₦airaland Forum

The is not your kind yet he was there for you when your useles baby dadi denied and abandoned you and that child. It will never be well with you.

Viltron:
Why are Edo men so ugly?

Why are your fingers wrinkled and shaky?

Pecoleee345:
I wish you are here now to defend her ooooo.....she really needs someone like you.

Hell just broke loose

They should deal with her seriously.

[quote author=Kobojunkiee post=111060596]The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this. [/

Are you okay at all? Some of you are so insensitive and do not think before typing trash. It’s easy for some of you cos nor be your blood.
His wife is an idiot. She should have called his family to let them know what the doctor said. Was she the one paying the hospital bills? Yes, she killed her husband. Shey Na she be widow now?

This news be giving some people serious headache. You’ll be fine �

Moferere:
Yẹyẹ Bello is going nowhere

Amen.

Desusi:
Naira landers, kindly advise me on what to do.

l am over 60 years old, a widower. By the grace of God, l was blessed with three children of which two are graduates with good grades from reputable universities here in Nigeria, one is still undergraduate before the departure of my late wife some years back.

As a retired man with meager money, I decided to manage a little business which barely gives me much money. One of these my children, a professional, though not teacher, is currently residing with me doing teaching job in different places as part time, pending when he would get a much better job.

We are living in my personal house. l would single handedly pay electricity bills, lawnman, etc. My son would not want to help in any way, not even with pure water of #10 claiming that he is with his father.

Efforts to convince him to assist me is not yielding positive result, instead he would pick quarrels with me. His senior sister has married, while the junior brother is still in the school as dependant, what sort of counseling do you think he needs to change.

I am afraid even if this boy owns shop rite in future, he would not help either.

He is a lazy and selfish man. Do not for a second think he’ll be if any assistance to you even if he earns good money.
At 29, he should be out of your house, hustling to assist you and his younger one.
You make him comfortable that’s why.
What you should do is this.
1, electricity bill, food and other little stuff in the house should be shared. If he doesn’t contribute, make sure he does not eat or even charge his phone. Disconnect the light in his room.
2, give him an ultimatum to leave your house. You have over pampered him.
Is it not obvious that when he marries, he won’t take responsibility of his own family?
Whatever you get now, use it for yourself only.

Amazing. Go and shine little one.

He should name his sponsors and they all be set ablaze.

Reference:
Let me ask you this question.
Will they feel better if that lady hangs herself in her cell and is pronounced dead since we have assumedly done away with capital punishment. Will they be happier?

Because when a person is locked away for life, and in Nigeria life means life meaning she will grow old and die in prison with the pain and the haunt of her mistakes while the family at least has the time and liberty to heal and move on, then you will realise that there is no attraction in her position.

Yes, some of his family members will feel better if she commits suicide. At least, just the way their son is no more, she too will be no more. That will bring forth healing.
When it comes to justice in Nigeria, don’t bet on it.
Still, allowing her contest for that peagant was imsentive and it opened wounds that were already healing.

donjahsy:
Have you pronounced her guilty of murder already before the court do? This is democracy Mr Man. Dont judge her based on emotions. Are you saying that if she is able to prove her case in the court that she was not guilty of murder, that you will have a problem with that?

Would you like to experience what the Atagas are experiencing so you’ll know how it feels like?

Laswell:
The place she's holed up at is called "correctional facility" for a reason. She is already been punished so what else do people want from the girl. Even as a suspected murderer her right to dignity of human person is still intact.

How is she being punished?
By looking fresh or taking part in a beaut you contest and smiling like an idiot?
Something is terribly wrong with your brain.

Mooh247:




Some africans are disgusting set of wicked babarians and backward souls

Yes she was a prostitute

Yes she was alleged to kill a man

Yes she stole from the dead man

Yes the punishment of murder is death penalty or life in prisonment

And according to Nigerian constitution, she has right to fair hearing at a court of competent jurisdiction and remanded till her case is concluded

Before her case is concluded and she is pronounced guilty of murdered and sentenced to death by hanging

*She has the right to human diginity
*She has the right to be fed and not starved
*She has the right to interact and participate in activities of the correctional facility




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Smh.

Congratulations!! But you should have posted the thief’s picture to be shamed.

Beautiful write up, totally enjoyed it. Weldone raising this goat. Keep it up.

SmellySperm:
@op the younger the berry the sweeter the juice

Cradle snatcher.

mario2k:
STOP MENTIONING GOD IN YOUR WORLDLINESS,GOD HAS NO BUSINESS IN WORLDLINESS AND MOSTLY ANYTHING THAT DOES NOT BRING GLORY TO HIM.

How many orphans/less privileged have you helped?

HRMK:
WHAT A MERCIFUL GOD INDEED!IF DAVIDO WHO HAS BROKEN THE HEARTS OF THREE LOVELY LADIES,WITH MORE TO GO CULD BE TALKING ABOUT THE CREATOR.......DIDNT HE KNOW GOD'S EXISTENCE WHILE ON HIS SEX ESCAPADES?

You must be a saint. Oya cast the first stone.

Basicend:
Which God is he calling ?

Me I don't understand o. . Is it the one the Bible or which book?

The creator of the universe. Abi another one dey wey you know?

ikorodureporta:
I won fast small today, as pope direct us... .. common to warm my food for morning, I ended up tasting it as usual before I remember

Happens all the time �

This attack on Davido is not necessary. Both Chioma and Davido are adults, they know what’s best for them.
Don’t get me wrong, Ilove Davido and Chioma and i’d love for them to be married.
But blaming Davido over her education is misplaced.
No one should drop out of school over man/woman. You owe yourself good education.
Is Davido not educated? Nobody stopped him.
What’re you do, put yourself first.

ZombieTERROR:
who told you David imprisoned anybody ?
marriage is not by force
so long.

Very funny. They should put a gun to Davido’s head then. You can’t forve marriage on people who are not ready.

This is wrong. Wether married or single, it’s wrong.
There should be boundaries in everything we do. I can’t even imagine a man placing me in this position all in the name of work out. Sometime ago, the gym instructor I was using was over doing it.
After every work out, he massages. I only allowed him massage me once and that was it. Other girls were enjoying it, even a pastor’s wife. Eventually, they ended up sleeping with each other. I nor do Abeg.

Lekison:
Mention the name of the company. Let us expose wicked people like her

Exactly. She should be called out.

brimdans:
Okay, here is the thing.
I was working with this woman in her organization. Shes high handed, toxic and domineering, but I was coping well with her, she insults me and talk down on me, all I say mostly is sorry Ma.

So this particular day, which was yesterday. There's this particular room in the lab which we were constructing, which she categorically told me not to open that room, because it contains equipment. And I don't handle the keys, but another person holds the keys.

Now water entered the room, from a faulty pipe, and did a little damage to one of the cabinets, and it touched some of the materials.

The woman, now began insulting me that it will be deducted from my salary, because it was my fault?

I asked how is it my fault Ma, you said that room shouldn't be opened by anybody. So I can't accept fault for what I didn't do. I'm sorry. She shouted and shouted to the point of almost slapping me, but God saved her she didn't. I kept my calm and told her sorry.

Again she asked for some remaining boards that were used in constructing some cabinets in the lab, I told her I don't know, but lemme check and ask the person who has custody to the keys. Another tirade began, she insulted the hell of out me. I remained calm, that it will be removed from my salary, and those things according to her is about one hundred thousand naira. I told her ma, I didn't take them, but lemme ask oga Patrick who is in charge of the lab, she refused, that I shouldn't l. That I must pay for all of these things. I kept my cool all through.

She now said I should remove her uniform and submit her company materials, actually some of the materials are at home, so I couldn't get them that night.

She texted and called me countless times to send the company materials, I then told her, I'll send them but I need my salary that I've worked for, for the last month. She now said, before she wanted to pay and forgive me, but that she's not paying me again.

It is Worthy to note that I came purposely to work for this woman from another state, I needed my salary to help me plan my life after my sack. Right now I'm confused, because I've no money, nor accommodation, I can't even travel back. Please nairalanders, I need your advice, legally and all.
Thank you for reading
PS, there might be errors, I didn't have time to edit. Currently in church.

Reason I decided to be my own master. It’s crazy working for some females.
Get a lawyer and sue.

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Elmojiid:
is it true

He cannot generalize like that. No all ladies are that way. I can go a year without it. Done it before and can do it again.

Can’t believe you just asked if she’s manipulating you. Some of you need to be smart. Someone’s you claim you’ve done so much for didn’t visit you even for once while you were in prison, now you are out and she’s begging you to forgive her?
You can forgive her but make sure you call off that thing you call a relationship. If you can’t be by my side in tough times, I can’t be with you at all. End it.

The world is turning upside down. I wonder what a woman sees in her fellow woman. Shameless married women.

For now, do not accept her back.