₦airaland Forum

mkbessman:
Please I’ve been thinking about this since last year. I teach here In Nigeria. I can’t afford to go to the western or Asian countries but I think I can be able to save to move to Gabon to atleast teach.

I’ve checked their minimum wage, unemployment rate and their exchange rate snd I think it’s better off than Nigeria. Please advise me. I’m still single and in my mid 30s.

Is it worth taking a try? I know no one there.

I am willing to take the risk to go look for a job there with what I’ve saved so far. I’m projecting 500k.

Please I honestly and sincerely need your advice

It’s a sane country, move if you can get a guaranteed job and a stay there, you speak English fluently so that a plus. Nigeria is not getting better in the next 8 years at least, may extend to 16 if they elect Shettima.

But with your education, I’ll advice you to look for something in Asia, Canada and America. You can get too

blacksam01:
Me i don't buy private school idea...government boarding school is better...command or Nigerian Navy

Still ok. I’m a product of govt boarding school and I see shege,

Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

That’s the only option have, you cannot help her abroad because as you train at home, they get destroyed in school.
Pack up with others for holiday or say burial or something, arrange with family back home and take them with you. Collect passport and leave when ready, she will cry and beg on phone. In few days she will adjust and make friends and get into school, make sure it’s a good private school, they will teach her like others, during holiday breaks, she will get back to the family back home and help wash dishes, clean the house etc.
In 5 years, she will already have good friends, enroll her a good university and make sure she starts, you will just know when you can bring her abroad . Thats how life works. I went to boarding school and I saw kids like that and they turned out so good. Infact we see some of them as Oyibo the way they speak and they were just fine like that.
Save her from leftists!!!

Dr Aproko said this, he mentioned that folks should go recheck because all the ones done around the 90’s didn’t provide accurate result. Y’all should go check again

It’s meant for the poor, even Saudi Arabia is setting up Father Christmas

Her approval is based on what improved from the previous denial.

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?


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I use to feel that way until it started coming, you better rejoice and be glad

englishmart:
I'm planning to tell her husband, who happens to be an acquaintant of mine. On the other hand, I'm considering the consequence. He's been suspecting her of infidelity, and this could finally nail her.
I will be very glad to destroy that marriage if need be.

Until they use you settle, do you think he hasn’t noticed more than you just saw for him to suspect her of infidelity? Screenshot it and ask her what she meant by that, it’s an insult for her to post such knowing you are close to her husband, she can hide it from you as she did for her husband, she can’t be rubbing it in your face

SmartyPants:
They are not saying he was not hit. They are saying it was accidental and not specifically aimed at him. We all went to school na...why una dey deliberately miscomprehend?

Shut up, you are empty

You did man, we saw the water flash over him, why una go just lie

Better not be true , how can 1 person demand 25% of state allocation, shouldn’t he be jailed and key thrown away.

Better be hearsay

This buffalo should shut up, in a sane clime, he will be behind bars

Roboto11:
Is this fool suggesting that the Judiciary has been compromised?

Does he understand by extension, it means the legislators are also corrupt?

It appears people don't even understand what shouldn't be uttered.

Do those guys in that chamber look like normal people to you?

They are all thieves in Agbada. They just go there to relax and laugh. 95 percent of them have not gone through the constitution or their handbook

LeoDeKing:
I have said it, I'm saying it again.

Tinubu has complied with appointment spread as dictated by regulations.

For all the clowns and illiterates screaming blue murder because of some appointments which are prerogative of the president, you can go support that agulu packaged fraud, Nigerians don't give a damn.

Online dogs, the man better pass your papa… lmao

Vote competence they said nope, I don’t even care because those appointed aren’t qualified. What’s the point?

Northerners can’t even talk again because they knew what Buhari did. make everyone dey their dey

Sardonicus:
Who is bankrolling all these recent HIV campaigns?

FUN FACT: HIV-2, which is found in west Africa is less virulent with lower transmission rate and a longer asymptomatic stage.
The majority of HIV-2-infected patients can be classified as long-term non-progressors or elite controllers.

Some people have lived their life-time with this virus without even knowing.

Bankrolling? For someone who is already positive? Some of you know how to blab actually

Know your worth una say nope, someone said it’s not yours and later came back you accepted. Dull people

IconicR:
Please they should not hunt him

This is democracy, though he can be very annoying sometimes sha

Let's respect democracy

He’s not annoying, he hurts y’all with facts and no lies from him at all

MS247:



Oju Eko... leader of the Nigerian youths

Thank you


Bitter Obi no go drop , Oseleko Obi no go drop, he drives bmw X6 lives in a UK mansion




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Ode ass licker, see your life for outside

I don’t know which is worse, whether the APC candidate or Dino Melaye, if you believe Dino is coming to save you and your state, you are a waste of human brain.

They should have used the money for your child naming ceremony to buy goat and eat

Very nice, innovation above agberos

That’s a step, now let’s continue to monitor them, they can easily take kickbacks and lie. I don’t trust the police at all.

I’m happy every tribe joined to call for justice for this innocent child. That’s how it should be done. A certain tribe in Nigeria do actually have a forgiving heart and that’s why they keep thriving

SmartPolician:
This is how a sane society works, not some idiotic elements creating threads all over Nairaland and calling on busy Lagosians to start fomenting troubles because of Mohbad's death.

Stop sounding like a broken record, you clowns should have kept quiet and the case will entirely be buried, if those people didn’t speak up and cry out, nothing will be done and in fact, they have to be deeply monitored because they have a trajectory of being cajoled into lying. Purge yourself of that hateful heart and have some shame. It must not get to your doorstep before you act you. Brainless dolts

mrvitalis:
He did there is more excuse for South East to have 390k children without education.... Absolutely not excuse... It's to bad by any world class standard

A state of emergency should be declared in the educational sector in the South East... This should never be accepted no way

That’s how you know a people who want to be better

Kumid:
you didn't read the post

He did, south east still have a lot considering how they push kids to study

Mohisah:
was it God that ate the meat or them?

Knowledge is not just a small circle. He claiming that it is not written is the bad side of backing himself with evil acts, later he'll tell u that it is not forbidden to eat human cos it is not written anywhere in the Quran DAT human being is not good. Bad is bad, we don't have to start mentioning one by one of it is or not. You're free to do as you like, eat what u want to, but don't feed people with it NCOs of ur own belief

Stop quoting me and saying nonsense, I don’t give a damn about their good and bad, I’m asking why they have to use violence as a means to settle whatever is written or not written, aren’t they suppose to preach peace? Everything must not lead to killing and destruction. No one gives a bleeping Bleep of what y’all believe in

How does it make sense that y’all have to be the one to fight, destroy and kill on behalf of the god when an individual faults?

Are these guys brainless or just love being stooooopd? Isn’t it written in quran that they should not steal? have they been attacking politicians and the criminals that have placed them in chains for years?

poor people and the way they practice their religion(any religion at all) should be studied, the buffoonery in the way they do it is astonishing

ecolime:
Na why dem say follow who know road

Lmao, it’s governance, at the end of the day, it will only favour the rich, even the supporters will suffer because they have been used and dumped. Nigerian masses should stop deceiving themselves, even the Yoruba masses won’t enjoy it if all Yorubas occupying the the seats are not capable but just because they are from their tribe, Buhari’s appointments did not reduce the poverty index of northern Nigeria.

Make una wake up

LKO:
Is the u equals u still reliable? Many Nigerians still do not believe it.

You don’t have to convince them, the refused to read even articles and medical details, what else can we do? Let them believe their village oracle

LKO:
Is the u equal u still full proof? Many Nigerians still do not believe it.

Can you repeat what you said?

LKO:
And incisive posts. Please keep this place busy. Many thanks.

Alright, thanks for the reminder, this post actually went a long way helping a lot of people. I’m so happy I did it