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Imbali:
Are you sure she is angry about you being "broke"

I feel like there are other underlying issues...

Clearly she dated u without the money so she is not there for that coz she doesn't even know ...

Just go apologize

Apologize for what??! She doesn't like him, simple as abc. And its good to know the basis from the start. He doesn't have to display his wealth just to change the status quo. What turns lady A doesn't tutn lady B

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

Bro, If you were my guy, I promise we ll go out for a few outings, meet and pick new girls, so that all this your mentality will change. You are looking for fish in a swimming pool when there is an ocean ahead of you.

motivator4:
my dear, leave it or take it, you sound like all this yahoo yahoo boys. loosing job, getting job and loosing it again. borrowing money. i still stand my ground.

Kid... you really know nothing about life, especially in this economy... you re just a local girl hiding behind the internet. Go and work for money and see how its easy. So, its yahoo boys that loose jobs often? Crap

motivator4:
imagine how everyone is blaming the lady without hearing the full story. is the woman stupid to be insulting her hubby without any reason? remember that action and reaction are equal.

oga good husband please complete the story and tell us what you always do that provokes her. and i guess you don't wanna change from those habits for peace to reign in your home right?

Mumu baby husband, if you have been away from her for so long and she is not making any move to reconcile with you, that means you are the devil here. hope you didn't marry her because of her money with hope that she will be an access to your free meal ticket. i believe she didn't drag you to do court wedding. which other project do you have at hand? another rich victim babe?

lazy man please go and work and take care of your responsibilities. my grand mother used to say;''any where wey person the talk talk, that means person wey the do do is there''. please search yourself. many women now are wise and wouldn't tolerate any nonchalant attitude from any nigga.

Honestly, you ve got a lot of psychological issues which make you unreasonably connote all this sort of warped ideas from his post. You really need help

Abbey1987:
You will be on a bridging visa called patner visa once u are legally married to the Aussie and after 2 years you can file for PR

Lol... bro... This is half baked info bro. Generally, a bridging visa is used to remain in Australia only if the current visa is about to expire while awaiting a pending visa application outcome.


The temporary partner visa takes more than a year to process however, it costs from $A6865 for both the temporary and permanent partner visas. The fee is paid once. The permanent partner visa takes up to two years to be granted after the temporary has been granted. The circumstance that speeds up the permanent partner visa grant is if you have been married for about 3years or 2years with kids.


Do note that prior to the approval of the permanent partner visa, you are not eligible for government tuition benefits, but with the temporary partner visa, you can be eligible for some social security payments and Medicare enrollment.
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cc santity100 KVickky

Seun:
If my parents are ready to charge me for the food and shelter they provide, I'm ready to pay. Why should I leave this perfectly usable accomodation for an inferior one in the name of independence? I'd rather live with my parents and save a little than live "independently" and have no savings. Financial independence is more important, as I see it.

At what age did you eventually make the move? Its been 10years on, so tell us.

This man needs to scrape his ugly bald hair

Stanleyelege:
I'm in Australia on a student visa .
Each time I remember s amount I'll pay to my school my heart cuts..
I've an Aussie. She wants us to have a baby . Will this give me a soft landing?

I m not sure of the student visa process. But for benefits of getting married its really not a bright area. Australian rules on spouse visa aren't friendly at all. Its complex and takes up to two years. Prior to that, you will still be on your student visa.

MissCuppy:
Women are strong.

Men are stronger

OP.. pishure of the girl first so I will know how to position my advice

0b100100111:


And Efe is busy mixing noise in the studio!
Dude does not even have the looks to model for common Alabukun or Sniper!

Lord... this is so wicked

chidike:
Congratulations @Mctowel01

Thanks bruh

LadyJustice:
Lol..the way some guys talk is really funny tho. Even this old man of a special adviser to Jonathan. A shame he's got nothing better to air than his grief on how much he spends on girls for sex on a regular. Why is it an issue if your woman chooses to rely on you a bit financially? Aren't you men always bragging about being the man? Protecting and providing for your woman? And who told you girls got the same cravings for sex as the men? If so, why has sex always being used as a weapon by ladies if it's that men can control themselves when it comes down to sex? Sex and money have always been the lust of every man..don't deceive yourselves!

This is the reason why I advocate for women to have their own money too as this is the only avenue for weak men to ridicule themselves. At least, if you're with a man this way, you can sex him when you feel the need to not when he wants to because you want him spending some papers.

Are the girls forcing you guys to spend?! If the pussy is that good, no one will advise you..my dear you will spend! awon broke slay kings.

You are just not making any sense. You can't even make a logical point. Just beating around pointlessly

cuttie83:
You are only entitle to PTA if you have a return ticket

Not entirely true. Some banks are lessening that restriction.

lalaazo:
I didn't keep the Inspector's contact though, but be rest assured that once you get to Force CID; they will hustle you themselves. Just be firm and hold your ground while negotiating irrespective of their guile.
Some would even tell you 15,000naira but what you can offer is what you present.

Lol. same thing I did. Though I paid 4k as that was the only money in my pocket at the time, with some change to take me home.

jiangchu:
bellong and others what opinion do you have for me


hope im not disturbing anyone. please kindly review my case

You are not disturbing anyone bro. We are all sharing information. If your query isnt attended to, it often times imply that those reading it do not have enough accurate answers to your question. So, just leave your query hope for a reply while searching around for more answer. Cheers

happy4lucy:
hello All, please who knows the current exchange rate of AUS dollar to Naira, heard it is N200 don't know how true it is....

Its approximately 3/4 of the dollar rate

Hello guys
How many days does IOM give one to make payment before booking expires. I heard 5 days. Is it 5 working days or 5 ordinary days?

smardray:
Before anything, i decree and declare that i will never be in ur shoes in JESUS NAME. Buh like seriously u are overeacting.. At least u are a future hope so why all the fuss

Hahahahah

diego2015:
you have to notarize your Docs,

Why should I notorize photocopies when I have the original?

Fishlink:
Why do you guys worries about certifying documents? I never did and all I did is scan my original documents

Its the same thing I did, scanned just originals. I m just worrying because you guys are.

obaxlove:
Please guys how can I certify my documents for admission purpose in AUS. The school is asking for a justice of peace seal.

Where can I get that in lagos?

One question guys. This certifying of documents of a thing, do I have to certify all my original documents or photocopies?

Airforce and mamagee, I no know who worse pass. See as dem fit each other. They better marry themselves and stop disturbing us here.

I'm not giving my phone or social media password to any guy, except my future husband. I won't even give you all my social media handles, I need my space Biko

Space to do what?

obonujoker:
Prison break 6/10....

24legacy..5/10.... tis hard to envisage the series with jack Bauer..

prison break 8/10. the film is just too good

leon12:
Please house, I've few questions to ask.

I'm a Civil Engineer but did my schooling here in Nigeria, that automatically ruled me out to get assessed by EA, my two chances of getting a visa is through PROJECT BUILDER and CONSTRUCTION PROJECT MANAGER. The good thing is am into building construction, going to be assessed by VETASS, their requirements doesn't include any English proficiency test, it's tricky in a way when you consider point to gained.


AGE= 30 points.
DEGREE=15 points.
EXPERIENCE= 5 points.(that if the assessment go well)
Total of 50.
Is the IELTS test a general prerequisite in the assessment and visa application, also an avenue to increase your chances of getting more points.
Thank you all.

First who told you that your B.sc from.Nigeria rules you out of EA assessment? My b.sc was from Nigeria and I didn't have an issue with EA assessment.

Zceesneh:
go and kill yourself, must u talk?

Learn to mind your business.

Castroii:
One day, I made myself a bowl of oatmeal, poured an iced tea, and headed towards my home office. Preoccupied with work, I tripped and spilled everything.

At 7:58:01 I was excited about a great new idea. At 7:58:31 I was mopping up a mess.

This is a trivial example, but it’s also the way life is. You walk through one door and a bucket of water falls on your head. You walk through another and someone doubles your salary. (Of course, most times when you walk through a door, you simply enter another room.)

Once you understand this, you end up with only two logical strategies:

1. When you fail, act as though success is following close behind: Don’t give up or give into self-pity. Don’t accept that your fate is bleak or hopeless. Just dig in and work your way back towards the light.

2. When you succeed, act as though failure is following close behind. Be as nice to people as when you were working your way up from the bottom. Be cautious with your newly-earned gains.

You may like to believe that you are 100% responsible for your success. Not true. The people around you are largely responsible for your success; never, ever forget this.

One last tip... when you spill your oatmeal, have fun cleaning it up.

My two cents bro....

Also b4 i forget, try and follow madam debbie on this forum for job updates. Her job update has helped alot of guys on NL and also to some pple i knw whom i passed the info to.

The wisdom here is deep

robotix:
oh my brother, I completely understand... do not spill the beans. I am in same shoes as yourself. I am also tired, I am fed up. I have had series of thought not to even marry. The strangest thing is that they don't like a guy who treats them right... THEY DON'T forget anyone who would come here and tell you otherwise.

From your past post and recent ones, I can deduce you Mr. Nice guy, the kind they don't appreciate. Shall we now turn monsters and start deceiving them? Certainly not!

To be honest, I have given up on them.

Lol, you definitely have a high threshold for rubbish. Majority of the heartbreakers were once nice guys. Maybe you still need a few more till you loose it, or if very lucky, you meet from the few who will actually appreciate you.

ugsams:
This has been the subject of discussion at my work place today. Most of my colleagues who fly Qatar Airways has been affected by this as they can't use their return ticket again. Let's watch as things unfolds and pray that they shall resolve the issue soon. If they fully implement this, Qatar could pitch towards Iran and that could be a big problem if the other Gulf countries tries to apply force on them.

Bro, does it mean one cant travel through dubai stopover to another destination using Emirates?

Cinderella5:
you didn't prove anything. There are no broke girls. Only guys are termed broke. If in the next 10 years I don't make money no one will look down on me, provided I have a family, but if you don't, you will be termed a disappointment.

Is your happiness dependent on how people look at you?

WebSurfer . Bro. Hope this isn't the same girl you re having issues with?