contacted him, sent him 4k and he sent me one useless procedures then blocked himself thereafter.

I just laughed. I dashed him the money because I saw he is seriously hungry and he is using this to scam people.

Romance › Re: Any Agencies That Help To Prove Infidelity? by Mcslize:
dammyklein:
If you wanna catch your partner of cheating...I have an App that can codedly spy all her social media apps( Ig, Snapchat, WhatsApp, Facebook and more) without physical contact with the victim phone. If your interested chat me up via WhatsApp zero9zero71sixzero69six9
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Romance › Re: Any Agencies That Help To Prove Infidelity? by Mcslize: 7:10am On Jul 22, 2020
chiommy123:
why will you want to cause yourself heart attack
If she is a girl she planned marrying, it's good he knows now if she is the cheating type. But if he don't have any plan to marry the lady, only then he should not bother himself. If truly she is cheating, definitely he will cancel whatever plan he has. It is better he finds out now if he is nurturing the plan of settling down with such a partner.

A guy like me won't just go on and marry any how lady without doing my own underground investigation.

Make person no go marry okpo say na wife he dey marry.
Romance › Re: Any Agencies That Help To Prove Infidelity? by Mcslize: 7:02am On Jul 22, 2020
excanny, yes but we don't have them in Nigeria. I used to watch a YouTube channel called "Bounty Hunter D" that investigate cheating partners.

For instance, a man who suspects his wife to be cheating will hire a private investigator to follow his wife about and catch her red handed.

But I think we don't have such in Nigeria. However, there are paid online applications that can be used to monitor a cheating spouse's social media accounts remotely such as WhatsApp so you see who she is chatting with and what they are chatting about and who she is sending nudes to.
Romance › Re: Scammed By A Lady. Any Chance Of Getting My Money Back? by Mcslize: 3:48am On Jul 18, 2020
anthropizzy:
!!Chai!!

You missed a big fish o.
grin
Romance › Re: Scammed By A Lady. Any Chance Of Getting My Money Back? by Mcslize: 12:03am On Jul 18, 2020
anthropizzy:
Nice one bro but why did you jonze the babe now?
She truly love you o
Lol I was still a virgin that time bro. grin I was forming champion on phone. I knew nothing about sex then. She never knew I was a virgin.

Forming a tom boy on phone to the extent that the babe do initiate sex discussions most times cuz she grew so fond of me that she was so free with me and she was always bored as she said she mostly stay alone in their big house as her Dad and mum hardly stay at home.

In the night she will call me, that time when mid night calls used to reign. We will talk from 1am till 5am.

If I remember all those days, I just dey laugh.
Romance › Re: Scammed By A Lady. Any Chance Of Getting My Money Back? by Mcslize: 9:24am On Jul 17, 2020
Lol bro you Jonse o. Don't send money to a girl if she says she want to visit you.

When you meet a girl you like, first build a strong rapport with her to create some bonds with you. Any girl asking you for money to visit you is a typical scammer. A girl that is truly into you will never ask you for tfare to come see you. She will use her own money for tfare.

There was a lady I knew back then as at 2013 who was based in Lagos. We met online and we chat, do long hour calls on the phone and discussed so many things every passing day so much that she became so fond of me. You know all those bedroom kind of voice.

So one day she promised to come pay a visit. So I point blankly told her I have no tfare to give her and more so, there is so much stress over here just to scare her off so she won't come cuz I wasn't ready for all of those stuffs of having a lady to come crash in your house way back then. I told her they use to fetch water over here and she can't do that just to scare her off from coming. She said she is ready to fetch water even if the place is far. That by the way she was coming in a flight. Lol that I should not worry. She will handle all the bills o. Her Dad is wealthy.

I was surprised she truly wanted to come but of a truth, I wasn't ready for all of that back then. But I still discouraged her from coming in the end. She is now in USA.

So, what am I driving at? Never send a lady money to come see you if you know you've not created any bond or made her fond of you. She will disappoint you. It is only a lady you've created strong bond with that will never disappoint you if you choose to send her money. But the idea of sending a lady money in another State, town or city to come visit you is a foolish idea. Don't do it next time.

If it comes to worst, tell her to use her money, when she comes you will refund her. Shikena!
Politics › Re: Boko Haram: I Killed Many I Was Shot On Purpose By My Fellow Soldier- Ex Soldier by Mcslize: 2:52am On Jul 17, 2020
[quote author=Depressed101 post=91791119][/quote]I am not surprised. Your username says it all. Go for counselling my friend.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram: I Killed Many I Was Shot On Purpose By My Fellow Soldier- Ex Soldier by Mcslize: 10:56pm On Jul 16, 2020
Depressed101:
they actually can't resign. Please educate yourself
Be sure of something before debunking it.

So you implied that the ex soldier is lying that he resigned? He just woke up and cooked up the story that he resigned is that what you meant?

When has joining the army become a do or die affair that one can't resign?
Politics › Re: Boko Haram: I Killed Many I Was Shot On Purpose By My Fellow Soldier- Ex Soldier by Mcslize: 4:21pm On Jul 16, 2020
Depressed101:
are soldiers allowed to resign? undecided
No, they are allowed to die first before they resign. Why you no go join the Army to fight? He shouldn't have resigned.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram: I Killed Many I Was Shot On Purpose By My Fellow Soldier- Ex Soldier by Mcslize: 4:13pm On Jul 16, 2020
donbachi:
Tribal and religious sympathy and empathy...is nigeria's cause and rise in insecurity..the security personels will have to reswear allegiance in a deadly shrine..or,all soldiers from south should be sent to fight boko haram..my thought.
Why all Soldiers from South? Why not all soldiers from North? Are you a northerner?
Travel › Re: With 2 Million Naira Where Can I Comfortably Migrate To? by Mcslize: 8:41am On Jul 16, 2020
BiolaOmowaye:
Yes
He said i will only stay there for 1 month.
Before one month i should have gotten a job.
Don't fall for this. First ask questions. Ask the agent what type of visa is he going to apply for you. Saying you will stay there one month, just know that he is planning of applying for a visiting visa for you.

You cannot secure any job with a visiting visa. No employer will offer you a job with a visiting visa. It's not allowed because I don't think the agent is applying for skilled workers visa for you.

It might not be a scam but that visa he wants to apply for you will get you nowhere. A visiting visa is like a vacation visa. Once you stay the one month, you will return back to Nigeria cuz you can't hide about.

Before any employer offer you a job, they usually demand for your visa status. Those entering Canada for a visit purpose are not allowed to work. They are very serious about it.

So be wise.
Culture › Re: The Ema Dance Of The Urhobo People (photos) by Mcslize: 9:22pm On Jul 13, 2020
Romance › Re: Is Will Smith The Greatest Simp Of All Time (photos) by Mcslize: 11:16am On Jul 13, 2020
Nuel4:
a man who accepts an infidel as a wife is an aberration of natural and biological principles. No male is supposed to condole an unfaithful partner because it put him in a strong position to "father" a bastard who is not related to him
If you ask me, going the the baby mama way will be better in that type of society where everything favors women. So when she starts cheating, the man can conveniently move on without looking back. No assets will be shared.
Romance › Re: Is Will Smith The Greatest Simp Of All Time (photos) by Mcslize: 11:11am On Jul 13, 2020
eni4real:
He should man up and divorce her!!
That woman will give her a heart attack and his wealth will not count after he is gone!
Is there a way he can divorce her without them sharing his wealth?
Romance › Re: Is Will Smith The Greatest Simp Of All Time (photos) by Mcslize:
solmus:
You see this case, Will Smith just showed the whole world how smart he is... When you are tired of a bitch and don't want to loose your hard earned money to a divorce, you let the bitch use her own mouth to set herself up... Everyone may call you a fool now but should a divorce case pop up your money is intact, no alimony , no asset division
Is that how it works? Is property sharing based on who brought up a divorce? I doubt. Once a divorce occurs they must share properties irrespective of whether he agreed or not.
Romance › Re: How Long Have Been Using Your Current Sim Card by Mcslize: 12:26am On Jul 13, 2020
blazingblender:
I was discussing with a friend of mine and he popped up the question and even went ahead to tell me how his dad has been using his sim for over 20yrs ... so now how long have you been using your sim card?..,...? mine should be up to 3 yrs
11yrs (2009-2020)
Business › Re: Making Regular Income Publishing Amazon Kindle Ebooks by Mcslize: 11:42am On Jul 11, 2020
ambitiouschap17:
Is there a way to know the total page a book will be on Kindle, I have a 120 pages on word but it's showing 80 on Amazon?
You've not made above $20?

Pls try and do keywords research before writing. Don't just write. First hunt for profitable keywords.

If you write blindly, your books won't sell. Doing keywords research before writing helps you find profitable keywords that can bring in $15 to $20 daily at least for starters. Mutliply that by 30 days, that's something.
Romance › Re: The Issue Am Having With Ladies That Is Getting Me Depressed. by Mcslize: 9:19am On Jul 11, 2020
Preshieben:
see advice
Stupidity at it's peak
Not after following sugar Daddies about you will come here to dispute what usually works on you ladies.

That's why the worst set of persons a guy will accept advice from are ladies.

Tell me the way the Op acts towards ladies was how all the guys you've bleeped acted that made you opened your legs for them.

Do I expect a lady like you to see that advice as one of the best advice he has received? Young lady, do know we are not wired the same way. These are the stuffs that work on you ladies and you know it. You know majority of guys do expose what works on you ladies.

We create awareness so no guy will be a simp that you will milk of their hard earned money with that greedy feeling of entitlement most of you ladies possessed.

We will continue to expose the things that work on ladies so all guys can be liberated from the bondage of women.

It shocked you?
Romance › Re: The Issue Am Having With Ladies That Is Getting Me Depressed. by Mcslize: 10:17pm On Jul 10, 2020
nairaman66:
Try to be upfront as much as you can without hurting their feelings. Be blunt..

We just had the first round to test things. She’ll show up tomorrow on her terms.. don’t get sad to loose any lady alright?
Abeg which app is this?

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