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zionmade:
Yeah there are options everywhere bro















Just that one day you realise that when you want to settle down, you will hardly find any tangible option. You can keep listening to people claiming redpillers while most of them have a good relationship

Don’t mind them. They are warriors on the internet. I only pity those that take them seriously. Weak ass men �

KiNg0G:
https://www.nairaland.com/7105598/girlfriend-ignored-me-party-she#112427323

lalasticlala
Seun

sometimes we need to listen to other side of the stories, I acted rash which I admit and this might be the end of our relationship, i don't care they are several options available. but still she knew I deserve an explanation, but she couldn't reach me because I blocked her on whatsapp and call.... so she spoke with my buddie and they had to set me up on choprite this morning, I thought I was going for a free meal..(normal sponsoring..who dey buy, that kind thing).. instead I went to meet them both there with lots silent tears and squeezed face.

according to her

* Her dad was there, same with some matured relatives of hers, for her cousins birthday


*she noticed one of my homie was Smoking from where we sat.

yes she was right, even though I Don't smoke, they are some guys that just can't move without lighter and you as a friend can't stop them.

*she knew if she came to meet me her dad will get the impression one of us is her guy at that time, because I was the only she invited from outside.. her dad doesn't like smoking and anything that has to do With hoodlism...her sister confirmed it on voice call

She didn't kneel, she didn't beg.. just some tears.. she told me her reasons and walked out on me.

The dead simp in me is telling me to unblock her and probably throw in one or two words, but the pills have been swallowing that had kept her glued to me is telling me...To let go, what will be will be .

even though they are other options, man's getting old..biko help me make a decision.

You expected her to kneel and beg you? Y’all play too much.
Like I said earlier, she could have just walked up to you and said hello.
Again, she could have sent you a text message that her dad was there and that she’ll come to you when she got the chance.
You can go ahead and unblock her. You guys make up.

Sweetplum:
Only immature girls do that.
I prefer a nija guy over any race.
It's those childish teens watching Korean movies that loves Lee Ming Ho, Jumong, Iljimae & co.
I detest Asians, especially the Arabs. Dirty set of people with bad breadth.
They don't bath daily yet uses a lot of perfumes

So cos you prefer Niger guys, that automatically makes girls who like guys from other races immature? Smh.

Y

Premiumwriter:
Wetin Naija girls see for Asian guys body sha?


I don't understand the craze for those BTS guys and others that behave like women.

Cos they are cute and sexy �

Udemzy05:
Why didn't he go and meet her,oh because he is the man huh?

Una just wan put all the blame on her, forgetting say the guy mess up.

Being a man has nothing to do with it.
He was an invitee. He didn’t know that crowd. He needed her to make him feel a little comfortable.
Do you know there are places you go and feel out of place. You need someone to make it easy for you and then you flow. I’m not excusing what he did, she should have gone to say hello to him.
But what if he saw her with other guys and didn’t want to embarrass himself?

Udemzy05:
Everything is bad about it , stop defending nonsense.
Since he later change his mind,why didn't he tell her he was coming?

You're the anyhow person here, imagine your friend telling you he is not coming to the occasion you invited him and even beg him to show only for you to see him with other guys in the same occasion,how will you feel?

Abeg comot for my mention jare,birds of a feather.

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Wether he told her or not, she still could have said hello to him and his friends. She should have been the one to even serve them.
After the party, she could have expressed her feelings and let him know he disappointed her.
That guy didn’t go there just to eat and drink.

I’m not getting off your mentions �

Wether he told her or not, she still could have said hello to him and his friends. She should have been the one to even serve them.
After the party, she could have expressed her feelings and let him know he disappointed her.
That guy didn

Faber:
Three of them am their main guy. I don't do side guy. Others they are dating are their deputy boyfriends, so no shaking tree.

Lmao. It would shock you to learn you are just an assistant ��.

Pasima:
I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

You don’t force things like that. Did she ask you to post hers? You do that out of your own freewill so don’t compel her to do same.
What’s so important about putting you up in status anyway?

Znation:
Good Day Nairalanders.

I just don't know the right section to post this, please help me to take it to the right section mods.

This Is My Dream!

On monday, i was in my dream, and i went to a shop to buy something with N10.. So, when i want to pay, i brought out the N10 and torn it into two pieces and payed the shop owner with half of the money.
Immidiately, i work up.

I tried to find out the meaning on google, but couldn't find out any reasonable meaning. So i forget about it, but to my greatest suprise, this dream repeated exertly thesame way it happened in my first dream yesterday..

So, in my dream yesterday, i went to that same shop, with that same N10, and when i wanted to pay the shop owner, i torn the N10 into two and paid with half of it again, then i work up.

All my browsing history since morning have been trying to find out the meaning using google, but i can't. I'm really scared right now..

Who knows the meaning of my dream? Help me.

Lalasticlala, please help me if u know it please.. Thanks

Go on atleast 3 days fasting and pray hard. Ask God to show you what that dream is all about. It was revealed for a reason.

slimjohn2k5:
Relax
It will normalize unless you were masturbating during your sexually inactive years.

Shey u say she be virgin, makes your situation cool unless na fake virgin u marry

See a doctor.

Faber:
I dey run am 3 babes on whatsApp. I go post this one block other 2, just that way simultaneously day by day. Na so their head dey swell.

E go shock them when they discover na cruise I just dey catch with them

Girls are cunning and mischievous without knowing that I was born in Cunningham

You think you are the only one they are dating too ��

Udemzy05:
Though her actions no make sense but you sef no do well,your No should have been No.

You no get levels abeg.

So you haven’t said NO and then YES later?
This scenario is what you are using to qualify him as one without level? Lmao.
Some of you are just anyhow.
He said no initially and then changed his mind, what is so bad about that?

KiNg0G:
i blocked her number instantly... she called my friend who later explained the situation to her.
God knows she needs 2 bouncers to follow her come my house

according to her she said her dad was around, she didn't know how to introduce me to him... because she never planned him to be there.
yes they were some matured men in their table, but I don't believe thats the only reason






I understand bro....but you see I don't think it's an issue of her not wanting to show me off, like shes ashamed of me or something.

She nor fine pass me, this girl don use gragra take know all my own friends finish, same way I knew some of hers.. everywhere I am, she always wants to be there .. hence the reason she had to tell my buddie... cus she know that guy go pull me through for the birthday... because I nor dey too much like crowd....but this scenario when play yesterday na I not understand.

Weda the men when dey with me too rough! I nor know

She’s lying. She invited another boyfriend of hers to that same party.
Next time, give her same treatment.

I’d love to read your book iLegendd, how do I get it?

Collegelove:
I am a big ooo if you don't know. And I'm never desperate on women. I can make a lady wait for so long.

You still need to grow up. Who brags with their sexual prowess anyway?
A man who kisses and tell is what?

Mstick:
Hello *waving aggressively*

As expected my thread was over run by the usual suspects trying to stifle,malign and abuse women. I know no woman on this forum is shocked, it's what they do it's who they are.

For years on this forum many women have been insulted out of here, blackmailed, bullied and abused till they left.

My series, yes I've decided to make it a series will be dedicated to uplifting Nigerian women.

This will be a safe space for women, you don't have to post your personal life stories here because we know the immatures will use it against you.

I will be posting resources that can be used to help women, post encouraging words, including posting job, uplift women, opportunities for WOMEN ONLY and please i encourage and plead with other women on this forum to do the same.

Nigerian women let's shut our eyes and ears to misogyny, there's no insult any man on this forum can throw at any woman here that has not been said over and over and over again, it old and tired.

Nigerian women must win ! Nigerian women are not useless! Nigerian women deserve the best.

Nice one sis ��

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

I know you want to be with your daughter, but let them be for now. How old is she anyway?
Stop fading away by drinking and all that. She I yours and nobody can Change that.
For now, make money. You know money stops nonsense. Focus on making money and st the right time, you’ll get your child back.

InfernoNig:
Kate abandoned my brother at the alter and did not show up for the wedding without warning. Everyone was thrown into confusion. It was even trending on social media that week. We kept asking Leke….what he did to annoy her. Leke was confused as well. He said they never had any issue….that they both spoke on the phone that wedding morning.

After that horrible disgrace….Leke did everything in her power to find out from Kate what the issue was but this girl refused to tell Leke or any member of my family or her family why she changed her mind in the last minute. Leke was depressed. He could not eat, he could not go to work for weeks.This heartbreak almost killed my brother. We have been praying for him…telling him God knows best…maybe the marriage was not God’s will. Some people carried rumors that Leke was cursed and can never get married in life.

It was barely a month ago that I started noticing that Leke was finally finding his feet and all of a sudden…Kate is back! Me and Leke are the closest in the family. He tells me alot of things. So, my brother asked me to come see him yesterday after work, I knew he was serious. Leke told me that Kate called him two weeks ago to say she was ready to tell him what happened.

So, they met at a restaurant and kate started apologizing and begging Leke to forgive her. That she made a mistake and she could not go ahead with the wedding because she could not bring herself to face him after she made that mistake. After much begging, Kate confessed that a day before their wedding, she slept with one of colleague at work, Dayo, with nickname called six feet.

According to her. After they had s3x, she felt so guilty and struggled with her conscience until she decided to run away without getting married. Kate said she was under a lot of stress during the wedding. Three days to the wedding, she and some colleagues closed from work and joined Dayo in his car to drop off.

Dayo decided to take her home that day because she was feeling very stressed, having her wedding in a few days time. Kate said, they were all gisting and for the first time asked Dayo why he has the nick name six feet.

Dayo explained that its because he has a big dick and any girl he sleeps with, they either come for more or they run away from him. Everyone was laughing in the car and saying Dayo was bluffing. Kate told him she did not believe him…and said he was just bragging.

When everyone dropped off that evening, Dayo offered to take Kate home. They continued talking about his big dick and Dayo jokingly said if Kate is doubting, he can prove it to her. They were being silly. Dayo showed Kate his dick and Kate went ahead to say its girls without expertise that would run from a big dick.

Kate and Dayo basically got involved in some dirty talking and before long, Dayo dropped Kate at home. Dayo offered to show Kate his dick to prove he was not bluffing. They had s3x in Kate’s apartment that night. Kate said she was trying to prove that she is not scared of big dicks and that is how they ended up with, oya let me try you na….and they ended up f*cking. Kate said soon as they were done she almost wanted to commit suicide but Dayo was like, don’t tell anyone…it was a mistake.

According to Kate, she could not face Leke after that. She ran away and have been regretting her actions ever since. She is begging Leke to forgive her whether or not he accepts her back. Leke says he loves Kate and wants to accept her back irrespective of what she did but he wants to know what I think cos he knows I will tell him the truth.

Well, I told him that Kate does not deserve him cos if she can cheat on him before wedding, then what will happen after they marry? My brother Leke said, he can forgive Kate because he too has cheated on Kate when they were dating but she is not aware. But that his only fear is that…from the way Kate described the affair with her colleague Dayo…he wants her to quit the job cos he will not feel comfortable with her working with someone who has a big dick that she has been attracted to before.

Leke said when he told Kate she has to quit…she said, he will have to learn to trust her cos she cannot quit her job when there is no job these days. That quitting will make it look like she has feelings for Dayo but she does not. She did say however, that she will start making plans to find another job. Leke said she swore on her late mother’s grave that she has not slept with Dayo since that time. That even Dayo is very is very sorry he caused her to break up her wedding and marriage.

My brother wants to know if he should go ahead and accept her or if this girl is whinnying him. Leke said he has never loved any girl the way he loves Kate. He is willing to forgive this one mistake but what if it happens again? Secondly….how will our family learn to forgive Kate if Leke goes back to her. I tell you…people will say this girl is using jazz. Do you think its really jazz? Should my brother and Kate go ahead to marry.

Now, I know what has made Leke happy again…its Kate. Since they started talking, he is happy .Clearly, Leke is not over her. But he is also scared of loosing her again. As for me, I would not take her back cos she is vain…how do you run away from your own wedding because you had a big dick? But I just don’t want to say anything cos my brother is hoping I give him some reassurance. hence, I need you need your advice.

Anonymous

Your brother should not make that mistake of marrying Kate. Jokes are jokes, but going all the way to prove something silly as that few days to your wedding is crazy.
It shows she is not serious, she is lose.
After disgracing your family like that, she’s really hold tonshow face again.
Your family should make sure Leke does not marry Kate.

If a man does not give you money, you won’t go and work for yours? You’d prefer to sleep with a dog ���� That is why a lot of these men treat you anyhow cos they know you have nothing to offer them apart from sex.
Keep depending on these men and keep collecting chicken change, nor go find work to do.

elonmuskbaby:
lmaooo man wey don get migraine,you wan add diabetes to solve migraine?

That’s his best bet. When a woman starts behaving that way and you know deep down you did nothing, he should let her go. Them nor dey force person stay for marriage.
If he did something, she would have said it when a meeting was called. It goes to tell you she is not interested in that man anymore.

U

thebosstrevor1:
He is a man to pull that.

Most guys will never pull that because of fear.

Now sugar daddy can also be served

A real man would have pulled out of that relationship instead of going so low to sleep with another man’s wife. Why do you think would happen to him if that man finds out? Doing the right thing is not weakness.

Collegelove:
I've also slept with a hottie from Nairaland but won't reveal her identity.

You must be feeling like one god. Smh. Too many children here..

Stallionhorse:
All my guys please gather and congratulate me!!
So this girl I've been dating she has been sleeping with this rich married man for some weeks now.. I just ignored her like I didnt know, I've been billing her seriously of late the public community hole, I call a gf even gave me 250k last week.. To crown the whole story I traced the rich married man to his house got to know about the wife I Used inside the 250k to shop in the wife boutiques and she gave me her number.. Yesterday I invited her out for lunch And we ended up doing short time in a hotel.. Today she credited my account with 50k to use and attend my friends sister's wedding, which is format!! Guys please gather let's celebrate victory I will continue billing my community holosho, and also billing her rich sugar daddy's wife too.. This is a win win for me..

This one calls himself a man. You dey do yourself, you nor know.
Shame on you.

Sominablack:
Greeting Nairalanders,
My wifes attitude has been unbecoming, disrespectful, avoiding intimacy for months, insultive and always playing the silent treatment which I have learnt to ignore. Her mum visited and confirmed these attitude, she did counsel and advised her to change yet she was reluctant and stated she dont want to continue being a wife that she has lost love and feelings for me because I want things to be done decently and in order in my family which she is opposed to. Having observed this her mum left angrily and told the matter to her husband to confirm some of the issues of my wifes behaviour which I had stressed on and as a result had a family meeting with her family since I was invited not long ago.

Now with the attitude still being displayed by her, her dad asked me to come down to the village by next week so the issue will be discussed in their larger family so that my wife would come and explain to them why she is behaving the way she is doing, but not up to three months we had a meeting and now this one billed for next week again.I dont feel like honouring the meeting because I have done my best to follow peace even though I cannot fathom where I am at fault. At this juncture what do I

Marry a second wife please.

Nyascobar1414:
Most Yoruba girls are not extremely beautiful...
But their body curves mad die...



Queen of curves I must say...



This I have seen!

Most are not beautiful? That is a lie �

squash47:
Welcome back sir. Nairaland portable.

Hahahahaha he just earned a new name.

Maybe you should try calling to just check on him or drop a message for him.
I have similar dreams sometimes but I just shake it off.

Kobicove:
Give her a share of the bills in the house to be settling herself so she will understand that the economy is very tough!

This is it. If you check now, she’s not doing anything at all.