₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!

But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.

Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long

Just avoid them! Shikena!!

I'm not surprised about your bitterness towards men cos you are a product of a broken home; raised by a single parent or mother. The earlier you heal from your ugly experience, the better for you. I wish you all the best.

ZirdoRoray:
Why the marriage no go hang? See the sooner we stop lying to ourselves about the polygamous nature of men and accept reality if it, the better. The wife shouldn't feel bad if he has been performing his duties has a husband. Ladies should allow men express themselves truthfully about what men want so that their marriages can last longer. See 95% of men want a sidekick, this backed by scientific data. Nature, reality and your feelings are not the same. The ladies who exposed such are at fault. See what I'm saying everyday? We are decieving ourselves that men are naturally monogamous but the sex Industry and extramarital affairs keep blooming everyday. The day we stop lying to ourselves, that's is the day we will reach true compromise and accept the way reality and nature works. No matter how much, you cage a man in a monogamous marriage, he will either cheat or become a temperamental. You ladies keep complaining that men are not treating you right but are ready to understand that what really men want is that you be the main lady and have the legacy and all the benefits but allow us to be men and have sidekicks. That way you will always a loving a caring man who will be more affectionate. Men are mpolygamous, believe me, the reason that marriage was going well was because the man had those sidekicks. If not that woman who have an angry husband at home. I doubt he has ever been abused her.

And where did you get that statistics that 95% men want side chicks. Please stop writing trash to justify infidelity. There are good number of men out there that can never cheat their partner, same as women. Beside cheating is not gender specific. Some men/women will never cheat no matter how bad a marriage is while some will cheat despite how good the marriage is; a cheat is a cheat and doesn't need any reason to cheat.

OmoOgunOriginal:
Hypogylcaemia. Has occurred to me before. It's not the malaria drug that is the issue. It's the garri.


Please don't drink Garri before, during or after malaria medication abeg. A friend almost died in February from it.

hypoglycemia from garri intake? read your comment again pls.

Op is on point...If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courtship, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.
Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.
Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 95% of relationships in Nigeria.

jawalis:
A twitter user “ bthemovent” has taken to his page some pictures taken on a date with his female bestie. Twitter users has come for the both asking what kind of friendship it could be. While some sees nothing wrong in it, other viewed it as totally unacceptable. What’s your take on it. Can you allow your boyfriend or girlfriend go on a date with so called bestie and end up this way?

Don't date or Marry her If She Has A Closer Male Friend Called Bestie: Some women don’t really seem to understand what marriage means. They still want a close friend of the opposite gender. Marry your best friend or replace your best friend with your spouse, after all marriage is best and sweet when you marry your best. Anything different is hazardous to your marriage. it will always end in premium tears

NB. same goes with guys with female besties. Ladies stay clear.

Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

My dear, Compatibility is key in every relationship, which is not limited to genotype, culture, temperaments but also include belief system or faith/religion as the case may be, of which there is already a compromise in religious compatibility in your case. how would you as Pentecostal with zero tolerance to fetish things or rituals go into a relationship with a celestial member that believes in those things and still expect the r/ship to work out? my dear don't start what you cannot finish cos it will always end in tears since you have different belief system and you are already feeling uncomfortable. imagine what would happen if end up marrying this guy. Selah!!

Easyincome24:
If you are a real investor, no doubt you would have made some silly mistakes that really did affect you previously.

As an investor, you are definitely staking your money to get return on investment (ROI) but in the cause of doing this, you had fallen into some scams, unrecoverable risk or loss.

Going into year 2021, what are some investment mistakes you want to avoid?


This thread may help others from falling into the same ditch. Your experience may just be what someone else needs out there.

Kindly let your response follow this particular order (you may be creative with it though):

#1 Type of investment
#2 Period/ year of investment
#3 Cost or capital involved
#4 Risk involved
#5 Lesson learnt
#6 Advice
#7 Current investment status

Let's roll on, this sure is going to be educating.

I have never done any form of online investment, I do more of buying and selling but a friend has been on my neck to invest with Quintessential investment company and and get 25% Roi. pls folks,how genuine is this company. your sincere advice is welcomed. thanks

Chii59:
Aunty leave that one. I'm tall, pretty and very much single. This life no just balance.

yea, you're right lady, but I'm just wondering if you could give me the chance to get know you cos I'm very much single as well. you never can tell what our fate would be. I come in peace...Shalom!

First, irrespective of popular opinion, not all men go into a relationship for sex, there are great men out there who never defiled themselves but waited for marriage before sex, probably you have not met them. sex before marriage is SIN and I don't care how anyone try to justify the act, what matters for me is what God says, which is well written in the holy book.
Besides, who told you sex can keep a man? If that's the case, why do most men that get this sex from their so called girlfriend cheat with another lady, even some married men. So you see, it's not just about the sex but something more. For me, it's one's value system, self control and fear of God that would make a man commit to a relationship and not sex. If you like cohabitate and give him enough sex, a man that will leave you will still leave.


I might be wrong but I feel is ladies who can only offer sex and have no intellectual capacity to make life better for themselves feel threatened when a guy use sex as a bargaining power in a relationship, probably because of the money and material gifts they get from guys. However, Many ladies out there with self worth can make their own money not waiting for any ancestor to blackmail them with sex to keep a relationship, even if they give in for sex they do that out of their own volition not that they were blackmailed, Though I'm � percent against sex before marriage. My dear ladies, build, train and help yourself to make it on ur own as you can have options and also attract great men to yourself. Shalom!!

Heartbrokengirl:
We never had penetrative sex, I have never had penetrative sex. The messages are from our past chat, I only cleared the chat after creating this thread. I have not set my eyes on him since then. He has called with other numbers, but that has been it.

Plz, you can reserve the “hoe” tag for your loved ones if it is such a pleasant name. Using it randomly on people you do not know is a not a sign of good upbringing.

You guys here are all about the dick, dick is everywhere, but I have lived 25yrs of my life without it and I didn’t die. I was only hurt he lied to me and led me on. Some of us are trusting. I know people that would have ransacked his house and social media pages, but I didn’t do that. I am not even on Facebook and Instagram. He preyed on the fact that I am quite private and trusting, direct your misgivings to him!!

you don't have to reply every troll here...you have actually made your point and I love your sincerity and simplicity. just try and be more careful before giving your heart to another man. move on and hope for the best. wishing you all the best.

I was popularly known as “the scientist" due to my sound knowledge of science subjects especially chemistry, Biology and Maths.... chemistry was a top notch cos I covered chemistry Bible (yaw ababio) before I finished SS2 second term, so I was ahead of others, always answering my teacher's questions. l remembered one day (SS1 class), my chemistry teacher asked us the test for oxygen even before the topic was taught in class, everywhere was quite when I stood up and said “it rekindles a glowing splint". he was so amazed and exclaimed brilliant!!. from that day I became a reference point to my colleagues and seniors as well of which I joined my seniors in representing my school in quiz competitions.

I weep for this country.... don't know why our political class are heartless and wicked. always looking for every opportunity to loot and milk us dry. the question is who are the kids that consumed this amount in one day? ...the ones at home baa.

received the biggest shock of my life on 2nd of this month when my beloved sis passed on. I'm really heart broken and find it difficult to accept the reality of her death. I really need your prayers folks as we plan to bury her this week Thursday, 30th April.

who are the beneficiary of this monies? the last time I checked, the population of Nigeria is 200million plus, let's even take it as 500million. so if they even share 1million per individual, they will be left with more than enough in the trillion they quoted. The corruption in this country especially among our leaders is beyond redemption and until we tell ourselves the truth we will never move forward as a nation.

I guess Atiku's son Covid-19 status has opened doors to know the victims. Now we know the status and death of Achimugu but my question is why were they hiding the victims before now (italian Index case in mind) when other countries revealed theirs, even politicians and superstars. I believe FG created room for doubts and nonchalant attitudes of Nigerians over this covid-19 in Nigeria, now it's spreading like wildfire. Pls let's stay safe. One Love!

wanted to be a Lecturer, Ist degree Biochemistry, 2nd degree Biochemical Toxicology but currently working as Quality Control Officer in a Food Industry.

never say never!


abeg who has the picture of women with hand raised should send it pls.thanks

Mr integrity indeed!....even your salary and allowances alone for these past four years is greater than the 30m u declared. who is deceiving who. pls tell Nigerians something else forget this ur old story

Haba Baba Buubuu, this is misplaced priority. there are thousands of over distressed Nigerians, ranging from IDPs, unemployed youths, total darkness, bad health facilities to mention a few, which need your prompt attention/help before thinking of who to help elsewhere.

Honestly, I commend his skills, but truth be told "dribbling without scoring is useless" cos dribbling will not win trophies for u. only goals will do, that's why I respect Ronaldo any day any time.
listen! U are free to quote me but if u think I was wrong, ask Jay Jay okocha, how many trophies he won, though a master dribbler.

#forget dribbling
#Score goals
#win matches
#Support Eagles

we are finished! 1billion to fight a boko haram u hve defeated. beside, how would u fight the same people u have been negotiating for exchange of their captured leaders and even thinking of granting them amnesty.
something is not adding up here...i weep for my dear country.

Bishop Matthew Hassan Kukah the current Bishop of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Sokoto has this to say.........

"Anyone who thinks the Biafra agitation is a nuisance and irritating should know that it is not the collective aspiration of all Igbos but especially that no one has the monopoly of nusinace. Nuisance begets nuisance. When you stay with potash loaders you too will share in their dusty hair. It is in this country that the same standards are not held against all. Some can get away with anything but others cannot get away with something. I shudder at those who blame the agitators for agitating. Everyone knows what is good for them. If you don't know what is good for you then shut up and don't obstruct those who know what is good for them. If I have my way I will cease to be a Nigerian because there is no sense of nationhood. Those who have leverage over others use it to oppress them. Otherwise how can you explain the audacious impunity of a certain section of this country. They can intimidate everybody even a sitting president and get away with it. When GEJ was president he was literally harassed by this same people until they sent him packing and we thought they will be appeased. But a las we were mistaken!

Now how do I love a country where a murderous terrorist group like the herdsmen acclaimed even internationally as deadly is being openly defended by a govt. that wants my loyalty. Do you know as I make this comment, a first class Chief of Bokkos LGA in plateau state was murdered by a certain group of Fulanis almost a year now and no one has been arrested not to talk of prosecution; there are many villagers in my parish who cannot go to farm again except to farm their backyard because their farms have been forcefully annexed by their Fulani murderers; that in Bokkos a wife and a daughter can be taken away right before her husband or father and be repeatedly raped then released at the convenience of the barbaric Fulani tribesmen and no one dares talk; police will advise you to go and settle the matter through dialogue? I want independence from a country where terrorists are embraced and agitators are terrorized.

At the slightest excitement Hausa or Fulani man can kill you and get away with it; it has happened and continues to happen but when you gear up to defend yourself because security will not, then you are caught by the same security who will lecture you on how to be peaceful and law abiding. This country will end unless there is justice for all. Rubbish! I hate the lie that Nigeria is. Let's say the truth and die but it is what will set us free. Nigeria is negotiable to me the oppressed even if it's not to the oppressor and that is normal.
"The only right Nigerians concede to you is the right to agree with them" - Bishop Kukah

NwaTeacher1:
Can you see the reason no lawyer can go to heaven. Falana you made all these investigations not to elleviate the suffering of an average Nigeria but to castigate, punish and dehumanize an innocent man just that he is saying the truth. Did Jonathan imprisoned Amaechi upon all that he did to him. No opposition politics again? Metuh, ffk, now fayose because they are outspoken

You are right. Mr falana is just playing partisan, he suddenly lost his voice amidst the economic doom and hardship this govt brought to us.he is just seeking for attention from this govt. Now he is among the SANS that want to defend the forgery of Mr president's certificate. Nonsense!

blazetitov:
Shameless bunch. Who is harassing who? Fowlyose is an embarrassment and he is not above the law regardless of the rogue immunity he is enjoying.

PDP will always remain the destructive party. A party of waste.

You are just playing partisan, in as much as I don't like fayose but my question is, must Buhari silence every opposition? Metuh spoke, he was arrested, FFK spoke, he was arrested, now its fayose. I'm sure if not immunity, he would have been arrested. Meanwhile, during GEJ, Oshiomole, El rufai, lai Mohammed, Ameachi, to mention a few, all spke against GEJ but none of them was harrased. Believe it or not, Buhari has just proven that he is a tyrant indeed. This is democracy, and its not every opposition voice he must respond or react. He should face governance and deliever his promises and stop this witch hunt. Its very obvious. May God help him.

"Who is he that says a thing and it come to pass when the LORD has not commanded it" and "whose report shall we believe? One thing I know for sure is that My God is all powerful and all knowing, HE sees the end from the begining and vise vicer. Therefore, His will must surely prevail in this my dear country irrespective of what any man is saying or dooing. Shalom!!
God bless Nigeria!

http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/03/24/oshiomhole-csos-condemn-calls-for-emefieles-sack/[/quote]I thought this osho-omo-ole has gone mute. Anyway, I can only give deaf ears to his sentimental and selfish comments. For me, he lost relevance when he started eating with "lying liers politicians"

Bsc:
That's good..
But whats really wrong with facebook chat for blackberry... I updated my app as I was notified, never knew is a downgrade to a 7kb app that links to web browser.. Pls tell them to bring back the facebook chat on bbworld and delete that rubbish 7kb app they call update. Dnt update urs if u get the notice else u will regret.

I exprienced it ooh, abeg what's the solution cos I'm not enjoying the new app right now.