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Shameless brother and wife.

Well, the good thing about cheating with your full chest with no remorse is that you’ll live with the shame. The stigma will never leave you or your child. Some will even label him a “bastard”
In the world we live in, we should apply wisdom in all we do so we don’t subject ourselves to ridicule.
You can walk away from that marriage and live your life instead of disrespecting the institution of marriage.
Messing up like this is disgraceful and only you will embrace the shame. You think you are doing the man? I feel sorry for you and your kind.
You men start conducting DNA on your kids o.

Nnatuu:
First...She video calling her ex...in her night wear...on her bed...we lived apart then.

Second...I accessed her Facebook account to see more chats between them, and he calling her pet names.

Third and most painful, she manipulated me into a wrong decision...for reasons I still do not know. When I got stuck in the process and lost all my finances....she feigned ignorance of what actually happened and at some point turned against me for being the cause of the problem.

After my spirit could not take it after some months, I hired a private consultant from Kenya to investigate the matter and provide me objective information on what caused the issues...

When the report came back, low and behold...she accepted that the report was true...it was her all along...and she always knew...but acted innocent while I was depressed for years...losing all my money, job, everything...

I've concluded...I won't divorce her...I'll wait till her market value is drastically down...then I'll serve her hot breakfast!

I've always told Nigerian ladies, never marry if you're not ready instead of coming into a marriage with messy manipulative mindsets as if it's only a means to an end for you. This will be a lesson to all of them.

Stick to NL and Linda Ikeji, una go hear my own response to her future soon. This got nothing to do with marriage, I'm obeying Bible orders...an eye for an eye...its that simple...infidelity I can forgive...but manipulation in marriage is an unforgivable sin.

Goodbye.

How comfortable do you feel still living and probably sleeping with someone who betrayed you this way?

Lisa001:
Told me he can never get married to me
That I'm just a baby factory

Hurts so deep
Trust the love of a broke man at your own. Peril

Sorry about that. I hope you tore him to shreds with your words.

Formularcr7:
After eating around 7-8pm, she will still send me suya around 10-11pm, one day she woke me up and demanded suya again,I was ready to go but after checking my pocket, I was out of cash and I asked her to give me 1k to go buy
for her but she immediately said she doesn't feel like eating again and it's late already but I was very certain it was because the money was coming from her purse

Lmao. Some women will never release money but them go spend another person money anyhow. Can’t stand people like that.

Paracetamol01:
Have you been collecting his money,if Yes, please reciprocate .....if No....atlas..! some other person will still do it .. give it to him cos you're not doing anything with your vagina.you are either using it to pee or menstruate

Shame on you.

Please keep your virginity. Too many liars in the streets. They’ll say anything and pretend to love you just to get in your pants.
Concentrate on your studies, that should be your priority.
Keeping your virginity will save you from heartbreaks, unwanted pregnancies and diseases.
Your friend said sex with your gender is more interesting. Lol. It’s disgusting and the worst kind. Do not even think about it. Live right and enjoy the benefits. Please keep your virginity till you are mature enough. Don’t fall for their lip service.

First, get that boy arrested. Tell your husband about it, do not hide it from him.
Your son needs therapy, It will help him a lot.
Some of you parents are not close to your kids. Have a special relationship with them, where they can tell you anything.
Please let him get help before his life is ruined.

You are obviously still in love with her for you to be stalking her.

Na children full here. Reason this place is mostly littered with trashy comments.

This is how you test a lady’s love? Lol.

400 to 500 is what that plantain is worth. Yes, you were cheated terribly.

She’s so pretty. Happy birthday to your baby. God bless her.

God1000:
Nonsense, the way young Nigerians glorify sex nowadays instead of brainstorming on good things is worrisome

Our society has degenerated so badly with debauchery on the rise everyday

Everything revolves around sex these days.
sex, sex, sex, stupid generation of young people
They can't invent anything good for humanity, black man has contributed nothing to civilization throughout human history, a 10 years old girl is already having sex with numerous boyfriends, our streets are littered with babies everywhere.

Quite shameful. Babies birthing babies.
They won’t go to school or even learn a skill. They run around looking for men to fund their life styles.
Don’t go taking drugs to impress anyone sexually.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Let it stay that way. Why would you split your allowee? Where do you guys meet girls like this?
Better utilize your allowee well. If she wants to go, let her go. There are girls everywhere.

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You want to break your home cos of another woman’s husband. Will he do same for you?
I don’t know why some of you women do not have sense. Do you even consider your kids in all this? You are one selfish woman.

For me, i do not like those big towels. I prefer the smaller ones I can just throw in and wash.
I have over 10 of them.
I change my towel every 2 days.

feranmi888:
Hello everyone, quite a rainy day here! So I have been dating this lovely wonderful lady for a year and the half, am 38 and shes 26. Over this period, it has been wonderful,shes loyal
and very loving, only thing is that shes stingy and not a giver which is the opposite of who I am. That by the side, after a while, trust issues came in, there are times I see things that
made me feel shes cheating, and the same with her too, we talk it off and act like nothing, but as times goes by the trust issue lingered to a stronger level
where I had to say in order to even finalize this topic as to who is cheating and who isnt, lets swear, and not just normal swear oo, we will use our blood, all in the name of joke oo. Omo
next day she called me she was coming to my place, i said no p,she reached oo, girl brought out alligator pepper (ataare) and said today we swear, omo see me see wahala, I didnt know she was serious, and
me dun cheat on her once, though that was when we had two weeks break when we had issues, but not a break up. In my mind, i was like no shaking, we go know if you sef dey cheat na. So i said we wont use her
own method of pouring blood in the pepper and swearing, i told her to pierce her thumb, swear that ever since we have been dating that if she have ever slept with another man, baba for up should take her life, I know i went too far, but
I knew what i was doing cos i wont even allow the swear to finish before i stopped it. Ok now she agreed to it, and omo she pierced her thumb oo, blood came out and lo and behold she started laying the curse, as she was
about to lick the blood up to finalize the swearing, i held her hand and cleaned the blood off told her to stop. The rest sha was history, so my my questions guys, with the level wey this girl reach, could she be telling the truth as claimed?
Cos mehn some girls can do anything to cover up lies oo, I was moved by that, but not fully convinced. Though I had to go through rigorous prayers for that process cos it might have a severe repercussion, nonsense we do
attimes all in the name of love.

At 38, don’t you think you are too grown to have stooped so low for that? Over cheating that you even cheated when you guys had issues.
Of course there’ll be repercussions for that stupid act.
What if she really hasn’t cheated on you?
This one act is enough to break up
With you.

Wow!! Human zoo...this just messed me up. Will this racism ever go away?

Ahhhfuckme:
Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma

Law

Studied law too. What year did you graduate?

ausproxi:
Ambrose Alli University (AAU)

Electrical and Electronics Engineering

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Brown14:
Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma.

Bsc Banking and finance.

My Alma Mater.

Tokskob2008:
Someone said up there that the op has entitlement mentality and I'm wondering what that means in this context. You also talking about her protecting the marriage and I'm wondering what that means too

She is protecting the marriage but not protecting her brothers and sisters right? From everything up there she doesn't look like someone who is a private person not to talk of protecting anything, she is most likely living a different life online.

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Just let that good girl be oga. Are you the first to have phobia for Nigerian roads? Go ahead abfmarry from your city.
Some of you are lucky to meet good and decent women but cos of one selfish/senseless reason, you dump them and go for the one that will eventually tear you to shreds.
Very annoying and selfish human being.

blazingblender:
My friend go and sit down
Your girlfriend is the one who doesn't deserve you sef
You are having phobia travelling on Nigeria road
Asif the country you live in you guys fly around..
Secondly I believe the abroad you are even talking about may be one of this closeby African countries like Cotonou
Si if you don't come back home where do u wanna retire??
Or you think we living here are asshol*$?

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If your husband/wife to be is not sexually compatible with you, better to call it off.
That’s why we have husbands and wives cheating on each other. A lot of people are suffering today cos they all thought they could change their partners. How they act while dating Ian how they’ll act while married....infact they’ll get worse.
Do yourself a favor and find what you know is best for you.
If she can’t do sex, how will she get pregnant? Abi you nor want pikin?

youngsahito:
you are planning introduction when u know that u have a fire on your roof, shey na love make u mumu like this or just want to create problem for yourself? Don't come here to cry like a baby ooo when everything burst.

Even with the signs, he still wants to go ahead with marrying her. Just get ready for hell.

Sisora:
Honestly, sometimes it's embarrassing when I think about this but no matter how much I try to cover up, I know that feeling of envy and jealousy when I feel one.

On average I try to be good to people and even though I don't have everything, I am happy for myself.

But I do get envious when I feel other people are going ahead of me. I try to compete or come out better than them.

This helped me in school a lot as I tend to become the best in my class. But sometimes I feel ashamed that I hid some key information that could have helped others.

Now that class positions don't matter, I still find myself competing with people. I struggle to not withhold information that may help my friends.

And if my friends are better, I often regret helping them.

I just wish I could have take away these sort of feelings but they remain.

Never regret helping a friend, mostly when they haven’t offended or harmed you in anyway.
As for getting envious when you see people doing better than you, it’s valid. We all feel that way sometimes. That feeling is what gives you the drive to work harder to be better. Humans are like that, don’t think for a second you are a bad person.

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