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Zimri:
It is not easy it is not easy. It can never be easy in this country. Na true talk. Else you will end up building your matrimonial home in your father's house

Don't stay at home after service. Go and start your life whether rugged or not.

You earn more respect for yourself by not staying at home.

As crazy as it sounds, its very true. Sometimes, people are so stuck in the comfort, that they can't develop themselves

Ay04z:
Am age 24 but already huzzling, working smart like a 35 years old Guy. To be a man no be moi moi. E no easy. i swear. But. Before age 27. i want to be selfmade ..

Lol.. to be a man is not a days job

TINALETC3:
it's very obvious dat sleeping around is nt her destiny, she shud go face her books

Hahahahahaha... lwkmd

davidif:
Can someone please explain all these "broke this, broke that" nonsense that some nigerians like saying. Its really amusing and absurd at the same time. Its as if so called "broke" people are a different species or something. Watching some Nigerians calling their fellow Nigerians broke is like a beggar looking down on another beggar because he got the biggest crumbs today. In case most Nigerians didn't know, Nigeria is ranked as one of the poorest nations in the world with over 60% of the population live on less than $ 2.00 dollars a day yet you would see Nigerians bragging and looking down on other Nigerians who are less fortunate than they are and call them "broke" when they themselves are either just as "broke" or just marginally well off. It's like someone making 4 dollars a day looking down on someone making 2 dollars a day. It's so ridiculous it's not even funny. Talk about ignorance, vanity, elitism and snobbery mixed up together.


In developed countries like the US you hardly hear the white folks make fun of people because of their socio economic status but its amongst the blacks that the mentality is prevalent. Not to talk of Nigeria, one of the poorest nations in the world where the majority is wallowing in poverty another person would come and be looking down on his fellow man in the struggle and calling them broke just because he managed to get in line ahead of his colleagues this time to get crumbs that fall from the table. Animal kingdom mentality at its worst. Humble yourself before circumstances humble you.

On another note, with all this fascination about "broke guys" why don't we hear topics about broke girls? Why must it be the guy that people refer to as broke? I hardly come on here and hear anything about broke females, it's always the guy. As if the economic situation in this country is different for men and women. Are they not all in the same boat?

Thumbs up bro. You just said my mind, like someone educated. Living abroad has opened my eyes clearly to the deep poverty mentality that is prevailing in Nigeria. Brokeass calling others broke. Thats how one girl was telling me she can't marry someone earning less than 120k, meanwhile, she is earning just 23k

moonraker:
The bolded. I am curious. is it in a married setting or a relationship??

But check this out for size, the woman you described in your statement, where was she when that made man was hustling under the sun and

rain to become what he is?? Do you know what that made man had to go through before he became made??

The way Nigerian women think these days

In harrysong's voice..."Baby girl you no wan hear my story, you just wan enjoy the glory"
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partnerus:
You've made my day with your write-up. This got me laughing. Yes I know what it feels like cause I'm a living witness too. I got dumped by a girl I spent my last kobo for during NYSC era and after that, she parted ways with me and settled with another man. According to her, she loves me and still does till now but for the fact that I wasn't financially stable with an uncertain future prompted her bid me goodbye. I wept and cried for several weeks as I remained indoors cause I loved her so much. Then spontaneously, I embraced reality and made several photocopies of my CV and went job hunting. Today I work and do some other hustling to make ends meet. I am not saying I am there yet ooo... but I have learnt that every woman needs an OK guy for a husband if you know what I mean. Now, I don't approach a lady again. That has been postponed till things stabilises. Thanks for your write-up. It was just a reminder of my resolution.

Even if what you re saying is reasonable, you don't have to be a pussy ass niggar in explaining it. Irrespective of your bank balance, get your esteem high.

I stopped anf laffed at "To hail is human"

Lol... the funny thing is that after posting up the picture for public envy, I neither admire nor envy him.

Amarabae:
being Rich has many levels.
Many ladies are not looking for a Dangote kind of guy but a Hardworking Financially Stable Guy.
and I see nothing wrong in that.
He may not have his own house, atleast let him afford a 3-bedroom flat.
He may not have a murano or quest, atleast let him afford a camry even if it is old model.
Women want to be comfortable. Simple

Do you know how much is a 3bedroom flat? Hle much should he be earning to afford it.
I keep saying that poverty has washed up people's brains. Looking realistically, to afford a 3bedroom flat in a decent location in Lagos, one should be earning around 500k and above monthly. Thats basically the upper middle class. Whats the percentage of the upper middle class compared to the lower class? Meanwhile, all girls are looking for 3bedroom apartment. Even one bimbo that manages to buy N200 top, with dirty wigs and pose in ICM is insulting broke boys. Get a life y'all. The economic situation will determine the financial capacity of men you will meet often. Thats the truth.

JewelStone:
Calm down bro, you just got here and you ain't seen nothing yet. Have you never heard of how white Australians treated and are still treating the Indigenous Aboriginals? If you want to know how racist Australians are, try applying to a white collar job if your name sounds African, Indian, Aboriginal, Muslim etc

@Topic
Systemic bias is real and it's sadly not going away soon. I don't experience it much because I don't pay attention to it. For instance, my non-white colleagues always complain to me that my team leader is racist and he's biased towards the white staff members. This is probably true to their experience but I don't pay attention to it because my team leader hasn't treated me unfairly, and if I have any concerns, I bring it to his attention objectively without directly or indirectly accusing him of bias or racism. Maybe I'm guilty of enabling systemic bias, but I'd rather focus on my job than look for bigotry.

But then again, what most of us refer to as racism could just be preference. People prefer to interact with people they can understand, who share the same experiences as them. We are all guilty of this

Your opinion tho. I won't say that there is 100% no racism here. I see it happen amongst people quarrelling in trains and public places. I ve never experienced it, infact, I will still say I do not think the general population is racist. Obviously, there could be few idiots out there, but its not something to make me wail about. I ve been made a temporary team leader for a task where I work, despite "white" people being there before me, not cos of my skin color, but because I was able to convince the manager. I m not saying its 100% no racism, but at times, you see what you want to see. I feel its overhyped at times. Sometimes, I believe its not bias, people naturally just connect more with people they can more easily relate with. I stay in an asian community and I find their whole lifestyle difficult. And yes, they are not generally as friendly as the white australians, I can't really connect with them socially and culturally and it doesn't make me racist. It doesn't mean they will belittle you for having another skin color as its more comon in Europe. I know a Nigerian who was considered as the only person for his job, and promoted one level up, just after looking at his resume and interview. His name is also Nigerian.
And even if you ve stayed 10years here, our opinions and experiences can not be the same.

Rooneyboy:
bro , please can you put me through the process ?

i don't mind parting with some cash as charge for your assistance.

i work for the fred govt (NIGERIA) and i've suddenly realized that

i have been running round circles for the past 4/5 years , hence

my desire to migrate to Australia.

i would really appreciate if you put me through the steps on this PR

migration stuff.

i'm already trying to process my transcript from my school and trying

to get all necessary documents from my current place of work.

i.e employment letter , tax etc.

i look forward to hearing from u .

like i said n I'M READY TO PART WITH SOME CASH IF YOU PUT ME

THROUGH to the end.

my contact number is on my signature (WHATSAPP)

Bro I won't want to really go into explaining this stuff as its quite elaborate and procedures depend on individual circumstances. However, I can show you the way, where to get all information from
https://www.nairaland.com/3053069/general-guide-australian-permanent-resident

. Take your time to first read through the first two pages and ask questions

vikmeek:
Good Day Guyz.

Pls I have got some questuons

Pls someone should drop some Universities in Australia that Have an English Test Waiver for Nigerian Universities.

Secondly, How long does it take approximately to get admission offer from Unis。I intend to apply for Winter school entry starting January, 2018

Thirdly Btween MSc Research and M.Eng Course Based, which one is advisable.

N/B: I have Elect/Elect degree from a Naija University, 4.06 CGPA, 4.14 last two yrs, 1+ yr work experience in telecoms.

Thank you as I wait for concise response, God Bless you all

Go and apply for PR young man

lusen:
Before i came to Australia to commence my studies, I always ask if I will be able to pay the second year tuition through savings and intensive work as i could only afford the first year fees (no thanks to our falling naira). I always wonder why nobody gave me a straightforward answer until I came here and got to know I was only asking a jamb question. Truly, its a difficult question to answer as what worked for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B.

Yes, you can get a Job to feed yourself and pay for accommodation. It's really gonna be hard if you wanna pay school fees yourself. Its actually very possible if you are the 'hustling' type. There are people doing it. But definately, you mustn't be lazy, unnecessarily choosy nor Lilly livered. You must be strong. Very strong.. Generally, i will say, if you can afford only one year tuition, take the risk. You never know what God will do.

Note that about 70% of jobs here will require you to have a car. Bring your driving licence and plan to buy a car as soon as you land. Bring lots of money to settle down(as much as possible).
By my observation so far, Aged care/disability jobs is the best for international students. But most times, one must be certified before he/She can be employed in an aged care facility, meaning you should also try as much as possible to start the course after settling down.

Yes. truly, one should enable to find schools around the cities where there are greater job opportunities. I av peeps in the cities that are changing jobs like diapers. work full everywhere.
Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and the likes.

I'm not in any of the cities I listed above. I'm in Geelong. (one hour from Melbourne). But its okay by me because apart from the low cost of living, I will grab my extra 5points when I finish my studies and start processing my PR. geelong is considered a regional area and no 5 extra points for those in big cities.

If your plan is to stay back after your studies. You must make sure you are coming to do a two-year program minimum. Also the course you are coming to study must not only be on the SOL/CSOL list, It also should be a course you think will 'stand the test of time' on the list, so you won't wake up one day and discover your course is nowhere to be found on the list.

Australia is a very beautiful place. A multicultural society. The people are very friendly. They keep smiling at you like you just won 30billion.

hope I've not written too much epistle.. Okay let me drop my pen. cheers!

This is so true. I got here recently and on the first Sunday in church, some white guys won't let me go. Just talking talking. trying to make friends. They even invited me for a dinner, which I didn't attend due to my schedule. Why I love Australia is simple.... There is hardly any racial discrimination atall. Even the whites know they are all or mostly immigrants. The real natives are the aborigines. There are even many asians here also. Its really multicultural. Irrespective of work, my brother people have their respect. There is no unnecessary worshipping of a boss or authority. Tho I ll still mention that paying fees while studying is difficult. Besides all, there is a functional system. If its your first time out of Nigeria, you will have to adapt to the too much orderliness here

This is why I love Australia and I believe its one of, if not the best country for a Nigerian to migrate to. Almost everybody, white included is an immigrant. The original natives are aborigines so everyone is respected and has equal rights. The only thing is your visa status should be permanent resident or a citizen, then you will have the opportunities you want

princetom1:
Yea, i don't have 4k usd and am busy spending the little i have improving myself

ok

0079jaBond:
Trust me, I had a hard time before revealing my deep feelings to her. Guess how she felt when I eventually opened up? Surprised and full of smiles and she was short of words. I even had to encourage her not to be shy and all that stuff cos me sef was even shy somehow but I didn't make it known... Lol.

But in summary, I catch the wisdom in ur point. Thanks bro

Bro... you ve got to man up. I always tell guys to completely define the basis if their friendships with girls. Being just friends with a girl is just abnormal. There should be a basis, like wotk, school.. family, etc. There is a saying that .. no one keeps a chicken for a pet.. one day, one day, he will surely eat it..

Bro, just ignore her and focus on your life. Put yourself first man. If she ignores you, see it as her loss

cooldood:
Op, same way some people leave the villages in 9ja, to find a better source of livelihood in Lagos and some make it, while some don't (depends on a couple of factors, if you are a hardworking n smart guy, chances are your life will be better than staying in the villages/ towns, as there are more opportunities in Lagos). Same way, people see travelling to much better countries to find a better source of income, there's nothing bad in that. Let no one deceive you, ask yourself a simple question: are you hardworking n smart? If yes, oga, take your chances. Developed countries are designed for hard-workers to live a good life.

Same way cost of living in Lagos is higher than cost of living in villages/ towns (especially cost of accommodation), expect a much higher cost of living in advanced countries, however, just as what you earn/ make in Lagos within a year or two (working hard) can build you a duplex in the village if you save well, what you will earn out there in those great nations (working hard also) in 1 year, will buy you a good home in Lagos.

The question for all to answer is simple: does anywhere in the world guarantee future success- my answer is NO, but, does more developed and serene societies provide better opportunities and chances to succeed in future? I bet you, the answer is capital YES. Try your luck out there and see where you'd be within 3 years doing legal stuffs. #myonecent

Too much wisdom fell on you. These things you said are actually common senae analysis that evades many Nigerians. Migration is part of human nature, regardless of the argument here.

princetom1:
4k usd? Smh, how many people has 4k usd? Some people will turn that 4k u wasted into billions in few year in this Nigeria. There is nothing special in having another country green card

Lol... where is your own billions? Or you don't even have up to 4kusd?

fbtowner:
Lol. U see your self. On the platter of gold. How many times does this opportunity shows itself.


Lol. Sit and keep waiting for this opportunity

Ppl are spending their life saving to get visa when they are suppose to do something meaningful here. Ofcause only that they dont see amything meaningful in here.

I wonder whose thinking is flawed.

Lol... life savings?? ... Lack of information is the problem. I spent less than 4kusd to become a permanent resident in Australia. Its all about opportunity man.

fbtowner:
Forget it bro. Do they pick money on the floor there?


Or they serve free meal.


U this bini ppl self

Dont be ridiculous,..Nothing is free, even in freetown.. Dubai is a great place to visit... much more developed than Nigeria, calling it a hype is stupid.

fbtowner:
Lol. Bros No vex for me abeg. U kukun know from the bottom of your heart that im saying the truth

Besides the OP needs advice more than i do. Cause i have made up my mind already.


One thing i have learn in life is that Decisions have consequences either good or bad. And as a man u have to make ur decisions and face the damn consequences


Op will not be able to blame us if he finally travels and become a messanger in another mans land. Lol



Just playing around anyways. Im planning to visit the Dubai too. Late this year. To just see what the hype is all about.


Bros i greet u. Head full thinking dey.

Owehnor. Hope say i i spell am well.

I like bini ppl for the moral wey dem get shaa. My best friend na bini man

Did you just call Dubai hype? Strange coming from someone who lives in Nigeria

Most well to do guys end up with their long-term girlfriends. i don't have one

selflessmaya:
??

Its a simple question

selflessmaya:
did she say anything bad? what kind of life can one have with that amount? some girls can settle for that and no one is gonna kill them for doing so, it's personal choice.. 100k is too small, that's $250 for god's sake, i too cant be with a man earning that low. no insult to anyone, i simply refuse to do that, he can't give me the life i want and he can never really make me happy so what's the point? i'm not looking for dangote but i must be attracted to the guy i end up with in more ways than one, he has to be good-looking by my standards, we have to share same views and values, we have to be sexually compatible and finances must be very satisfactory by my standards, to each their own.

What's your standard woman?

Just to update the group. i ve finally moved to Sydney, Australia. I was picked by Iceberg and Jamson themselves. Very cool guys. Currently staying with Jamson and his Mrs, a very homely couple.... Its been just two days, i slept for most of the first day, got a new sim and I m slowly adapting as it goes. Its a new culture and a lot to learn here. Weather is quite cold but easy to get by with sweaters and jackets. Will proceed with TFN, medicare, jobs and bank registrations within the week. Cheers all.

Cottyekundayo:
Your assessor should state the documents you need to respond to

@Nwobosi
From what you stated, I don't think there is any requested document. It looks like the assessor is only notifying you of the potential assessment outcome, based on his application. What was your nominated occupation? Check the assessor's reply for any other added information.

teewhysafe:
Halleluyah oh!!!
PTE finally let us go. .

Congrats.. you ve really gone through lot.. . what is the occupation?

..

Being calm, even in the face of problems.

@Bellong, we re wishing your brother quick recovery

Papiikush:
He never signed your divorce papers but went ahead to marry Tonto?

Wait, I am confused...what is the essence of the divorce right now? Bìtch just wanna be famous

Keep quiet. In the eyes of the law, she is still married to Churchill. Every form, registration and official documents and applications must indicate this. Only a divorce can completely separate both of them