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My brother she maybe pregnant for another man and want to put on you, she will give you more sex then she will have more chance to pin it on you

You are not nice �

Why are you asking such an annoying question? You do not know what to do at this point?
Better make sure you have nothing to do with that girl. She can’t be trusted.

Magnoliaa:
I could care less about what y'all do in your relationships. But clarify something to me, 'cause I'm real confused here. When did it become a feminist action to follow traditional standards?

How exactly is it feministic to say you're a traditional woman and that you expect a man to provide for you?

I don't GET why you had to put that caveat that, 'call me a feminist but...'. Duhh. Feminists generally do not subscribe to women NOT bringing something to the table.

A feminist believes in equal participation, a give and take thing, which runs contrary to your belief that women should not bring anything. So who said feminists are still the ones saying women shouldn't bring anything?

I'm not arguing your point or whatever you believe in, it just ticks me off when people use the word 'feminism' as a buzzword and catchphrase and drag feminists literally into DISCUSSIONS that are not within their scope or range or whatever. In totally unrelated things.

It's just like...a therapist talk with patients to solve problems.
A doctor carries out operations to solve problems.

And you're now saying, 'I'm not a therapist, but I don't believe in talking to patients. I believe surgery is the best way to go.' Like, of course, you're not a therapist. Of course, a therapist believes in talking. Of course, as a doctor, you believe in surgeries. So why did you have to bring in the method of the therapists?

Ko relate.

Beautiful response.

These are little kids. If you check well, they are school dropouts. Only God knows what they’ve done to girls with that snake.

Serious allegation.

Impressive!! Keep it up,

Sister from hell. Go look for your own man.

You’ve done well as a man. Give her time, she’ll return when she’s tired. Soon, her parents will get tired of her being there and if after all that she doesn’t return, marry another wife.

So you expect us to guess which one you wore? What is this world turning into? You are dense.

Blessedassuranc:
This can only come from a female cos they cld be so insensitive and unrealistic.. just listen to yourself.. leech indeed

Lmao � very insensitive somebody. Smh.

Your wife should get a job or start up a business no matter how little so she can assist you. This type of woman will send you to an early grave of this continues.

aanuoluwami14:
With the current situation in Nigeria, even with management, #50k can't be enough for all of you including your mom. Your wife might be so fed up with the triplets consumption, a woman who will take good care of triplets should be very well fed, it's not a easy task at all. Endure with her, let your mother endure too, pray for more income, there will no more fight again.

That is pure wickedness. His mum should endure one meal a day? You are pathetic.
OP, your wife is terrible. Where do some of you meet women like this?

Rachel98:
Good morning everyone. Hope we're having a wonderful week.

My Elder brother is doing well, no doubt he's the breadwinner in our family But his wife is so rude, too authoritative, she's full of pride and she looks down on people. She see everyone as her employee, she does not care if her actions or words hurts you, she's quick to slap at any slightest provocation. She's an event planner, please are event planners this rude??

She's the main reason why we barely visit our brother, despite we all live in the same city, we feel like a total stranger in our brother's house. Probably she's using "jazz" on him, I don't know But everything she does seems cool to him.

I managed to spend the weekend with them, since on friday she act like my presence irritates her. The maid prepared semo and vegetable soup, i don't eat swallow that like, so she saw me cooking noodles, she rudely said why're you not eating semo? Why are you people so selective? Then she left the kitchen. I just maintained my cool.

Yesterday she slapped her maid just because the plantain she told her to fry wasn't brown enough (maybe she wanted burnt sacrifice plantain). My elder brother calmly said honey you shouldn't have slapped her just becus of plaintain. The next she told my brother was "Defender!! go and marry her nw"

This morning, I jejely packed my belongings on my way to work, I entered my brother's car so he can drop me at the bus-stop, I just told him I won't be coming to his place anymore, once I'm done with work today I'm going home straight. And the annoying part, he would be asking me why? As if he's blind, he can't see how rude and ill-mannered his wife is.

His wife has really separated my brother from us, his own family. We don't even know what to do.

Visit your brother when you feel like it, it should not be often though. As for that your sis in-law, make sure you let her know how much you detest her. I don’t like people like that.
That you married my brother doesn’t give you the right to chase away his family. You guys don’t give her that opportunity. If she has me as her sis in-law, she’ll get it from me. Shine your eyes men before you marry a jezebel.

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You people don't just read and start typing. Most of you commenters have no such experience, nor very close family. I'll buttress this.

I have 4 brothers and a sister including myself which is 5 guys and a girl (totalling 6 people) in my family.

Our 3rd bro is married to a very lovely girl. She accommodates everyone. She was very young when she came into our family (20). She even calls me her husband and I call her my wife. I'm always confident and comfortable calling her by such name because she's worth it and more. We talk on video calls all the time unending.

She always asks us when next we'd visit. She should be 25 or 26 now. Her husband is financially stable. We all could visit at once and she'd accommodate us all. Mind you, we're all grownups. No issues whatsoever. Our eldest brother is too proud of her. He should be 40 soon.

Our 2nd brother is the one in the mess now. He has a baby mama. Now, the girl wants to be converted to a wife by all means. But before that, here's the story....

I shared an apartment with this our 2nd brother. We did things together. We shared rents together. Cook and eat together until he got a girl pregnant. Because of this, I moved out and started living with a friend to give them space since he had to take care of the girl. One day, due to some irregularities in my friend's house, I couldn't bath their at the time. I took a bike to my brother's place (our shared apartment) to have a quick bath only and get to work early. I met this girl alone in the house. I told her my intentions and situations on ground for coming and I didn't visit frequently since I moved. Guess what she said; "you'll replace the water after taking your bath". I was shocked.

I took my bath and left. One other time, I had a particular cloth I wanted to wear to work. I remembered I had left it in that our shared apartment. I went their to get it. On reaching the apartment, I told her why I came. I went in, opened the wardrobe. Behold, this girl left what she was doing, came and stood behind me to see what I was taking. Me?

Then I opened the fridge to pick a satchet of water, she moved toward the fridge to still know what I was picking. I was mad internally. I didn't speak of it. I called my brother and told him all of those she did. My brother said it's not a serious something.

Now, I live in my own home alone. The girl had put to bed and I hadn't seen their child. This new year, the came back from the East with the new child. My brother called that they're back. I said I'd come see them officially. That is my duty.

Same day, same night, I took my woman to greet them from a distance I live. On reaching, I didn't meet my brother but the lady and child. She barely opened the door. I even asked her to open the door that I'd stay till my brother came back. She barely opened her mouth to greet us. After that, she didn't say anything again. No "welcome take seat". No "will you guys drink water"?

We stood until I motioned my woman to sit after pulling out a seat behind the door. I sat on the floor.

The lady didn't say anything. She was just watching some TV programs. A small girl of 22-23 ooo!!! Shortly, she saw the footwear I came in with and said "you came in with shoe into our house". I was like

I waited patiently. Shortly, she stood up, grabbed a broom and started sweeping the already neat floor at that time of the night. That was when I stood up and went outside. My woman followed suit.

We were outside in the night by 10pm till my brother came back. We went in. My brother had to go to the kitchen to make eba for everyone to eat. Her baby mama wife-to-be sat doing nothing. The baby was even sleeping. We ate, gisted and went home.

I know my brother won't see anything bad in whatsoever she does. He grants all her requests. He even calls us and ask us to please call her wife from time to time. Who does that? You don't force love.

None of my family members welcome her presence in the family at this moment.

Her problem is always telling my brother that she'd take flight to her family house. She'd take flight to some other location. My brother, who's a hustling guy for that matter. The last rent he paid was 130k and he didn't pay once.[/quote]

aboyaji:
You can imagine the boldness. Y’all are cool in your family I guess. No man or woman can come between my siblings and I. We don’t tolerate that. We all respect each other and know our boundaries. But if you dare cross the line, you’ll get what you deserve. Marriage does not give anyone the right to tear a family apart.















You people don't just read and start typing. Most of you commenters have no such experience, nor very close family. I'll buttress this.

I have 4 brothers and a sister including myself which is 5 guys and a girl (totalling 6 people) in my family.

Our 3rd bro is married to a very lovely girl. She accommodates everyone. She was very young when she came into our family (20). She even calls me her husband and I call her my wife. I'm always confident and comfortable calling her by such name because she's worth it and more. We talk on video calls all the time unending.

She always asks us when next we'd visit. She should be 25 or 26 now. Her husband is financially stable. We all could visit at once and she'd accommodate us all. Mind you, we're all grownups. No issues whatsoever. Our eldest brother is too proud of her. He should be 40 soon.

Our 2nd brother is the one in the mess now. He has a baby mama. Now, the girl wants to be converted to a wife by all means. But before that, here's the story....

I shared an apartment with this our 2nd brother. We did things together. We shared rents together. Cook and eat together until he got a girl pregnant. Because of this, I moved out and started living with a friend to give them space since he had to take care of the girl. One day, due to some irregularities in my friend's house, I couldn't bath their at the time. I took a bike to my brother's place (our shared apartment) to have a quick bath only and get to work early. I met this girl alone in the house. I told her my intentions and situations on ground for coming and I didn't visit frequently since I moved. Guess what she said; "you'll replace the water after taking your bath". I was shocked.

I took my bath and left. One other time, I had a particular cloth I wanted to wear to work. I remembered I had left it in that our shared apartment. I went their to get it. On reaching the apartment, I told her why I came. I went in, opened the wardrobe. Behold, this girl left what she was doing, came and stood behind me to see what I was taking. Me?

Then I opened the fridge to pick a satchet of water, she moved toward the fridge to still know what I was picking. I was mad internally. I didn't speak of it. I called my brother and told him all of those she did. My brother said it's not a serious something.

Now, I live in my own home alone. The girl had put to bed and I hadn't seen their child. This new year, the came back from the East with the new child. My brother called that they're back. I said I'd come see them officially. That is my duty.

Same day, same night, I took my woman to greet them from a distance I live. On reaching, I didn't meet my brother but the lady and child. She barely opened the door. I even asked her to open the door that I'd stay till my brother came back. She barely opened her mouth to greet us. After that, she didn't say anything again. No "welcome take seat". No "will you guys drink water"?

We stood until I motioned my woman to sit after pulling out a seat behind the door. I sat on the floor.

The lady didn't say anything. She was just watching some TV programs. A small girl of 22-23 ooo!!! Shortly, she saw the footwear I came in with and said "you came in with shoe into our house". I was like

I waited patiently. Shortly, she stood up, grabbed a broom and started sweeping the already neat floor at that time of the night. That was when I stood up and went outside. My woman followed suit.

We were outside in the night by 10pm till my brother came back. We went in. My brother had to go to the kitchen to make eba for everyone to eat. Her baby mama wife-to-be sat doing nothing. The baby was even sleeping. We ate, gisted and went home.

I know my brother won't see anything bad in whatsoever she does. He grants all her requests. He even calls us and ask us to please call her wife from time to time. Who does that? You don't force love.

None of my family members welcome her presence in the family at this moment.

Her problem is always telling my brother that she'd take flight to her family house. She'd take flight to some other location. My brother, who's a hustling guy for that matter. The last rent he paid was 130k and he didn't pay once.

Heterodox:
Everyone will still die.

So?? It’s not his time yet that’s whyGod is preserving him.

Thank God for your life, congratulations.

He’s not going to be our next president, God forbid.

DemMannaScam:
Staged

My thoughts too.

Please do not joke with your health. Go for the scan and be positive. However it turns out, I’m sure there’ll be a solution.
Miracles happen you know. But it could just be something that can be corrected with drugs. Do not waste time so you don’t have regrets later on.

Oh, very sad. Tired of reading bad news every day. Why are some Nigerians so angry?

Una don tire just now? Nonsense.

Jflex07:
You are also not different from the women bashers..y'all make this forum uninteresting... For God's sake this forum has lost it... Kids everywhere now and someone can't even read a meaningful write up devoid of simps, redpillars and all that.. It's just too bad...The best thing is silence and the foolish women bashers will one day get tired... People who are responsible and have something reasonable doing with their time will not spend their whole day on nairaland insulting women or men for whatever reason/s

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Kriss216:
The girl is evening newspaper too.

No victor, No vanquish.

Something is wrong with your brain. The way some of you talk down on others is appalling.

CrownOfClay724:
These things you all come to share here daily.
I find most of them too simplistic and hard to swallow.
I understand conflicts about Money. I understand conflicts about career growth and home management. I understand conflicts about religious inclinations.
But I don't understand how basic care , respect and affection becomes such a hard work.

Can a reasonable grown human being act this dastardly without thinking of the effect of their actions on their spouses?

Take that you're even siblings and she's your younger one. Can she be so inconsiderate to act this way?

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You ought to have seen this in the dating phase.

A lot of them actually see the signs “red flags” but they don’t care as long as she’s beautiful....that’s all that matters to them.
Some meet great women but just cos they are slayers, they are not woke and good enough.
One thing I’ve cone to understand is that a lot of guys are easily deceived by what you see on the outside.
Pay attention to details, no matter how little. It’s save you from making grave mistakes.

What is all of this for though? Some people have made social media tiring.
Grow up and be responsible.

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Dedemworld:
U re the real fool here, was it the retirees went to lekki to shoot the protesters

Alaye baje... Oloshi, fool of hatred, that hatred will kill u and ur Generation

Don’t waste your energy on people like this. From their comments, you can tell how they were raised.

oladiddy:
My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday.

Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again.

Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss.

Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly.

My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again.

Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like.

Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge.

I am loosing my mind.

Please push to FP!

Divorce her!!! Women like this never mean well for their spouses. Know this, if you lose this job, she’ll dump you without even remembering all the sacrifices you’ve made for her. Certain things should not be taken lightly!!!

[quote author=VEHINTOLAR post=109167990]Who says there is no true love or that there is any ailment love can't cure ? Baba Olu Jacob had almost gone to the great beyond but that beautiful, strong Aunty Joke Silver nursed him back to live with her great love for him ! I just love these amazing personalities; they are a worthy role models for everyone !

May this great couple live longer together in good health and abundance of prosperity.

Amen!!!

micflo28:
Why is her name not “Joke Silver Jacobs” she get plan to remarry after the ancestor is gone?

Show some respect.

Beautiful couple. Congratulations.