₦airaland Forum

Vinsmuft:
Culture Shocks.

You get to see things like this at work. They expect you to respect yourself and pay for anything you pick up. I see this and shake my head cos I know it's not possible back in naija.

Hahahahahaha

Got my visa. Thanks

babtaima:
I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)).

and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm.

Mine also did the same recently... but after that followed a confession of how she slept with my friend.

claremont:
Seriously, you all need to wake up because it seems most of you haven't. The rest of the modern world has woken up ages ago.

The days of the man being the 'hunter-gatherer' and the woman being the 'breeder' have long gone. It's no longer customary in the modern world for the man to be the workaholic whilst all the woman does is to open her legs to him at night. They both have to contribute, not equally, but comparatively based on their income. As for the mundane chores the OP highlighted in her post, all those chores are automated in the modern world anyway. It seems you are looking at this issue from a Nigerian perspective of using hand labour to perform those chores, it's not done that way in developed countries, and who does them isn't gender-specific either. I don't think a man requires a woman to put on a washing machine or a rice cooker or a deep-fryer or a dish washer or order a home delivery of groceries etc.

So, using chores as an excuse not to make a comparative contribution IS a moot point. Try again.

Most intelligent response. A lot has changed in the modern world. Now you just tuck your clothes into the machine, and its saving you time. A lot of manual tasks in naija are now automated. What does the woman do then?

obaataaokpaewu:
She's guilty. My girlfriend usually tells me this till the day I learnt that she had a boyfriend in school and also got pregnant for a married man which she aborted. She's just having this guilty conscience knowing that deep down, she will loose you once you get to know of her ways

From personal experience, this is so on point. OP.. don't disregard this advice

Marcelo290:
I was chatting with my Gf and was shocked when she told me those words, I started feeling guilty and emotional cos of the fact I've not been loyal to her, I've not also been giving her the attention she deserves...

Oblivious of the fact that gurls can be funny and not be trusted, I stopped holding them in high esteem and have learnt not to give any my whole heart, she noticed it, and for her to say she is afraid of losing me made me have a rethink of my stance with women. I had allowed what people say and also some scenario to becloud my sense of judgement and therefore hurting innocent hearts. Despite the fact that she doesn't demand anything from me cos she knows I'm not buoyant enough, she still loves me.

To the guys, not all girls are hoes and gold diggers like we often generalize.

Cc: Lalasticlala

This guy you never ja atalllll... Haba... Draw your ear very well and listen. She thinking that way keeps her loyal and in check. Use your head to keep flowing through... never show too much, unless you are sure it won't back fire. What she is doing is reverse psychology where she feels helpless. Don't go down to that level, otherwise you ll see the true nature of her. Its human nature. Be wisebro. My girlfriend even says way more than that and cries on the phone. But you must be wise

Rokia2:
What I want to know is that will I be dating money or the person?

Mtcheew.. You will be dating the person with money

Nice... i just sent this to my girlfriend

Gbadegesin19:
What have you gone outta your way to do for boo/bae all because of love?..

I've done a few...

1. Gave her my 20k meant for something important so she could go on with her project.
2. Stayed out till 1 a.m just to hang out with her.

Single AF


Share yours....


lalasticlala,Mynd44

No 2 is a normal thing

I travelled to Australia

tessygirl:
Believe is the language of lazy people.
Don't call me insensitive, I passed through worse!!

Ohh.. what an idiot

Emperor119:
lol...post ur picture outside Nigeria then...

For what reason bruh?

FvckShiT:
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This guy tho

milo9:
I don't think so cos they're planning meet when the guy gets back

Lol.. you sure your gf isnt the one sending me nudes?

jayooh. you can use a reference or your offer letter. No extensive evidence is required

Oya na.. subscribing

Congrats to all who recently received their grants. Best wishes

@ jayooh
You don't need extensive documentation when you are not claiming work experience. Most times, offer letters in company letter head format does just fine

Phlunter01:
Please all,

I have some clarifications I need as i am preparing to lodge my visa application;

1. My name on my birth certificate shows only my surname and 1 given name e.g Jackson, Rose while my name on all other documents includes a second given name e.g Jackson, Rose Daisy. is it ok or do I need to do any kind of explanation

2. My husband (secondary applicant) has his surname and 3 given names on his birth certificate e.g Paul John Ralph Reed while on all his other documents, one of the given names which appears first on the birth certificate has been excluded e.g Paul, Ralph Reed. is it ok or do I need to do any kind of explanation

3. My baby is only 8 months old and is not due for the yellow fever vaccine so we did not get a yellow card for her from port health, however she has her national immunization records card issued by the public health centre which we used during medicals. i hope this is okay for her own immunisation evidence.

4. My PTE report had been sent to DIBP from Pearson directly a while ago, do i need to go back and resent it when lodging my application?

Your kind suggestions/advice will be appreciated.

Thank you

For Qs 1 and 2:, You ll mention it in form 80 and form 1221. Naming discrepancies are explained there. There is no problem with it
Q4: You still have to manually uppload your English test results during your visa application
I m not sure about infant immunization.
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Cheers

funkyjo:
@ Mamajaz
Lol..mama na you sure pass o lol. I greet you o my sis and I commend you for all your good deeds on this forum and off sef.

@ All
I greet you all my e-fam. Congrats to all those that received grants and ITAs. Soo happy with the good news. Had to do a lot of catching up and I see good news everywhere. More to come by God's grace.

Congrats to you gan join too...Heard of it... Blessings fall on us all.

PrecisionFx:
You would need an international drivers license to drive in any country on earth, but to convince Nigerian police on that na ur personal wahala.
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Not true, not true. International license is not accepted in Australia.

TechAddiction:
Wenever u intend to travel to any country of ur choice, and u wish to drive around d country.. you can obtain d international license here in nigeria before leaving for d country.. it's always 1yr validity before it expires, buh it can be renewed..

It depends on the "abroad" country. I still use my Nigerian license to drive here in Australia, though we are given some months to change to their national licence. International license is not accepted. Students and visitors here can use their nigerian licences throughout the duration of their stay

Kondomatic:
There are so many irresponsible guys on here so we deserve all the insults. How do you expect ladies on here to respect you when she receives over 40PMs from guys each time she changes her dp. A picture that may not even be her own.

How do you know,? na you dey control her account?

Jodha

Oyindidi:
Lol, they shouldn't o, erection is for the rich

Fish brain

Ajewealth123:
you know over there, you can return your 7 , add money and collect an 8.
Na we for naija dey suffer am pass o my broda,

Suffering Redefined...Do you really need an iPhone8?

Damn, this is pure exploitation. Who gives him right to dish penalties for people's mistakes. He is an idiot who just let his primitive hungry head take over

tiredoflife:
Rather I am trying to use u all to help me talk myself out of it ...look u don't know d shame I feel

Bro, one thing i m sure of is that you are compiling to your problems. Stop envying married people, start small and learn contentment

coolcatty:
You are still alive Oga.... Lol

See ehen... If what you came here to do is elicit sympathy from faceless people then you have failed woefully.... You have to realize that nobody truly cares.... You have to get up and help yourself... Not about coming online to rue about your misfortune... Everyone has a story... A bad one at that.... I always tell people, if I can survive what I survived in 2010..then there is absolutely nothing no one will not survive.


Go and help yourself... Pray often too... Stop looking for sympathy here... No one truly cares guy.

Abeg what did you survive in 2010?