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I agree with all but the 3rd rule might be difficult for those employed in a Nigerian private sector,you hardly have a spare time for yourself not to talk of time to grow a side hustle,every new business be it side or main,needs your attention and other resources at the beginning to thrive.

It's pure acting,I was decieved all my life thinking wrestling was real,the entering appearance undertake made then brought out goose bumps down my chills.
I stopped showing interest the day I new they were all acting.
It beats my imagination for a long time,why will hundreds to thousands of people pay ticket fees just to watch two or more adults acting up rough plays on the ring just for entertainment and chanting the names of their favourites.
How come those blood splitting,usage of hard weapons looked so real while watching on the TV set and non of the live audience who were present in the arena ever came out to speak about how fake it has always been,we were left to debate how true wrestling was for a very long time.
Fake wrestling is equivalent to football fixed matches,so boring and predictable.

Although the question is for the ladies,I will want my girl to contribute a great deal into our relationship for an healthy well-being,from her emotional, spiritual, to financial support and most importantly her loyalty and her A game sexuality.
Anything below these offers, I no do.

Charleys:
The two biggest political parties need to fill in an Igbo man for unity sake.

If they don't then, the Igbo man on the streets will know Nnamdi Kanu was right all along that he has been marginalized all these while.

And will set his mind to destroy this country...

Just as Boko Haram have set their mind to destroy this country. They don't have support because Buhari is in power.

Now Michael1508 go to an Igbo man and try to talk 2023 politics with him, he will try to avoid the conversation as possible why because his silence means it's 2023 or Biafra.

But in the case of 2023 it will be very clear for everyone to see.

I think my response to your earlier points covers this too, just to buttress my points,you know no party outrightly pick a candidate,there are proceeding starting with you showing interest and what you have to offer,then comes a primary to wither off least potent candidates,on paper,this is solely won depending on your strategic game plan, even though we all know that sometimes, these things are being rigged in favour of who suites the party objectives more.
I will also like you to know that,ever since democracy came in since 1999,an Igbo man has always tried to come out for presidency,either through one of the strong winning parties or the minors,meaning there has never been an embargo on an eastern candidate,the okadigbos, Ike nwachukwu and co just to mention a few.
Again, democratically, presidential election ain't a class prefect post that can be shuffled every now and then,it takes 4 good years on paper before a tenure ends but we know it's usually 8 years,and Nigeria as manageably run just 20 years there about with just 4 presidents so far,we still have a long way to go when it comes to it going round the whole geo-political zones.
You and I know that nobody will hand over the presidency to you without fighting for it with tooth and nail,Buhari has been contesting since 2003,he just got in 2015,one thing I know is if the Igbos can go back to the drawing board,have a good strategy,build trust among the other ethnic groups,then the presidency will be theirs in no time.

Charleys:
The two biggest political parties need to fill in an Igbo man for unity sake.

If they don't then, the Igbo man on the streets will know Nnamdi Kanu was right all along that he has been marginalized all these while.

And will set his mind to destroy this country...

Just as Boko Haram have set their mind to destroy this country. They don't have support because Buhari is in power.

Now Michael1508 go to an Igbo man and try to talk 2023 politics with him, he will try to avoid the conversation as possible why because his silence means it's 2023 or Biafra.

But in the case of 2023 it will be very clear for everyone to see.

I think my response to your earlier points covers this too, just to buttress my points,you know no party outrightly pick a candidate,there are proceeding starting with you showing interest and what you have to offer,then comes primary

Kemistri4:
...she dey form saint, meanwhile she na public property

I tell you guy

Charleys:
Let me go intellectual with you.
The igbos voted for a Yoruba in 1991 and he won.
The igbos voted for a Yoruba in 1999 and he won.... The two biggest party field in two Yoruba candidates. Note this.

Then the igbos voted for yaradua and he won against Buhari.... When the two biggest party field in NORTHERN candidate.

Later on yaradua became sick and Jonathan continued from there.

In 2015 Buhari won the election. Buhari has done yaradua's 8 years tenure, so the northerners are done with presidency.

The westerners are done with presidency because Olusegun obasanjo did 8 years as president.

Osibanjo has done 8 years as vice president.


It is left for an Igbo man to rule this country...

Note that the Fielding of two people from the same tribe by the two biggest political parties is just to show that Nigerian presidential election is done to unite the country. Giving each tribe an opportunity.


Now the igbos are telling you that, the 2023 election they need the two top political parties to field in an Igbo candidate for unity sake.

Now my question is are they wrong or are they right?
Note: the presidential election is rigged from the onset, by Fielding of candidates from the same tribe as the case of yaradua and Buhari with obasanjo and Olu falae.

Now there are people saying they've been excluded from this country 2023 will tell.

We all know how Nigeria politics is,it's dirty, corrupt, only the strong, strategic, resilient and some times most cunny wins,those in the helms of political affairs in this country since the era of the awolowos,buhari in his prime, Obansajo and co with the knowledge of the Biafra war and it's agitations,knows that if an Igbo man is giving the presidency,he or she might reinstitute the ojukwou's legacy,which might be chaos to what the Nigeria code of conduct stands for.
If I am not mistaken,I think the presidential zoning is divided into just 2 zones,having the south and the north,where the west,east and south serves as one entity while the north east and all other northern states serves as the other entity.
Obasanjo and Goodluck represented the south so far while Yaradua and Buhari has represented the north.
The coming election should automatically come down to the south from calculations, The northerns may tell you they ain't bothered about any candidate the south chooses to field when it's her turn,be it a Yoruba,an Ijaw, or an Igbo man as long as the whole south is fine with its choice.
Like you said already,the south as fielded out a Yoruba and a man from South South, everything being equal,it can be rightfully said that an Igbo man is the right candidate for this coming election,but the Igbo clan have lots of internal crisis to settle at the moment,the lack of unity,the current agitation and so many chaos at the moment.
You know before one will be a presidential candidate,you need to belong to a party,believe in the party's objectives,most parties will want to primarily field a candidate that stands a chance to win, another thing with politics is the importance of numbers,the north has the numbers,any candidate they are behind stands a better chance to win.
Psychologically,one thing that is still holding down the idea of having an Igbo presidency, is trust issues,most people still think the Igbo man is laying low until he sees power to navigate the biafra's struggles, once that hurdle can be overcome,there will be free flow of power when played right.

foryourmindlol:
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Says an idiot whose brothers mine each others skull and sell for 5,000 naira. Shut your mouth and keep quiet with your imaginary friends.

Your region can't even decide if they want Christianity or Islam or juju you're here talking about unity.

Fuel is 1000 naira per liter in Northern Nigeria. In Lagos you pay gate fee of 1000 naira before they tell you how much they're selling fuel. In the Southeast, fuel is still 165 naira. And yet Southeast/Igbos are not united.

You people always want to remove fly from another person's eye while olumo rock dey your eye.

Igbos are the most united, richest and educated tribe in Africa. If you like continue deceiving yourself. In 10 years time, Chukwudi the 15-year-old boy that came to do apprentice in Mazi Emeka's shop will buy up your ancestors land and send you to village while you're shouting that Igbos are not united

I wanted going intellectual with you but the shit you typed up there shows you are really a stupid fellow.
A low self esteem person always feel everyone is out there to attack them,you want Biafra and all you could do as a dimwit was to sit on a wooden bench in a wherever location to type with an empty encephalon.
For the record,the east is the most undesired place to invest in at the moment,the only thing that will make thunder not strike you is if you have not been a benefactor in one way or the other of what the hated regions you stated up there has been offering,even though they could do more than that.
The truth still remain that the Igbos need to do more to actualise their wants but an ignorant kid like you thinks you can actualise that with mere keyboard wars.
One other thing for you,let this be the last you will quote me with an insult without proper understanding of where I am coming from,if I go spiritual with you,you won't last a day but I won't let mere words make me add up to your already miserable life.

To be honest,I have hardly been served a breakfast before,I'm so sensitive that, I smell a break up before it actually happens,if I see any cold move,I jejely withdraw without looking back and most times,I get bored of relationships on time,so you need to be full of life, cool, open up to me,a relationship without any of this, I take a walk

Omo,it's all fun until baba start showing you his other side,them go chop all your food item like hoodlums without remorse and won't bother contributing any.

A man above 45 will always go for the blue pill,what more can you ask for,age reduction just like the going back to 11 in the red pill and a life worth 45 mills richer

foryourmindlol:
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Yes, Yoruba are the people in yoonity. With Osunbande and Tinubu and Aregberascal fighting to death. Afinefere has like one thousand factions while OPC dey change mouth every day.

And Northern Nigeria are united pro max with thousands of killings and kidnappings every week among each other. So many Boko Haram and Fulani bandit terrorist groups that I cannot count.

You poeple look like fools when you say this now-busted myth of Igbos not united.

Igbo is the most united tribe in the world. We don't need your stupid president nonsense. We have told you time without number to stick that useless position into your arse. All we want is Biafra.

Ogbeni calm down jare,argue with facts man and not some bubbling emotions.
For the record, the recent killings in the south east are being perpetrated by the easterners,killing and inflicting pain on one another all in the name of fighting for a movement.
Some of the igbos currently in the helm of affairs politically, say one thing and do another,all for publicity, behind closed doors,it's most times a need for selfish interest.
Of course,every tribe have her loops but before an Igbo man will become a president in this country,there must be a call for unity.
I have plenty Igbo guys as friends and colleagues and most times when we discuss about politics,they share my views.

She once told me she was not into hook ups,mama wan claim Saint for my side,a call came through one day when she was sitting on my laps,she was having a convo with a friend of hers about needing funds for a new phone, when the bomb dropped from her friends mouth, her friend jokingly said she should go do small Sare wa gba make she fit raise funds. She was just mute starring at me,me sef I calc,I no do like say I hear anything. I terminated the whole affair after a week without giving her a reason.

Kyari chilling with the big boiz,he want to bam bam

One thing I know is that the Igbos are not in unity as we might have thought,then another is the fear of actualising the Biafra movement which will cause more chaos to the already weak system.

Ifa is looking for credit alert

WoundedLamb:
The only thing you need to know is that the need for sex is as natural as the need for better life standards and we are all responsible for the choices we make in quest for both needs.

Women are not taking advantage of men's needs more than the men are taking advantage of woman’s needs. Both parties have needs and they are willing to exploit each other.

If ladies are doing so because it's an easy way to meet thier needs, then men are doing also because it's an easy to meet theirs without any responsibility.


Or didn't your Economics teacher tell you that the customers rule the market? You think olosho business is an exception? If the exchange was banned, the men will survive and the girl will not die. Each will find better ways of meeting thier needs.


What do you think the women should do to stop the societal menace? Start giving sex freely or get into a proper relationship before having sex? The first is illogical and if the second option is really a possibility, then it means men can actually do the same but choose to do it the fast way.


The keyword here is "choose". Patronizing olosho is a choice and people should take responsibility for thier choices. Whether morally, logically or otherwise, both genders are equally culpable. There is simply no other possible way of looking at it, so just stop these futile attempts to make light of the issue on the men's side.



I am a man and it's highly embarrassing.

To start with,I wanted quoting your assertion according to paragraphs but couldn't find my way around it.
I tried answering you paragraph to paragraph.

Exactly and both genders are in need of both, primarily,sex is meant for reproduction which serves as continuity for man existence.
Stop equating sex to other needs of life,if you want food,go hustle,if you want shelter,go hustle,if you want an I phone, go and hustle in respective of the gender,and if it's sex you crave for,go and get married. See,religion,society has made healthy rules to these things so as to create a balanced society.

My first assertion above still answers this,the only disadvantage a man has here is high libido, compared to a woman and which is still arguable,it takes a man of discipline to overcome that urge and not fall into the hands of the prostitutes that are ready to exploit his biological needs for money.

We shouldn't justify immorality all in the name of meeting needs,a lecturer demands sex from a female student as an example, every right sensible person sees everything wrong with that despite they are both meeting up with their needs.


For the record,an average man is ready to ask a girl out for relationship and marriage since we are by default the ones doing the asking out so as to fulfil his need for sex and primarily reproduction of an offspring that will both be owned by both,but the new era lady won't even give you a listening ear if you don't tick are financial demand from afar with shallow demands, those shallow demands are what is making the men run away from relationships and the likes these days,they will rather opt for the easy way to ease their urge as it's primarily the major things they get from the new era relationships anyways.
If a man gets married to a responsible girl who supports him in all ramifications and still decides to cheat on her has himself to blame as I am also against that but our topic isn't that.

I said this to someone not too long on this, about the customer ruling the market, the lady said and I quote" if everyone wants to go mad,they should and the women should keep demanding for money in exchange for sex" I replied her with a simple demand and supply analogy,if everyone wants to be mad where nobody is being held by morals anymore,people sleeping around with anybody and paying for it, a man will have almost nothing to loose as supply will out number demand with no family, societal responsibilities on the man's shoulder anymore.


I will opt for the second option too like you have stated,the first is illogical,I made mention of a related solution above too.

Like I said above,until men seek for marriage and still go out to cheat on their spouse,I won't heap most of the blame on the man as the average man is ready to get married but the new era lady is not ready to give into a man that can't fulfil her materialistic demands.

As a man,I choose a good relationship of healthy benefits or stay being abstained.

Ladycewhy:
The bolded is the reason you should have stopped typing. I don't see the need for the rant and wailing if men have been paying. .


All this wailing is uncalled for and contradicts your opening statement or y"all just hate direct approach of instant gratification and price negotiation? so you can put on your morality smokescreen and cloak of hypocrisy . I guess it's more moral if men get to pay in other ways.Its helps with the Pharisee attitude of being better and more moral .

Anyway, this generation nor send una, that's why I just love them. .

Please defend your argument with logics and not using words like hate speech to black mail people,I told you what will happen if everyone decides to go mad like you said,or you think you can eat your cake and have it,lol.

The generation should go haywire,it doesn't remove a sweat from my body.
Anyways,I am done with the argument.

WoundedLamb:
The guy you quoted is right. Lagos men "hoe" around with Lagos women. All this trying to justify men while still complaining about prostitution is hypocrisy laced with stupidity. If men will always have sexual urge that must be satisfied, then why blame the women who satisfy them? You don't think they also have needs that must be met too? No matter how long y'all keep calling out women, if you keep shying away from acknowledging the fact men are equally culpable, nothing will change. Two people are messing up but you're bent on heaping the responsibility of stopping it on one party as if the other party is one brainless toy all because you just don't want to place any form of restriction on your own gender? Are men animals? Dude, you either leave the prostitutes alone or you call out all involved.

I never said the men who patronised them are right by moral standard,but one thing for sure is the need for sex is natural and will always be there,the society coined out a concept to ease this need in the form of marriage or the now boyfriend and girlfriend, my point of contention here is why should there be a monetary barrier in attaining this,a girl won't look at you twice if you are not holding a Benz key and a dollar pack,no one is naturally equipped with that,we all have to work hard for that and unfortunately,not everyone will have that,should such man be denied the privilege to have a mating mate?
I still put it to you that,the ladies of easy virtuous today are doing so because it's an easy way to riches and not even necessarily because they are after caring for the man sexual needs,they are all out there for their own selfish needs and not to satisfy you as you might have thought,that is why the high you pay,the higher she's willing to satisfy you more.
Lastly,I will still say that it's the women that are taking advantage of the men's sexual needs to cash out,don't be surprised that if such exchange of services are banned in our society today,most of these girls won't have a way out of life,they are always looking for the easy way out.

Ladycewhy:
The only bone of contention hers is that men now have to pay instead of hiding behind relationship.

I think this era is better,let's all be mad,make everything kuku scatter.

So you are just angry that more women are willing to offer services?what is it they say again? ,the more the merrier,lol.


A man once said ,if you can sleep with yoii boyfriend who doesn't know the road to your father's house why can you sleep to get a job. This is the mindset of the average Nigerian man ,same way they have created an environment for hookups to thrive . They are the enablers.

As for your worry that the number of girls willing to offer themselves has increased over the years, we can also say same for the guys. The moral decadence is on both sides. But I made that statement because the ultimate power to put a stop to it lies in the exchange "money". If men stop patronizing, then we will see a decline.Its simple economics.

Firstly,men have been paying for sex from time immemorial,relationship or otherwise which shouldn't be,the average woman won't even respond to an innocent greeting if you are not flaunting your dollar bundle and Benz key at her as a gateway to anything at all she wants to offer you relationship wise, sex is not a taboo as it's a biological function of every living thing,so men or everyone wanting to have sex is not the point here but of course it should be between two people joint together by marriage or other form of commitments by societal or religious law.

Secondly,if everyone put past the moral values abiding us together in doing the right things as humans and chooses to be mad like you said,the men have nothing to loose in that regard. In the buying and selling game,the one who owns the cash dictates the flow of services,if we all choose to go mad,don't you think the supply ll be much more than the demand,don't you think there will be alternatives to women as the only source of sexual pleasures,don't you think some will decide to stay abstained, don't you think the woman will one day wear out as a machine tends to when over used, but one thing for sure is that those who depend on it as a source to meal tickets will scratch the surface of the earth for grains, the load of responsibilities heaped on a man in the name of relationships, marriages won't be there, you only pay for the soft, succulent and young ones , just pay for only what you want,how fun will that be,uh?

Everything is wrong with that statement of you sleeping your way through to the top if you sleep with your boyfriend as a means to justify it,even though some ladies have been doing that from time immemorial,just a statement to backup everything she had wanted doing,meaning she can say no,haven't you heard of people demanding cash for an exchange of jobs before,we still have those that declined the offer.

I will still say it again,the urge for sex will always be there as we are biological entities, the reasons why the girls sleeping around for money is on the high is because we have many girls of easy virtues in this era, they don't want to lift a finger but want funds in their accounts, in as much as a service is needed,if the supply is not there,people will find alternative,in this case by getting married or some other forms of legal entanglement as you may call it,the sexual urge of humans have always been there but the rise of runs girl is on the rise due to its easy virtuous,no stress,just open leg waa and you will be paid as long as you can play blind to the morals biding you.
Like I said,this is from a debate point of view,I still hold my head high for good moral values.

ProphetofOdin:
No be men dey patronize them?

Let's cut our ladies some slack abeg, even the the men that patronize them are also culprit. what is good/bad for bala is also good/bad for bulus.
We need to start teaching all our kids good morals whether they are boys or girls, I am afraid this generation has lost it.

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There is a difference here, a man must always have a sexual urge,it's the prostitutes that are taking advantage of that need.
The so called relationships have always been a give and take scenario,sex for money and other subtle benefits,stop giving your girl money for a while and lets see if she won't start giving you attitude,all she needs is someone better should come along and you are done and dusted.
Ask an easy virtuous woman to take an offer of farm work of 120k and whoring of similar pay monthly,your guess is as right as mine.

Kajaard:
They are the same.

I know they are the same but the comment made it it look like they are of different meaning,like hook up is more innocent and mild :

Ladycewhy:
If no customers market go close.


Who are the people paying for the hook up. The op made it seem as if the men are not culpable.

The society is morally bankrupt already,but for a debate sake,the market and customer analogy is not a perfect example of what is happening at the moment. Biologically,it's normal for every man to have an urge for sex every now and then,then again,an average man be it rich or poor is fine having a girl who can satisfy his sexual urge and other emotional needs and so on which they some times go into a commitment which is termed being in a relationship to make it look justified,on the other hand,only few women can be in such entanglement without expecting a reward for the sex she is bringing to the table,more like a poor man can't get satisfying sex in the long run cos most women will want to be rewarded financially from time to time,reason why most ladies are opting for sex for money these days in the name of why should I be working for a 30k job in a month while I can get that in a week while all I need to do is spread my legs,or why should I stay with a man that can't foot my bills and I will be giving him sex for free,they assume such men doesn't deserve sex.
The bone of contention here now is that most ladies of this era are willing to go into prostitution for easy cash against the biological need of every man for sex

Christane:
most men re afraid to get married dis days ...cus of how Nigerian ladies av become prostitute all in d name of hook up ... Nigerian girls ain't after true love dey are after money ...once u av money u re their true love ..bt once u go broke dey move ....this gat me thinking how can a man get a true partner to plan a future with when girls av turn themselves to glorified prostitute all in the name of hook up

So what is the difference between hook up and prostitution ?

Definitely a skit but one thing that is pissing me off is the fact that many of this type of stupid skits are much in the cyber space these days,trying to paint men as simps,what are they trying to insinuate?

Depending on the gravity of what made me angry, a sincere apology ll be fine in most case scenario, especially petty things

Loewe:
Pet her, sweet talk her and pretend as if you want to get back to her. If possible organize like 2k perfume to deceive her and tell her you want her back...

Also let her know you just bought another laptop, so she can keep it. She will relax for you and once she comes with it, ZaP!!!

All this one no necessary abeg,something I bought with my money,if care is not taken,she can be accused of theft sef,she go pay pass laptop if she proves difficult

I just hope the so called girlfriend you are trying to stay faithful to is not wallowing on different d.cks at the moment,don't be too sure about people's loyalty,I have been in an intimacy moment with a lady before when she asked me to take a pause,that she wants to pick up her boyfriends call,I was just laughing inside me,nigga thought his b.tch is loyal to him

Simran94:
Lol, hope you can see your gender can’t do without women? LOL

Objectively,he said sex and not women ;

Please any link to a distributor in Ibadan,please connect me

AsampeteNwaanyi:
na wa oo
pussy destroying careers since the days of biblical Samson

Nah,only if you allow that bro or you ain't smart

Is that ass part of the souvenir