koladata:
sorry about your experience bro, going by what you described about her, i think there's something she's not comfortable with about you and she's trying to way her options, she might not be as bad as you think, sit her down, you guys can't be friends again but you don't have to block each other, once in a while hello and hi is not bad.. most of them are the same, learn to remember them for the few good they did and move on without hard feelings.

There is nothing, the elder bro knows who she’s cheating with, the man has a daughter and divorced. He disclosed that to me and asked me to just move on. So it’s not me, it’s her… I was sad they didn’t tell me earlier

WantsandMore:
. Dude you lose guard, the signs are always there,you probably ignored hoping she improves because it's what you would've wanted, you should have asked her what she wants & bargain a balance in the relationship because it seems obvious you both love each other but relationship no easy to build buddy. No be straight jackets, there r times you'll tolerate things you'll be ashamed to talk about. Lv & Light...Happy Easter.

I hate monitoring people,I believe a relationships is not meant to choke us,but maybe I loose guard much.she has gone on vacation to Florida and Ohio and I didn’t follow cos of work again because we should live our lives even while I’m relationship. Aren’t we all adults abeg?

cocolacec:


I think you jumped into conclusions,she was never caught red handed with another man.She could be afraid of opening up somethings to you for fear of being dumped.There is no guarantee sge went to a man's place unless you caught her in the act.She could be at a friend's place.
Communication is the key.

What exactly did she go then? I mean she travelled twice on vacation already without me because I’m busy with work. I made sure a relationship shouldn’t stop us from living our life’s. I can bet my penis it’s a man, she was on a video call in the bedroom once and when I walked it she ended the call, I didn’t ask who was that and she said her elder bro called on video. The elder bro she referenced i understand recently do no know how to use social media. I just moved on from the conversation so we don’t stress it all. So why lie?

EastAlchemist:

Abeg if you be the girlfriend way him dump
And you’re reading this
I love you
Which part of America you Dey Biko

Drop your email address so she can reach out to you, she’s actually calm. May be the right partner for you

Ingriid:



Please check urself again and again and again.
This lady is never the problem u are!

Tutor me, I dropped someone off at work and she didn’t go to work? And not aware of what happened at work same day I dropped her, alright run along

motionarena:


Mumu man.
Instead u should be grateful she missed work as she may have been gone down.

You are here crying because ur male ego is shattered

You are unwell, I should be grateful she cheated and lied? What ego are you talking about you clown

seguno2:


Was your partner aware of your HIV status, which you talked about on another thread

Of course, she’s aware I’m undetectable. I actually didn’t bother about her status since we both came back negative on other diseases.

Is something wrong with this our generation because I saw how my parents had a great marriage just like most of their friends.


I think relationships are not meant for some people and we have to all understand that it’s ok to be single for the rest of your lives.
Why put so much pressure to get hooked with someone when you know your mind is probably somewhere else, is it desperation, greed or the insatiable nature of the human life?

So I dropped my ex at the Chinese cuisine (yes I have to be specific because she will read this and should know I wrote it)she works at on Tuesday,this is usually our routine since she starts work at 8am and I start at 9am to end at 5pm,she gets home late at 9pm sometime depending on her shift.
On Wednesday,we drove as usual and on getting to her workplace, there were 3 police cars and yellow ribbons crossed over there with some people in front of it.This colleague of hers immediately seeing us trying to park there said “there is no need y’all,some 14 year old came to the store and shoot up the whole place around 5pm yesterday”.
I was shocked because she should be at work too and how come she’s not aware of what we both are seeing and she tried shutting the lady up and I then further asked the lady why she also showed up since it happen yesterday and she ought to have known,she said because she’s scheduled to work today just like my babe and she was just looking at my ex,you know when you look at someone like “ hope everything is ok”?

My ex didn’t exit the car and I had to ask her where she was the previous day because I dropped her there at work,she started stammering that she went to see her lawyer,I then had to ask,so after seeing your lawyer at 5pm(which is obviously a lie because corporate mostly close at 5pm),you didn’t return to work because you ought to have known that someone was killed at your job, she then said she went home, then how did I get home before her because I close at 5pm and gets home before 6pm, I didn’t want her to keep blabbing,I immediately called her lawyers office and guess what guys?Her next appointment is June 12(Again,I wrote this so she can see it’s me).
I immediately started recording a video with my camera faced down and repeated every question and she answered just in case she goes to court and I’ll nail the devil.
I sha took my key from the evil,cashapped her money to take a train to her brothers place.Till today she never reach her bros place because he called and said she’s not picking and she is constantly texting.

This is a girl that got to America two years ago(I didn’t bring her)and just doing menial job for now while she work on getting her documents and also,she’s not paying rent(In todays America),I was even planning on doing something serious before the year runs out because normally,she seem homely, peaceful and seem quite calm unlike most party-prone babes we have around(E be like na this one’s worst).

What shocked me most was that I didn’t even get angry, I was just disappointed that I wasted my time but it didn’t seem like I lost something(why is that?).

Another trust shattered… smh

Lol, his mum didn’t say she worked for Pete Edochie, but people just said he “looked” like Pete Edochie.

He should go and find his father, he didn’t pass the face test and didn’t also pass the voice test.

No de embarrass Pete ejoor

He actually mentioned Jesus Christ…. These guys are clowns

An exiled clown keeps yarning dust, can he gather his thoughts together and find an actual job?

The question should be, what is your intention of moving to US?

I moved because I needed peace of mind. I wanted to enjoy a service I paid for, work and get paid and choose how to live my life.


You are missing your point and don’t know why you are going to the US.

Thank you Mr President

All y’all did was to continuously traumatize that boy, I get disgusted whenever I read that they pick him up and beat him.

He is living with barbarians. His dad is a horrible person, you are lucky he wanted to study, why force him to do something like that?

Chai, they will distribute 100 million, take pictures and say they’ve shared the money.

How can we all stop this rot?

Lock him up forever!!!!!!!!

Godfullsam:



He is way better than tinubu, Atiku and Obi combined.

He has genuine intentions, unlike those thieves and bigots you guys are supporting

You clearly stated who Sowore is, but I’ll let you rest

That’s why we’ve lost hope in Nigeria, A fraudster will never jail a fraudster.

Soon y’all will vote them once they position themselves again. Some will even ask you if it’s your money.. lol

People wey lazy pass anything, they never enter go work shifts in Bojangles and Macdonalds, na to go Ukraine carry gun and run around…

Make Ukraine de play

This “finger licking man” will be praying to God to fast forward time for another cycle of election so he will come out to contest, do fund raising, collect money and not campaign and then get back to twitter attacks…I know his game!!!

Finished 16th out of 18th and have mouth to talk..Mtchew

He will be alright

Cromagnon:
mention 3 things he has done

Una gullible ehn

Na your mama gullible ode

This Adeleke in 100 days have done quite much and he has 3 more years , that’s incredible

Sunnyja:
The Best brains for Tinubu's cabinet right now are FFK, M.C Olomo, the Lagoon Oba.

That’s scary, I can’t imagine that

Martini2020:



Of Course … What do expect… Technocrats will take the day!

I pray so though

Zico5:
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step.

This one is called bet9ja kids, congrats on being lucky

Thegamingorca:



You are speaking to a cold hearted murderer under the guise of love

E de mind them?

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

You are not serious, you both can be sterile and not have kids but keep loving yourselves in the marriage but then, due to tech advancement, you have to ensure you are both impotent before getting married.

Anything outside of that is trash, self centered and destructive, avoid the impeding doom

The way they act like a certain tribe need to beg to belong, these people are “elected” and their job is to “serve”, we have all elevated them to a position where they think they won a lottery and should give to who they want. Very despicable democracy, I never see this kind thing before

Gmone:


You need common sense.

Always think before you utter anything because you are just a mere mortal you may not know the motives behind some technologies. After all you go die one day and those tech will be of no use by then you are on the other side of life regreting or enjoying

You are a complete idiot. Have anyone who died, resurrected and then told you what happens afterwards?
Motives behind tech but you use cars, fly planes, infact you wrote with your phone and you have internet service. It’s all tech you brainless daft.
You think say na only you de worship God, idiot