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lifedynamics:
I don't see anything wrong with it... If you like call it "westernized cultutetor mentality"... See Ehn I'm a very simple guy who lacks this toxic African masculine pride (I have pride ooo and self esteem, but not a toxic one).That being said I would even prefer moving in with her so we'll have two houses. I would even prefer a richer wife cause all I see is more money and not less submission.
I don't want African submission(Slavery), I would've married a slave if that was the case... I need a partner and best friend.
Cause some of us will want to do man of the house, Iron Man... Sole provider and when you're tired and burned out you'll start pouring aggression on your wife and kids, all because you want to do superhero
Why would I want a broker wife, when we can use our money for a holiday or to buy stuff at a Gucci shop.
Don't let pride( toxic pride, cause pride is good)ruin your chance at a peaceful life. It all depends on your mentality and Sense of reasoning.

Same here.. I now I ve seen someone like me so I can come out. I ve also never been comfortable with the idea of total submission. It doesn't make sense. Why burn myself out just for ego?

Chikita66:
The pressure on ladies these days to marry is real both from parents, friends and the contemporary society at large, especially is you are up to 20+, even the married ladies segregate themselves from the single ladies and use marriage as an insult when insulting single ladies, why won't they be bothered about getting a life partner?



My own is that no matter what, I will never settle for the less and will still get married to my dream man.

Lol.. with that your profile picture, anything "less" coming towards you, must be an outright scum of the earth

Flowers95:
What If, what if. If we live our lives saying what if all the time we will never accomplish anything. Life itself is a risk, does that mean we shouldn’t make the best possible decisions that we can and be smart about it? What if the money I invested into my business doesn’t yeild any profit? Does that mean that I should not invest my money at all in any business? Please wake up and face reality sir.

Like I always say Old woman... its not by force to marry, like did anyone force you?? What exactly do you think you are gaining from the marriage thing, given your write up and inclinations?......If you really want to put yourself first, JUST REMAIN A SPINSTER. and sht the fck up. I just hate when people jump into marriage and still want to eat their cakes and have it.

phazotron:
You better go for counselling because you sound like someone whose suicide/ obituary we could be hearing of soon. Frustrated soul. This is Nigeria. Eryone has challenges. Don't let yours overwhelm you. As long as there's life, there's hope OK?

Call me a frustrated soul? I bet you ll bite your bitter tongue to say that if it was in real world. Such a fishbrain who can't take corrections. So eager to be Stup1d.

phazotron:
What is wrong with this fool? If you don't want to be disturbed or if you feel like my thread isn't worth replying then ignore it and move on to the next thread. Or am I the cause of your problems? Oga go and vent your frustrations on your parents or whoever is responsible and stay off the thread. Frustrated retard.

You are the real dumbass here who can't figure out how to handle cheap green signs from ladies. Making unnecessary threads about. Slowpoke

Guy, you sound too weak and immature to me. Why create problems where there are none? See the way you re sounding like the first person to have signals from a girl at work? Carrying it on your head like one official discussion. Pls lets hear word! If you can't deal with this, then just focus on your work and stop disturbing us.

YorubaAssasin:
This FOOL still dey parade his poverty mentality everywhere, abi?

The funny thing is I'm seeing all these vagabond Yoruba actors and actresses liking him... Sehy na by force to support anything $$$$ even if it involves blood? These stupid celebrities wannabe act so money hungry. Of course e dey dash dem some as well. Dang it.. they're too money-starved, I swear.

Its a Nigerian thing bro...

sotall:
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so says broke ass niggas

Funny thing is I probably got more than many of you all and I ve seen all this, but its still vanity at some level...... Too many of you nigerians are too saddled in poverty that any minute exposure to any spectre of wealth or affluence leaves you and your silly ass esteem fed to the dogs. You nigerians are just stupidly poor both apparently and in the core root of your mental state.

ItalianWine:
Do broke guys still have an erection?


Only the thought of an empty bank account should just wilt down any protuding urge

And broke biches deserve to be used and dumped cos all they can offer is just sex, which is as cheap at N700 in sone places.

Stup1d mumu, wuss ass of a boy, whats your business with her whatsapp status... What are men turning to nowadays? I guess your balls have been castrated to be thinking with your ass

PrimadonnaO:
No man I marry would even ask that of me as a matter of duty.

He can ask me to lend him an amount equivalent to my monthly salary. No problem with that. I'll do it joyfully because he'll repay it in 7 folds.

Does your husband have to repay you money spent on the household when you are married?

lebete3000:
And you think I jumped into conclusions in the heat of the moment? You want to tell me you haven't taken days to plan a decision only to edit it again? Or you'll say because you've planned it for decades you can't change it again, even if it's glaring it was a wrong decision? Or you think a decision that took years to make is guaranteed of being foolproof?

Guy, abeg don't mind the mad men quoting you rubbish. Its your life bro, yes, they will be mad, and thats the consequence you ll deal with for your changing decisions, but its fine, and don't let any noob here tell you you have to go ahead just to please anyone. You aren't pleasing anyone, you only made a decision which makes your sister not happy, nonetheless, you have to apologise to your sister, not cos of your decision, cos (as you thought out), its a good one, but because it was her trying to help you that made her feel bad.

Again bro, don't listen to the noobs here talking rubbish, sometimes you have to cancel well thought out plans at the last minute and you will keep doing it. Just have to grow nd accept and understand that there will be consequences.
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Cheers.

FroshJaynex:
Na garri u come chop for this life

Chei.. this one enter

tgal20:
Hi gud morning, pls I need your advise, I had sex with my boy friend altho he dint ejaculate inside me, I was still scared and I used postinol the next day. Like 2days later the same thing happened and I used postinol again. 4days later I started bleeding like my menstration, but the problem is I'm not expexting my period until 2weeks time. Pls is dis a normal side effect, im not experiencing any pain, its just heavy blood. Pls I need advice cos I've been using postinor in d past but just 1nce, I've never used it twice in a month.

Hi.. Can you share.. was it successful?

benky:
a friend of mine took postinor2 less dan 2hr of unprotected sex,ds was 2days after her cycle ended..after 2days of takin postinor2 started noticing whitish substance coming out of her,2days after dt blood like substance like her menses bt nt 2 heavy strted coming out..is it a sign dt d posinor2 had bin effective on her or is it early pregnancy symptoms?..i nid answers ASAP as its ongoing ryt nw ds is d 3rd day of her experiencing d blood like substance coming out of her..tnx.

These side effects are normal. Can you share what was the outcome. Did she eventually become pregnant?

sleek29:
i had sex with a girl on the 6th of this month, even though i withdrew i still made her take prostenor 2, 2 weeks after she still hasn't seen her period, could she be pregnant, or is the drug just delaying her menses? please help!!!

Was she eventually pregnant?

Maria100:
this is so childish of him.....it's not about the joke that he made out of it but the damage he caused by shaming the lady publicly....some of our so called celebs are not mature enough to handle things privately.......
Meanwhile...faecbook group/page for sale...1.430,510 Group Members, 26511 Page Likes....check my profile

Mumu... is her name there? See her yapping mouth like "public shaming".. "damage".. bullocks.. as if you know what you are saying.

olagbola55:
Most ladies of nowadays are just olosho,oloshi I just pity some men self who will fall for her trap...imagine dual citizenship,imagine above 300k,imagine good cook....gibberish rubbish

Lol.. theres no big deal in her requirements. Shez just average

Lol.. there is no big deal in her requirements, but I still dont find her attractive. Just an average girl, trying looking for an opportunity.

Alero3Arubi:
Let me be your Michelle, you can be my Obama.
But OP you are right though.
Then again there are 2 sides to a story.

Hi Michelle

kolawoleibukun:
Wizkid you no wealthy my dear. This is not the way to be wealthy. There is a difference between being rich and being wealthy. make una teach that pikin sense abeg. Entertainment industry na very useless one. shine today dust tomorrow. better invest your money wisely cos you are still young and have a long way to go. we never even talk of the schools fees of al these baby mama's and money for Hennesy for all those loyalists around you. if footballers can go broke, music does not have that kinda money yet wizzy.
you day try but e never reach to make mouth. You too small to day feel high. MC Hammer, Mike Tyson, Lauryn Hill, and 50 Cent self way make real money in dollars, dem broke. see Ja Rule dem are broke arsses today.
All these ticket way you day sell in Ugandan Shillings and CFA and Naira no qualify you as wealthy. In about 10 years you go wash another new kid go replace you. spend your cash wisely now that they are coming in and invest in what will give you return when your career is over.
Come down from that private jet now and live a life that can accomodate your future if not na problem oh.

So deep. felt like you were speaking to me

efesodje:
If this is true then that dude is the epitome of stupidity.

Just imagine posing with someone else's pregnancy just because you want to trend

Thats his sister inlaw, and he said "our" baby. Dont be taking too much panadol where there is no headache

Jamariwolff:
No guy on earth will taste my honey pot if I don't want him to fuckin taste it.

So all the signs up there are rubbish. Touch me, I butcher your hands.

Honey, abi you mean fish?

Lamzee:
The guy should have make an attempt to wash the clothes, then if the GF did not join him, that's when he should react

WHY Is it not his clothes? Is she his slave? what nonsense?

Liliyann:
Never ever assume the role of a wife when you are still dating. what is the assurance that he will marry you at the end of the day?
I never wash my cloth finish na another man cloth I go dey wash. Nonsense!!

Broke guys and their stupid mentality.

Even though you re right that she is not meant to wash the clothes, you didn't make any sense, correlating this with broke people. No sense atall!

midolian:
Washing a boifrnd's cloth does not prove you are hardworking and neither does it guarantee he will marry you eventually..

Personally, I dont support doing that..if you wash out of your own volition, fine! but if he insists on you doing so for him, dont.

Dont because of husband scarcity turn yourself into one guy's slave. If you were my daughter, .....(lemme stop here )

I concur. what rubbish. That guy must be mad and the girl must be madder if she washes that cloth. Is she a slave?

AnonyNymous:
Exactly what I wanted to say!!! But tbh this song is pretty crappy. It sounds like something a university boy would sing and be disturbing you with BC's on WhatsApp to like and share. Not like something a pro who has experience should release.

Hahahhahahahhahahahha... this is just epic