Theonlysonofher: While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.
I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.
I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side. I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.
She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.
I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail. Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.
On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.
Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.
She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.
So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.
I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up. Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.
I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.
Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.
I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.
I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.
It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.
I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.
But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.
She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.
Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.
I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.
What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.
Just divorce her and marry the maid, simple.no time to forgive malicious act.
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Sammydanny: A Nigerian preacher who has been making some buzz with her controversial preaching recently has made startling confessions.
In a new video making the rounds online, the preacher is seen telling her viewers about the bad things she had done before.
According to her, she used to cheat and lie. She also fought and smoked cigarettes. She went on to reveal that she was lesbian and that she also slept with two different reverend fathers.
She proceeded to claim she had seen a revelation of the rapture over 45 times.
mrkings84: Good morning Nairalanders. So yesterday as we were watching the Chelsea match in a viewing center, a big, rotund woman, (very big, tall and round) stepped into the arena, at first I didn't really noticed her even though I saw her walked in as I was sitting close to the door (this is my ideal place for sitting when in a large crowd), next thing I heard was a big commanding scream "my friend come with ur phone".
At this point, people's attention were drown to the woman who made the high commanding order, and swiftly i wandered to see who the command was to, lo and behold, it was to a man who is much more older than the woman. Older in age, but emaller in stature.
And it happens to be her husband.
Now I saw the man step back to where he was sitting, unplug his phone from the wall socket, and made way to meet his commanding wife.
See, while this was going on, I saw on the man's face some trembling reactions. He was kind of shivering and muttering something which even if everywhere was silent no one would have heard. He was frightened and embarrassed at the same time.
Boom!, The man left with his darling wife. Then some people around me reacted by saying, ah, if this woman is this rude to her husband in public that means in their home the man is in soup. And some sort of sayings...
"Now, my question is, what should be the right age difference between spouses"?
I didn't just like that incident of yesterday. I realized the man was way advance than his wife aside the fact that she was very much bigger than the husband in size.
And she appears like a husband beater!!
I think this big age differences between spouses may have lots of disadvantages between them in the long run! Most especially when one of the spouses becomes disrespectful and mean.
Judging from the landscape it is widely believed the incident took place in a township in Durban, KwaZulu-Natal - where most homes are built on hills.
The cow was most probably destined to be slaughtered for the December festivities, a wedding or funeral but instead made its way atop a street-level house roof, almost committing suicide.
NewsAgent101: Popular Nigerian prophetess has said that ace rapper, Olamide Adedeji is a member of the Illuminati secret cult.
She stated this during a recent sermon in church, noting that the head of Illuminati is Lucifer himself.
According to the Evangelist, other top stars are also part of the secret society which grants people their utmost desires and wishes. She claimed that the members are in direct communication with Satan.
Speaking further, the prophetess said that Illuminati is superior to every other occult, because while people might join about 20 0r 25 cults to get riches and fame, whenever someone joins Illuminati, they immediately get what they want.
Politics › Re: 178,459 AK-47 Rifles, Assorted Rifles, Pistols, Other Arms Unaccounted For by merits(m): 5:59am On Jan 03, 2022
some nairalanders are in possession of those arms ooo.
