Iefosa:
It's not everything you say, should have kept this to her self.

She is not stupid. She definitely has the fear of the possibility of him finding out later on. She is not as sincere as you think

MrBrownJay1:


a man doing what he pleases with his money is bad?! its a bad character?! says who?! your parents did what they did because thats their DUTY.... it certainly aint your "duty" to help any and every deluded friend you have that may fall on hard times. what next?! they cant pay their rent EVERY MONTH, so you should pay it for them EVERY MONTH?!?!?

the sad fact here is that you automatically view the money spent on a gf as wasted, while many spend such money on their gf. who in turn becomes their wife and mother of their children...aka spend on your future family. sadly, you only have a one sided view on this issue because you put yourself in the shoes of the begging person, and not in the shoes of a man who CARES/PROTECTS and is RESPONSIBLE for his future family.

Bro, many times,
guys waste money on girls they eventually do not marry, due to one reason or the other. Also, don't call friends deluded, cos typically, friends and family are the ones we ll turn to and who will have our backs when the tidings get rough. I understand you, but two sides to it bro...

shachris02:


Shattap f00l. Didn't he consider that she should be giving it out for free before trying to bribe her with the phone?

You used the phone to gain favours from her. And now you've gotten it, you want to take it back and bounce? F00lish boy.

Like I said, you need to stuff up some fufu in that your empty head. I m done with you

tofolo:
Why is nobody posting the main part? Jollof rice?

How does it relate. no be by force to be funny

emerazz:
Oga calm down.. d money used feed em wasn't deducted from ur salary...

Iffa tell u d smile Dis food u abused li Dis has put in some of Dis pupils face u wonbelivit...

beta Dan none.. nobody was forced tu collect

abeg Lev children chop indomie jhor...

You are a big f00l

MrBrownJay1:
every man has the RIGHT to decide what are his priorities in life, and what is to be done with HIS money. if some prefer to spend on their babes, so be it.... and if others prefer to spend on their family, so be it!
the minute some stranger "thinks" that every man should spend on one over the other, because thats what YOU prefer, is the moment you would have failed in this issue.

at the end of the day, its THEIR money, THEIR life, THEIR choices!

Mr man...... this is bad. i m also guilty of this, but you can't always justify everything. Call a spade a spade. Its a bad character. No one is saying you shouldn't spend on your girlfriend, but in all honesty, our parents have done more than enough for us, than that girlfriend will or has done. Infact, worst case is when you break up for a typically stupid reason, is is not inhuman and foolosh to now remember that you had a family or friend in more need of a small portion of the money you ve wasted fruitlessly on a girl? Call a spade a spade, sorry despite your efforts, you didn't make any sincere point

Tyrabarbara:
i know some guys already have naughty thoughts. pvssy niggers.

Idi0t, your smelly one ba!

LesbianBoy:
Sometimes one sees a relationship and one begins to wonder...what was the attraction? What did he say to the girl? How manage?

Kai.. go and sit down before jealousy will drown you

hahah... mumuness too much

amunkita:
OP, do u think we re foolz
Do u even have the slightest idea that my neighbor deflowered me story don cast tey tey...

I pity the man sha cous wen that alum u used wears off, u would be as wide as d Atlantic ocean.

Haha... that story has been on since I was in primary school

Ejomax77:
Seriously I don't know why ladies lie bout their "virginity status"

When some have nothing else to offer than the kpekus, they have to lie to sell their market wella

1StopRudeness:


Took advantage, of a fifteen year old?? ..I have a 16yearold yahoo boy codedly driving around his infinity fx35 at the next street.

A minor with full grown tits and back side will kill, steal, commit arson, and other hard crimes and will be allowed to go on trial even possibly punished..why don't they say they are to young, they don't know what they are doing
.but when it's sexx, just to off pant and do the thing...someone will start blaming the adult for rape saying he or she took advantage...I understand what statutory rape is but some countries don't care about such shitss anymore..cos they know these so called minors are the ones calling for it...
95percent of the time it isn't rape....dats why I was asking the OP cos it seems like she was trying to paint a picture that the sexx she had wasn't her consent cos she was young...


some state in united state have reduced statutory rape age from 17yrs 11months to almost 15yrs since in those state 15-16yrs are allowed to drive.

OP is LYING if she says the sex wasn't with her concent. A BIG LIE

shachris02:
kids everywhere. Hope you've returned her kpomo that you've blown to the size of lagos lagoon?

Idi0t, how did he collect her thing? Did she do him any favours? An intercourse with two people, where she maybe even enjoyed it more. Abeg use your brain, even if its empty, stuff it up with eba.

The thing is one won't be angry with the lie of not being a virgin. The problem is the common stupid lie of saying you were unknowingly disvirgirned at 15 by a neighbour, which almost every girl gives nowadays. Total crap

NevetsIbot:


Last last... You go still look back at this post and say "I mumu when I dey type this thing sha"


Na jus one girl go bend your knee. For every player out there.. There that one girls who'll make him wanna die for her.... I met mine... Lol. Took me a while to get over her.

so true

Akachukwu123:
I assessed as an engineering technologist with EA but I have found out that I require 70points(I can claim 55points now) and above to get an ITA from skillselect. I started looking for a plan B since I spoke with an agent few days ago.
He advised I should assess with another occupation using another assessing body so as to be able to get an ITA for 489.
Guys, I need to know if its there's another occupation I can assess with an I have 5 years work experience in a chemical industry with a B.Eng in Chemical engineering from Futo(2012)

Thanks brothers

Can you repackage and reassess with Chemical engineering, as thats much feasible than engineering technologist in your situation

NoFavors:
I'm aware

But who are you to dictate my bed time?

Ogbeni goand sleep

NoFavors:
I won't be there and I mean it

No one will notice. Go to bed

thebosstrevor:


This type of Nigerian just like getting free things they dont pay for or work for but complain that nigeria is bad when they dont even support the country they moved to

Medicare Levy in australia is a flat 2% tax on your net income if it exceeds $21,655, plus a surcharge of up to 1.5% if your income is over $90k

it is calculated by the salary you collect

if you pay nothing on medicare in Australia it means you are a foreign resident that dont have dependent, dont work and poor)

or you meet certain medical requirements.

Many Nigerians lie to get many things abroad,passport and document falsification,name and age fraud,some will claim oppression because they are gay when they are not,some will claim boko haram problems when they dont even live in the north etc,if they properly check their documents well and properly investigate,most will be deported.

You are just not making sense. What does liking free things have to do with me? Did I set the laws? You are just running around circles. Or are you saying 2% income for good healthcare is not worth it?

thebosstrevor:


sure,they are preventable but is the treatment in US/Australia free,it is either your insurance coverage covers it or you pay from your mouth,if you dont have insurance and no money,you die like any other persons.

Dont say what you don't know... In Australia we oay just 0.2% of our income on Medicare and believe me, its worth a thousand. Ask people herw who saw their wives give birth with the best medical facilities without paying a dime

Op ks quite wrong and funny at the same time. How does one on 80k want to rent 2bedroom? Averagely, people spend 1k on transport and lunch at wotk daily., thats about 30k monthly, then call bills, data, clothes, food, electricity, generator, gas, if you have a car, maintainance and fuel, little miscellaneous here and there.. its still funny how one wants to rent a decent 2bedroom after that

Somebody say robotix !!!!!... yeah yeah✌ love this thread. Websurfer, you need to pay robotix for the high level advice he is giving here. Robotix.. how much is the bill?

WebSurfer:


..

Not that shes just finding out that now

Since everyone decided to be childish, i did something i would never do before (collected back my iphone 7 plus) cos i felt used

Lol .... Epic

WebSurfer:

I'm tired bro.. really tired of trying one after the other only to find out i keep wasting my time and resources

Hey bro... read the advise from robotix. i guess its whats needed. Sometimes after looking at the wasted time and resources, you tell yourself to fck it and face your career full time.. its hard, man, but its neccessary. Sent you a pm btw

Lol.. Go to Oshodi, join those igbo boys selling and repairing electronics

Alcatraz005:


Na so money dey your hand reach?

Lol.. its not about that.. i m simply saying that if given an extra billion today, the last thing I ll think of is still marrying

iamJ:
ok let me preach the gospel according to jude


Forget all the plenty talk that guys talk


The only reason why most youths are not married is money, if you share 1mill round nigeria today, 70% of the youths will be married by december

After making money the next thing on a mans mind is to settle down, its like clockwork

Unless he is senseless then he thinks abt other things

God is there but even you that is calling God u want him to give your man success because u know once he is successful, marriage will come


Hope i made sense? Bless you

Lol.. different for different people. i broke up with my babe recently because she was pushing it far in the relationship, definitely not cos of money, so I ve resolved to being single and free with no commitment. I have big goals, feel women are a kinda distraction for now. Don't know how marriage is sweeting people tho, its women I think like the idea more

Collins4u1:
@mctowel01
what kinda visa did you arrived aussie with?
student or what, abeg ansa me o pls.

PR visa

Vinsmuft:
Culture Shocks.

You get to see things like this at work. They expect you to respect yourself and pay for anything you pick up. I see this and shake my head cos I know it's not possible back in naija.

Hahahahahaha

Got my visa. Thanks

babtaima:
I didn't ask for her Facebook password.. we just started dating.. I'm not insecure but I've heard many things about her before we started dating (that she has a lot of orbiters (guys hitting on her 247)).

and saw her flirt messages with her Ex, nothing out of the norm.

Mine also did the same recently... but after that followed a confession of how she slept with my friend.

claremont:
Seriously, you all need to wake up because it seems most of you haven't. The rest of the modern world has woken up ages ago.

The days of the man being the 'hunter-gatherer' and the woman being the 'breeder' have long gone. It's no longer customary in the modern world for the man to be the workaholic whilst all the woman does is to open her legs to him at night. They both have to contribute, not equally, but comparatively based on their income. As for the mundane chores the OP highlighted in her post, all those chores are automated in the modern world anyway. It seems you are looking at this issue from a Nigerian perspective of using hand labour to perform those chores, it's not done that way in developed countries, and who does them isn't gender-specific either. I don't think a man requires a woman to put on a washing machine or a rice cooker or a deep-fryer or a dish washer or order a home delivery of groceries etc.

So, using chores as an excuse not to make a comparative contribution IS a moot point. Try again.

Most intelligent response. A lot has changed in the modern world. Now you just tuck your clothes into the machine, and its saving you time. A lot of manual tasks in naija are now automated. What does the woman do then?